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Im 13, female...and this guy has liked me for about three years. I didnt find out that he liked me until last year. It turns out that everyone knew but me. Anyway. Ever since fourth grade (until sometime last year) had hated him. But then I went to his bebo.com page and saw that he had called me a "wannabe". I was really mad and I went off on him through and email. So we were sending emails back and forth going off on eachother then somehow we were okay with eachother...I dont really remember how...and then we started talking on aim. At first I would get annoyed when he i/med me. but then after a while I started really wanting to talk to him and...well now I look forward to talking to him. But heres the thing that kicks me in the ass...
I think hes really ugly. Hes overweight and he smells sometimes...but I really like him. Usually I wouldnt mind going out with him but...everyone at my school hates him and if I went out with him, hed probably tell all of his freinds and then everyone would know and then I would be more of an outcast as I already am. WHAT THE HELL SHOULD I DO? (link)
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Well, first stop being as shallow, if you'd be embarrased to be seen in public with him because of what other people would think, don't waste his time (or yours)
If you really like him, to hell with reputation, go out with him.
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Does anyone know where I can get "Savlon wound wash" in the states/California? Someone told me to get it for my piercing (it's infected...), but she's from the UK, and I don't know how to find it except for on the Internet... (link)
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Please don't tell me to get the clairs/icing/whatever it's called where you live stuff, it doesn't work. at all. I tried it.
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why do guys lead on girls one day then the next flirting with 3 or 4 other ones. i really thought this guy and i had something. i truly did. (link)
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Because the guy in question was an ass. They could very well all be like that, but try to not give up hope, supposedly some of them grow up eventually... :)
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Hey, in a few days I am going to Oregon and will be staying in the Portland area for a week. Then I'm going to San Francisco for a week. I was wondering if anyone knows of some interesting things to do in those areas. Like, not the typical tourist stuff. Do they have any music fectivals or concerts? And where are the best places to shop.
By the way, I'm a 15 year old girl if that helps.
thanks. (link)
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Check out slims @ http://www.slims-sf.com/, the fillmore http://www.livenation.com/venue/getVenue/venueId/1259, and although it is a touristy thing Fisherman's Wharf is fun.
(all of these are SF things, btw)
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14/f...are there any ways to make your hair grow faster? i've had medium length hair for most of my life and i want a change. i want my hair to be longer for when school starts again. are there any tips/tricks or even shampoo or hair products that will help my hair grow faster and longer? (link)
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just keep it healthy, split ends and breakage tend to stunt growth
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Hi, I'm new to this website but i desperatly need help from other girls my age. I'm fourteen and i have a big problem.. I'm flatchested. ya I know alot of girls are flat at like 13 and some at 14 barely but it seems every single girl has boobs ecxept for me!! ahh i'm always scared to wera bathing suits in front of guys coz they like to pull the tops of as a joke .. but,, if that werwe ever to happen top me all they would see is a flat chest and a very padded bathing suit floating in the water... grrr i'm soo pissed y can't i be normal?? if anyone else has this problem please talk to me also im thinking of trying a breast cream called perfect women it has good ratings and it says to ecxpect results of 1/2 to 2 full cup sizes in just 3 months!! well, i dont know if thats true or not but it was on tv.. mi mom doesnt want to pay for it coz syhe thinks its a scam but i have the money..if u have usesd this product or heard of it fill me in kk? well this was mi firsrt entry im glad i can get this all out without people finding out hoo i really amm. bi (link)
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You are only 14. It's fine to be flat, you're still growing. The creeam probably is a scam, because nothing can really make your boobs bigger but time. You ARE normal, and aren't the only one. If, by the time you're in your 20s, and you still aren't happy with your cup size, you can look into ways to get them changed, but I'd wait till you're done growing.
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i like this guy and i know he liked me back once but now i'm not sure anymore. he told me he loves me once and at that moment i was in a bad mood so i was like: whatever. we ignored eachother since then and i couple of days ago he talked to me again he was like: hi , how are ya.. so i thought everything is fine again but the next day he ignored me again so what does that mean? i really dont get it. and i looked at him again for like 3 days (then i gave up because he always just acted like i wasnt there) i really dont get it please help!! (link)
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For most people, using the "L" word, and meaning it, is really hard. By just kinda brushing him off, you shot him down, bruised his ego, and basically hurt him. ALOT. THAT'S why he isn't very into you anymore, you scared him off. You're going to have to re-gain his trust if you want anything to happen. Be his friend, it's going to take awhile to get back to where you were, but it can be done if he still likes you (wich is entirely likely since he stopped talking to you without warning, showing that he thought he was over it, but wasn't).
Good Luck :)
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ive heard that if you can wear a tampon comfortably it means that your body is ready for sex is that true? (link)
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That is ridiculous! Your body is ready for sex when your menstrual cycle starts (around when you get your first period) wich probably is why you heard that.
YOU are not ready for sex untill you feel ready, want to, are mature enough to take precaution, and handle the possible consequences (physical and mental) of what you're doing, and are with someone you are COMPLETELY comfortable with.
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okay me and my boyfriend was messing around on teh 16th and we kinda was like naked.. on out lower have.. and he was fingering me and i was touching his penis..and
when i loooked down my shirt was wet.
he says it was mine.. because i was really wet
and im like no i wrapped you penis in my shirt
and hes like well you can get pregnate frmo PRECUM or somthing is that true?
and my period doesnt come until next month
i dont feel sick or anything.
im just worried
i dont want to be pregnate
and we broke up because we thought our relationship was going too fast.
im scared
yea i know SPREM DOESNT DIE WHEN IT HITS THE AIR!
and.. i dont know
we didnt have sex. we were kinda dry humping naked on the lower half (link)
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You can get preggers from precum, see your OBGYN and make sure everything's all-right. Wether you had sex or not doesn't really effect it, because sperm can survive a while in the air (kudos for knowing that, quite a few people don't)
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okay.. so im 15/f... and sorry in advance if this is long.. but ill rate high for any answers..
So me and my friend.. lets call him tom.. well ive known tom for 9 years. and we get into a lot of fights over really stupid things.
And right now were in a fight. and i dont know what to do anymore. because okay this is what our fight is right now:
Well i was talking to him on aim. and it was a normal basic conversation the whole hey whats up.. and all that.. well then he said he had to go. and he signed off. then some other kid.. lets call him fred.. imed and said. "were you botherin tom" and i was like no.. and he was like yeah right. whats up? so i was like what are you talking about. then he said nothing and he was "jp". so later i asked him in a message and he said that tom said something to him about me "bothering" him.
So i sent tom a message saying that i wouldnt ever "bother" him agian. soo yeah..
and he read the message. and he didnt say anything back..
soo yeah.. i dont know what to do.. cause i wanna be friends with him again. but i dont really know what to do.
any ideas?
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Well, it sounds like you kinda initiated the not speaking to each other part...
And if "Tom" really said you were bothering him, it could either mean that he was having an off day, and didn't wanna deal with you, or isn't really your friend anymore. ALTHOUGH, the bothering bit could be a misunderstanding partially caused by "fred".
Talk to "Tom", ask him if you really annoy him, he might not be honest, but you're trying, right?
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what is better for you regular or diet soda?
and is margerine or regular butter better for you?
me and my friend are debating over this. (link)
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regular soda, because it has less chemicals, and real butter because margarine is made by putting hydrogen atoms in saturated fat, making trans fat, wich sticks to your arteries worse than butter, wich has saturated fat.
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my bf and i have always got along and always had fun well today he told me he hated me and walked away nd i asked him if he was breaking up with me he said no B*tch i was uhh i am soo confused was he showing off for some reason and then i called him he was like hello whos this i was like your gf he was like oh and it was silent i was like well why are you being mean to me he hung up soo I IMED him and he blocks me but i got on my old name and the thing in his info still says my name and now it says Ill love you forever and always babe you mean the world erg im soo confused
sorry its long =[
ill rate 5's !!! =] (link)
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you were dumped. it was a sarcastic no. from how it sounds he was a dick. forget him, he's not worth you time or tears.
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Hey, Iam 16 and i really like someone and hes 14 and i don't really care about age matter. We are really good friends and we go to differnet schools. Plus we see eother often. Anyways I wrote him a letter expressing my feelings about him. I don't know how to give to him. Iam seeing him very soon. I have liked him for long time and its a time where i have to start telling him how i feel and i don't know the whole letter thing will work out. I need some help here before i give the letter to him.
Thankss (link)
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If he brings a backpack or some bag type thing with him, put the letter in there for him to read later. Or say that he absolutley has to look at/read a book (that you put the letter in before you lend it to him)
Although it really is best if you can just tell him yourself, to his face and stuff...
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Im a girl, and im 16 years old. okay, a few months ago, i did stuff with this guy called Bryan. We did stuff several times at different parties. Hed be nice to me on the night, but after that, like at school and stuff, hed just kinda ignore me. but it wasnt so bad, hed speak on msn. sometimes i wondered if he was using me, so i tried talking to him about it, and he told me it was fine and he wasnt using me. But i feel used. WE havent done anything in a while as hes starting being a dick to me, and more ignorant than ever. he also started trying it on with other girls. but it still really hurts. My friends say i was being used. It feels horrible, how he just dropped me like that. And now i think i like bryan, and cant stop thinking about him. even though i know its a waste of time, but i just wish he liked me, and i dont know what to do. ive tried talking to him but he either ignores me, or convinces me that IM wrong. He doesnt even seem to like me, even as just a friend, and always blanks me. Ive done nothing wrong...but basically he just doesnt care about my feelings and doesnt wanna know about anything to do with me.
i dont understand why im so different from anyone else. Im not jelous, im just hurt. He used to be so nice to me, and now hes evil to me. He talks to everyone else apart from me, and hes rude to my face and insulting, behind my back. Please help! (link)
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He's a dick. You were used. You're not different, you may not be the first, and you won't be the last that he does this to. Don't try to win him back, and if he decides he wants you, don't take him back, because he probably won't change. I know it's hard, and it hurts, but it'll get better. You are not in the wrong.
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Been going out with this guy for 11 months. Im 15 and hes 17. My have sort of had sex (my parents are always in so we can never seem to finish before someone comes upstairs) I have no idea why i mentioned that... ok anyways, hes slightly chavy. Not in a bad way, i love him for it, but im really not chavy at all. In fact i usually hate them. Anyway, theres this guy, we'll call him gary. hes a year younger than me, but hes more goth/grunger/skater which is more my style. I used to hate him because a few years ago i really loved this other guy and gary text me from his phone pretending that it was him when it wasnt. But as i got over this guy i got over what gary had done. He has apologised and were good friends now. Me and my boyfriend have a very limited amount in common and gary and i text all the time. Thing is i like gary. But gary knows i have a boyfriend and constantly tells me he admires what we have. I love my boyfriend but its like my soul is craving some kind of darkness that i cant find in him. I want to go out to cradle of filth concerts and stuff. I want someone into what im into. My boyfriend comes over and we hang out in my room until he has to go home which is a few hours ater. Its not exactly life engraving is it? I dont know, you looked like you might understand. What should I do? Thanks (link)
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You say you love your boyfriend. If you take a step outside yourself and look in, dropping all attachments to the dilemma, does it seem like a good move to leave the one you love for the one you like?
Although, do you say you love him because you think that's what you're supposed to say, or because you really, really do.
I don't really know what chavy is (is it like a jock-sports-obsessed-type?) so I can't really gauge the culture gap between them and punk/grunge/goth/skater boy. Take him to a cradle of filth concert, he might like it. Everyone has a dark side ;)
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Hey guys. I'm Kayla and I'm in eighth grade. I will be going to Deer Park High School North Campus next year in ninth grade and I am so nervous! Four different junior highs will be joined into one school next year and I will meet a lot more people but I'm still nervous. What if they don't accept me? What if no one likes me? What about lunch? Where will I sit? I'm asking myself all these questions and it's making me even more nervous than ever! There is exactly 166 days until my first freshman day of high school and I'm already freaking. What about when I get up to 1 day before? I'm going to puke!!! I'm scared of getting lost but I'm more scared of the people. People are mean these days. Some people I don't even know make me feel like I have something to hide, like I'm ugly or something. A lot of people SAY I'm pretty but I don't believe them because of what people have said in the past. I'm afraid it will get worse. These are some positive things about my high school:
1. We can chew gum... sometimes
2. We don't have to have our shirts tucked in
3. We can wear hoodies
4. We get tall lockers so nobody is below or above me
5. We can wear tank tops
6. I have ran out of positive things
Here are some negative things about DPHS:
1. It's HUGE!
2. Four different junior highs will be joining into one and I will barely know anyone
3. I don't know what electives to take
4. I know I'll get lost which is a scary thing
5. I have no idea what credits are for and what we have to get them
6. The people are probably going to be rude
7. I won't know barely anyone in any of my classes
8. I'm so nervous I'm going to puke on my first day.
There... out of all those things, I'm more scared of the people... like I said, I have no clue if I will be accepted or not...
What if they don't talk to me?
I have always made friends on my first day of school but what if it's different this time???
Please help me get over my nerves, Advicenators! I need help!
I prefer Deer Park High School graduates or student currently attending Deer Park High School in Deer Park, Texas to answer this question but it's okay if you aren't. Thank guys!
-Kayla (link)
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1. It's HUGE!
The good part of going to huge schools like that, is that there are so many different types of people that you're bound to fit in somewhere.
2. Four different junior highs will be joining into one and I will barely know anyone
You'll meet people through your classes, you won't like everyone, but a few of them will be bearable
3. I don't know what electives to take
Take whatever sounds interesting, the point of electives is to explore and "find yourself"
4. I know I'll get lost which is a scary thing
Get a map. Or ask a cute older guy for directions ;)
5. I have no idea what credits are for and what we have to get them
Credits are used to keep track of your requirements to pass. Each class gives you a different type of credits (depending on the class) if you pass, you need a certain amount of the different credits to graduate. Ask your counsler for more details.
6. The people are probably going to be rude
But I bet if you apply yourself, you can be ruder (kidding) screw them if they're asses
7. I won't know barely anyone in any of my classes
You'll get to know them eventually, teachers do alot of "getting to know each other" stuff in the beginning of the year.
8. I'm so nervous I'm going to puke on my first day.
Well, eat some dry toast and take deep breaths, it's not as scary as it's amde out to be.
:)
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What happens when the unstoppable force meets the immovable object?
Serious answers only, please. Dumb answers will be met with horrible flaming death by pyromaniac ninjas. (link)
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the big bang happens. that's how the universe was created. :)
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is there any other image host besides photobucket that doesnt resize the image? thanks in advanced (link)
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http://imageshack.us/
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Im having trouble knowing weather to ask this girl out i really like (a lot). Im 14 years old and in 8th grade and theres this girl a year younger than me in the 7th grade. Im not like the nerdy unsociable kind of guy. I have a lot of friends and i get along with almost everyone. My friend told this girl i like her (i didnt want him too) and i kind of get the impression shes not intrested. i was planning on telling her i like her and asking her out but now i feel funny after he already said something. Shes considered a 'preppy' girl and my friend said she wont go for me cause im to 'skater'. The truth is i normally go for preppy girls and i like them more. Even though i like skating and into punk and shit, i dont know if i should take my friends advice and change my image then ask her or completly ignore asking her out all together. Its a hard decision cause i like her a lot. (link)
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NEVER EVER change your "image" to impress someone. If they don't like you just the way you are, then they aren't worth your time.
Ask yourself, what a girl thinks when you tell her you're interested can be drastically different than what a girl thinks when you tell her.
If she isn't, at least you tried. There are other fish in the sea, and they may not seem as shiny, you'll come to like them more with time.
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okay so i just now found out that i am a B instead of an A cup size... how can i get my mom to buy me new bras?? im shy about this whole changing into a woman thing.. so is there a way i could convince her to take me? cuz i mean she always rubs it into my face and acts like she is totally blank about the whole me being a B.. it makes me feel uncomfterble.. (link)
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tell her you need new bras cuz the old ones are worn out or something. Or just tell her you're going to the mall to get (insert something she is bored by, but would be believeable for you here) and ask her for enough money (and a ride?) to get the bras yourself.
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