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I understand all the pain you go through. I see the tears I see the pain I see it all, don't hide behind a fake smile because it'll get stuck.
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does it feel weird to give a blow job? (link)
IF its your first time I'm guessing. Well you tell me that a dick being your mouth wouldn't feel awkward?


do they make pads for thongs? (link)
Yes they do. Why the hell would you wear a thong when ya on your period anyway.


whats the diffrence between cum and sperm? (link)
Cum is white goo that comes from genitals and it usually comes when someone ejaculates or fingers themselves. Sperm is what passes through to make a baby in a woman's vagina.


I kinda love this kid and i think were ready for intercourse.
But i am only 12.
What do you think i should do? (link)
I'm not one to judge but hunny your 12 your too young for sex.


what is the best way to ask a girl out. and where. (link)
Just go for it. I'm sure she will say yes. I wish you the best of luck!!!


Does rue 21 sell belly button rings? I am going to be getting my naval pierced and there aren't a lot of stores where I live so I don't know where to go to get one. When you get your bellybutton pierced, do you need to get more than one ring? (link)
Yes. In store they do but not online.


How does a girl masturbate? (link)
A girl can masturbate by fingering herself by how ever many fingers she chooses to use. A girl could use other objects to put in her vagina but they might not be for you. Be careful.


I was walking to my room when suddenly the side of my foot felt like it had a splinter. I looked but didn't see anything.

I've had splinters (or some other sharp object) in my foot before that I couldn't get out. So, when you can't get them out... where do they go? Does your body swallow them or are they pushed out?

Also, any tips for getting small things you can't see out of your foot?

I don't even see an entry point? It didn't bleed.

Thank you. (link)
Well if it's a splinter I've heard that you can use Elmer Glue to get it out. Keep it on there for about 2 hours and it should come out. it's a remedy so try it and tell me how it works.


so ive just been in the hosptal for my secent time im 20 f and they never did any tests and i kicked a neuce in her stumic cuz she tryed to give me a needle and they restraned me and then they brang me down stares and asked me if you think if anything is wrong with you i said i think im bypoler but they never did any test and they trying to make me take pills (link)
If your bi-polar than chances are pills do work for that. If you were in the hospital and they had to restrain you from moving and tried to sedate you than probably their doing what's best for you. Pills aren't the best thing for people sometime therapy is.


All I think about non stop is the past and regrets over the past. All I keep thinking about is "I wish I had did this or I had done that" or "I wish I had talked to that person or that person" or "I wish I had participated in this or that activity". That is all I think about. Hell, next year from now, I will probably be thinking the same way about right now! how can I stop regretting over the past or longing for the past and focus on now? I just can't do it. I am 21 year old by the way (link)
Don't regret things that happened in the past because you'll miss so much happening in the future. Never regret. Whatever is did is done and live and move on!


I'm on the pill, but I'm currently in a long distance relationship.

And I know some health problems can be caused by being on the pill consistently for a long time.

Is it okay to take a couple of months off from the pill when I won't be seeing my boyfriend? Or will that just screw up my body's levels..?

Thank you. (link)
Well I'm also on the pill and when I miss a day one single day I feel terrible and I'm really grouchy and mean and rude so I don't know how your body works so no one could tell you but my best guess would be yes. Just cause your not sexually active with your bf doesn't mean your not going to need the pill. It controls your body's functions and hormone levels so I would keep taking them!


i wonder if im ever going to get merryed (link)
Of course you are Hun. You have to wait for the right guy or person to come around. Guys will come and go but that one guy that makes you feel like one million bucks than he will do all in his power to make you happy! Wait for the right time to come.


Um, So I asked a question a few days back in the summer vacations, when my boyfriend and I broke up. When school started, he tried talking to me but I told him I couldn't. Then two days later, after I heard from some people that he's been saying shit about me, I went and slapped him in front of EVERYONE. we had a massive fight where he threatened to do a bunch of stuff. But another two days after the fight,he would come up to me and make jokes and say "slap me one more time" and laugh and all that. Sometimes, he flirts with girls a lot too. And then, we don't have a lot of eye contact because I don't want to look at him but I can feel him looking. Is it possible that he still likes me because sometime after the break up, in a span of four days, he told three girls he likes them. And I don't understand why he DOES look at me so much. Does he still have feelings for me? (link)
Well my guess would be no. He might be using you or messing with your feelings to attract other girls. If he flirts with other girls than chances are he doesn't have any feelings for you anymore. You will find someone that will love you and cherish you.


I have a neighbor the same age as me, 13, and he used to be my best friend when we were three. I am a girl and when I was little I never minded the gender difference. We always used to be together since we are neighbors. Flash forward about two years. We were in kindergarden together, but then he switched schools. Over the years we talked less and less and around seven or eight stopped completely. Flash forward again to sixth grade. I met my best friend. Seventh grade she met my old best friend, and became best friends with him and started crushing on him. I tried to become friends with him again, but it never worked. I didn't have any classes with him so I never talked to him. I hope to have some with him next year, but I'm curious because according to my friend he said he wants to be friends with me again too. I'm just scared and puzzled because the weird thing is I feel I have to protect him because he was like my brother. Should I let it go or try to befriend him again? And if it helps with a solution, I'm pretty good friends with a lot of his friends. Thanks! (link)
Well you say you and him were great friends as children but as people get older friends start to get distant from each other and there's not much you can do people go their separate ways.


It seems every time i sing i always start to tear up for some reason i dont know why but i do. Like i would be singing and my nos would twitch and i would start to tear up and i am not sad or depressed about anything....any help to what that is...thanks! (link)
Well that may be a growing thing or puberty but nothing serious to worry about because that's normal for teens. It is simply an emotional fluid that you feel.


I have this account on Instagram and if you would do me a favor and follow me at: insta_hipsterxd
Thanks!!! :D (link)
I followed you! I'm __nerdy__tenni__ :)


Okay, so I want to make a garden filled with different and bright colors. The thing is, I've tried this before and lots of animals around my neighborhood destroyed the plants no matter what we did. Now we have some pots with plants in them. We have tomatoes, and morning glories. Our marigolds died sadly along with the petunias and I want to replace them. Being it is Summer, and I live in Southern California, could you recommend plants that can tolerate heat, maybe drought, and lots of sun? Thanks! (link)
Well I've reviewed your question and I think that if you want bright colorful flowers and plants that you could grow some Nasturtiums, or Shasta daisies, sweet alyssum or some sweet Zinnias. Hope that helps!


Its been a couple of years since I left my bf. We had many fights, I got to a bad state where I started cutting. He said he could do better and I was lucky to have him. Stopped talking to all my friends, and I fought with my family on daily bases, told me he was ruining me. After I left, and the crying stopped, I thought I was well, I was smiling, having fun. Now Im in a constant state where I feel like I need some one around and no one is there. I don’t want to be in the situation I was in before, But I feel like Im going to end up falling for anyone that gives me attention. I don’t know what to do and Im fearful. (link)
I understand you. I to feel that way. I was once so dependent on one to help me feel happiness and feel like you will fall for anyone who gives you attention well my advice is to keep you heart open yet closed where you don't get hurt again. You will find someone but make sure he is right for you.


I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 months now. He comes off too strong, he blatantly cares too much & it's a really bad turn off on the way he acts. He's just too nice, for example... The other week, we were watching a film and he burped really loud, but because it was silent, it made me quite jump and I looked at him and said, " I wish you wouldn't do that!" He was nearly crying saying, I'm really sorry, I'm so sorry. I just looked at him weirdly and said it's fine. But by this, it's pushing me away. I feel as though he's treating me like I'm some sort of Queen that NEEDS to be worshipped, I feel like I've lost respect for him because he's too nice. Some of you will be like, why are you complaining? But it's not that, even when I'm in the wrong, he's apologising too much. I know, even if I did something that really hurt him, like cheated, etc. He would still take me back, repeatedly. Even though I wouldn't. It's really boring me with him, but I do care, even though I feel like my feelings are kind of fading. After the first 2 weeks, he was telling me he loved me & he got upset at the fact I didn't say I loved him, but I don't. We are both 17 and I don't feel like it's the time for all the love to come in. He showers me with many compliments and gifts and I feel it's too much. I've told him this, but it's kind of not got through to him. I know he cares and I adore that, but what can I do? Has anyone got a experience to share with me? Also, another thing. He always asks me if I'm cheating, if I'm going out meeting other guys, but over ans over again. I went really mad, because he always asks me and then he got really upset and started crying saying he was sorry he will never ask me again. I feel as though I'm being suffocated, but if I end it, I look ridiculous... Thank you so much for reading, I appreciate it. (link)
Like others say, talk to him about your feelings because he may get to the point if he hasn't already he won' ever leave you alone. You say he's acting to nice maybe he is trying to earn your respect as your boyfriend. There's nothing wrong with being a little clingy but yeah talk to him about it!


im 15 and well my penis is not that big it hasnt grown much at all its really worrying around what age does your body keep growing too will it get bigger? is there something wrong? (link)
Nothing is wrong. If your penis done growing than your simply done growing. you could take vitamins for your penis to get larger to the size you think is right for you. You body has a certain time where your penis and your whole body is stopped growing and that's something you can't worry about because its perfectly normal. :)




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