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He's too nice to me. He treats me like a princess.
I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 months now. He comes off too strong, he blatantly cares too much & it's a really bad turn off on the way he acts. He's just too nice, for example... The other week, we were watching a film and he burped really loud, but because it was silent, it made me quite jump and I looked at him and said, " I wish you wouldn't do that!" He was nearly crying saying, I'm really sorry, I'm so sorry. I just looked at him weirdly and said it's fine. But by this, it's pushing me away. I feel as though he's treating me like I'm some sort of Queen that NEEDS to be worshipped, I feel like I've lost respect for him because he's too nice. Some of you will be like, why are you complaining? But it's not that, even when I'm in the wrong, he's apologising too much. I know, even if I did something that really hurt him, like cheated, etc. He would still take me back, repeatedly. Even though I wouldn't. It's really boring me with him, but I do care, even though I feel like my feelings are kind of fading. After the first 2 weeks, he was telling me he loved me & he got upset at the fact I didn't say I loved him, but I don't. We are both 17 and I don't feel like it's the time for all the love to come in. He showers me with many compliments and gifts and I feel it's too much. I've told him this, but it's kind of not got through to him. I know he cares and I adore that, but what can I do? Has anyone got a experience to share with me? Also, another thing. He always asks me if I'm cheating, if I'm going out meeting other guys, but over ans over again. I went really mad, because he always asks me and then he got really upset and started crying saying he was sorry he will never ask me again. I feel as though I'm being suffocated, but if I end it, I look ridiculous... Thank you so much for reading, I appreciate it.
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he is probably the victim of a broken home try to be subtle but ask him about it.
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He sounds really clingy. Especially saying I love you when you were only dating for two weeks.
You need to sit him down and have a serious talk with him. Don't point fingers at him because he'll probably get all emotional again. You want to be blunt but kind at the same time. Don't get angry, even if he starts apologizing. Tell him he needs to tone it down. Tell him that you're starting to feel suffocated and it's going to affect your relationship.
If he continues, try taking a break from him. You don't want someone who takes all the time in your life and drives you crazy.
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Like others say, talk to him about your feelings because he may get to the point if he hasn't already he won' ever leave you alone. You say he's acting to nice maybe he is trying to earn your respect as your boyfriend. There's nothing wrong with being a little clingy but yeah talk to him about it!
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Talk to him, He maybe a bit too attached.
Let him know you care about him but you feel he is being overly sensitive. Assure him that it is okay to relax, He may be afraid to open up too you.
Sounds like he just needs a bit of communication..
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