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My name is Christina, and I'll try to answer questions honestly, and to the best of my ability. I give pretty good advice, I think.
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alrigty then im hearing all these stories at school {not that i belive them} about how every one is having sex i personally dont belive it. god says not to have premarital relations plus you should want to wait until u are married to have sex. anyway every one talks about how all the popular kids are doing it im almost 15 i personallyam appaled and am wonering where all the desensy went in the world some one tell me.
I think girls who have casual sex are whores. But, I could barely understand that, so I couldn't really find the question. I'm sorry, not trying to be one of those assholes on here, I just couldn't read it. Nobody has sex, and if they do, it's just whores. Just worry about yourself. You just don't have sex, and don't worry about anyone else.
I Have the biggest crush on my teacher. I stare at him and sometimes he stares back. Sometimes he just stares at me the whole period. He gives me good grades when sometimes I dont earn them. But I seriously think about him alot. What do I do? How do I know if he likes me back?
Your teacher may think that you are a good student, but he does NOT like you. Trust me. There is no way, he's a teacher, and you're a student. He's not gonna risk his job.
i have just broken up with my boyfriend who i had been going out with for 8 months. it was the first time i loved someone, he came over nearly everyday. we broke up because he was taking me for granted and always ditching me and saying nasty things to me.. and then sometimes he was awesome. we have broken up and got back together in the past and but i dont want that to happen again. i miss him so so so much and i do still like him but i cant take any more abuse. wats the best way to get over someone.. im trying sooo hard not to call him please help!
Everytime you want to call him, think of all the hurtful things he's said to you, all the times he's made you feel worthless, and all of the times he's made you feel low. Then, use that extreme anger constructively. Get a job, work on homework, hang out with friends, go shopping, ANYTHING, because I know EXACTLY what you're going through. I'm going through it right now.
Just do something to occupy your time.
can u get herpes from giving someone without herpes head? like do they have to have the disease for u to get it? PLEASE HURRY! im very worried :(
You can only get herpes if the person you are doing something with has it, or if you've kissed someone who has it. Herpes doesn't just magically appear.
You need to read up on your STDS if you're gonna be doing that kind of stuff, and you should always use a condom because you don't KNOW for sure if someone has something, and you could be giving oral sex to a guy with AIDS.
Hi, I am 13 going on 14 and i weigh about 106 lbs. give or take two. Is that fat? Bc i really feel fat and i feel like there is nothbing i can do.
What are some ways to lose like 10 lbs but staying healthy!
Ill rate high!
PLease Help!!!
*Overweight?*
How tall are you, for one? If you're at least 5'5", you're not overweight, you're underweight. 106 isn't overweight unless you're 4'11" or under.
I have been off and on with this girl named Lindsey for about a year we really loved eachtoiher but me being a guiy screwed everything up.I broke up with her because she likes another guy i still love her but her and this guy may go out i dont know what to really do i love her and she doesnt know if she loves me or not help me
Man, my heart goes out to you. Guys who fall in love usually end up getting hurt, because guys end up falling really hard. I know this sounds retarded, but guys don't trust a lot of people with their hearts and when they give it up, it's special. Well, you broke up with her for a good reason, because if she likes someone else, maybe she needs to realize what she had. Because, more than likely her and this guy will end up breaking up within a week, and then she'll realize how stupid she was. She probably does care for you, but when you're young, it's hard to just be with one person, because you haven't even seen what half of what is out there. She's gonna realize what she gave up, and if you want to take her back, that's your choice.
I hope that helped.. I'm really sorry.
me and my bf have been going out for 5-ish weeks now and we're both pretty easy going people. But we haven't ever fought about anything and we spend SOOOO much time together. Is that bad?
No, that's not bad at all. Enjoy it, because once you get into the 6 month - 1 year range, you WILL fight. It doesn't matter how easy going you are, or anything. Fighting is normal, but you guys are still in the kinda new phase. You haven't started to get on each others nerves yet. God, how much I wish that my boyfriend and I could go back to that phase in our relationship. lol
Okay, well i need help with my room. I'm 13 by the way. Okay, so I'm not allowd to paint my walls, and I just got $6000, custommade furniture. But, the thing is, my walls look really empty...I need somthing coolin my room, im a guy. does anyone hae any ideas
Posters of favorite bands, bikini girls, lmfao etc.
I don't know, I think guys having naked walls is kinda normal.
Well I am an advicenator too, and sometimes, we have to ask for advice.. I would first like to say, that I respect you for giving advice at your (our) age..
my question/situation, its kinda long and im sorry:
I dated this guy for about 5 months..I was really deeply in love with him.. but like every relationship, we had some problems.. He thought I yelled at him too much, and maybe I did.. But thats besides the point.. towards the end of our relationship, his "bestfriend" comes into the picture.. who just so happens to be a girl..It got to the point where I knew he liked her.. because he stopped telling me things(I had to beg for him just to tell me how his day was), stopped spending time with me, and just talked about her alot.. Well me and him broke up, after she took it upon herself to yell at me and tell me to kill myself(he didnt even try to stop her).. So exactly two weeks later they start going out.. im shocked, hurt, and just stunned at his actions.. so months go by.. Me and him are still good friends.. after some fighting we got everything, well mostly everything out and we're ok.. Now, him and her are going through the exact same thing that me and him went through.. I think I make it alot worse by telling him that Ill always be there for him.. Lately we've been hanging out alot yet she doesnt know.. He thinks that theyre going to break up soon anyway..
Do you think that I should still be there.. or still show that I want him back? Or am I putting myself into a situation where I could just end up getting used?
~FarewellMadison
Oh man. Whoa. You know, that's the EXACT same situation that I was in awhile back. You care about him right? Well, if you do, then just continue what you're doing unless he asks you to just go away. But, it could cause their relationship to end, but when you think about it, she took him from YOU. I don't know, I just went for it, and it turns out he cared for me more than her. We're still together, and it's almost been a year and two months (it will be on March 8th) & I couldn't be happier. If you still want him, keep trying. You don't want to spend your life thinking about 'what could have been..'
You know what I'm saying? But, there is always a chance that he will hurt you again, but if you really love him, and want to be with him, thats a chance you really should take. For one, it doesn't seem AT ALL like he's using you. (guys don't use girls for 5 months. he would have dumped you within two weeks if he didn't care) He's just a teenage boy, and sometimes teenage boys see something they want, and if the relationship they're in is going through a rough patch, they might sometimes take it. It doesn't mean they don't care, it's just how guys are. I'm not saying to take him back, I'm just saying be there for him. Be his friend, someone he can talk to when she's being a bitch. If you get back together, then you do. If you don't, at least you still have him close to you.
I hope that helped.. and if it didn't, let me know.
my friends stepdad molested her last night and i dont no what to do. i no i NEED to be there for her. and her mom said that if they cant find another house to buy they are moving over an hour away. which means i will probably never see her again. she is like my best friend. someone please help me. it has just hit me that i might not ever talk to her again. someone please help. i have been crying a lot...
HE NEEDS TO GO TO JAIL!!! Call the police, it's not fair for HER to have to move, when he was the one who was wrong! It's sad because this is the second molestation case that I've seen that hasn't been reported to the police. What he did was against the law, and completely disgusting. He should at least have to leave and never come back, if not do serious jail time.
ok...im 13/f 7th grade... this might sound crazy... but i no i am in love!! i have a boyfriend and i am completely in love with him!! ive never felt this way about any of my other boyfriends and i know he feels the same about me... he makes me smile just thinking about him... i melt when i see him! theres only one thing... this is wierd... but since we're young and all... is there any chance this could last forever
It could. But, it may not. You never know, and nobody can tell you but yourself. You know how you feel, and you know how he feels. Just enjoy however long it lasts, and if it lasts forever, then I'm happy for you!
my parents are divorced and i live a hard life....and what really frustrates me is when i see my dad and his gf making out... it makes me sick to the stomach!!!what will make me not feel this way????
♥ indeed2
Honestly? You need to talk to your dad about it. If it's making you uncomfortable, tell him. You can't help but feel that way, I felt that way when my mom got a boyfriend. I hated him, and I talked to my mom about it, and she stopped kissing him and stuff around me.
ok there's this new kid in my skool , nd he's in everyone of my classes, nd he chose to sit next to me in every one of them. but the thing is i lik him , and he's alwayz flirtin wit me , nd i flirt bak. but when he came here , me nd my b/f juss started goin out,nd som1 tld me tht he liked me bak. and everyone says tht we would mak a good couple. but the other day my best friend saw my b/f kiss his ex-gf , nd he said he didnt,so wut should i do? Should i break up wit my b/f , nd go out wit the new kid? or Should i give my b/f another chance, nd juss be friends wit the new kid? nd im 13/f
Signed really confused
you're 13 hun! dump his ass and go out with the new guy! he'll probably treat you way better anyway. trust me, the guy you're with right now probably isn't your soulmate, and i mean if you like this guy, you don't love your boyfriend now, so just go for it.
who knows, you might end up liking this one better as a boyfriend!
I know this is a question thats probably commonly asked but i need to kno. I recently switched into a school with tons of gorgeous pretty girls. I know i`m not the BEST looking and i`m no where as skinny as those other girls but a few people have been calling me fat. I`m 4 11, weigh 120lbs and i`m 13. = / i already know i need to louse a few pounds but am i really over weight. be honest. and what are things i can do to louse weight? lots of details would be helpful. Thank you!!
UM, YOU ARE NOT OVERWEIGHT AT ALL.
I felt ugly when I first moved to CA, but since then, I've been hit on numerous times by many guys. All you need to do is smile, and look happy.
All girls are beautiful, it's just the way they carry themselves.
How do you tell some one you like them? Because I want to tell this guy I like him but I dont know how....any really cute sweet ideas?
Write him a note, first grade style.
EX;
I think you are very cute, and I happen to like you. Do you like me back?
Check one:
[ ] yes [ ] no
lol I think that would be cute, but change the first sentence to describe the feeling.
hey i know this is a strange question, but how likely is it that a guy would put a condom on inside out? Because I kind of think my boyfriend did but I don't know if he would have to be really stupid to do it, or if like he noticed but he felt dumb so didn't say anything. Also if a condom is on inside out is it less effective? Thanks for your help!!
You really cant do that, because it won't roll down, at all.
is it bad to pop your knuckles? Some people say it is and others say it isn't...
I actually asked my chiropractor that same question today, and he said it's not bad at all.
Ok i just got over this huge depression thing i went to a shrink and everything. i started getting happier and i hung out a lot more with my friends and my dad who just got outta jail and i felt a lot better too. recently my mom is making me spend time with her i dont want to but i decided to at least be positive about it. so anyway i hang out at home a lot more and i get SO depressed like omg i feel like dying. i am so mad becuz i just got over this and i dont wanna go through it again. i cant do anything about it though. is there any way to help it that i just dont know about? plz help! im 14 btw
Well, talk to your mom. Say that you need to get out more, and she should be okay with that. Then, just go out, see a movie, buy yourself something. I'm not saying to do this all the time, but it would help for you to get out. I know, I get like that sometimes, but when I get out & just hang out with my sister or my friends I feel a lot better.
um this sounds kind of dumb... but are big heads a turn-off or like a bad quality that would turn a guy away from a girl... my heads pretty big and i hate it but theres nothing i can do.. its a big deal to me but is it a big deal to other people.. what do you think, any advice?
hahaha don't think i'm being mean, but trust me no girl cares about how big your head is. it may not even be that big! i think my head is big, but my boyfriend doesn't. your big head isn't even big, it probably just seems like it to you(more than likely).
my stepdad... well he 'touched' my sister alot. like every night. my sister ended up moving away to live with mu dad. he has done it to me once when he was drunk. but that was years ago... the thing is, i'm confused cause i find myself defending him. i told one oof my friends and i keep saying that he was drunk, didn't know what he was doing, etc. why am i doing this??? i am fairly close to my stepdad (in a non sexual way) and i hate my sister badmouthing him. i dont know why. Please help me!!!
You know why? It's because you love him. Not that you're in love with him, but you love him, and you care for him. You don't like hearing bad things about him because of that. It's perfectly normal, but the thing is, you need to realize that he's done something bad to your sister. That her talking about him is her way to cope, and you kind of have to see how that would make her feel. I kind of feel that this is something you need to talk about with your sister, and see her point of view, and let her know yours. The whole reason you defend him is because you love him, but the thing is what he did was wrong. It wasn't your fault, it wasn't your sisters fault, your stepdad just needs help. Maybe you just don't see it the way she does.
I hope that helped.