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Been going out with this guy for 11 months. Im 15 and hes 17. My have sort of had sex (my parents are always in so we can never seem to finish before someone comes upstairs) I have no idea why i mentioned that... ok anyways, hes slightly chavy. Not in a bad way, i love him for it, but im really not chavy at all. In fact i usually hate them. Anyway, theres this guy, we'll call him gary. hes a year younger than me, but hes more goth/grunger/skater which is more my style. I used to hate him because a few years ago i really loved this other guy and gary text me from his phone pretending that it was him when it wasnt. But as i got over this guy i got over what gary had done. He has apologised and were good friends now. Me and my boyfriend have a very limited amount in common and gary and i text all the time. Thing is i like gary. But gary knows i have a boyfriend and constantly tells me he admires what we have. I love my boyfriend but its like my soul is craving some kind of darkness that i cant find in him. I want to go out to cradle of filth concerts and stuff. I want someone into what im into. My boyfriend comes over and we hang out in my room until he has to go home which is a few hours ater. Its not exactly life engraving is it? I dont know, you looked like you might understand. What should I do? Thanks <3
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
You say you love your boyfriend. If you take a step outside yourself and look in, dropping all attachments to the dilemma, does it seem like a good move to leave the one you love for the one you like?
Although, do you say you love him because you think that's what you're supposed to say, or because you really, really do.
I don't really know what chavy is (is it like a jock-sports-obsessed-type?) so I can't really gauge the culture gap between them and punk/grunge/goth/skater boy. Take him to a cradle of filth concert, he might like it. Everyone has a dark side ;)
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