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I am a dark, pessimistic, negative person. I feel totaly hopeless and that both the good and evil forces are against me. I try to be the positive, outgoing type, but that realy isnt me. Im realy pained inside with doubt and hiddin secrets. I have a crush on someone and today I was thinking about the girl, the way she acts when I flirt with her, the way she is so outgiong. Those happy, warming feelings turned cold. I have been doubtful about myself, I feel like I cant start a close relationship, not even a close friendship. Its more than that, but it would take forever to explain things. I feel weak and helpless. Can you help me?
--Caden-- (link)
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you need to let out your secrets to a trusted adult and have more self confidence, if you keep thinking that you are weak and helpless and will never start a relationship then thats what you are going to be.start by thinking I AM NOT helpless or desperate and little by little you will change.you only live once so try your best to make today the best day and always bear in mind that tommorow is a better day.have hope in life.good luck and i hope youll change.
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I get jelous way easily. I'm always jelous of my friends if I'm not hangin out with them or if I'm not being invited to hang out with them. I go into the slight depression stage and get all moody when I'm jelous. I HATE THIS. How can I become more uhh .. not jelous ? (link)
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think of this...you have somethings they dont and theyve got something you dont.its all even.jelousy can ruin a persons life so be happy with what youve got cuz you might one day loose it
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Well I'm 16/f.
Sorry this one is kind of long.
Well I really need to let go of my past but everytime something good happens I think back to how I messed it all up the last time and just get depressed. Well you see, I have quite a few guy friends who when they want to say something to me or get my attnetion they tap me on the shoulder, pat me on the head, or grab my arm loosely. I know they don't mean anything bad by it but it freaks me out since last summer at a camp I went to in Colorado I was hit on and basically molested by a guy I thought was my friend. I had to sit by him on the bus ride (which took basically a whole day) and even though I told him and begged him to stop he wouldn't stop touching me inappropriately.
Well we got off the bus and I told my friend Daniel what happened and Daniel kept the guy away from me but that wasn't the end of it. Later in the week at camp two more guys kept coming up to me and making me sit on their laps and try to give me back rubs and stuff like that. I of course protested but they were way too strong for me to get free and they would cover up my mouth if I tried to speak to someone near us. It was freaking me out. Every night when we finally had to go to bed I would sit up all night wishing that the next day would never come. I talked to my camp leader and she said she'd do all she could to keep them away from me but it never worked. So when I was supposed to be having fun at camp I was always looking around me and wondering when they would hit on me again.
My question is how can I let go of those emories so that I don't get freaked out anymore.??? (link)
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forget about your past and move on with your life if you keep thinking about the past you will never have a good future. just be happy that nothing else happened.start thinking ok i WILL let go of my past and WILL become a stronger person.try relaxing.
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HOW DO I GET RID OF DEPRESSION? I ve tried but I cant. Please give me some suggestions. Thankz bye. (link)
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go to a docter itll help you a lot or talk to a trusted adult.
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i cut myself and i hate it so much i dont know hwo to stop it is so addictive and i dotn talk to peopel who reayl understand how i feel im scared because me and my mom are best friends and i tell her everything but ever since i started getting realy upset and cutting myself i find it hard to tell her anything i know she is worried btu she has o clue i am cutting myself my realy close firend nows that i cut myself with a rubber band i told her becasue i wanted to see what she said btu she asked if i have ever REALY cut myslef adn i lied to her i just want to be happy and no depressed thanxs i hope you can help (link)
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hey im glad you are doing better and hope you told your mom.im sure you will stop and wont do this again whats past is past nows the time to start over
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When me and my friend Layla hang out we are always bored, last week we we're hanging out with her boyfriend and we we're so bored. Name some inside the house things we can do to have fun.
I'll rate 5! (link)
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you can give eachothers makeovers,watch movies, go online and find someone to chat with(i mean someone new meet him off a chatroom)
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Ok well my dad and my mom got a divorce right so my dad started dating this girl with a son to who is divoriced ok her son the second i saw him i new i was in love with him and i m crazy about him already he feels the same way his mom told me and im not going to go out w/ him because thats really wired but besides that i really really like him and id really like to go out but that just be wired because our parents our hooking up. but he is all i can think about what should i DO ILL RATE 5'S FOR ANYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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mabey you should try convincing your mom how youll never think of any other guy as long as you live and ask her how would you feel if you were in my place?if she still says no act all sad and sulk all the time till she asks you whats wrong then let it all out, fake crying if you have to. good luck
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if yu have stretch marks around like yur arms and some on yur waist .. what does that mean? is there any way to get rid of them WITHOUT buying something? (link)
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simple...it means that youve lost and gained weight a lot so it leaves these marks
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To start off, i'm only 15 years old. I've been with my boyfriend for five months. We just recently broke up, and a week after our break up he got a new girlfriend. I was really upset for awhile, and I couldn't even eat because of it. I cried just about every day. I constantly think about him, and regardless of how bad he treats/has treated me, I still have an enormous amount of feelings for him. I don't know why I can't get over him. My friend told me "If you can't get over him, maybe there's a reason". Is it possible I'm in love? Or what is it that I'm feeling? And why can't it go away? (link)
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you have to get over him.its his lose not yours,he lost a girl like you.you are not the first or last girl to break up we have all been thru it.hes not worth you tears if he was a good person and is worth loving he wouldnt have left you feeling this bad.you will find someone else that worth it and dont worry, time heals everything and your 15 you honestly think that having him as a boyfriend would have got u anywhere?? hes a kid and you should be happy it was only five months some people break up after years.just free your mind from all its thoughts find someone to cry it out to and all your feelings and youll be ok.
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Okay well, I really like this guy. He's everything I want. Funny, intellegent, cute, long hair, sweet, kind and he skates. There's nothing more that I want then for him to like me back. The bad thing is that my friend likes him to. No one knows that I like this kid and I've been hiding it for a really long time. I don't think he has a clue and we are good friends and I don't want to ruen it by telling him that I like him.
I need help and FAST.
I'll rate for the advice you give. Just help. :{ (link)
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i think you should tell your friend how you feel.shell understand.if you are gonna tell him first ask if he likes anyone.dont just blurt out your feelings think about when and how you want to let him know how you feel its better to show a guy friend that you like him by being sweet and flirting rather than in words and find oppurtunities to do things you both enjoy together with NOONE ELSE
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So basically I told my bf that I feel like Im not good enough looking for him and how i feel like nobody could be attracted to me. *this was all an online convo* and i asked "know what i mean?" and he said yeah..then made some excuse that he had to go do his hw. This gets wheels turning in my head..if im not attractive to him, how can this last?? :( help me (link)
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u should never show ANYONE that
you think your unatractive theyll just use it against you when your in a fight.honestly what makes you feel unatractive?remove all unwanted hair, get a better
more hotter way of dressing loose weight is you need to and bear in mind that you are pretty and better than a lot of other people.have a cute hairstyle and always dress in stuff that match.
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i have a school dance on saturday..i have to dresses ..one i like (its black with sprakels)and the other my frinds like (its black with pink ruffels and flowers)..i feel like i look better and i feel more comfortable in the one i like..but my friends' favorite is more party..my crush will be there which one should i chose? (link)
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choose the dress you look more glamourous in.make sure you have matching shoes and a matching purse.i think you shoould choose the black one with no ruffles itll look better than the other
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So I am 15 years old and I am 5'3 I currently weigh 215 lbs. I would really like to be about 140 by the first of June ( you know summer time )
I work out maybe twice a week for about an hour at a time. I don't drink and pop at all and I replace school lunch with a salad. Is there anyway possible to loose 60-75 lbs in 6 months? I would even be satisfied with 50. I really want this. I work alot and don't have alot of time for working out for such. And I have alot of dairy in my regular diet. I rate 5's!! please I would really appresheate all your help. (link)
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cutt off all junkfood for a long time till you loose weight, dont eat at school either, ya i know ull get hungry but you wanna loose weight right? to make things more fun find a friend you have thats overweight too and ask her if she wants to loose weight and you can both go on a diet and see who looses more weight.and each 3 pounds you loose is worth a dollar.drink a lot of water.before each meal drink a glass
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if i go to the gym will i only gain muscle or will i lose weight? how can i do both without looking TOO buff? (link)
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your weight and fat will turn to muscle.stop workin out when youy feel you got the look u wanted
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Theres a man who is married that me and my best friend are friends with and I feel he has been acting inappropriatley with us. He winks at me when his wife isnt looking and I've caught him staring at my chest. This one time he invited me and my other friend over when his wife was at work and he started offering us both wine. Then he said 'lets play strip poker". We both looked shocked at him and he started laughing and said he was joking but the fact that he said it made me a little uncomfortable. I also found out that he confides in my other friend about his marriage and all his problems with his wife. According to my friend he tells her that his wife is stupid and that he hates her kids.
Does anyone else think this is strange behavior for a married man?
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omg yes it is!tell that guy to stop (you and ur friend) hes breaking his wifes heart for god sake!if he does anything else tell him to back off and to go solve his problems with his wife.if it gets too far call his wife and tell her..ya itll break her heart but might make him stop
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Okay, im only 14 and i wanna have a baby SO bad. My parents dont really love me((ive been told)) so i think this would help me alot. i've babysat for YEARS and LOVE children. I wanna feel loved when i come home and a baby would do that, and i think teen moms are closer to their kids. I plan on gettin pregnant in 10th or 11th grade.Am i making a mistake by wanting to do this. (link)
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mabey you want to feel loved but getting pregnant could be the biggest mistake ever. what if the father denies the kid is his?
how are you gonna get money for the kid?whatll your parents reaction be?you might even drop outta school.i think u should wait.live your age cuz you might regret it if you get pregnant
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ok, well i have a REALLY BIG crush on this guy, lets call him dan. well i wanted to know if you guys think he has a crush on me. ok, well, everytime i look at him he is looking back (sometimes i see it out of the corned of my eye) and then today in PA (sewing) my tetcher said my name wrong because she has trounle pernouncing it and i wen to correct her but dan corrected her for me (i sit at the table behind him) and when my table was talking about birthdays and i said mine, he looked back and it looked like he was memorizing the date.
thanks,
ANK
P.S.: i rate everyone! (link)
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mabey he thinks your cute thats why hes always staring at you.but mabey he does like you i mean cmon he likes a mystery girl and its most probably you.talk to him
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I'm only in high school, and I'm still pretty young, but I truly think I am in love!! There is this kid and I REALLY like him, I'm not sure, but I'm almost positive it's love. Any tips to determine whether or not I do love him?
and also...another question...
How do I get him to pay attention to me? (I never see him in the halls or anything, I only have gym class with him) I am really too self-conscious to go up to him, but how do I get him to notice me (in a good way)? Any useful tips are 5's!
Thanks in advance for advice.
xoxo -abercrombiebabiex3- (link)
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to know if you love him ask youself these questions....would i be there for him if he got sick?would i be willing to put down my dreams so he can achieve his?if he was my guy would i ever cheat on him? on your second question LOOK YOUR BEST. have a cute glamourous hairstyle with the lipgloss and hot clothes.try not to be too tomboyish.if your overweight loose weight,all you need is glamour and flirting style and good sence in fashion.
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Okay like 2 weeks ago I met these 2 boys when I stayed after school they are best friends and they are about my age. And one is pretty cute and the other is ya know... -not my type- and both of them like me I know it might be mean to go for the cuter one but I dunno i would feel bad. And on a different note. I dont know if I should play hard to get with the cuter one cuz believe me I wish I could just kiss them right there and but I dont want to feel to "easy" to him because my school has a HUGE reputation of gossiping all this crap to other people. And if I seem easy the whole world would know..ya know? I dont even know help me if you can (link)
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go for the one your heart chooses.even if its the cuter guy...aw cmon who doesnt like a cute guy?then tell the other one your srry that you dont share the same feelings,cuz you dont wanna play em both
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I have this friends who makes fun of me all the time and she makes fun of me around other people too. It makes them think that its ok to make fun of me becasue she does. What can i say to her to make her stop. (link)
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omg i went thru the same thing!take ur friend aside one day and tell her that you get pissed when she makes fun of you.if she dont stop tell her that you wont hang around her anymore and say why should i hang around someone who makes me feel bad,thats if she dont stop when you tell her too.i told my frined that and she totally stopped.
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