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my name is tiffany
E-mail: maytuff1@wal-martconnect.com
Gender: Female
Location: watervliet ,MI
Occupation: student
Age: 16
Member Since: June 21, 2004
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Last Update: August 29, 2004
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andrizzle21
i got this huge pimple that just showed up overnight, does anyone know how to get rid of it fast? (link)
pop it


I dated this person 4 almost 4 yrs... I loved them soo much n then we went down hill. I don't know if I'm still "inlove" with them, but I always think about them. It's starting to get better and fade away, but they seem to already have moved on. It's only been a year!! What should I do?? Do you think they've moved on?We were eachothers first loves, and I thought first loves don't end!!!Plz Help!! (link)
ask him hope i helped


What would you do if things in your life were always downhill and uphill like big time. I have delt with it all...family in jail family getting divorced rape drugs sex everything in the book ive been through it, and im 14! Ok so I have always had trouble getting through anything and I always feel that i need an adult to talk to..but theres no way i could talk to my mom. So i have 3 people who have helped me in the past. One was my moms friend, one was a teacher and currentley one is my cousin and godmother. Yeah well it seems that everything just got better. Good right? No wrong becuase now shes moving away to south carolina and i live in michigan. I am afraid that everything is going to go back downhill. I have recentley decided to keep my life up and look at the good side of things and take control of what i can. But now i fear i will slip back and go into a deep depression once again. I dont kno what to do im confused..someone please help me. (link)
i am going through the same thing almost its hard to help go to on of your friends and talk to her



if you wanna IM go ahead at maytuff1



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hey

i am 15 f and i really like this guy 15 m and he like me back we just dont ever talk about it and i think we will end up goin out i just dont know if i should tell him that i have never even kissed someone and i know he had done stuff with girls so should i just go with it and not tell him or do u think he can tell? (link)
i do not under staind what you are trying to say e-mail what you mean at maytuff1@walmartconnect.com


hope i can help love tiffany




ok so ive liked this kid for a really long time he liked me too but he didnt want to go out. then one day he invited to his house to hang out and "do stuff" and i couldnt go that day so i went 2 days later. we did and i had fun things were going good then the other night i was talking to him and he told me that he had a gf the day we met. he said he didnt when he first invited me...but got one in the 2 days i didnt c him. it really hurt and i dont kno what to do..i like him alot but i hate him at the same time. please help me. he said he was going to change before but he never did and i jus need advice.. (link)
bab dont ever trust a guy because they only want 1 or 2 things from you you know what i mean but if you find a good on hold on to him b-cuz they are hard to find

love,
tiffany

hope i helped


i want to tell my ex-boyfriend that i still have feelings for him even thought i know nothing will happen cuz he has a gf that i'm sure he loves but how do i say it??!! (link)
just walk up to him and say i dont care if you have feelings for me or not but i still care bout you


love,
tiffany


hope i helped


i was in two carwrecks with my mom. i am now in a
wheelchair. i go to the doctor alot so i miss school alot. but i still have a 3.5 . anyways,
i can't go and be in sports anymore and i can't ride the rides at the fair and i can't do all of the stuff i used to. is it wrong for me to cry when all of that stuff gets to me? am i just being selfish and a cry baby? if you could please help. signed,
feelin blu (link)
i know how that feels but in a diffrent way it will be ok so just chill


love,
tiffany


hope i helped

if you wanna chat IM me at maytuff1


I just turned 14. I'm about 5'5 and weigh about 105 lbs. I feel I am fat for some reason even though I wear extra smalls and zero's in clothing and everything. Everyone thinks I am very tiny but I don't see myself that way. Because I feel I am fat I try to do 200 crunches a day along with running for about a half hour. Is there anything else I can do to loose weight and just tone up more? I also don't eat much. Like for maybe a couple days a month I'll eat like breakfast, lunch, and dinner. But all the rest of the time I usually only eat a small breakfast and that's it. Am I over doing the whole weight loss thing? Everyone has been yelling at me and saying I am overdoing it and I really want to know if I am. Please help and answer. Is my weight ok for my height and age? I both cheerlead and run track and want to make sure I am skinny cause for some reason I feel people won't like me otherwise. Can someone please give me some advise and help on the situation? Thanks. *Love Always Annonomous*
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you are over doing your slef your not wearing a size 11 in jeans your not fat so stop saying you are ok




love,
tiffany

hope i helped

p.s. you can IM me if you wanna chat at maytuff1


hey, i have this plant. it bit me, well sort of. it's a venus fly trap, and i stuck me finger in it. is it poisonus? should i see a doctor, or am i doomed? (link)
you should go see a doc. just in case


(I'm 14) I've been going out with "James" for 8 months, and at the beginning it was all great, except for his ex, Sarah, who, I know for a fact part of the reason he went out with her is because she's...She'll MAKE you go out with her, she has a way of making you, because she can't get anybody because of a bunch of reasons but she's a VERY nasty person (if u get what I mean) and not even pretty, or popular and just...horrible. She accused me of stealing him, and about a month later, came up with a note that he supposedly written to her, stating that he loved me, but still wanted to be friends with benefits with him, and also said that she could go over to his friends house and they could "have sex since i haven't had it in awhile" The second he saw it he ripped it up and nearly bit Sarah's head off, was the angriest I've ever seen him, and really upset since I refused to talk to him. Sarah though, has been known to do ANYTHING to get a guy, and she's known for forging handwriting, and most of her old friends who now hate her, were pretty sure she forged it. It looked a little bit like his writing, but barely, and the way she said "aren't you going to dump him?" Put it into my head that it wasn't him. So I forgave him, then a couple months later she came up with some more "notes" and one time he looked at me pleadingly and just said "I didn't write those" which I forgot about, again, but they always stuck in my mind. Then she gave a note to my friend supposedly from him that said he still wanted to be friends with benefits, but HE had a note from HER that she had written to him, with HER wanting to be friends with benefits, she admitted it, that she had forged the note from him, and BEGGED me for forgivness, with bull notes saying "I'm SO sorry i'll never do it again" I'd never been more upset in my life, because I didn't know who to believe, and it took a toll on me that I did some things to myself I'm not proud of (think hard...) Eventually I "forgave" her, pretending to be her friend. None of it ever happened again, but that had been the third time. Ever since the first time, I've been paranoid, always imaginging him making out with her, and I know they did A LOT of stuff last summer. And now with summer, I hardly see him because we live a whole 5 miles away (sarcasm) and he always has to work at night (which i know is true, I've been there when he's working) and I've only seen him three times since summer started. I broke up with him once, right after summer started, because another guy wanted to go out with me, a guy that I knew I wouldn't have to worry about him cheating and a guy who could go to movies with me, even if I didn't love him, I could trust him. I lasted 3 days of crying and screaming to no1 inparticular before I broke down and went back out with him. A part of me is telling myself that I have to break up with him because everytime he has to go on the phone, even after the best conversations that last for hours, a cynical part of me thinks "Is he going to see Sarah?" and the part that for some reason he never wants me to go to his area makes me even more paranoid than I already am. It haunts me, and I know it's not healthy, but I also know if I break up with him, I'll be more miserable than I've ever been, but a tiny part of me thinks it's better in the end, but I have no idea. I love him, he's wonderful, he makes me feel wanted and loved and he's just...Wonderful. But the thing with Sarah, and that he doesn't want me arond where he lives (btw, two of his ex's live there) makes me paranoid. And I need to decide now, because I can't go on living with those thoughts of Sarah in the back of my mind. Sorry this was so dang long, and help would be GREATLY appriciated. (link)
ok 1st off next time make this question shorter because ppl do not like to read a long questions.

2nd dump him because he seems very weird


love,
tiffany



hope i helped
p.s. IM me if you wanna chat at maytuff1


hi!! how r u?? (link)
i am good you


How do you get the money to pay for your own cell phone??? (link)
save your money and dont just spend your money on stupid things


well i was in gym one time and i fell off of the rope i was climbing. i hurt my arm really bad and my gym teacher told me to stretch it out. he didnt let me go to a nurse. when i got home i went to the emergency room because it hurt really bad. they x rayed it and turns out i fractured it. what should i do about my teacher? (link)
sue him/her its he/she fault for not leting you go to the nurse or call home


im thinkin of gettin a pet but i dont no wot to get. i have 2 cats and 1 fish. has ne 1 got ne ideas they will really help thanx love tammy gal (link)
get a dog they are great pets


how do u covince your parents 2 let u get a cell phone. and that u are responsible enough to have one. (link)
i have a cell phone and i am 12 but i pay my bills and i bought it it is fun having it but it is not fun paying the bills trust me


okay well...my mom and dad got a divorce a few years ago..so i have to go back and forth like..one week i'll be with my mom and the next i'll be with my dad..but i cant stand my dad and his new girlfriend..personally i think he deserves better than her but what do i know i'm only 14...okay well..how do i tell my dad that i dont want to go over there anymore because he changed and i dont like his girlfriend? (link)
tell your dad striat up that you dont like her and that you do not what to be there any more


my mom just got married,so i have a stepdad...i don't like him cause he doesnt do nothin & tells me what to do...all he does is sit in his ''spider man'' underwear & watches buffy-the-vampire...how do i try to get along with him????
HELP ME.... (link)
talk to your mom about this problem and tell her how you fell


How do you loose weight the easy way??? Im confused i have been going to a gym regually and still i haven't seen no change in my weight. Im annoyed and im starting to want to give up but i really want to loose weight. Is there any other ways of loosing weight faster??

Luv Shelly (link)
if you alot of soda stop and drink alot of water


I am 18 years of age. My family and I have dreamed of moving to another country for 12 years. We finally have the opportunity to do so and we have taken it. However, my sister now has a boyfriend and is threatening to stay behind. She wants to marry him as soon as possible. She is 16 years old. This boy is 19, has quit school, has been unemployed for most of the last 3 years as he is continually fired, and is known to lie frequently. How can i make her see that she is too young for this and that he is not worth giving up her family and her future for? (link)
tell her that there are more things that she could do if she did not get marryed like college


WHAT DOES idk STAND 4 (link)
i don't know is what idk stands 4




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