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im 14.and ive been with my boyfriend for about a year&& 4 months.when we have sex he just pulls out.we havent been using protection for about 7months.i really dont like the sex with condoms.should i start using protection.do you think its safe? (link)
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Hi, I'm 19/m,
me and my gf have been going out for about 2 and a half years now, from experience, use protection, we were supposed to have a child but it miscarried, its probably one of the most depressing things ever. The younger you are the higher the chance of a miscarriage. What we do now is I supply her the money for whats called a Nuva Ring and that gets put in every month (about $26) and releases hormones that make it so you won't get pregnant but you wont have to use a condom (it is recommended, but she's been on for about a year and nothing)
Hope I could help o^-^o
& good luck
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So I just trimmed my umm. hair down there Yesterday. I just took my Razor and just shaved the ends. So it was shorter. I don't expect to have sex any time soon. I just felt uncomfortable on how long it was growing. So I did what I did.
But why is it like poking me and hurting and itching a bit?
Also, Will just trimming it with my Razor make it grow back faster? And more off it?
Sorry If it is in the wrong catagory (link)
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shaving hair anywhere is going to make it very poky and can sometimes itch really bad, normally it tends to grow faster if you shave more, as for more of it, no.
Hope I could help o^-^o
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I'll be turning 17 in 11 days, and my boyfriend of almost half a year (our year and a half is the day after my birthday), needs some help as to what to get me. I really don't care about it being a surprise for me, as long as he feels confident with giving me the gift. What are a few things I can hint towards when he asks me what I want? I already have a necklace, earrings, and a small ring, so preferably no jewelry. Just practical stuff really. (link)
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birthdays are always hard to decide for. I think you should ask yourself "what do I need?" this may help you figure out the answer whether its a new belt or outfit you wanted or maybe you just want a romantic night out to get away from your annoying sibling (speaking from experience). perhaps your into video games and electronics, theres an accessory that you really want but either don't have time or money to get it. Or lets say you like music, is there a favorite band you could recommend to him, maybe a concert you wanted to go to or a CD you wanted. A year ago i just made my gf a cheesecake for her bday. Maybe get your bf to make up a little coupon booklet with things like, 1 25 minute back message, or 1 free study only night.
Hope I could help o^_^o
& good luck
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my boyfriend (weve been dating about a month) has TONS of posters of halk naked, playboy girls all around his bedroom. Like, "hot" girls in skimpy bikins and sexual poses. and of course, way more gorgeous and curvy than regular girls. the posters make me so uncomfortable. he also sometimes talks about other hot celebrities and such around me. it somehow makes me feel, like, not good enough. ill never look like one of those girls on his walls and it makes me feel so horrible. what should i do about this? (link)
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Its a mans nature to always look for the most attractive woman they can lay eyes on. Its nothing that should be taken offense to. If you think about it this way, a persons brain is devided up into sections, each section has a certain set of chemicals that get released for certain reasons, brain wave lengths n' stuff like that. Anyway, when a guy sees a hot woman it automatically goes to his mind and he can't help but say something a memory can also spark this. This is not meant to hurt anyone its just the way a guy is.
Hope I could help o^-^o
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hi, ok well i was just wondering... i was just talking to my bf and im 14 and hes 16 and we have been best friends for like 2 years and everything and he and i makeout a lot whenever we see each other (like once a week) and i was asking him how far we would go right now in our relationship (3 months) he said 2nd (touching a girl's breast) and we have gotten close he has touched me through my bra once and my shirt one other time but im very protective of that one of the two times he did without asking and he said he was very sorry and promised not to again. anyway im moving in June so i asked what about when i leave how far? our relationship would be about 5 months. he said a hj. i was very surprised because ya hes horny like very other guy but he tries really hard to be good. he has set limits and wont put himself in a position like being home alone with me because he doesnt trust himself. hes very responcible. but hes also a 16 yr old guy. well he would be-hes turning 16 in May. yay he turns 16 and gets a hj lol
so first off if i wanted to give him a hj is that normal (i kno everyone says do what your comfortable with but would u say most 16 yr old guys have gotten a hj) the thing is im only 14 tho. a freshman. hes also a freshman but hes much older im younger and hes older. he and i are deeply in love tho so it wont be like i do that with every guy or w/e.
it would both of our firsts. he said yes because it would be somthing to remember each other by.
also dont worry cause i know i wont because im not comfortable with that. my bf doesnt know that i wont but i do. i just had some questions about if i did want to.
and i know i dont have to i mean he didnt even ask i said how far would you let us go.
thanks :) (link)
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Hi there,
19 m and been in love for 2 years. Wow, my gf wasn't kidding when she said we took it too fast, lol. We're also 2 years apart and i met her right before my 17 birthday. About 1 month into our relationship we started having sex. Not hj's or even bj's. I wouldn't recommend this, however it looks like the rate you two are going is just fine, comfortable some might say. And thats how a relationship should be. Just to touch on the other question you have posted, wanting to do something sexual for your partner is perfectly normal, especially after 5 months, just make sure you are ready for it. About the ages, normally I would have said wait but if you feel you love him then why wait? Whats the worst thing that could happen?
Hope I could help o^-^o
& good luck
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So, I want to cut my hair short, but i feel that if i do, boys won't like me, because short hair is "lezbo" like. My face would be complemented by the hair, and i personally would love it, but i am just scared that boys will not find me attractive. and at this point in my life i need boys to find me attractive, because i am not feeling very attractive right now. ugh.
so anyways, would a boy love it if i cut my hair, or should i comprimise with just a trim and style? (my hair is down to my crack) (link)
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Honestly, I love long hair. However, if your worried about boy not finding you attractive then I'm sure these aren't the kind of people that you would want to be hanging around with. Besides, there are tons of girls who look great with short hair, u never know until you try it right?
I'd say go for it and who cares what anyone else thinks, the great thing about this world is the freedom we posses to do what we want with our bodies. And besides, hair grows back.
Hope I could help o^-^o
& good luck.
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The boy I really like comes to my b ball court everyday.If he kissed another girl,what would that mean?This didnt happen to me im just wondering because i dont want him to kiss another girl because I REALLY like him alot! (link)
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I think you need to tell him you like him before another girl comes along. This way he can have time to respond if he is thinking about another girl. It also may mean that you would become a priority over other girls and it would also decrease the chances of there ever being another one.
Hope I could help o^-^o & good luck
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lately (for about 2 weeks) i have not had a normal poop. sorry for the details but its either really hard and painful or i get diarhea. i have a normal diet. i dont eat a ton of junk food. i do drink soda a lot but only a maximum of 2 cans a day and thats rare. i've been taking those chewable pepto bismol's like they're vitamins. what is wrong with me? this problem is obnoxious!! (link)
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I'd suggest going to see a doctor, it may just be lasting symptoms of a flu. However, this could also be very serious and even detrimental to your health. Drink plenty of water and explain it your doctor as you explained it on here.
Hope I could help O^-^O
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16/f
this guy.
we talk like every night on the phone
the most weve talked was from 10 pm to 4 am or so
this is how it goes.
weve never told each other that we like each other
well
he gave me a poem that said he loved me
i never really responded to that.
is that bad? =\
i tell him that this bitchy girl wanting to hook up with him makes me really mad and jealous.
he stopped talking to her.
he always makes me feel better
and then at our dance we danced every slow song and every fast song together. and during one slow song he made a joke about this girl and i let go of him but he pulled me into him and i like melted. and i was like oh you have no idea how many stories i could tell you about that and he said if theyre not about you i dont want to hear them
hes great, but hes a male. (no offense boys)
i want to know if hes playing me
because it seems way to good to be true that hed like me
im not exactly the hottest girl ever
but he tells me that im attractive and that he likes to talk to me
does he like me or not??
whats a casual way of finding out without flat asking?>
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I don't think you need to ask if he likes you. He's given you enough to determine 100% that that is the case, however i think he's waiting. He probably needs to know that you like him before he wants to make any move. Show him the dearest affection, but try not to be clingy, idk some guys don't like that too much. Another thing you can do is come right out and tell him that you like him, like more than a friend. The action he took after this would determine whether he needed that little extra step.
Hope I could help o^-^o and good luck
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I know this sounds rediculous but recently my ex boyfriend has stop having sex with me. How can I get him to want to have sex with me again? And how can I make it really hot and sexiiiiii sex.?
Ill rate high (link)
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You obviously know that its not a good thing your doing so I'll just focus on how. Think back to the time before you started having sex with your x. Make him want you, don't give in to his every desire. I'd suggest making a game out of it then when you finally let him win its all that much better. While your doing this try to act all cute and innocent, this'll add to the desire. You need to figure out a way to hook him into this, i suggest using phrases like "if you want this, ya gotta catch me first" while taking something he wants/needs at the time.
Hope I could help o^-^o and good luck.
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so heres the deal:
so this guy i'm friends with has a girlfriend but him and i have kinda been hooking up and like he wants do like actual stuff like more then making out. uhm i have kinda no idea what i'm doing. any tips? (link)
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First off, ask yourself this, "do you really wanna be with a guy who has a gf?" and if the answer is yes then it all depends on what the two of you like. If you wanna give him head then i suggest you pay lots of attention to the head but not to neglect the rest of his...pleasure center... Dont forget to pretend to let him take advantage of you, most guys like this. But theres lots of fun things 2 people can do before they wanna have sex, ie. 69ing, going up each others shirts(some guys have sensitive nipples), flavoured body paints. But for sex, lubes are really fun, as is sex in the bath or shower.
Hope I could help o^-^o
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http://www.weebls-stuff.com/wab/housework/
That clip?
Is there any way at all I could download it?
Please?
Thanks :) (link)
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I have a couple of suggestions, and thats all these are. Try searching for it on YouTube. If that doesn't work, theres always a downloading agent such as Limewire or Bareshare. If all else fails go to Google.com and type in "download weebles housework"
Hope I could help & good luck.
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Boys we can't live with or with out them . I really have a friend but I think he likes me so what should I do should I go and ask him do you like me or something . What should I do . (link)
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Confront him, that is if he doesn't confront you first. Honesty is the best thing in any relationship, next to clarity. Friend, sibling, parent, significant other, as long as there are no secrets there won't be any problems. I believe that you should talk to him about this and make it clear how the both of you feel.
Hope I could help o^-^o
& good luck
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know.
f/14
how do you see the unseen?? my friend told me that if i wanted to realize something that is between me and her that i would have to see the unseen..can anyone help me? i'm just really confused.. (link)
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I think she's talking about the unseen bond between friends and how fragile it can be. Maybe she just wants to feel like she used to as far as your friendship went.
I hope I could help o^-^o
& good luck
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sorry if this is long
16/f
so im a junior and since freshman year ive been friends with this guy who's a year older. this year is his last and i've had this small crush on him ever since i first met him. hes just so irresistible! i cant really explain it, but he just makes you feel good when u talk to him. lately it's gotten really bad though and i've realized that if i dont do anything now, it will be too late! now for the hard part. First, we do NOT match. I could never picture myself with him, yet i want to. but he's just so cute and we have things in common and stuff, just physically we dont match. also, since we met its been like a constant game! we talk for a while, then flirt, then just as things are about to turn serious we ignore each other...then the cycle begins again! hes SOOO flirty and txts me in the mornings and at night, calls me gorgeous and sweet, and we've hung out a couple of times and flirted like crazy. hes really hard to read though. i just figured that if something was to happen it would have already happened right!?? but then again i keep hearing he likes me from A LOT of ppl. WHAT is going on!??? lately i cant stop thinking about him...im going crazy! HELP!!!!!??? (link)
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Hi,
first off let me say, your not going crazy. However if you feel you are then maybe you should just confront him? I know its easier said than done but whats the worst that could possibly happen? Don't think about that, think more along the lines of, whats the best that could happen. Here's an example, say Kari likes this guy thats really cute and flirty, she gathers up the courage to go up to him and says that she likes him. he turns to her and says "sorry, i like this other girl" however they still stay friends. A week later Kari gets asked out by his even hotter and sweeter brother and they live happily ever after. All I'm saying is don't be afraid to tell someone how you feel cuz it can only hurt you.
Hope I could help o^-^o
& good luck
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ok so im 16/f
i dont really like anyone right now, but i have slight feelings for this one kid (tom-16) who i already had a kinda thing with. and i dont realy kno this other kid (josh-18) anymore but i use to like him a lot.
tom and i only talk wen i take the initiative to go sit w/ him. but he always talks about me and openly stares at me and crap like that. its kinda obvious he has feelings for me. but he wont do anything about it except act like a little 3rd grader and it is so completely annoying.
josh on the other hand, i use to like, so im pretty sure if i hung out with him i could potentially get feelings for him again, cuz he's stil in the very back of my mind. and josh is the one who is texting me all the time to hang out, but i always have had sumthing to do.
so im not sure what i should do.. b/c i want tom more than josh but if he isn't going to do anything then i dont wanna waste my time. and i sorta like josh but he is the one who is going after me, even still after ive turned down about 4 offers from him so far. so that means he really wants me.
i just want to make sure that i am going to make the right decision, because i personally dont want to have to chase after guys, its stupid and i just dont have the time or reasoning to, so they can come after me if they want me and that's truly how i feel. but im wondering what you think about the whole situation...
thanks!!
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Being a guy myself I always had it in my head to go after the girl, not the other way around. However, if I were you, I'd just go up to tom and tell him the truth. Whats the worst that could happen? Well, he could say no, after that, it would make you free to accept other's invitations without having to worry "what if he likes me?"
Hope I could help o^-^o
& good luck
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So im 14/f and not many guys like me, im not ugly, and a few guuys are interested but not the ones i particularly like. All ive done is kiss a guy, and ive been getting horney lately, like...i go on imvu and try to have cybersex, its weird but i cant help it, its just sooo good! Is this unsafe? and is it weird that i get horney like every day? Thanks (link)
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Cybersex is only unsafe if you give away personal information, as long as they don't know anything, or very much, about you then its fine. Getting horny everyday is also perfectly normal, most teenagers do so its nothing to be worried about.
Hope I could hep o^-^o
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im really not sexually active but what is it like to be wet cause i dont know if i do or not. or when your suppose to cum or how it feels. i've been to third before but i never came so i dont know whats wrong withh mee (link)
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It's different for everybody. A lot of girls can't cum unless they have something more than fingers or a tongue in them, where as all you need to do is caress some of them and they'll cum. I can't personally tell you how it feels like cuz I'm a guy, but from what I've heard, its a sort of warm and excited feeling.
Hope I could help o^-^o
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okay. im gonna sound stupid. but. im 18. and in 2007. i worked at mcdonalds. for like. 6 weeks. making 7$ and working about 15hours a week. at most. didnt earn very much money. and because i didnt make very much..i was wondering if i had to file taxes? is there like a certain amount of money you have to make in a year to have to file taxes? oh i live in wisconsin. if that matters. (link)
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Anyone who works has to file taxes, it doesn't matter how much or how little. The government will send you a package to fill out (ie. how much you made, how much they took from your cheque, etc.) Your employer will also mail you a form giving you this information, this is called a T4.
Hope I could help o^-^o
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15/Female.
First and foremost let me start by saying my mom had me when she was just sixteen and in an arranged abusive marriage which had ended in two years. She was never there for me in my young years. I remember when I was in kindergarten looking out on the stage, with high hopes, searching for my mom but no one was there besides my grandparents. It just wasn't the same. I was crushed to see an empty seat. My mom would make up to anything she did to offend me by taking me out shopping or grabbing a bite to eat.
When she was in her early twenty's all she did was go clubbing. I lived with my grandparents so my mom had much freedom for a mother. She would take me out every weekend and we would go out and do something fun. For some reason I always thought of her as a sister or friend but never a mother. I still call my grandparents mom and dad because, if you think about it they really are my parents.
I guess my mom, nevertheless, is still a great mom. I mean she's always cool and calm about everything [e.g. she is okay with me being in a relationship with a boy because she has faith in me] and she's only a phone call away.
Fast forwarding a bit to present day. I currently live with my mom and I love every minute of it but for some reason, every time my mom goes out dancing, I start to get oversensitive and start crying for absolutely no reason. I feel so clingy to my mom. For example, today when my mom left for class, I started bawling as soon as she left the house. Why, all of a sudden am I being so overprotected/oversensitive towards my mom? (link)
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This is in no way abnormal. Whats happening is that you had a childhood without a mother and now that you have her, now that you've felt that love, you don't want to lose it again. My gf was the same way before I started dating her. I assure you that it will go away eventually, but in the meantime, look for things to occupy your mind. Take up a hobby or sport and have fun.
Hope I could help, o^-^o
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