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Ok. i have this friend and we both like the same guy. i mean he's a really really nice guy and he's not fast paced and he'll give the girl the time she needs. and he's popular so i guess i kind of have two questions.
Question 1). Would it be totally horrible for me to do something about my feelings, because i know for a fact that the guy doesn't like her he told me. but if things worked out and she got mad i'd feel horrible but the thing is she'd do it to me in a heart beat, even if it hurt me ...
Question 2). I'm not sure what i should do. because if i decide to talk to him and let him now how i feel theres a chance he'll laugh in my face. because hes popular and im not really. im not sure if i should give it a try, because he seems like he could possibly be interested in me, he's flirting and acts interested, but that could then again just be how he is ..
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You should never fight over a guy with a friend. It ends up ruining a good friendship over something that might not even work out.
If you talk to your friend, and shes ok with you going out with him, do not just leave her by herself either. Try to spend time with both of them. If shes kool with you guys going out, just go for it.
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Well, first just take it slow by like flirt with him and if he flirts back start saying stuff like your so nice and funny and oh so adorable. Talk to a friend of his and find out what the deal is with his "love life". I'm sure if hes a nice guy like you said he wont laugh in your face and ditch him if he does that or he could be laughing at you to try to hide that he likes u theres so many possibilities lol ;).Good Luck!
~Brina~
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I just have one thing to say.....
GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Question 1- If this gurl would do that to you, she's not a very good friend, is she? You need to see if he likes you. She can't control who he likes. Hell, he can't really control who he likes, but you should go for it.
Question 2- Give it a try. Trust me. Even if he is popular, it doesn't mean he can't like someone who isn't. Plus, labels are for soup cans. Even if he does laugh in your face, just brush it off. I know it will hurt, but that doesn't mean you can't still get to know him and give him a chance to start to like you. If he's really really nice like you say he is, he won't laugh.
Just try it!!!
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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ok..
1- talk to your friend about him.. if you are really connecting on that night then you can tell her about what he said to you about not liking her.. make sure that it is ok with her that if you guys do go out or work out, that she will be fine with it..
2- if he laughs in your face then he is deffinatley not worth your time, and make sure your friend doesnt try it either, then he is just stuck up!..but try to give it a chance anyways..
hope it helps..
<33 alex *~^
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1) if you know she would do it back to you, i wouldn't lose sleep over it. tell her though, ask her how she feels about it, and pay attention to her response. if she says she wouldn't mind, that doesn't mean its true.
2) just go for it. really. the WORST he can do is say no, right? and what have you got to lose- NOTHING! you can also say something like, "i was wondering if maybe we could take it a step further than friends. if it wouldnt work out or you arent interested, thats okay, i still want to be friends and stuff, but maybe...?" that would start a probably very beneficial conversation.
:) hope i helped.
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Hey!!! Well i will do my best to answer both of your questions.
1- I think that if you do decide that this is something you would like to pursue that you need to discuss this with your friend. Tell her your feelings and your ambitions and make sure to let her know that the last thing you want to do is hurt her, so if she has any problems then to just be honest with you and tell you the truth. If telling her isn't an option, then i would say no, i wouldn't do it because friends will be there for you through everything but boyfriends will come and go. A friend can't be replaced and losing a great bond is always an unfortunate thing.
2- If this guy is a great as you are making him out to be then chances are he isn't going to laugh in your face. So i'd say go for it! You only live once so why not take the chance. It could turn into something great. But if you don't you will always wonder what might have happened if you had. Live with no regrets, just little bumps along the road!! The worst thing that can happen is that he won't be interested and sure you will be upset for a while but the pain will go away and you will find another great guy along the way.
I hope i could help you out!!! Goodluck hun
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