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i just finished watching the movie "just like heaven" and im so lost! why could only the little girl and the man see her and no one else?

im not really sure why they could see her.. maybe it was becasue they beleived, or that it was ment to be. Or like they guy, it he was supposed to be her blind date..so it could have been fate...or sumthing....the girl could have just hasd a strong love and faith that she would survive...but everyone i know knows very little and only thinks of that as the reason'

hope i helped
lauren

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This is kind of a weird question, but the only time I ever sang seriously infront of someone is when i auditioned in a musical for my school, and I guess I was really nervous and I sang horribly! I had practiced the song and I thought I sounded decent, but when I got up there it sounded bad! I want to know if you are truly a good singer, then you never sound bad or if good singers sounded bad at first. Because that was the first time I ever sung infront of someone and I hadnt taken singing lessons. Also, how do I know if I sing good? I recorded myself once, but I couldn't really tell cause I am singing quietly so no one can hear.

well i AM a good singer and have been singing my whooe life. when i look back on it i think i sounded bad, but apparently i didnt for my age. A lot of people dont sound as good in the beginign, take singing lessonnsssss..it really helps you project, and even people who cant really sing ammazingly end up sounding good...

bu no need to worry...just take lessons if you really are consenred

hope i helped

lauren

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Okay, two things. First of all, I'm a very religous person -- or I try to be. But I have an issue with one of the commandments. Is it wrong for me to "want to have sex with" another woman's husband? He's middle-aged and I'm only 13/f! Which kind of scares me... but he's famous and everything and is like... 41 so yeah. Anyways, my other problem is this...
I'm Catholic and I've always strongly believed in God and Jesus and Mary and Guardian Angels and Heaven etc. ever since I was a little girl. Like first--second grade. And I'm proud. I used to always pray and buy products and prayer products etc. because of it. But lately I've lost faith. I've been thinking, "what if the bible is some book someone wrote and someone missunderstood it?" which i KNOW is not true! or something like that
please helppp

ok your first question it depends on how you lok on it. You kind of are, and your kinda of not. You are becasue you want to, but you not becasue its not totally happening and its kinda hormonal at this age.

two: eveyone goes through this...trust me, my brother AND my mother both have. For most its a fase and you just have to think hard about it. Its a stage that im sure ill go throughe ven tho deep down i feel like denying it. You dnt have to ignore it, but you dnt have to be scared of it. there is not much you can do but still practice your faith and see if somehting comes to you[[usually a sign, seriously]]

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"je suis votre mere. votre pere. votre frere. votre soeur. votre predicateur. votre professeur. votre amour. votre ami. Garcon, je serai tout et quelque chose que vous avez souhaite."

what does that mean?

i got...

i am your mother. your father. your brother. your sister.

votre professeur is your teacher
votre ami is friend
garcin means boy
vous is you[formal]
quelque chose i think is sometimes


for the rest google frenhc translations.
it mihgt not ne totally accurate, but if you see
it makes sense then it is

hope that helped

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16-f

ok basically im soo sick of my body. im 5'7 and about 125 pounds. i know thats kinda small, and i pig out trust me i cant really gain weight, but im so like, disproportioned. i basically never drink cokes, so cutting those out of my diet isnt a problem haha. im small 'up top' and my waist is pretty thin, but my hips and my legs are soo flabby. like not even kidding. one of my friends is an inch or two taller than me, and were like basically the same size [im just a tad bigger] and i wear a 7 or 9 in pants while she wears a 0 or a 3. and its just because my thighs and hips. my measurements are roughly 31-33-35.. and its annoying. i have no muscle in my legs.. its all fat, and im dying to get rid of it, but i dont want to do alot of cardio so i wont lose much weight. i know lunges and squats, but what else can i do? no gym access by the way. oh and how do you get rid of love handles, because mine like hang over the top of my jeans, and i definitely want that to go, but side crunches didnt seem to help much. thanks

RUN!!! really running helps SOOOO much...you burn off the fat by sweating plus all that extra flab thats not fat is unused muscle which will then look good because it is being used. run about 1-2 miles a day for about a month then by month 2 go up to 3-4 miles a day...on a track or straight through. Try not to run too much on concrete, its very bad for your ankles knees and other joints.


your excerisies are good....heres one more. You know when you see those ladies on the ground on their sides, then they slowly lift one leg up about 6-12 inches, then down...then rpeat....on both sides, well try those.....they really help.


so run and excersise...thats wut you do

hope i helped
Lauren

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Hi Im on a girls lacrosse team and our season just ended. I was thinking maybe we could have a team party... But I dont want to just have a pizza party because thats what ALL of the team parties do. There would be about 20 girls age 11-16. So its a pretty wide age range. We do have access to a pool if that helps. Thanks in advance!!!

some themes would be cool:


Beach[[actually going to a beach]]
Casino
Cooking
Pool Party
fiesta...


some ideas:


a barbeque where everyone brings a certain food and you can swim and just have fun


dance partys are ALWAYS fun...tell the girls to bring some guys, and you will have a blast

hope i helped

Lauren

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Well I have big boobs for my age and theres like light colored stretch marks on like the top of them. Do those ever go away? Oh and is it normal for your boobs to have like tiny hairs on them?

everyone has hair on there boobs....and i didnt know about the stretch marks thing but cocoa butter dus help with things like that. If you uncomfortable with the hairs shave them, or talk to your mom about shaving them, but you should just let it be..unles it really bothers you

Hope i helped
Lauren

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Um..i am poor. my mom has not a lot of money and my dad died.=[ i only get a dollar for ONe year. and also i dont have no cloths. i make these ugly cloths for myself. and in school i sit at lunch alone with nobody. everyone ignores me and i dont have cute clothing to fit in with the COOL people. what shalkl i do??

ok not that i dnt believe this, but this website requires a computer.....and im not so sure y u titled it sex??? doesnt make much sense.

try getting a job like babysitting or out up signs sayng you can clean houses and this like that, it will get you more money and better close i guess.here are stores that are cheap but cute

nordstroms[kinda cheap]
bloomys
pac sun
target

if youw ant friends, after you get ur cute clothes
go up to someone in you class and start talking, keep trying this until you find a frend and aventually get more frends.

also talk to you guidance counseler...but i hvae a question[[and not like im denying this but]] how can you aford a computer?? just wondering?

hope that helped
lauren

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I'm doing a project on the Civil Rights Movement for my U.S. history class. We have to create a magazine filled with articles, pictures, etc. It also has to have a title relating to the topic. Any good ideas for a title? And also, does anyone know any good websites for political cartoons relating to this topic? Thanks!

some titles:


Fight for rights
Good Rights, Good Country
A Step for the Better
A step in the right direction
Fighting: the Civil way

some websites:


http://proquest.umi.com/pqdweb?RQT=302&cfc=1

also go to google and search websites with political cartoons
i did a project like this with political cartoons but i forgot the website

hope i helped

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Okay....

I've had my period for a while now... and for about 6 moths before I got it I've had this wierd clearish goo coming out of it. Sometimes it's grrenish and sometimes it's yellowish.. TMI i know. And once I got my period... it still didn't stop and I get it every day between my periods. I'm worried that it might be something wrong.... does anybody have the same problem or have ANY information about it??!!


THX in advance... please help!!

well thats just discharge and everyone has it...especially when you get your period....it its greenish or yellowish tell ur mom and then go to the doctor, something may be wrong...but if its clear then its fine[[yellow and green are not]]

hope i helepd

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I'm 5'3, 160 lbs.
I know i need to lose weight, and WANT to for that matter :) i have the diet part down, but i'm at a plateau.i can't seem to lose any more weight. i want to add outdoor activity such as jogging to my lifestyle, but i always feel l ike when i run down the street everyones watching me. i don't know how to get past this! im after to go after school when i get home because if a school bus is by me that means kids on the bus might see me! .. idk its really not a big deal, but its kinda an anxiety for me, and its what is holding me back to go jogging.. does anyone have any ideas? i would go jogging w/ my friends. but they dont live near me. and i have a brother but hes way more in shape than i am and i wouldnt be able to keep up with him.

jog....who cares what they think, thik of it as your being active there being asses! also try joinging the track team, and stay committed, try running on a nearby track baout 1-2 or if you feel like you can 3 miles a day. do a few sprints, some long and middle distance[[100 meter sprints, 400 and 800 meter middle distance, and 1600 or mile long distince]] run up and down [[outside]] stairs, when going up skip a step a few times. and do abb work. Keep this whole rutine up for a while.

and dont feel stupid around people feel good that ur doing what your doing!

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My school is totally infested with lice. I've gotten checked and I've been found clean, but I obviously want to stay that way. Can you help me find some products or anything that can prevent me from getting lice? I want to repell lice, I don't want to kill them. Thanks in advance!

i have had lice twince in my life.....wash you hair normally, but not all the time. keep you hair in a bun at al times so you its harder for lice to get it, stay away from people with lice, and try not to hug to many people. as for rpelents, there arent many, but use tee tree oil, it helps it, put it on your scalp, not you whole head,mostly the scalp, as for lice repelents or preventers theres not much you can do, its just small things to do[not buy] and staying away from things.


if you do have it, youll know. You start to itch out of control and your head itches the MOST in the shower, and if you feel kind of in pain, you have it. in LA there is a place called hiar faires, other than that, go online and get it out, google lice and it will help!


hope in helped

Lauren

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well,yesterday at school i was sitting in the shed with all my friends just talking and messing about.and then in a flash this basketball was kicked into the side of my head where my temple is and then i banged the back of my head into the wall.i stood up and i fell back down again because i went all dissy and my eyes went blury.i felt like vomiting and going to sleep all yesterday.today im home from school because i have a really bad headache and i still feel like im going to get sick.my appetite is gone.and i just feel exhausted ater having 10 hours sleep.im just worried of it because it was the temple of my head.should i get it cheaked out by a doctor?

consulting your doctor would be the BEST thing to do becasue, as the person below me said, you may have a concusion, or more serious or less serious, but whaever it is, it is affecting the way you live, and you normal routines[eating, sleeping way more then usual, etc.]

it would be best, becasue the chances of it being nothng are slim.

hope i helped

Lauren

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Thanks so much for your advice I am really going to try your workout plan! Could you tell me what accordian exercises are? Thanks so much!!!
I really do appreciate it!

well...first you lay on you back......legs out.....arms to you side. then you bring you knees to your chest, but not all the way. then you lift you back like you do in a crunch.


THEN!!! you go back to the firstposition, but lifting you legs off the ground[[about 5 inches]]


then repeat

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whats it feel like before your going to faint? like how do you know

you feel dizzy and feel a little nasious..then before you know it, everything goes black, and then, youll wake up with [[most of the time]] people around you and you just feel all weird.

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I saw this movie a really long time ago and I can't remember the name of it but I really want to see it again. Maybe someone will know the name. Heres what i remember of it.

It starts out my showing this girl being murdered by this other girl
than it goes to 2 years earlier
the girl that was murdered, Ill call her Lisa ,somehow became friends with this popular girl who had a boyfriend. Her boyfriend became attracted to lisa and raped in her this barn.
The popular girl saw and thought they were having sex so she hated lisa and did horrible things to her. Like try to kill her. They all went against lisa. And there was one scene were they were at the movies and they shoved her and beat her up pretty badly.


The day she was murdered,she was about to go live with her father because of everything that happened. the popular girl and her friends prank phone call her mom and say she needs to come into work , so she does. They break in and murder lisa.


Im sorry if this is confusing and doesnt make sense, but thanks in advance if you can help me! Or if there are any like search websites for movies.

forgive me if this is wrong, but for some odd reason i want to say jawbreaker, now ive neer seen the whole thing! BUT....im real sorry if im wrong

Lauren

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okay well i have really fat thighs and its getting to be summer so i need to work off the fat. any fast acting exercises i can do? i don't have any workout things like a cardio ball or dumbbells. what exercises that don't use anything.

running about a mile a day really helps.

do squats, and wall sits[[like squats]]

do this until the summer and youll be one you way to good looking legs[[plus, it you still think you legs are fat, well DONT! its moslty muscal thats not being used, by running!!!!! alot, and doing squats, you will use the muscal]]


o, and dont just quite when its summer, continue this for about a few weeks at a time, it also feels great when you done (even if it hurts:])

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I have a problem. I'm like a size 5/6 I have no problems with my legs or my arms but my stomach is a little chubby, my major problem is these enormous LOVE HANDLES that have accumalted! I eat health 98% of the time! I also work out at least three days a week. I also have hypotheyroid disease so I have to work out and eat right in order to maintain wait. I am not totally unhappy with my weight I just want to get rid of these love handles before bathing suit season! Any intelligent ideas!!
Thanks

do abba excersices, it will not only get rid of the chub, but will make it hard :]

do crunches[about 50 or for 30sec-1min]
bycicles[about 45-50 or 30sec-1min]
leg lifts[6 inches] [about 20 sec-down-20sec-down]
sit ups[45-50]
toe touches[while lying down] [45-50 or 30sec-1min]
accordians[[45-50 or 30sec-1min]


do all of these 1 or 2 a day, and jog about a mile a day[try not to do it on concrete, its bad for the joints]


do this about 3-4 times a week, 5 if possible. continue this for about 2-4 months.

you will get sore with the running at first, and some of the abb excersises, but dont quiye. it will stop after a few weeks. do all that i said[and any other abb exercises you choose]] for the amount, time, [and PUSH YOURSELF], youll be on you way to a sexy stomach....


hope i helped

Lauren

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i just recently bought a really cute bathing suit that fits and all but i have a small chest so i dont fill the top out well. what can i do without stuffing or using implants?

you could always go get a smaller top.

OR...you could take the padding out of the top part, and it wll fit...it might form your chest a litle more, but its better than loking like you trying to hard

trust me i know : [


hope i helped

Lauren

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i was wondering how can i get my calves and thighs smaller and is there a way you can get your boobs smaller without plastic surgery? please help i cant stand them

unless you have and KNOW you have fat on your legs, its muscal. so you really cant always get you thighs smaller. as for your boobs, well just work out, becasue its mostly fat.

hope i helped

LAuren

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