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I am a nice funny person. I love to swim and dance, and i love to help people. I like hanging out wiht my friends and goin out on friday nights and stayin out late! Im all about havin fun!! Ask me for help when you need it. I will be happy to answer your questions. I love answering questions about relationships, so ask me about that!
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is there any way to get your period to go away faster...cuz i have a competition on monday and just started my period today. also..what can i do for cramps? thanks a ton!
tou cant make your period go away faster...but but you can take motrin to get rid of cramps. Sorry i go theough the same things you are...gotta live with it, life..Hope i helped!
i can't decide which one to do should i do dolphins or puppies? thanks i rate high.
Wait...what do you want to do? maybe you should clear that up....like a project? I think dolphins would be better....they are more unique, plus there are to many breeds of dogs to do a project on dogs...Hope i helped!
I've been using a floppy disk for about 2 years now. All of a sudden a few weeks ago, when I tried to open it an error meesage came up and said "The disk in drive A is not formatted. Do you want to format it now?" I was told formatting would erase everything on the disk, so I didn't do that. Does anyone know of any way to fix the disk, or can I go someplace to have the info taken out of the disk, or buy a product that'll fix the disk. Thanks you so much... this is very important to me.
Um....dont buy anything to fix the disk....get a newdsk maybe. Actually once at school it krpt doing that on one of the computers, but it didnt do that on any of the other computers...tell your parents, maybe your computer needs to be checked...or het a new floppy...they r cheap anyways. USB sticks are better anyways. Hope i helped!
to make this short i my dad and i dont get along at all and i have tried so hard to be nice to him or to have a convo. with him but he always ends up yelling at me and i think thats why ive started to change i dont feel like i have a family any more.. i had started to smoke( i quit tho.) and i drink every once in a while and ive even tried weed once. Some of my friends dont like that ive changed and the rest of my friends dont care. but i got really sick the other day and my father took me to the doctors because my mom made him, the doctor said im getting bad lungs from being around smoke so much and my dad promised the doctor he wont smoke around me but he still does its like it wants me to get wrose... Please Help!!
I would like tell your mom that you dont want to be around the smok anymore, i mean you a a reaosn to not be aorund it. Your taking in second hand smoke which is just as bad as smoking, and it is affecting you seriously. You should get your parents to buy those air filters to put in the house...a few of them, so them take out some of the smokeyness (i dunno if thats a word, prob not) Or ask your mom to tell your dad to smoke outside and not in the house. Im tell you to tell you mom all thise because you said your dad yells at you when you try talking to him....so maybe your mom can talk to him for you. Or you can try and talk to him on your own....Hope i helped! Good luck and i hope your lungs get better!
how do i have a conversation on the phone with a guy with out him getting bored every time we talk. this guy he always seems bored on the phone with me. we talk like everyday and he calls me ALOT and i call him too. i just need a good conversation we go to the same school and everything he even said i was like his best friend. but when we get on the phone i never have anything to say. what should i talk about
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phone conversation help!!
well i dont understand how he can aways get bored if HE calls YOU ALOT.....i meani dont see a direct conection here...we cant really give you conversation ideas....they just come up you know. Ask him about any of his extra curricular activities..like sports or something. Tell him about some of oyur classes and how they are going, talk about teacher..i dunno! When i talk on the phone wiht guys, convos just come up i guess....if you stress over it, you will freeze up when your on the phone with him. Relax...he calls you, so he wants to tal to you, he should have a convo ready to start up. When you call him, think of something you actually WANT TO talk about. Hope i helped!
I have a date with a guy tonight. He's somewhat shy. I am a fairly outgoing person. I'm actualy the one who asked him to go on a date with me. I want to kiss him, but would it be alright for me to make the first move? Would that be too forward of me? Should I just wait for him to make a move on me?
well i always htought girls shouldnt make the first move..but technically you already did by asking him out..and thts fine. I htink you should go through with the day and see how it goes...i mean dont make assumptions before you even go on the date. what if the guy turns out to be a really jerk or whatever...he prob wont, but maybe, and you wouldnt even want to kiss him. But if the date goes well...and you see hes kinda wanting to kiss you but is really shy looking, go ahead and make the move...its ok to make the move..because then he will kow you want o kiss him and stuff...so h will make the moves after on the next dates. Hope i helped! Good luck!
hey! im doing a project for school and i need to collect some data about things some teens do that they realy dont want to just to fit in. if u could tell me all the things that u did just to fit in, it would help. thanx
ps: annyone who ansers will get a 5 rateing unless they r joking or being rood or whatever
ok will this is dumb..but sometimes i swear....like lots of people at my school swear like al the time..but im like a good girl lol, so sometimes i swear i guess......or i talk a lot...then people notice me and all start talkig with me. Now i dont do this, but girls always where all the skimpy clothes. Also people wear like all abercrombie &Fitch and Holister and stuff to fit in, because thats the "in" clothing, welli kinda wear it too..but hats cuz its cute....so u do get attention from it.i also where lots of varitety of colors to get noticed like pinks, yellows, greens, blues, reds, n e colors! Hope i helped!
I'm going on holiday with my friend in the summer and I am a very picky eater!!! I have given her a basic list of what I really don't like and like, totally won't eat, but Iunno, there's obviously going to be other stuff they feed me that I don't like. So I'm gonna take a bit of food in my suitcase just in case. I've already thought of cereal bars and crisps but is there anything else I could take? Ignore the fact that I'm a picky eater, just say anything you can think of. If it's a good idea but I don't like the food then I'll still rate high because you tried.
well if your careful when packing.....you can pack some chips, or chex mix or something. Pack some cookies...I knwo all this stuff crumbles...but you can try and be careful. Pack some candy....some crackers....thats all i can thik of right now..if i think of anything else...ill put it in....Hope i helped!
okay my mom is going to dallas for the night till tomorrow at lunch, and my sister is watching us. ahe cant drive though, i need some good ideas of things to occupy me, that dont involve tv, books, or hanging out with my siblings
make plans with a few friends who have parents or siblings that can drive....so you can go out with them, or maybe see if it wold be possible to get a friend to come over and sleepover, or just come over for a bit. if not see, if a friend will invite you over teir house or soemthing. I mean you can walk somewhere around your town, and walk to some stores or ride your bike or something. Or ask a neighbor to drive you somewhere, but thank them. my mom hates when i do that. I mean if you stuck at home, dont want to watch tv, go on the ocputer or hang out with siblings, there isnt much more ot do. Oh you can cook! Bake somehting! I love doing that! Hop ei helped!
My mom and I never get along or even talk. She's just not someone I can go up to and tell things to. Well im 17 and this summer im pretty sure im going to lose my virginity when im on vacation to visit my friends. Im ready, i love him and hes the right guy, i know more than most people know, im aware of the consequences and precautions i need to take. I just dont trust condoms alone, so id like to get on the pill before becoming sexually active. I would like to tell my mom so we can set up an appointment with the gyno, but im scared that i could ever have the courage to ask her or even talk to her about sex. She's told me tons of times "If you ever have sex, use protection. And tell me." My parents trust me already, but a part of me feels like..if i told them im going to start having sex..that they may take my freedom away from me and wont let me go on vacation. I was thinking about just going to Planned Parenthood behind their backs and getting it, but because of several reasons, theres no way i can actually get away with it and do it. (Long story, but its seriously impossible at this moment.) I was also thinking about just asking to go to the gyno because of period problems. (Ive actually had problems for the past year or two that my mom knows about) But she still refuses to give me medical attention no matter what the situation is. My parents know im cautious and responsible, unlike my sister. (She lost her virginity at 13 and they could care less.) So my question is - if you were in my position and never really talked to your mom..would you talk to her about becoming sexually active and getting on the pill? I guess the only thing holding me back is not knowing how she will react. Or should i just be careful and use a condom only...and when i come back from vacation..tell her im sexually active and need to be on the pill?
well if you gonna tell your mom anyway after the vacation...why not tell her now. I mean if you tell her now you can get the pill and be extra protected on vacation rather then only being extra protected afetr it. Im sure they will still let you go because they know you are responsible. You are getting to an age a lot fo people lose their virginity, so i think you should tell her. Sneeking behinde her back wouldnt be a good thing and you would worry about it durning the vacation..Hope i helped!
I have naturally straight hair, but I like to wear it curly. I just bought my first curling iron, and I think the heat is drying my hair out. Did I buy the wrong product? Or am I just using it incorrectly?
Lour
if you use things like curling irons and straighteners on your hair a lot, they can do that to your hair because they take the moisture out sometimes...some cheaper products can do that...so depends what kind of curler you got....you can my some kind of products to make your hair smoother try goin to a beaty supoly store and asking a worker their, or go to a salon and ask. or just earch online! Hope i helped!
Hey gals,
to any of you who arent very close to your moms, how did you tell her when you started your period and how did she react?
Just ne like hey mom guess wat.....i kinda just got my period, please dont make a big deal about it.....my mom was kinda happy i guess....she was wonderin when it would come..even though i wa sonly 12..whcih is pretty early i dont know why she was kinda worried...but its not hard ot tell. And tell he rot keep it private between you two, and to know tell your da or sibling...then she will feel special she has a secret with you. Hope i helped!
Sometimes I get urges to go up and hug a guy, is that normal?
well....maybe you are finding out that you might be gay....or bi....its not a bad thing to be gay..im a girl not a guy, but i usually dont get urges to go hug girls....so i assume straight guys wouldnt either....its ok to be gay, think if you have any other qualities that might classify you as being gay....do u like to shop and look really good? Hope i helped!
i keep making stupid mistakes in my relationships. i dont know how to stop! i always manage toscrew it up by being with some one else or sleeping with someone else. i cant help it. it just something inside me that make me want to do stuff. i am in a relationship now (4days) and ive already cheated on him. at the time it feels good. i dont know whether its the rik of been caught or what but now i just feel bad and dirty! how do i stop doing this?
You just have to remain loyal to your boyfriend....and try not o go to places and get yourself in situations where you can cheat on him. if you are oging to go out or to a part or whatever where this could happen..take you boyfriend, so you can do it with him i guess lol. maybe your just not ready to settle down and call anyone your boyfriend....you want to party and have fun, but if you cant od that when you have a boyfriend you need ot be loyal to. So dont settle down yet i guess i have ot say...Hope i helped! Good luck!
I am currently searching for work experience and have written letters out to all of the places where I may be able to find it. However, if more than one of them says yes, how do I say no to those that I don't choose? What should I write in my letter?
Thanks.
just tell them that you have found another place tats suits your scedual and preferences better....thats all i can say.Hope that helped!
im not talking about the movie "the notebook" im talking about the actually BOOK "the notebook"... where do i buy it? is it at any bookstore or do i have to order it? thanks.
First of all i want to say..Its one of my favorite books AND movies! Any way, its any were, at about all bookstores for prababily around $5, thats about how muhc mine cost. or you can order online at amazon.com. its at borders or barnes and nobles...if you have tjose stores where u live......ITS A GREAT BOOK! Hope i helped! Have fun reading it!
my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 8 months and were like best friends! We have been fighting a lot lately and he jokes around (lies) too much. He always tells me he was lying shortly after but it really annoys me.. on my advice thingy he left me a question.. do you think im gay? and i said no just weird and he left be the worst feedback so people wont ask me stuff.. he never tells me when hes mad at me and i dont know how he really feels... help!
well it seems to me like this relationship is moving no where but down....with no stops. sorry to say but he kinds sound slike a jerk and you deserve better, and he doesnt deserve you. Theres is not one good thing listed her about your bf. what kind of bf leaves you a really bad feedback message on a public website! You didnt even really say anything wrong. Something a relationship needs is trust...and if he lies, then trust is not there which means the relationship is incomplete...so its not ful on other words or not good. I htink you need ot tell him what you think about him...and in a way...i dont think his reaction will be all to calm either by the way you described him. I htik you need ot move on from this guy...hes not worth fussing over..Hope i helped! Good Luck!
What if someone said something offensive about you and you had a disablity, and ur friends and family didnt do much to defend you? I have the right to be mad right? I have the right to be mad at my family for not defending me right? what should i do?
yes oyu do have he right to be mad if someoen made fun of a disability of yours, i mean you are just the same as anyone else. its not your fault you have adisability, and for your family to not defend you when you feeling sad, is wrong. I would talk to them about this situation, ans ask why the didnt defend you when this person made you feel bad...because it obviously hurt you. hope i helped! Good luck!
Hey guys,
My older sister wanted to know if a snake can grow it's head back if it gets cut off. She thinks that she heard that somewhere, but she's not sure. It seems to me like she's thinking of a worm or something lol. Her boyfriend was telling her that snakes can't grow their head back, but she was saying that they can. I wanted to find out for her. Someone answer please!!!! Don't make fun of the question either, because I'm not even sure if it's true. I sort of think it's true, yet I don't think it's true. If your nice, and you give a good answer I'll rate you!!!! Thank you so much! :-)
i dont think they can regrow their heads....im not exactly sure thoughm but i know they CAN NOT grow their tails back if cut off.. so i assume if a tail cant grow back...a head cant...hope i helped! Thus question is funny im gonan rate it a 3 lol!
My best friends obviously have other friends, but I get so jealous when they have a conversation and I'm not part of it! I get even more jealous when they hang out without me! I really don't want to feel this way but I can't help it! What should I do?
I kow i feel like this ALL THE TIME and its HORRIBLE!!! I Know! But you just have to deal with it. If you know your best friend is gonna go out wiht her other friend without you, try calling around and going out with some other friends of your own! You will feel better getting out, and you will forget tou bff didnt invite you to her little get togethering. Thats how i deal...most of the times. Or you can be the planner, and invite you bff and her friends...and get to know all of them, and then you gys will be better friends, and then maybe you will be invited more, and you guys can all hang out Now thaty i think about it....i did that, got 2 seperate groups of friends together to make 1.....Its a good thing to do. Hope i helped! Good Luck!