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ok um 15 yr old girl been giving advice for about 2 years but just found this site last year. hint I'm not good with does he like me probs.

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This sounds like a really childish question to ask but..thongs.

My mom thinks they give the wrong message across when a 14 year old wears them.
But I still want to wear them because I hate it when you can see the panty lines. They're just so ugly!
They make me feel weird knowing that you can see them! I hate it. There's probably nothing wrong with it, but I still don't like it.

I don't know what to do though. I wear boy shorts alot, they don't show as many lines but I don't really like them. I wanna feel comfortable.

My friend told me to just confront my mom and tell her that I don't like the lines I get with regular panties but I can't do that, LOL. I don't know why.

Any suggestions?

there's a lot of girls like you and you don't want to wear them for sex appeal. Your friend is right you do neeed to talk to your mom about it but have a friend with you for moral support ask your mom if you can at least try it to see if you like it if that doesn't work there's one other option the last resort if you are completely DESPERATE is to borrow a friend's thongs or just go buy them yourself and when your mom sees it explain. Like I said last resort and if you parents are like super strict and big time grounders a really bad idea.

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My ex hates me now and I don't know why. He's the one who broke up with me, actually he had his friend call me to tell me he didn't want to go out with me anymore instead of doing it himself. if anything, i should be the one hating him.

Me and this guy I was going out with broke up last Tuesday. I don't know why we did, there was no fight or anything. I didn't do anything wrong to him or anything. Then on Friday I was at the football game hanging out with my friends, and he was there hanging out with his. And apparently, him and his friends were saying things about me, just making fun of how pale I am. Pffft.

How nice. I STUCK UP FOR HIM even after he dumped me and this is how he thanks me? I never said one bad thing about him, so why might he be saying this stuff about me?

guys are really mean and often times want to look cool and after having a friend brake up with you for him he probably thought he needed redemption points but that's the way some guys are. But you shouldn't pay any attention as to what he and his friends say if you really didn't ever do anything wrong that just makes him a jerk and someone who you should pretty much ignore until he comes up with a sencire appology at the least.

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heyy the prob is all my friends have bf's and i don't ! i am friends with some really CUTE guys but i don't have anyway to really flirt or get to know them better ! all my friends devote their LIVES to flirting with guys and i want to do good in school but also get some guys to like me ! what am i supposed to do??

ask your friends to teach you how to flirt and I mean like your best friend(s) someone who may laugh but will still totally take you seriously. By the way if they laugh it may be a laugh of shock don't take it personaly cause that laugh wasn't aimed to hurt. Just don't go over board and your grades will stay up.

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OK im 13/f i got my period for the 1st time on sunday and i do not have a mother or any brothers or sisters to talk to ..... just my dad.... i dont wanna tlk to him about this .. i have some supplies that i got from the talk but they are runnimg out very quickly... how can i bring this subject up with my dad without making him freak out...... thanks a million ill rate u a 5 no matter what!!!!

well you dad has to relize girls who grow up have to have a period weather they want it or not. After dinner tell your dad you need to talk to him about somthing serious and that you would prefer it if he would try not to freak out. Then talk to him about it he'll understand and trust me he knew this was coming eventually and he'd rather take you to the store than to find out when he sees your dirty laundry.

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imdoing okay now..
i havent been hurting myself no more which is good i guess. but i have lots of friend problems. i just want a friend that is sooo close to me that we hang out alot and trust eachother and do like everything with. i don't know who my real friends are. i always start fights and stuff. i feel bad after. i always at least start everythingg...i had found a note about one of "my frends" and it said some stuff about her that two of herrr friends wrote and i thought she should know about it so i gave it to her and now her 2 friedns are mad at me and one of them is a guy that i kind of idk like and idk if he liked me but hes mad at me now-not wicked mad but kind of mad- and her other friend is just madd-she like hates me now and i feel so badd--the friend thinks i just gave her the note just to make her mad at her so she would like me better b/c we're not as close anymoroe or w/e. she told me, that me and the friend who the note was about aren't like frriends anymore and even i didn't notice that. It really hurt me and i just dont know what to do/think...my and my friend were soo close and i have tried 2 make us stay friends but i would never eliminate her friends so she would like me better.
what should i do??
sigh...

wow sounds like your friend needs to blow off some serious steam you did the right thing giving your friend the note and your friend is probably in denial back off and let her make her own decisions for a little bit and if your friend doesn't belive you after a while well... lets just say friends should trust each other and she should probably know what your handwriting looks like. But if you just want to avoid fights this one could have been avoided by throwing the note in the garbage and not reading it. (just for future refference if you want to use it)

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(16/f) One of my good guy friends and I are starting to like hang out more and he's told like the whole world he likes me.. but that's not the point. One day at tennis practice I was telling one of my really good friends that he liked me and since then she's been like all over him and it's really annoying! This isn't even the first time that she's done this! Ok and by "all over him" she's really just flirting with him. But she didn't used to. A year ago she had a SMALL crush on him but since then she's had like a zillion crushes *let's be honest she's a little boy crazy*. What should I dooo?!
I'm really liking this guy but I don't want her to be mad at me or something
thnks!

Yeah I have one of those friends too you need to talk to her and decide with her if it's ok that you go out with him and pay close attention to her facial expressions if she says she doesn't care but she looks hurt don't do it and talk to your guy friend about the problem eventually it will probably blow over and you and your guy friend can do what you want to from there.

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i dont know what to be for halloween
last year i was a hooker hahah..this year im in highschool and i wanna be something like i was last year but idk really....any ideas of what i could be w/ a friend haha even tho u dont know me...

You could be a dancer you know like a tiny shirt and a mini skirt and some cute (but still comfortable) shoes or you could dress up like you favorite star like..... I don't know Britney Spears or Jeniffer Anistan or who ever you like.

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ive been looking for an hour for this answer :


Why would a chemical imbalance cause serious illness?


(In relation to enzymes)



if you don't have the right chemicals your enzymes stop working, if the enzymes stop working well you can't really digest food, and this ends up as a serious problem for any living thing.

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sry if this is long but ok so like the thing is my parents got divoreced 3 years ago and now i have a step bro and step sis. All of a sudden i think i am to fat even though i no i am way skinny and i want to become belimic. Also i just dont see a point in living i mean u always go to school and work what is the point in it? please help me what should i do?

If you know you are skinny you shouldn't feel like your fat an if this is the case you should probably talk to a doctor your parents or a councilor even if your nervous about it. As for the point of living set some goals like to get and A in history or set asides some time to go have fun and mabey you'll start to see the point, everyone's perspecitve on that is different. I know divorces are hard but rember your parent's didn't break up because of you and they still love you and are there for you even if your not currently living with them.

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does anyone know what it means to be "idle" on aim? i'm totally confused by that! lol thanks...

idle means that ther person is away or inactive but hasn't put up an away message

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so im looking 4 a good place to take my gf on a date... im outta ideas where could we go? (we've gone many places... movies, ice skating, horseback riding, the park, the mall)

well you could go to a lake, bicyling on a bicylcling trail or you could walk on one,sixflags, hurricane harbor, nrh20,if you gf enjoys video games you could go to an arcade, you could go to eachother's houses but only if your parents aren't too protective, or you could go to a resturaunt. I hope I helped a little bit.

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change that... how do you treat 3rd degree burns while on fire? time is of the essance

ok first Put the fire out if it's a greese fire baking soda if it's a normal fire use water n then put ice do NOT scrub n then go see a doc asap for more details.

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and wat do i still need to learn about your histoy

ok u know I'm not gonna answer that on here :-p

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so y r u goth all the time??

ok if ppl haven't noticed I haven't worn that stuff in months the black sweater is not for goithic purposes n I have stopped wearing that too. As for why I was gothic that's somthing only the closest to me know.

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Well, i used to think i was popular, not really populer, like the snobby kind, but i had a lot of friends. Now, i feel like i have very few, and most of them get on my nerves alot and they get annoying really fast, and bug me ALOT, and i get mad at them alot too. When i make new friends, i start to like them better, cuz they dont seem as annoying, you know? Even my good friends make me want to scream at them because they seem so stupid, or just dont get it. wat should i do?

mabey you should tell your freinds your feelings in a nice calm way.or mabey try what I've been telling a lot of people to do you could meditate it does tend to calm you down. Also you could write in a journal, write a song, kick a ball, squeeze a stress ball, or even play with playdoh. In any case I think your friends should know about this and if it gets worse you may want to talk to your counsilor because the may know exactly what is happening and how to help solve the problem. Hope I helped.

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Why is giving others mean advice actually considered ***FUN***, yes, it's not a typo, some people considers it fun. However sick and disgusting that is, I would like to know why?

Because some people are immature and have more fun being mean all we can do is ignore them.

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i've been really fed up with everyone -- for no reason at all. i can barely stand one of my best friends and i have the urge to scream at my family all the time for the smallest things. i'm not a bxtch or anything, and i'm not pmsing. i've also felt really anxious lately. and i have gotten two white hairs in the past few months, and i'm just a teenager. does anyone know what the frick is going on? thanks.

Well actually you could be pmsing as a teen somtimes they come unexpectedly. Mabey your just trying to become indepentdant. try keeping a dairy/journal and meditiating it seems to help me.

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I know this is probably the wrong forum, but hey i'll ask my question anyway.
Like millions of other people, i suffer from severe depression. I've tried Zoloft which had a NASTY effect and do not wish to try it again.
Can anyone recommend a good anti-depressant, one that will actually work without the side effects?
I know most of you will reply by saying that i should visit a Doctor. But hey, i don't trust them because they don't know what they're talking about anyway.

actually doctors do know what they're doing but mabey you should try somthing else. When I started going under a huge amount of depression I meditated, now I'm happy a lot more and no side effects well except for the happiness. woth a shot right?

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Well, I've always been shopping at American Eagle and Abercrombie and those kind of places, and I HATE IT!!! I hate them all. I don't want to be a prep. I want to shop at Hot Topic, I am so anti-prep it's not even funny. And all these years my parents have made me shop there. Seriously, they will not let me shop at Hot Topic or anything place they consider "goth". I guess you could call us rich, and so I totally hate it. I just want to be what I want to be, which is pretty much "punk" since I'm really into that kind of music and I love black. I've been so pissed about it, but, if I do convince my parents to let me start wearing stuff from Hot Topic, will people call me a Poser because all the sudden I go from Preppy Clothes to Punk?

Please help!

Just so you all know: I HATE preppy clothes. They suck. I think about being home schooled and running away and buying Hot Topic stuff and just sneaking it to school because I hate my clothes so much. So don't think this is just a stupid joke. Thanks.

no you won't be called a poser, but people will ask you why you went from prep to punk or will call u goth or freak or weirdo. You learn to ignore it all and answer their questions as for your parents I just went out and bought. you could try hiding it but still it may not be too smart. Also make sure your friends know about this or you may end up friendless wich isn't fun either

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this is all the other advicenators, because since you are all on this site like me, im thinking maybe you guys have had the same problem. obviously, we all like helping people. but what happens when we're the ones who need the help, but we feel we can't ask for it because we're supposed to be the one who has all the solutions. please dont tell me to write my problem on here, because obviously i know that. don't get me wrong...i LOVE giving people advice...but in the real world, have any of u guys ever felt like your not supposed to need any back in return? just a thought...let me know what u think.

yeah it does feel that way sometimes mabey make an account just to ask questions on so you won't feel as bad about it

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