sorry if this is long
16/f
so im a junior and since freshman year ive been friends with this guy who's a year older. this year is his last and i've had this small crush on him ever since i first met him. hes just so irresistible! i cant really explain it, but he just makes you feel good when u talk to him. lately it's gotten really bad though and i've realized that if i dont do anything now, it will be too late! now for the hard part. First, we do NOT match. I could never picture myself with him, yet i want to. but he's just so cute and we have things in common and stuff, just physically we dont match. also, since we met its been like a constant game! we talk for a while, then flirt, then just as things are about to turn serious we ignore each other...then the cycle begins again! hes SOOO flirty and txts me in the mornings and at night, calls me gorgeous and sweet, and we've hung out a couple of times and flirted like crazy. hes really hard to read though. i just figured that if something was to happen it would have already happened right!?? but then again i keep hearing he likes me from A LOT of ppl. WHAT is going on!??? lately i cant stop thinking about him...im going crazy! HELP!!!!!???
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first off let me say, your not going crazy. However if you feel you are then maybe you should just confront him? I know its easier said than done but whats the worst that could possibly happen? Don't think about that, think more along the lines of, whats the best that could happen. Here's an example, say Kari likes this guy thats really cute and flirty, she gathers up the courage to go up to him and says that she likes him. he turns to her and says "sorry, i like this other girl" however they still stay friends. A week later Kari gets asked out by his even hotter and sweeter brother and they live happily ever after. All I'm saying is don't be afraid to tell someone how you feel cuz it can only hurt you.
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