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Im having trouble knowing weather to ask this girl out i really like (a lot). Im 14 years old and in 8th grade and theres this girl a year younger than me in the 7th grade. Im not like the nerdy unsociable kind of guy. I have a lot of friends and i get along with almost everyone. My friend told this girl i like her (i didnt want him too) and i kind of get the impression shes not intrested. i was planning on telling her i like her and asking her out but now i feel funny after he already said something. Shes considered a 'preppy' girl and my friend said she wont go for me cause im to 'skater'. The truth is i normally go for preppy girls and i like them more. Even though i like skating and into punk and shit, i dont know if i should take my friends advice and change my image then ask her or completly ignore asking her out all together. Its a hard decision cause i like her a lot.

I don't think that you should have to change your image just for her, becacuse your friend said that she didn't like skater guys. I think that you should ask her out anyway and if she says "no" then don't go change your look becuase of it, so she will like you. Maybe you can talk with her and become friends and then she might like you for you not because you are all skater.


hope it helped.

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my penis is quite large. cool? okay thanks bye.

Really??
Well that is a same. What would you like to do about this?

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does anyone know a website where i can see the new Fall Out Boy video (for free?) Dance Dance... i keep missing it on Fuse and MTV so if you know what time it'll be on too that'd help :)

www.music.yahoo.com then type in Fall out boy.... its on there :)

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what are some pretty,and uncommon names? please dont say things like,jessica,jennifer,katherine,there pretty but they are all to common! thanks for the help! i rate to 5's :)

Keilie its like Kelly but pronounced (Keel e)
kinda like to keel over... idk

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(Sorry if this is long but i really need help). Me and My friend... lets call him Seth... well me and him have been friends for ever... and well in like june i found out who he liked because he told me.. and then i think that i realized that i like him... and he found out too.. and then it seemed like he was ignoring me after that and talking to the girl that he liked annd just like ignoring me.. so i told my friend that and then he said he wasnt and didnt want this to ruin are friendship.. so then he forgot my birthday even though ive know him since 2nd grade.. and then recently it seemed like he was ignoring me.. so i said something to him about it.. and he didnt say anything right away.. so i signed off and i have aim forwording on my phone.. so i got his message later because my phone was lost and the messages said "you no what i cant make you belive wut the truth is because its right in front of you... im not gonna try to keep apologizing because your the 1 that keeps ignoring.. making up dumbass lies about me friends... please.. you got some fucking nerve... if ya wanna be like that fine dont belive me fuck off" and that like really hurt me.... and i don tknow what hes talking about with making lies about him.. and now i dont know what to do but idk.. because he hasnt been on and i havent been able to talk to him.. i just feel empty inside.. and idk... PLEASE HELP ME.... what should i do?

i think that you should try to call him and try to talk things over with him. I know that you have been friends for a while but mabye if he is gunna act like this then he isnt gunna br much of a good friend in a few yrs. IDK hope it helped


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17 soccer player male.

i need a random aol screenname

what???

Soccaplay17 or.... Soccerplayer17male no jk lol i think you should go w/ the 2nd one

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ok well school atarted back up on monday, and my boyfriend from last year goes there, and we never really broke up! so he started small talk and i'd talk to him back, I just feel kinda weird around him now! and he started ignoring me today and yesterday, and I tried to talk to him but he keeps no walking, and i smiled at him and he just looked away! i I really really like him, and I know he likes me to! so please please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well I think that you should call him and talk to him about this and ask him whats going on with your relationship. I think that you should be honest with him and tell him your feelings and if he doesnt care then I think that you should try to get over him even thought it will be hard he isnt worth it if he isnt going to care a thing about you. Hope it helped


Cally

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hey!
im sooo excited. basically cos of money problems my mum, me and ma 2 other sisters are moving to a really big flat! we've already decided cos of the £ involved that my sisters rooms and mine will have deep purple carpets. and basically i have no idea what colours to put on my walls. i can have any colour i want. i want it to be girly and im into insence and candles meditation that kinda stuff so what colours shall i go for? i want it to be cosy but at the same time really girly and individual. i already have like silver and purple mirrors, accessories bed sheets that kinda stuff so i just need a colour for ma walls!
thanx for any adivce! i rate! =)
emma xoxox

Maybe you should do some light pink and light purple stripes. I think that would look nice. Also it matches your other room items. I think that pink and purple are very relaxing. Hpoe it helped. :)

Cal

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i have 3 colors for my room picked out
Purple
Blue
Lime green

what are some cute ways to paint my walls..i have 4 walls in my room. thanks

14/girl

I think that you should do stipes. I have that for my room. But i only have light green and light pink stripes. You could do big strips that are vertical beacuse it will take a shorter time to paint. Hope it helped.

xoxo Cally

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www.myspace.com/dancingkween6778

ok it worked. like i said before my thing will say like Cally wants to be your friend or something. Well i think that it's cool that you live in New Hampshire. I live in CT

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my gf and i have recently decided to have sex, but beforehand, she wants to try a dildo so she doesnt feel pain the first time. is this a good idea? if so, i am 14 and not sure if and where i can buy one. please help me!
yours truly,
dildo dimwit

Uhh I think ur a little young aren't you??? Well if you really wanna be stupid like that then idk go online and try to find some websites. Hope it helped.


Cally

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so im gonna spend the night at my friends house tomorow and her older brotehr is gonna b there and i really like him! but i dont wanna flirt too much with him cuz i kno she will get mad! but how do i come off sexy to him but not too like desprate and obvious?

NO because that is your friend and your going to go to see her. Maybe another time.

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Hey im going into the 8th grade and i like this kid and i never met him and i heard that he liked me before but i dont know him and im scared of talking to him i liked him since last year but the thing is hes popular and im not a geek or a popular person im just a normal person u know and i dont know what to do should i just leave it alone and go find someone i know? please help!!

Well maybe you should talk to some of your friends that know him. Or you should go out with him to try to find out about him. Then maybe you'll become closer.


hope it helped. Sorry its soo short!! :)


Cally:)

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Lately I've found myself eating less and become more selfconcious. My boyfriend pokes my stomach a lot in a joking way and I'll think he's poking my stomach fat. My friend called me fat, but he was kidding, but I got very defensive over it. If I skip a meal, breakfast, lunch, or dinner I wont think anything of it. I'll lie sometimes to my mom and say that I did eat when I know I didn't. I'm always hungry, but I never want to go eat anything. Are these signs of anorexia?

yea I think that they are some signs. If ur friend did that to you and it offended you then I think that you should have told him and if you don't like that your boyfriend pokes your stomach then I think you should tell him that and hopefully he'll understand. Besides he went out w/ you because he liked the way you were. Maybe to try to help u shouldnt lie to your Mom because that won't make you feel better. if you miss a meal( but you really shouldn't) then if your selfconcious you should have like a healthy snack like fruit or something like that. or have more at a different meal.

hope it helps :)

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Do Tums help period cramps? i rate high if i get good advice thanx!

idk try midol

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hey im looking to meet some myspace friends
www.myspace.com/dacingkween6778

f/14

uhh i tried to but it didnt work

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