I am a little concerned about my parents. It seems that most of the romance in their relationship is gone, and I have a feeling that this might lead to something unpleasant in the future.
Some things just plain bother me: I have never in my life seen them kiss. I only saw them hug 5-6 times in my 16 year old life. Mind you, my parents aren't very romantic people, and I don't think they never do cute couple things because they are too conservative to show off their affection in public. Some of my friends at first thought that my parents are divorced. I mean if we go somewhere, my dad always walks next to my brother, and my mom next to me. Unlike most couples who walk together, holding hands, and their kids walk in front of them. At the movies they never sit next to each other. Nor at the dinner table, even at a friend's house.
They don't hate each other. They rarely ever fight. My dad works all day, from home, but he never has time to talk to us. My mom is very irratable, and a lot of things my dad does annoys her. Like him chewing loudly, yelling into the phone, stomping, not showering immeditately after he runs, etc.
The only romantic thing they do frequently (about once a week, sometimes more) is drink wine together in the living room, talking. Oh ya, they do have sex once in a while. =X
Should I be worried? Or is this normal? Do you think they will get divorce sometime in the future? What should I do to make their romance alive, or should I do anything?
No it is completely normal.
My parents barely talk, but they are still together, I know they don't have any affection for eachother.
Just don't worry about it.
Everything will be okay.
:D
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i am 14/f 5'9" 136 lbs. how many calories should i eat a day to get to 130?
1,500
is a good amount of calories to eat, when you are losing weight.
Also try eating foods with carbs that are less than 20.
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17/f
I was on a website and I posted a picture of me and asked for opinions on what people thought of it. I'm the type of person who can handle any and all opinions no matter how nasty they are.
A girl posted a reply to my question saying I looked fake and I was trying to be "hardxcore." I sent her the following message to let her know a little about me and explain to her that I'm not fake.
Here's the message:
"I'm not trying to sound rude or anything, but I don't think you should be calling someone fake unless you know for sure they are. Like I said in response to your post, I've dyed my hair like that WAY before any other girl did, I actually started around the 6th grade and I'm now a senior in highschool. I didn't START the trend, I know, but I did start it in MY school. I live in a small country town where no one even knows the latest trends until they go out of style. Other girls started to copy me, that's why I dyed my hair one solid color so I WOULDN'T be called fake. I'm also not a "poser" like other girls are, thinking they're "hxc" and all, I don't think I am at all. I know that I'm more outgoing and daring than other girls, but I don't give myself that label. Like I said before, I wasn't trying to be rude I was just letting you know a little about myself to let you know I'm not "fake" like those other girls. I'm actually probably the most "real" person you'll ever meet, to be honest with you."
She then went on to post a really nasty comment on the message boards saying I was a b*tch and that I couldn't handle anyone's opinion and that I should get off the site. She was the ONLY person I sent a message to even though there were comments that were 20 times worse than hers.
Did I sound like I was trying to be rude and do you think she should have reacted that way? I just wanted to explain myself to her.
I don't think you were being rude.
Maybe you should've just not said anything.
But it's a good thing you did.
There will always be people that want to judge you.
Just ignore them.
:D
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hello. well i was just wandering, if i were a shareholder, and more people started buying shares for the company ive invested in, would it be good for me? or bad? because there are more people investing, so would it not be bad because you want to have the most shares in a company? but im not sure-so confused! thanks a lot. :)
It would be a really good thing.
Because then you get more money. lol
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okay so i've had love handles for years. and a somewhat flabby stomach. i really want to lose my love handles, my waste is so wide, and i look horrible in some bikinis because of my stomach and love handles. ive got 2 months of free time. i want the best way to get rid of love handles. im already eating healthy and i go bike riding every other day for an hour, and the days that i dont im going on my trampolene or swimming. but i just cant lose the love handles, and i really want a flat stomach.
Try doing about 150 sit ups a day, before you sleep.
While doing the sit ups put both your legs on a couch or a chair.
It intenses the sit up.
Hope I helped.
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Ive been encountering the abbreviation MWA does anyone know what it stands for?
It probably means me[like me in french, moi], or they are trying to type out the sound of a kiss. I doubt it's an abbreviation.
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Okay, a year ago, me and my boyfriend, blake, broke up. I found out he cheated on me and I was cheating on him, but he kinda physically hurt me. He moved, but eveyrbody sasy he's coming back, and he swore he'd come back this coming skool year. I'm freaked cuz last night, I had a dream about him (won't go into details). I think I still like him ,but I don't know if I do cuz every time I hear his name my skin crawls. Could somebody help me? I wanna know what to do!
I have this same problem. Sorta.
Well you probably just miss someone being there for you.
And your brain is making you think that you need someone that cares about you.
You might have some feelings for him.
But I suggest not to get back with him.
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does anyone know anyone know of any really good hair straighteners that aren't super expensive? also know any good techniques for straightening hair without a straightener?
anddd
any advice on curling hair? i a;ways try with a curling iron but i never do it right, i always just make this weird bump in my hair..
k so any advice would be great!
thanks :]
If you like to curl your hair, buy curling mousse, it works really good, and you don't have to use that much.
I have a conair straightener[It was $20] and it works fabulous, it only takes about ten minutes to straighten my hair, and you can look at my picture, that's how straight my hair gets, and my hair is naturally REALLY curly.
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On my inner thighs I have these lines. They're a few shades lighter than my skin color. My mom and I are pretty sure they're stretch marks. The only reason I noticed them was because I've been getting darker and they don't tan like the rest of my legs.
Anyway, I always thought stretch marks are red/pink when you first get them and they fade to a darker shade? I'm not sure if mine are new or not because they used to be about the same color as my skin, I'm guessing, because I never noticed them. I see them now that I'm tanner. I'm sure they've never been red or pink because I would have noticed red or pink marks on me.
Also, you cannot see them when I am standing up straight, only when I'm siting, or my knees are bent, stretching out me skin. So I'm not entirely sure what they are or how to get rid of them.
If it helps any, I'm 5'4 and 112lbs. But I when through a phase when my weight fluctuated quite a bit.
Those are stretch marks you get when you suddenly gain or lose weight fast.
Buy coco butter lotion, and rub it on those spots once a day, and it will go away in about two weeks.
Hope I helped.
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when your picking a plan for your sidekick 3 where itr says that you have like 500 whenever minutes are those whenever minutes also counted for when your online or i-ming your friends? if this doesnt make sense then tell mwe and ill clarify
No.
Those are different fees.
Like everytime you IM someone you will be charged 5 cents.
And being online doesn't charge you, only if you IM people.
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Hope I helped.
It's like text messaging isn't part of your minutes.
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I am being made to go to a stupid after edding party of someone in my family i havent seen for years or even remember. i only own casual clothes like jeans and stuff. i dont wear skirts . what sorta thing shall i get or is there something i can throw together. Please help me !
Well you can make jeans look fancy.
You could try wearing high heels on your jeans and a fancy shirt.
Try also wearing some jewelry that makes it all look really good.
Accecories help a lot.
Hope I helped.
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Hey. Does anyone know how to get the little tiny TM things for your myspace name?
I really want one and i don't know how to get it.
Help?!
Yeah.
Right next to your display name.
After it, you type
™
and it makes that little TM sign.
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hi, i have just turned 14 and my period hasnt arrived yet i used to masturbate with pens and dirty objects will this affect it and my friends all have started theirs and talk about when it is and how they have to wear this many pads and stuff i don't want anyone to know my period hasnt started im really scared and upset please help me thank you so much. Will i ever start it?
xxx
Yes your period will start.
There are a ton of late bloomers.
Ask your mom when she started her period, usually girls start their period the same time their mothers did.
And you should feel lucky that you are the only one that doesn't have it.
You should brag about it.
:D
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Are these shoes from Wet Seal meant to look like Chanel?
http://www.wetseal.com/productdetail.asp?mi=1700&style=38177231&size=&color=100&token=
Yes, they are Chanel they are two circles, which is just a simple design.
The Chanel sign is this.
http://www.instakey.com/Images/chanelLogo.gif
Hope I helped.
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im going hiking soon and i need to find a pair of hiking boots that aren't too heavy, will support my ankles well, and arent too expensive. can anyone help?
Well are you a girl or a boy?
Here are some really good brands for hiking boots
Asolo
Boreal
Columbia
Danner
Garmont
Hope I helped.
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Okay when you have sex in water doesnt the water go up you? And cant the chemicals harm you that are in the pool if you have sex in it ? I mean is it really safe to and does any harm come from it?
THANKS.
The water goes up you even if you aren't having sex.
I don't think it matters.
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i know about white strips, but i want to know about how much it is to get your teeth professionally whitened at a dentist? is it painful? or what kind of experience is it?
Well it kinda depends on which place you're going to.
But It's about $399.
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There are also teeth whitening gels that work really good.
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Ok I weigh 135 lbs and I want to lose atleast 10.
I'm 5'3.
Its mostly my stomache that bothers me,
what are really effective exercises that will help that, that I can do at home.
I'm also trying to eat right,
but no matter what I eat in a day, even if its healthy and not huge portions I always gain atleast 2 pounds, and yesterday I only had 1,000 calories.
I'm so confused, help?
I know exactly how you feel!
Try laying on the floor while putting both legs on a couch or chair then do sit ups, it makes sit ups more intense and works out your stomach a lot more.
Try doing a sport also, be really active.
Just keep eating healthy, and the exercise will work it all out.
Hope I helped.
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My face, especially my nose and my forehead, is kinda shiny but I'm not sure why or how. Its not oily at all, its completely clean. My nose also has these really tiny dark dots all over it and I have no idea what they're from. Can somebody help me? How do I make my face less shiny and healthier looking?
lol
well you can buy these strips that you put on your nose and leave it there for 15 minutes then take it off, those are for your black heads.
for your shiny face.
I would take that as a good thing.
:D
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ughh so i have a Samsung t619 from Tmobile. i havent had any probs with it but tonight i got a text msg and now everytime i try to open my inbox it freezes and shuts itself off! the msg is jus a normal msg from someone i kno its not like a forwarded thing or anything.. soo whats going on and how can i get to my inbox to make it stop freezing? if it makes a difference i got Bluetooth today and connected it tonight but even after i disconnect it my inbox is still freezing my phone. ughh irritating!
btw - im technology challenged lol soo use simple terms in your answer =]
Try calling T-mobile
dial 611 from your cell phone and they will walk you through it.
Hope I helped.
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