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I'm Steph. I love helping people and I have a great interest in music, I play the piano well and I hope to be a vet nurse one day. I am easy to trust and whatever you say to me personally will be strictly confidential. Thanks for reading! :) x

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Okay i asked your guy's help once before about my girlfriend. But I have a serious situation, one of my ex-boyfriends called and asked me out. I haven't came out with this yet so nobody knows except my best friend and my gurlfriend and her aunt. I couldn't turn him down cause he's driving three hours just to see me. I wanna go but I don't think he would like the fact that i'm a 15 year old Bisexual and I have a girlfriend. And I don't think me girlfriend would like me going out with some guy!!!!!!!! Should I tell them????????

Who do you feel that is a better commitment, your current girlfriend or your ex boyfriend? As they say, honesty is the best policy but I suppose the truth can hurt and in the long run, suck! But, you need to follow your heart. Ask yourself why the past relationship ended, was it him, was it you? Whoever/whatever it was, you don't want it happening again do you?
Best of luck! :)
x Steph x

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let me get straight to the point! i like the guy i work with--alot!! supposidly he likes me too (or so my coworkers have said) in the past two days he has called me twice (to see if i wanted to hang out, but the first time i was hanging out with other friends, and the sencond time i was sleeping) what are some ways that i could let him know i like him, or get him to ask me out? any advice will help! thanks!!

Why not start off a conversation by saying that you're sorry that you didn't get his calls! I'm sure he'll understand! Then ask if you can make it up to him and let him make the decision on how you could!! Either that or just make conversation, joke with him, ask how his weekend was or ask to go to the movies with him sometime! :)
Best of luck!!
x Steph x

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So me and my friends were smoking paper (yeah i know its retarded) And I know it cant get you high (unless you stuff it with weed or have smoke newspaper which has ink) but I was wondering if there are any effects. You do inhale a ton of smoke and burn the heck out of your throat. Just wondering. I'll rate you for anything unless its under the lines of "Omg you shouldn't do that!" thanks.

It's very bad for your health, the smoke from the paper can damage your lungs, just like second hand cigerette smoke can!
x Steph x

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I have no clue what to get my girlfriend for christmas. I don't want to get her makeup or cosmetics because i know nothing about that stuff, and I don't want to get her clothes because I don't know if she'd like it or what her size is. So with that said, what are some gift ideas that girls like?

- A box of her favourite chocolates
- A rose
- Nice smelling bath kit
- A ring
- A pretty watch
- Hair accesories
- A cd of her favourite band

Best of luck! :)
x Steph x

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I'm the one who posted the singing question before where I needed inspirational songs to sing at the restaurant. Now I can be more specific. I need songs for a trio specifically, and I need links to listen to the song, so I can decide which one I want to sing, because before I couldn't listen to the songs that were suggested to me.
Thanks again!

On Sister Sister, 3 people sung Whitney Houston's "Count On Me". It's a sweet song about friendship.
www.dogpile.com - go into media and type the artist and title and it should be there. If not, search for it in Windows Media Player! :)
Best of luck!
x Steph x

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theres this boy called Aaron i feel alot for him but he doesnt like me and hes going out with one of my best friends i dont no what to do because i want him to like me and i want him to be mine!
thankyou Natalie x

Hey Natalie,
I guess there isn't much you can to if I'm being 100% with you. I'm trying to help but I suppose you have to be happy for your friend. If you don't really care about your friend, I suppose you can try to win him over...either that or stay friends. I know it's difficult when someone you like is right *there* but all you can do is watch him...it hurts.
Chin up, Nat
x Steph x

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okay i need help. ASAP.
what cute way could i ask this chick to formal. she plays softball too. i wanna ask her at school. any i deas?

and formal is a dance where you get all dressed up go to dinner, all that stuff.

Write a little note in a ball shape (because she plays softball!) and say what you want to say, give it to her personally, that'd be sweet. Also, if you're the poetic type, you could include a little poem in there too! :)
Best of luck!
x Steph x

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Does anyone know what can happen if you get too many MIPs (Minor In Possession)? I've gotten 2 in the past 3 months for alcohol.

Depends on your physical state and the intake of alcohol!
x Steph x

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16/f
alrighty so this guy likes me, i like him, i told him that i did and he started acting differently *like not talking to me as much* like we've hung out, gone on a "date", talked on the phone, but lately, he hasn't been the same. like whenever i hug him he just stands/sits there, he doesn't really answer me when i talk to him or he'll just start talking to his other friends, he told me he wanted to go out this weekend and that he'd call but he never did. and i'm still worried that it's all because i told him that i like him. i really don't know what to do because i really care for him and don't want to lose him, but i'm scared that i already have. can anyone please give me advice on what to do?!

Perhaps he's just shy or isn't used to a relationship. I suggest a nice night out, perhaps go to a cafe then the movies maybe? You prepare it though and schedule things. Don't worry about it too much, hun, boys can be like that!
x Steph x

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hey peoples! umm, i waz wondering if anyone had a idea of a fun project... somthing easy and somthing i wont get in trouble for cause its too messy, ya know? pleeez help! irate 5s!!!!!

http://www.hitentertainment.com/artattack/

Try that! :) You could always bake or make xmas cards with glitter and so on! :)
x Steph x

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ok, so the the 5th day of sckool my friend said that on friday eric (the kid i like) said he liked me a little, and was going to ask me out! & then my other friend said eric said he wanted to meet me after sckool where no one was because he had to ask me something, but then he said never mind, & then he told me he liked my friend britt, but wed. he told me he doesnt like her anymore and likes someone new.. im so confused, and i dont know what to do, advice needed urgently.. thank you 13/f

No worries about the rating - I'm here to help!
Maybe he does like you but thinks he needs to find a way to make you jealous so you'd make the first move because he's shy. Some boys are like that, don't worry. Chin up and flirt with him more, if you like him of course!
G'luck!!
x Steph x

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last night I was at the movies with my boyfriend and we were making out. Then after that I noticed that he had his arm diagnal across *down there*...does that mean he had a boner and was trying to hide it?? lol thanks for the advice!!

Most probably, either that or he was trying to control himself! It's nothing unusual, don't worry!! :)
x Steph x

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I have a huuuuge biology test on monday, and im so nervous. It's just so confusing. Im studying so hard but i just know im gunna fail. I have a C- average, so i HAVE to do well. Plus my gramma just died, so thats just another distraction. Im so nervous i feel like im gunna be sick. How can I calm down? What are some good study tips? Pleaseeeee help!

http://www.how-to-study.com/

Great website for your problem! :)
x Steph x

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I'm going out with this guy that my friends just absolutely hate! One of my friends even threatened to stab him in the neck with her pocket knife during church! I don't want to break up with the guy because he's absolutely perfect to me. What should I do?

prettykitty77723

Talk to your friends and see exactly WHY they don't like them, if they're going to have an opinion of him, tell them to at least justify it! Say to them that he means a lot to you and that you want them to be happy for you...they're friends..they're meant to be!
x Steph x

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What does 14820 mean?? if it means anything...

Nothing! :) It's just a number.
x Steph x

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what are some exersizes that i can do at home that REALLY do work? and fast? i rate 5's

Sit-ups are good for the stomach. Try 'x' amount a day and I'm sure it'll help lose any excess weight! :)
x Steph x

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I have been dating my boyfriend for alittle over a month and we are starting to fall for eachother alot. Last night he told me that he was scared because I have so much power over him and that he was scared that I might lead him somewhere wrong. What does this mean? I really don't understand!

- Either he's looking for an excuse to break up
OR
- You come across a bit over-powering and it feels that you're wearing the trousers on the realtionship and being forward with him.

Main thing is to ask him how you can stop having so much power...see what he says! :)
x Steph x

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Hi. 15/m. Weekend mornings I try to cook breakfast, and as the title suggests, scrabled eggs. After pouring the contents into the pan, i try to bunch it all up...because lately I've been trying to make an omlette. Do the same rules apply, or should I try to use a lot less cooking oil? Any tips/suggestions? Thanks a lot.

Copied and pasted from a cook website! :)

The best way to cook omelette's is with butter rather than oil (although the following istructions will also work if you are using oil). Butter is rich and yes, not so good for you, but it tastes fantastic as an occasional treat.

You need a small to medium sized frying pan, for an indvidual omelette (2 to 3 eggs for 1 person) or a larger one for a bigger omelette for multiple people. Avoid using a frying pan that's too big, or your omelette will be prone to burning.

Thoroughly whisk the eggs with a fork.

Melt a knob of butter in the pan. The mistake people always make with omelettes is to add the eggs before the butter is hot enough, so wait until the butter is bubbling and just beginning to turn brown (although you definitely do not want to burn the butter). Then add the eggs. Unlike with scambled eggs, you shouldn't add anything to the eggs with omelettes - it's just egg, no milk / water, although you can add salt, pepper and possibly a few herbs to taste.

If you've got the butter hot enough, the egg should almost instantly start to cook (turn white) around the edges. Using a wooden spatula, push these edges into the centre of the pan, then tip the pan, allowing the uncooked egg to get to the edges. Repeat until all the eggs are cooked. This shouldn't really take long at all. If you're adding extra ingredients to the omelette, such as chese or bacon, add these at the final stages of cooking just before you serve. To serve, just slide on to a plate from the pan, and possibly fold the omelette over itself.
x Steph x

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what does Bb mean in keyboard tabs? What chord is it?

Bb = B Flat! :)
x Steph x

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My boyfriend just called me after he got back from hunting (we also talked at 5 AM this morning) and something was wrong so I asked him what it was and he said he had just had to shoot his dog. Because his dad ran over him with the truck (accidentally) and he had a broken back. You can tell my boyfriend is really upset, and I wanna say something to make him feel better if he's still appears upset about it later. He told me about it when he called then said he was going to go to bed (tired from hunting all morning.)

Any advice? I WILL RATE!

No worries about the rating - I'm here to help!
All you can do now is just be there for him, tell him that he can talk to you about anything at any time, good or bad and that you'll always be there to listen if you can't help. Let him know that your shoulder is always there for him to cry on.
Sympathy on the dog
x Steph x

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