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Hello!! I hope ya'll can help me! I'm sorr its so long but its a long story!! Okay here is my scenario. My birthday was at the end of January, and my boyfriend had already been planning our Valentine's date. He asked me if it would be alright if he gave me my birthday gift along with my Valentine's gift because it would make it easier on him, so of course i told him yes. Well, On Saturday (which was our Valentine's day because i had to work Monday) he took me to dinner, then he blindfolded me and took me to... a hotel. BUT before you judge, it was very romantic. He had his friends come and light the candles he had set up EVERYWHERE and rosepedals, the whole deal. And we had planned to have sex for our first time, not necessarily then but we had stopped ourselves a couple of times because we wanted to wiat until it would be special. Which this was. Okay, well moving on, besides all of this, he didn't get me like flowers or a bear or even a card. I spent like $70 on him with gifts and whatnot. But i wasn't too mad because i assumed he had sent me a carnation at school (Our school has sales where you can buy a carnation for someone for V-Day and writea message and then we got them on Monday 9*) Well i of course sent him one, and i waited but he never sent me one. I went to his house after work and i brought over peanut butter heart shaped cookies (His fav!) and still nothing. This made me really mad because he didn't even get me a stinkin carnation!! I got pretty upset and left. Now am i overreacting? I mean he did spend money on me but i'm the type of person who appreciates little things like a flower or a box of choc, he didn't have to go buy a hotel or anything, i just wanted a carnation :( Lol, AND he still hasn't given me anything for my birthday!! Shouldi be mad?

i know that he probably spent some money on the satuday night thing, but dont be too mad about him not getting you anything, just bring up the subject of birthday presents one night and see what he says, if he doesnt say anything, then maybe you should ask him what youre birthday present was other than what you did on saturday...sorry if that doesnt work..

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I have met this new friend. My bestfriend doesn't like her. I like her. The new friend is mean to my bestfriend but not to me. I want to be friends with both of them. What should i do?

either,..
1- talk to each of your friends separatley try to find out why they dont like each other, and if they something good about each other then tell the other friend..
2- talk to them together, make sure they dont try and start something,but you really need to figure out why they dont like eachother and then try to solve that problem

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Ok. i have this friend and we both like the same guy. i mean he's a really really nice guy and he's not fast paced and he'll give the girl the time she needs. and he's popular so i guess i kind of have two questions.

Question 1). Would it be totally horrible for me to do something about my feelings, because i know for a fact that the guy doesn't like her he told me. but if things worked out and she got mad i'd feel horrible but the thing is she'd do it to me in a heart beat, even if it hurt me ...

Question 2). I'm not sure what i should do. because if i decide to talk to him and let him now how i feel theres a chance he'll laugh in my face. because hes popular and im not really. im not sure if i should give it a try, because he seems like he could possibly be interested in me, he's flirting and acts interested, but that could then again just be how he is ..

ok..
1- talk to your friend about him.. if you are really connecting on that night then you can tell her about what he said to you about not liking her.. make sure that it is ok with her that if you guys do go out or work out, that she will be fine with it..
2- if he laughs in your face then he is deffinatley not worth your time, and make sure your friend doesnt try it either, then he is just stuck up!..but try to give it a chance anyways..
hope it helps..

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ok, like 2 years ago i sprained my ankle from cheerleading and ever since then it always pop when i walk up the stairs or get finished working out. is that normal? and my wrists pop everytime i bend it back and forth, but i think it's from tumbling, but is that normal too? i was just wondering cause some of my friends have the same problem. thanx!

yea, that happens to my knee and i told my doctor and he sed its fine.. but if it starts to hurt bad, then tell ur doctor

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Is there a medication that can be taken for worrying and feeling anxious?

u should ask ur doctor before you take anything.. i think that you prolly just need to relax more..unless it never stops

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