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Should I even bother asking her. Should i change my image if
Im having trouble knowing weather to ask this girl out i really like (a lot). Im 14 years old and in 8th grade and theres this girl a year younger than me in the 7th grade. Im not like the nerdy unsociable kind of guy. I have a lot of friends and i get along with almost everyone. My friend told this girl i like her (i didnt want him too) and i kind of get the impression shes not intrested. i was planning on telling her i like her and asking her out but now i feel funny after he already said something. Shes considered a 'preppy' girl and my friend said she wont go for me cause im to 'skater'. The truth is i normally go for preppy girls and i like them more. Even though i like skating and into punk and shit, i dont know if i should take my friends advice and change my image then ask her or completly ignore asking her out all together. Its a hard decision cause i like her a lot.
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NEVER EVER change your "image" to impress someone. If they don't like you just the way you are, then they aren't worth your time.
Ask yourself, what a girl thinks when you tell her you're interested can be drastically different than what a girl thinks when you tell her.
If she isn't, at least you tried. There are other fish in the sea, and they may not seem as shiny, you'll come to like them more with time.
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First. Dont change your image. NEVER change for anyone, but yourself. If a girl doesnt like you because of what you dress like then shes extremely shallow & you dont need her anyways. Plus you wouldnt be happy dressing like you were someone else. If you really like her then go for it and take a chance. The worst that can happen is that she will say no, and thats not even that bad. So, definetely take a chance & ask her. You never know, she might say yes. =D. I hope she does! But yeah whatever you do, dont change yourself.
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you shouldnt change yourself for a girl. then you would be lieing to yourself to get a girl to like you if she doesnt like you for who you are then shes not right for you anyway. Your only 14 you have your hole life to find the right girl who will like you for who you are not because you changed for them. but try talking to her. if she doesnt like the REAL you then shes not worth it.
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Don't change your imagine for any person. In the end it isn't gonna matter. You need to be YOU and find a girl that will like you, for YOU, and you shouldn't have to change for her (unless of course, you have really very bad habits and such that you really should change anyway).
Don't ask her if you are willing to change your imagine and who you are for her. If she is willing to work around that, then ask. If she just isn't interested, then don't even bother.
That's all I got. So I hope this helps and everything gets straitened out
-Ryan
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hey, dont change your image for anyone girl or boy. i think you should still ask her out. the worse thing that can happen is a no. cait ♥
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I don't think that you should have to change your image just for her, becacuse your friend said that she didn't like skater guys. I think that you should ask her out anyway and if she says "no" then don't go change your look becuase of it, so she will like you. Maybe you can talk with her and become friends and then she might like you for you not because you are all skater.
hope it helped.
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Don't change your image but still ask. Changing who you for someone else isn't worth it. If they care that much about what you wear they are shallow and you wouldn't want her anyway. Anyway, if you don't ask her out there is no way you can go out. The worst that can happen is she says no. And if she does all it means is she wasn't the one for you and she may even end up regetting it.
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No don't change your image and yes ask her out anyway.
If she is worth the trouble she isn't going to care much what you are wearing. Anyone who can't see past the exterior isn't grown up enough to deserve your time and attention.
Try talking to her and letting her get to know you before asking her out. Start with a simple hi and work your way into a conversation. It may take a little time but it will be worth it.
Oh, and tell your friends you appreciate the help...but kindly butt out! :)
Once you can talk with her you will get the feeling of weather or not she likes you. THEN you ask her out. Patience. :)
Good luck.
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