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choices...
ok so im 16/f
i dont really like anyone right now, but i have slight feelings for this one kid (tom-16) who i already had a kinda thing with. and i dont realy kno this other kid (josh-18) anymore but i use to like him a lot.
tom and i only talk wen i take the initiative to go sit w/ him. but he always talks about me and openly stares at me and crap like that. its kinda obvious he has feelings for me. but he wont do anything about it except act like a little 3rd grader and it is so completely annoying.
josh on the other hand, i use to like, so im pretty sure if i hung out with him i could potentially get feelings for him again, cuz he's stil in the very back of my mind. and josh is the one who is texting me all the time to hang out, but i always have had sumthing to do.
so im not sure what i should do.. b/c i want tom more than josh but if he isn't going to do anything then i dont wanna waste my time. and i sorta like josh but he is the one who is going after me, even still after ive turned down about 4 offers from him so far. so that means he really wants me.
i just want to make sure that i am going to make the right decision, because i personally dont want to have to chase after guys, its stupid and i just dont have the time or reasoning to, so they can come after me if they want me and that's truly how i feel. but im wondering what you think about the whole situation...
thanks!!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Being a guy myself I always had it in my head to go after the girl, not the other way around. However, if I were you, I'd just go up to tom and tell him the truth. Whats the worst that could happen? Well, he could say no, after that, it would make you free to accept other's invitations without having to worry "what if he likes me?"
Hope I could help o^-^o
& good luck
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