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hey all..I'm Tori♥ I love Broadway, horseback riding, hanging out with friends, Laguna Beach, talking online, xanga,myspace and giving you all advice! ask me anything you want, im pretty good at this whole advice thing =) don't forget to ask a question and rate me! ♥advice
Well, i have this friend and i think she likes someone i am going out with i am starting to like this guy (before i didn't) but i don't know if she lieks him or not. She says she doesn't but i think she does. I want to tell her that i am starting to like this guy and i really wan to tell her cuz she is my bestest friend in the whole wide world but i don't know if that'd be okay to tell her and then ask her if she does like this guy.. What should i do??
Tell her that i am starting to lie this guy and then next minute ask her if she still; lieks this guy...
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Ask her if she likes the guy and then tell her ??? or if there are anymore suggestions please tell me....
i know that sometimes if a girl likes a guy that your going out with they will sometimes lie and tell you that they dont like him..but if this girl is your best friend..i think that she would be telling the truth because friends tell friends the truth and are never supposed to lie to eachother..right? your friend just has to except the fact that you like him, and he likes you. She'll understand..and if she doesnt..then she isn't worth it.
ok well i like this kid and i want to be his secret admirer(sp)because i know where his locker is and everything so i want to send nots and give clues to who i am an i was thinking of staarting monday(V-day) is that a good idea??
please dont delete this it means a lot to me
i guess so, do u want him to find out its you so u can go out w; him or something?? i guess its a pretty good idea.
^^i dont know if that helped but what ever :)
one of my best friends is changing and she asked me for the truth so i told her so now she is all pissed at me when she was the one who asked me that and rite now i cant stand her i need so much help pleaaaaase help me
it wasnt to smooth of a move by you..but thats alrite..she asked you for the truth..right?plus, so what if someone told her that she was changing and she got mad..thats her problem..right?
hope that helped...
Is it wrong to cry if your dog died and you've known her since you were a toddler? My friends would think it's silly, and when you think about it, it kind of is. Does anybody else think it's silly?
omg no!!! you loved your dong..right? i've had my dog sinice i was 2 and i would go crazy if she died!!!if your friends think its silly..they must have no respect for you..and the must have never had an animal that they loved befor.
my friends just wrote something in my advice colomn and its about me and this is wut it said...
okay well me and my friends have this REALLY weird friend! and omg she is s0o0o0o annoying! she wears the gayest cloths ever and the gayest shoes and like no one likes her. she used to be our good friend but now she is just sooooo weird and its so annoying. plus none of the guys like her and neither do the girls. i mean she is just soo weird its like ahhhh! and she copys EVERYONE on EVERYTHING! and we are just like tired of it cuz shes so gay and so annoying! should we tell her or just keep pretending to like her?
i dont know wut to do...im so flippin hurt and im so frustrated...plz..i need advice...i rate high (i dont wear the gayest clothes or the gayest shoes ever either)
~thanks in advance..~
wow, and you call them friends?, if they were good friends..do u really think that they would say that?maybe hang out with some new people at your school, or in your neighboorhood. I'm sure you'll find some good people, but hun, thoes girls are mean.
do you think it is weird that a 17 year old is going out with a 13 year old, even if they love eachother more than anything in the world?
umm yeah...it's okay if your older and you are 4 yrs apart no big deal..but im mean honstly..think it over
okay my best friend is such a copy cat! and somtimes i cant take it anymore and get mad if she acts like me or anything like that because every time i tell her the guy i like she then says o yeah i like him too and then she wants to have the same things i have i mean she painted her room the same color as mine and got the same comforter as mine too!! and she totally acts like me and talks like me and trys to dress like me! what should i tell her ? cuz i love her like shes my sister and dont wanna make her hurt i just want her to stop being me plz help me! thanks!
just tell her how you feel...try o make her understand that you dont want her to copy you..and tell her how she should be her own person..hope that helped!
ok ...i have this friend that has been my best frind for like seven years and she is so sweet but this year we arent on the same team at skool and she has gotten some new friends and i dont have a problem witht hat ...its just that she has this frind and she has been hanging out with her for a long time and every time im around ...she kinda ignores me .. i dont have a prbolem wiht her haning around her but i think she has a problem with me wen she is with both of us !! wut do i do >????
All you ahve to do is tell her how you feel..tell her that u think that she ignores you..then she will understand(hopefully :P)hope that helped!!
Im 13 years old and all my friends have boyfriends. I dont and Ive never had my first kiss. I mean i saw a ten year old making out at school. Thats just wrong. But i had a boyfriend and it was my friend. Well i saw him for one day i said yes then i didnt hear from him in like a month so i guess he broke up....Ok well any advice and dont say ur day will come.
you do not..DO NOT need a bf when ur 13..and yes..i agree a 10 yr old making out is just WRONG!!!its ok if you dont have a bf..its not going to hurt you..and you definitly dont need your first kiss when ur 13..dont worry it will be fine
I am in middle school right now, and I don't have many friends. Like I'm not shy or anything, but I don't hang out with a lot of people. Do you think when I go to highschool (next year) I will have more friends? Or is it just me?
Well..im sure you would make firends if you talked to ore people..maybe join some after school things in ur school...hope that helped!
ok i like the scruncy hair look !!! but i havent found a scrunching gel that i really like !! do u have any suggestions??? thanx
well...realyl any gel works! but.....if you have straight hair..and i mean no wavy or ne thing..the scrunchy lokk doesnt work..it doesnt work 4 me cuz of my hair..so yeah..hoped that helped.
Are you suppose to wash your hair everyday?Not Because I wash my hair everyday.Someone told me It like ruins the hair or bad for it.Thanx
yeah..its bad...cleaning it to much can damage it...still take a shower everyday...but wah your hair everyother day
Today my dog fell down the stairs, and she can't really walk. She can, but she falls over and stuff. She keeps throwing up flem and foam. We're taking her to the vet in a few hours. I was wondering, they won't have to put her to sleep right? Like, the worst they could do is give her fake legs?? Thanks =(
well it depends on whats wrong with the legs....if they are really bad..they probly will amputate them..tell me what happens!..hope that helped
Im a gurl n im 14 n like this boy but he is a yr older then me n i dotn kno how to get to kno him..i mean we talk..n i am friends with his friends but we just started talking not too long ago n i told him that i wanted to get to kno him n i askd him wat he thought n he told me "i think we should b friends for rite now n who knows wat then"..n he askd me b4 y i dont talk to him in person rilly n i dont wanna tell him that im shy bc then he will prolly jus think im a waste of time..but all my friends tell me that he stares at me..but i am shy to talk to him..how can i handle this even tho im shy??
just tell him that you are shy...its ok! if he doesn't take that you are shy..and he DOES think that you would be a waist of time(wich he prolly won't) then he is sooo NOT worth it....hope that helped!
I have a friend that i dont no where i would be without. She is jealous of me and i am really sad now. I just want her to overcome her jealousy and us to be bf's again. I feel as if i have lost part of my life, please respond.
Lost and helpless
Well, this is a hard question to anwser..but here it goes...it's possible she is jelous of the things you do, or maybe alot of people like you..if true..then thats probly it. There really isnt a way for her to just "stop" being jelous of you. But dont do one thing..DO NOT ignore her..that would be worse..hope that helped
hi,
one of my dreams has been to become a singer but my parents say that if i dont sing in like a talent show at my school then they wont sign me up for anything.. the talent show passed and i didnt try out because i had something else planned for the date that they made the talent show.. ok so ALL my friends tell me that im an amazing singer and stuff ( i dont want to sound concided ) but i dont think im terrible ! any ways.. how can i get my parents to let me go to auditions and signups and stuff.. what can i do to follow this dream ? .. thanks in advance- i rate! :-)
love, singingmyheartout
[ sorry about the length ]
well, that was basicly the same w/ me..i hated my voice..but when i tried out for my all county chorus..i made it..and alot of people said i did realllllllllly good, what you might wanna do is possibly is convince a friend to sign up with you..and so u wont be "alone" and they will probly feel more comfertable if you are with someone. just try and talk to your parents again..and maybe even sing for them..then they can see how good you really are..hope that helped!
Her, I'm having a a slumber party (10 girls) What should we do? ( we aren't allowed to invite guys over, cuz we're only 13)
well, maybe you should try something like facilas...like go to a CVS and get sum things for you face..you can paint nails and stuff like that..it can be alot of fun...hope that helped!
I enjoy watching tv series on DVD. Ones I have enjoyed are "Soprano's", "Sex & the City", "Star Trek TNG", & "Dawson's Creek". Can anyone recommend a new series for me to watch with a continuing story line; not a comedy like "Sienfeld."
well, i always watch Gilmore Girls, it is a really great show, my sister and I recently got the 2nd season on DVD, and yes, they have a continuing story line.
O.K. My problem all started when someone was prank calling my house. I then found out it was one of my best friends. I got mad at her twice. Once for doing. Twice for lieing about it. I'm in junior high and it's so hard for me. Then, my closest best friend took up for her. Then, my other close best friend took up for her too. I don't know what to do. I live in Deer Park and I'm illegally going to Laporte Junior High. My close best friend is threatening to kick my butt and I don't know what to do. Should I switch to my legal school or continue illegally going to a school where EVERYONE hates me. I rate 5's for anyone who can really make a difference in my life! THNX TO ANYONE WHO ANSWERS!!! XOXO
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!
~~~KaYlA
Sorry So Long But I need Help ASAP
i say...go back to your legal school....if ur friends at the illegl school dont like you..then why be friends with them? hope that helped!