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hey im a 13/f and i just got dumped my my boyfriend of a year and a half.he just sadi he did cuz im f-ing ugly and that im not worth anything and that im white trash. what should i do to get rid of this awful feeling??? because i loveeeeee him soooo much and i cant stand it!!! so can you help???
Love,
Crying sooo hard can barely breath (link)
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he called you that and your crying over him??
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I fell for this guy pretty bad. We got along great and I looked foward to seeing him everyday... But Now I don't get to see him anymore.
There was no chance we could be together anyhow, and I understood that. But I still miss him anyway, I miss him a lot. I keep thinking about him.
Now when I sleep at night, I dream about him, nothing weird, just exactly how it was when I got to see him... I can't get my mind off him. I miss him a lot, and it makes me sad. Sometimes I wish I didn't wake up, because the dreams feel so real. When I do wake up, I feel sadder.
Is this normal?
What can I do? (link)
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yaa..it's normal...i sometimes do that too..there's this guy who i know i will never ever have a chance with him but i like to see him everyday...i look forward to that preiod everyday...and when it's overr i feel sad...i even go other ways in the hallways so i can see him..even if i'm late to class...it's totally normal..i have dream like that sometimes the dreams are soo great you just wanna sit there and dream about it all dayy longg...rite??...and then you wake up and sometimes in class you sit ther and day dream about that dream you had...it'll go away eventually...doon't worry...it'll go away when your over him ir when you start to fall for another guy...by the way...why do you not see him anymore??
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i really like this guy who i met in my school. He's really popular, good-looking, and has the cutest personality ever. i go up to him say hi everytime in the halls near his locker. catch eye contact. im really friendly around him. i do a lot of body langauge too. Not to mention I always try to play hard to get. It's just im not exactly sure if he likes me. I feel that he doesnt because hes so popular and i know that i would never get him. But Im trying and its getting no where. I have confidence in myself that I can talk but small. Its just I never know what to do when Im around him, I need to make a big move (not ask him out yet or anything) just something you know? Im always unsure of what to do. I want him to like me. But I need to know HOW? HELP!! (link)
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asks him wat his name is..then be like oo do you have this class??...and if he says yes then you can asks him somin about that class such as hmrk or somin...
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Ok, I'm not sure if this is the right catogory but it seemed good. So, I do hate my weight and want to be skinny, but I don't think I am aneroxic. People have called me that before but because I hate eating a lot, and 3 meals a day is a lot to me. I usually eat an egg for breakfast, nothing or an apple for lunch and a regular dinner. Is that bad? I don't want to eat just to please ppl but I don't know how to tell them that I just don't like much food. What can I say to them? (link)
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who does'nt like food!!!
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I have dark brown hair, and I want it to be lighter without dying it....because its damaging
Are there any hair products that could make my hair lighter?? (Creme, shampoo, etc) (link)
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try lightning gel...
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I am 4'11. and wish I was 5.2 how I get taller (link)
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okay...soo you wish you were taller and i wish i was shorter...you see i'm 5 6' and it's not that great...just think of it this way...you can get any guy you want...for me i can only get tall guys..which there are'nt many...you can always wear like 5 inch heels...
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i'm going to a club tomorrow night with my friends and yesterday and the day before i had a lacrosse game and i went all out and now i have a bruise on the side of my left eye (not swollen) and an open cut right on my nose that will turn into a scab by tmrw night. what make up should i use to cover this up? thanks! and also please don't say you're going to a club, it will be dark no one will see! well we take lots of pictures before the club and at the club with the flash ON lol so please helppp (link)
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use cover up...like foundation and pwoder...my friend she puts on alot of make-up and it works for her...she sticks on a lot of foundation the right color....and powder the same color...and she also uses blush and shiney lip gloss...
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is there a way to call someone and just get their voicebail and it wont ring, so they dont know someones calling? (link)
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yea...if you call through your own voicemail and it sohuld guide you from there
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okay, so normally i forget to take my eyeliner/ mascara off my eyes when i go to sleep. so i just go over it in the morning if im not showering.
is this bad? is it dangerous to my eyes??
thanks! (link)
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nno it's not...b/c my friend does that...and she just goes over it in the morning or takes it off and replies it..
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i'm asian, so naturally i have black hair. but i'm about to do a play for a friend and the role requires a different hair color. i plan on using temporary hair dye (the kind that washes out in a matter of days) but my question is since i have black hair, will any of the colors really have any effect on my hair? (link)
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well duhh...i have naturally black hair and i dyed it light brown...
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Well, i am 13 and i havent started shaving yet, and i really kindof need to. i've tried alot of ways to get my mom to notice like wearing a cami and lifting my arms or show her how sick and hairy my legs are but she is really clueless and hasnt noticed. i really dont like talking to her about those kinof things because it feels really owkward. anyways ive started just using her razor instead, i know its really stupid. but is there a easy way to tell her i need to start shaving? (link)
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if your mom won't let you shave tell if you can use nair....it's better then shaving and it keep the hair off longer..and you don't cut yourself....
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hello sorry this may be long...
so i'm 15/f i'm usually very happy, hyper, lound, random, funny, and just a crazy child espically arouhnd my good friends. but recently i'm finding that a lot of people find me annoying? i don't understand why. i mean i'm not a jerk or anything i'm myself 100% but i'm starting to think being myself 100% isn't doing me anygood. and i want to try and be more quite a more personal person. my my usual everyone knows i'm in the room have to tell everyone everything and how i feel all the time. does anyone have any suggestions on adivce on what i should do. should i contine to be 100% myself lound,crazy, random and kinda stupid, or only 70% me more laid back, quite personal person.
and i'm starting to think that being 100% is turning guys away cause i tend to say stupid things because i just say what i think and not think and i dk what to do.
any help would be greatt. (link)
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umm...well i kinda have a friend like that..and i always wish she would just sometimes shut-up....so you should be yourself but at sometimes kinda be laidback and not so hyper..
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http://i11.tinypic.com/2zhnkgo.jpg
thats my hair. does anyone have any quick/easy hairstyles that would look good. or just anything that i could do with it? i usually just wear it like it is in that picture but sometimes i wear it in a ponytail, and sometimes i scrunch it. got any ideas? and if so and i need to use some hair product tell me which kind! (link)
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try doing straight and curly hair...it's wear every other strand is curly ...w/ a curling iron..and the other strands are stright.that's wat i do someitmes for a change...you can try it...
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14/f
alright i play lacrosse, and after practice every day i always get really hungry... or at least i feel like i am. i usually dont have dinner until an hour or two after i get home. but i dont want to keep eating until im full right when i get home because then i cant eat my dinner... or i do and its a problem. i havent quite gotten down the whole snacking without having to be totally full thing yet. haha but are there any types of foods in particular that would be good to hold me over till dinner and that dont require much preparation? and how much should i eat for a snack sized portion of it? thanks (link)
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i have that same probablem..i'll keep eating for ever and i'm never full...but wat you can do is try eating a fruit...that always helps me for a while...like an apple
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Well about a month ago my mom went on a trip for a couple days. When she was gone she took the razor so i didn't have one to shave with. So i used my dad's that he has in the shower for shaving his face. Well right after i did i got these little red bumps on my left knee. (only my left knee) and they wont go away. i've used lotion and tried to be gentle when shaving that area but nothing is working. any ideas to get them to GO AWAY???? (link)
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oo ya that's totally normal. i get those on my lega all the time. it's cause men's razor's are sharper so maybe you shaved a little to hard on your left knee...it'lll go away...just don't shave for a while...
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my guy friend asked me out on v-day and it was really cuet and sweet but i just dont like him that way . so i turned him doen. the day after he didnt bother me, i guess he was embarrassed, but now he wont leave me alone! he keeps talking to me alllll the fucking time, more than he used to before he asked me out, and insists on calling me. he told my friends he like loved everyhing about me. its like im in a reallty bad movie, seriously. i feel smothered by him... like he s stalking me or sumthing. i reaally need some help. i want to tell him to go away but i dont know how without hurting his feelings. tx in advance (link)
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well try telling him you ike someone else...or...tell him you don't think of him like that...or...just try it and see how bad it is...
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ok well when i wash my face or clean it to prevent acne it is always soo soft and i like to touch my face cuz it feels really good. Is that bad for my skin? (link)
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it's not bad but don't touch it all the time b/c the oil from your fingers can get on your face and cause blemishes
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16/f
ok i like this boy in my class. weve known each other since like.. 7th gradE? and we were just friends then but now we hang out more and flirt and stuff and im scared to tell him i like himmm.. i mean how do i do it! thanks (link)
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just flirt more with him and talk to him more..hang out more...tell him alot of things...sooner or later he'll end up likeing you...
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16/f
okay so theres this girl kayla and me and her are best friends right? well weve always been close with this other girl tiff, but now we've been getting closer with her and i dont know..it doesnt feel like me and kayla are as close anymore... it feels like they dont want to hang out with me as much.. (but maybe thats in my head? and maybe im the one with the problem idk...) but what are some things to .."put a spark back into the friendship?"
anything helps.
thanks. (link)
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just let them have their time...all theire doing is spending more time together...
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what are some good cheap websites (preferably free tho) where i can download music for my ipod? like what do you use?
and how can i transfer the song to my itunes account?
thanks.
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apple.com
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