My name's lexxilu. I'm a really sweet girl, very driven, and lots of fun. I'm 15 and know a lot based on personal experience and by listening to others. Even if I can't give you solid advice, I can usually point you in the right direction. So, if you have any questions feel free to ask, I'm really open to anything!
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I was just curious to know if it was wierd that Im in 8th grade and have never had a first kiss? Part of it is that I am too nervous but I just wanted to know...ThAnX I RaTe HiGh!! Maddie 15/f (link)
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It's not weird at all, Maddie. I got my first real kiss when I was a freshman in high school, and many of my friends didn't get theirs until later. Don't think for a minute that you're behind at all. Once you've had it, you can't go back, and you may not even enjoy it. Don't do as I did, and go kiss the first boy who's looking. Just take it slow, and remember, kissing's fun, but kind of over-rated. If it's not amazing, don't be surprised.
Hope I helped!
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I babysit every Sunday for 3 kids. 2 girls ages 5 and 7, and one boy who is 9. I bring coloring books and board games, but after a while we just run out of stuff to do!!! These kids get bored easily, and everything I own that they would like, they have used. After a while, I become bored and very tired, and so every week i am reluctant to go. What should I do, and quitting is NOT an option! (link)
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Create a scavenger hunt. Bring a movie for them to watch. While they're watching, go around their house and find random objects they're familiar with. Leave a note with a really easy hint on it for them to find the next object. Have it lead to the freezer containing 3 bowls of ice cream.
Or ask them to come up with a story, have them act out a well known kids book, take pictures on a digital camera (so you can delete them later), or play music and come up with dance moves. There's a ton of stuff to do with kids.
Hope I helped!
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where are some good places where i can download music onto my laptop?(it doesnt have to be free)and how does this work? if i want to listen to downloaded songs do i have to go on the website or do i not have to be on the internet? im asking because for my sweet 16 im thinking of doing the music from my laptop. is it continuous play or do i have to manually click the song? can i plug big speakers into the laptop? thank you for your help...5's to everyone somewhat helpful (link)
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www.limewire.com
This is especially helpful if you have iTunes or some sort of media player. If you don't want to have to do anything during your party for music (which you probably won't) download a ton of music and turn it into a playlist. Play the playlist, and make sure it's a few hours long. Make sure you have a good mix of songs that are popular. And don't stay with the rap and pop music, there's more than just that that people like.
Hope I helped!
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Ok. i have this friend and we both like the same guy. i mean he's a really really nice guy and he's not fast paced and he'll give the girl the time she needs. and he's popular so i guess i kind of have two questions.
Question 1). Would it be totally horrible for me to do something about my feelings, because i know for a fact that the guy doesn't like her he told me. but if things worked out and she got mad i'd feel horrible but the thing is she'd do it to me in a heart beat, even if it hurt me ...
Question 2). I'm not sure what i should do. because if i decide to talk to him and let him now how i feel theres a chance he'll laugh in my face. because hes popular and im not really. im not sure if i should give it a try, because he seems like he could possibly be interested in me, he's flirting and acts interested, but that could then again just be how he is .. (link)
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1) if you know she would do it back to you, i wouldn't lose sleep over it. tell her though, ask her how she feels about it, and pay attention to her response. if she says she wouldn't mind, that doesn't mean its true.
2) just go for it. really. the WORST he can do is say no, right? and what have you got to lose- NOTHING! you can also say something like, "i was wondering if maybe we could take it a step further than friends. if it wouldnt work out or you arent interested, thats okay, i still want to be friends and stuff, but maybe...?" that would start a probably very beneficial conversation.
:) hope i helped.
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I have met this new friend. My bestfriend doesn't like her. I like her. The new friend is mean to my bestfriend but not to me. I want to be friends with both of them. What should i do? (link)
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Tell your best friend that you do want to spend quality time with her, and do that, but also spend time with your new friend. Try not to mix the two as often as possible since neither of them will like that.
Tell them both individually that you value their friendships and want to hang out without having someone else there too, and do that. You don't need to hang out with both of them at once, and it'd probably be better if you didnt, so try to avoid that.
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Hey...I don't really think you can help much with this, but I'm curious to see what you think of it all. This is probably gonna be long. Sorry.
Okay. My boyfriend and I are really close in every way. We love each other completely, and we're technically engaged. The only thing is...he'd told me he was staying here for college, but then he went on a trip with his family to see the rest of their family this break, and all of a sudden decided he wants to go there for college. That would be a four year separation, maybe more, and I don't know how to handle it. He went away this summer for 2 months and it, like, killed me. I can't imagine not seeing him for a year. We're not going to break up or anything, and I'm not going to try to make him stay (though I'd like to) because he'd resent me, I'm sure, if I did. I don't want to make him stay here for me, but he's planning to go to tech school. Can't he just stay here? I would go with him, but there are absolutely no good vocal programs where he's planning to go, and I already got accepted into a college here that does. (I'm doing vocal performance as my major).
Anyway...I don't know what to do. I almost don't want to talk to him about it because I'll end up crying and making him feel bad, then feeling bad about making him feel bad. Lol. Plus, I hate for him to see me cry.
So...anything to say? (link)
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Coming from a long distance relationship myself, I can understand your concern. The thing of it is, it's relatively easy. You'll be able to talk on the phone, write letters, and maybe visit sometimes.
If you love him then just talking to him should be able to ease your mind a bit.
Stay strong, it'll all work out.
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ok, well....for the basics..I have had sex with 2 different people in my entire life (and to make things worse, they tell people i did it with them like a WHOLE BUNCH!!!) , and now all of this persons friends call me a slut and say im sloppy seconds (because, i am now dating ther friend.)And, Im going to have to go to school with all these people next year...sooo, basically what im asking is how do i get these people to stop calling me names? I rate HIGH!!! please HELP! (link)
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The truth is, you made a few wrong turns, maybe hung out with the wrong crowd, and got yourself a bad reputation there, missy.
If these people have the gall to call you "sloppy seconds" then they will probably not let up and stop their harrasment. I reccommend that you tell them you don't appreciate it, change your habits, and find yourself some new friends.
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ok i love my boyfriend and everything but whenever well be on the phone and hell have to eat or something,..hell say ill call you back in like 20 minutes...and hell be like i love you so much ill talk to you in 20mins babe i love you...but then hell acll me back in like TWO HOURS!! i talked to hmi about it earlier tonite and hes like well stuff comes up i either have to leave w/ my parents or have to do chores or something and then hes doing it again right now!!....hes not getting the hint!!! what can i do?? (link)
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How about instead of hinting you come right out and say what's grabbing at you.
For instance you could say "hey, sometimes when you say you're going to call back in 20 minutes, you don't. Maybe next time when you're going to have to hang up, you can call me back real quick to say 'It'll be a little longer than I expected'."
You could have him text message you when he is not going to be able to call back shortly... or just tell him not to put a time limit on it at all. Tell him to take his time or to just go and call you back when it's conveinient for him. He can always leave a message, and sooner or later you'll be available.
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EVERYONE i know always says that your first love will always stay in your heart no matter what, etc.. Do you guys think this is true? Even after a year or longer after breaking up and gotten with new ppl and not talking at all, you think that those feelings for your first love are still there? (link)
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I've found that in most cases a first love was a fluke. Someone missusing the word... the usually reminisce on that time in their life and that expirience stays with them.
All the moments in your life that define you stay with you for forever, someones "first love" is just something that people can always identify. Sometimes how we make decisions or base our morals isn't clear to us, but something like a first love we can easily remember because it is so commonly a regular thing.
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im 15 and well honstly ive only made out with 3 guys, and thats all ive ever sexually done... ive never "masterbated" whatever that means or anything like that but my bf keeps trying to finger me and stuff! if i let him do it..is it gonna hurt? can my "cherry" pop? is it gonna feel really bad? and if i let him do it will i be labled a slut? (me and my bf have been together 10-11 months now) anything? (link)
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First of all, it's completely A.O.K. and respectable that you haven't been sexually active with everyone in your hometown, so don't be embarrassed.
Secondly, do not do ANYTHING with your boyfriend/significant other/friend with benefits unless you are totally into it, willing to do it, thought over all the consequences, and know what you're dealing with.
Now on to the "good stuff"... if your boyfriend is "expirienced" then he will probably know what he is doing. I cannot tell you if it will hurt or not, everyones body is different, but YOU will know. If you're uncomfortable or in any pain, tell him to stop. Your "cherry" will not "pop" (meaning your hymen will not be broken) if he is touching your clitorus. Inserting his fingers inside you may cause your hymen to break (which would, in technical terms mean you aren't a virgin). If this is your boyfriend, whom you love, are dedicated to, and are content with doing this with, you shouldn't be labeled as a slut.
Who are you going to tell who would label you as a slut? Hopefully, no one who doesn't need to know.
Have fun, and as always, if things escalate, use protection.
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do you go to westlake? (link)
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no, my boyfriend does.
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Is anyone on here from Texas? Either Cedar Park or Westlake? If so, I might be moving to an area around there in Austin, Tx. Can you please help me and tell me what it is like where you live and at your school? I'd be a sophomore when I move (next year) (link)
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there is a lot of cocaine at westlake.
anddddd. really awesome seniors.
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New Years Eve, aka tomorrow night is my friend Lisa's birthday. She is throwing a small party that starts at three thirty. My friend Jenny and I want to go to another party that is kind of late at night. Lisa never really articulated when her party was over and doesn't really seem to express interest in late night stuff. So me and Jenny are confused if it's rude to leave her party at 11 or so to go to the other one because we really, really, really don't want to hurt Lisa's feelings. (link)
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3:30 pm to 11:00 pm is a long party.
The party will probably be over by then and you'll be perfectly able to get on to the next one... additionally, if the party isn't over (which I highly doubt) you can always politely mention that you've been there since 3 in the afternoon.
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My friends and I love hanging out together. We usually meet up at the same place, go and get a milkshake or something then go back to someone's house. The problem is, we're getting bored of doing the same thing all the time. It's winter now and we live in England, it's freezing so we can't do anything outside. Neither of us have much money so we can't go bowling or to the cinema. Does anyone have any ideas of things we could do together? There is about 6 of us. (link)
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If you guys are artsy kids, get out old clothes and "doctor" em up. Cut them up, draw on them, etc. Just have fun. Hang out around one of your guys' houses (since it's winter and FREEZING there, I can imagine) and watch movies or bake something. You can run a search on Google.co.uk for what craft ideas are available.
If crafts aren't your thing, come up with a game. Play a board game, even video games.
If you're looking for places to go, try a shopping centre.
Hope I helped.
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the other night i had a dream that i made out with this cute guy i know. i used to have a crush on his cousin, and thats how i met him. after that dream, i can only think about making out with him. does that mean that i like him or is it just a dream and im over-reacting or WHAT?? i am so confused?
-nikki (link)
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Having a dream that you end up thinking about outside of sleep is okay.
There are a few possibilities. You may just like the idea of making out. You could like this kid. Or the dream could have made you confront the way you like him.
We are not, however, the people to ask about whether you like him or not.
You must ask yourself that.
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what is a birthday suit? (link)
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Nakey!
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which day/days of your cycle are you LEAST likely to get pregnant? which day/days of your cycle are you MOST likely to get pregnant, and how do you tell? be specific, dont just say "your period." and dont tell me not to have sex or use protection cause that's not what i asked. thanks! (link)
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Around the 14th day is when the risk its the HIGHEST.
So from like the 12th day to the 16th is the worst time.
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Okay... I am a fifteen year old female and i have this male friend that is 17 years old and we are talking about becoming b/f-g/f and he doesnt want to become b/f-g/f right now but he wants to do more with me than i want to do with him unless we are going out and i dont know how to tell him without him getting the wrong message (link)
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If he wants a purly physical relationship now, it's not going to change.
Don't waste your time waiting for him to change his tune.
Find someone else.
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can anyone tell me a good site to put digital pictures on besides picture trail because thats not working for me!! thank you (link)
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www.imageshack.us
OR
www.photobucket.com
I reccommend photobucket. :)
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sfdg (link)
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Unfortunately, I do not know how to handle your grandmother when she is lapping at your crotch like a dog.
Sorry!
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