I think it's normal behavior for cats to kill... but the brain part is just really strange. Haha. This is pretty unique. Uhm, my advice is that if this behavior continues... try to keep her/him in a cage? NOT a mean evil big bad cage. Like, a cat room thing. A cute cat house that would keep her safe and secure. A playpen perhaps? Something that won't let your cat out to go .. brain hunting. Haha. I must say, this was rather funny but in a serious way, I think you should restrain your cat in a good home. I'm not saying you should keep it in a torture chamber, but a good home, you know? :) I hope my advice helps. Take care!! :D

It's your decision. If you feel 100% safe of going to this place, you should go. If you feel that you'll have tons of fun and it will make YOU happy... go for it! If it doesn't, then it's a useless trip. If it's something you really want, fight for it. If it's just something that would hurt others but you'd be an okay person afterwards, I don't think you should risk it. Just... realize what YOU WANT, not what others want. :) Understand your point of view, and others as well. If it really is a safe place because you have to be cautious about where you go because anything can happen at anytime so just be sure that you'll be all good and that you'll have fun. :) Know yourself. Believe in yourself, ok? :D

Take care & I really hope that my advice works.

I don't think this is much of a psychological issue. I mean, it is a strange behavior but what if it's juts a phase, you know? You might just get over this! :) Being paranoid and going back to a memory you had a long time ago is actually.. perfectly normal! It isn't bad to go back to memories, even the bad ones. The horrible ones that make you feel sooo bad. I know, because I often look back and realize why I think of it when all it does is hurt me. I just think, you have to focus on the present, of what's happening now. Just focus. Follow your instincts and it'll guide you to something new. Remember, this is really natural! I hope my advice helps. Take care

You aren't mental for sure. You just have a big tendency to laugh at funny stuff that happened in the past! It's somewhat like me, where I think of it at a random time and just start laughing, right? So, if you want to control it, try to focus on other things and other situations going on with your surroundings. Keep your head in one area so you won't be distracted and won't get in so much trouble. If trying to keep your head in only one area doesn't work, think of something that interests your mind. It'll help a whole lot if you just focus on other things. Having a good laugh about things is really good and thinking about the past and laughing about it is good as well, so it isn't really bad that you laugh a lot. It's natural! :) Just focus and it might help. If it doesn't, I'm really sorry but I know for sure, you aren't mental. :) Mental people wouldn't bother asking for advice on this website. Well.. I don't think they would. Haha.

Take care!! :) And I hope my advice helped!

I used to be a cheerleader... in like the seventh grade. Didn't work out for me but I know what girls like, haha. You should try Claire's for pretty accessories that are less than $15. You're SURE to find something cute there :) or you can try a Sanrio (hello kitty) store if they like a lot pink and cute little cats and stuff or the Hallmark store for great cards or little gifts that should cost less than $15. For purple, orange, blue, and green.. you should find lots at Claire's because the store organizes by color. Target was nice accessories too. Believe it or not, they do. :] They have pretty stuff color arranged too so try there! I hope I helped. I'm sorry if none of these stores are where you're at if that's the problem but I really hope I helped =) Take care!

Dear ayellowbutterfly,

I can understand where you're at right now because I've been in your situation. It is SOOO hard to know that your boyfriend, the guy you've trusted for so long and loved for so long, is being trash talked or being talked about in a negative way. You must feel guilty and confused but my advice for you.. is to talk to your boyfriend. It will help you greatly. Not only does understanding communication help you and your boyfriend, it will totally clear some of the negative aspects against your boyfriend. BUT, if your boyfriend is the "bad" person, your bestfriend says he is; kick him to the curb because he isn't worth it, you know? But that's only if he isn't the faithful boyfriend you thought he was. Be sure of him. If you break up with him too quickly, you might regret it and being in denial and regret hurts like hell.

Advice:
1. Talk to your boyfriend and understand where he stands in this situation.
-Ask questions, and if ever, he says you're nagging, say it isn't nagging.. and that it's love and care. You do NOT want to feel left out and you do not want to feel stupid for what you say.
2. BE STRONG!! This is a tough position and know that a person really cares (haha, meee). Do NOT ever feel bad for yourself. Do the right thing and talk to your boyfriend.
3. Know the facts, because if you're stuck between fiction and truth--- it'll be total bullsh*t. You know?
4. Follow your heart. You just have to, to know where your place is. if he isn't worth it, dump him. If he is, he deserves all your love :)

I hope I helped!! You take care!

Living really far away from a close relative is hard. (Especially for moms) The reason why mothers like to keep their sons/daughters is because they really care about you and want to take care of you 24/7. Yeah. Crazy, I know. But if you explain to your mom, a THOROUGH, complete explanation of moving, and state what will IMPROVE your life to become a better person or student, she might really understand! Point out really good facts and points that would make yourself, and your mother happy to the point where she agrees with you to go off to college. Tell her that it is your decisions and your life (and you're just living in it, mom) Haha, just kidding about the last part BUT you should explain to her in a formal manner. Be assertive, assuring, and strong about what you'll tell her. Don't give up to what you WANT. Never give up :) Follow your heart, ok? :D Haha. You take care and I hope I really helped.

Kissing is fun. No doubt about it, and for a girl to have a little more fun than expected... well, this is to be SURE that the guy is cool with it and all.. that you should try caressing each other. (Caressing - touching each other, as in "affectionate play" ... and in other words, haha, just touch each other!) It has to be cool with both sides though. You don't want to scare him away but if he's all up for it, haha, ENJOY!

As for making kissing more enjoyable in general ... kissing slowly makes it romantic as the tongues massage each other and if it's like a type of kissing where you guys are just all over each other, go for caressing. :) I hope my advice helps!! Goodluck and take care

Yes. I really think you should tell him how you feel. Come on, it seems as if you two are hiding behind a big wall of denials. Okay right now, forget about that whore! Hahaha. Yeah, forget her and think about what you should say. This is my letter if I were to write to him:

Dear ---whoever---,
Love is one thing everyone goes through. I know you're married but I know you. I care for you and from the bottom of my heart, I think of you as more than a friend who says "Hi, wnat to catch a movie?". Everytime I take a breath when you're in the room, the room cools and I feel my heart beat. I want to tell you how I feel but can never get it out. I've been masquerading myself as a "friend" but deep down, I am completely in love with you. This isn't a crush. I love you. You may turn me down or ever attempt to comfort me with the word "No" but always bear in mind that I will love you now and forever. Accpe tit or not, that's my feeling. I hope you feel the same.
Love,

no offence but you're tooooo young to have a boyfriend. this is pure infatuation. you just like someone a lot but its not called love. THERE'S MORE TO LIFE THAN LOVE. YOU ARE STILL AKID AND ITHINK THAT YOU SHOULD TALK TO THIS HGUY AND FOLLOW YOUR HEART. ok? just don't think about it and like the guy more. you should. and how you should act... you should be yourself. hahaha hunny, i know because its just the way life is ok? take my advice and know that your friends will love you. stay cool and hope my advice helps. goodluck babe.
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Ignore her. If she cant care for herself and can't respect you and your bond with her so called loving "husband", then you should careless about that whore bag! Okay excuse my language but seriously, come on get real. That girl is obviously insane and a psychotic lunatic MAKE YOUR FRIEND REALIZE THAT AND TELL HIM HOW YOU REALLY FEEL. IT DOESN'T MATTER IF HE DOES HAVE A WIFE, COME ON, YOU CALL THAT A WIFE? I call that a freeloader, I DON'T EVEN CALL THAT A PERSON. Geez, that personis really screwed up I don't event hink you should hang around your friend's wife! But seriously, tell him how you feel and tell him how you REALLY feel about his wife and if she can't accept what you're going to say, find a new friend and i know this may sound mean and im sorry but im seriously. come on, you cant help but wonder what's going on in ur friends head marrying some drug addict! let alone have children! Haahhahahha. so please take my advice is you want, im sure it will help. ask me any questiosn if you'd like and hope this advice really helps you. stay cool.
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find out that theres more to life than love. hang out wiht your friends and all of this is pure infatuation and an illusion to your mind. its normal. just follow your heart and explore the things in life that enjoy you. like pizza for example. i personally crave for pizza but hahaha ok that has nothing to do with anything because im just hungry. but what im saying is that you'll get over it one day. treat this girl and may the best man win. win her heart! fight for her heart if you lvoe her so much and all you can do is follow your heart. saty cool.
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I think you are getting it. Just take in the pain until you start growing and it'll just come naturally. Don't be frightened of whats going to happen. JUST LOOK FORWARD! If hurts, talk to your mom about it. SERIOUSLY, DON'T BE SCARED TO TALK TO YOUR MOM ABOUT THESE THINGS BECAUSE I BET YOUR MOM WENT THROUGH THE SAME! So ask her about it and not feel so awkward of asking your mom for advice. If it hurts a lot. Tell her. Describe to he ron how she's feeling. Don't ever be scared because its part of life. You're just growing up into a young lady. Talk to your mom. Hope my avdice helps. Stay cool!
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"The future belongs to the people who believe in the beauty of their Dreams" Follow your heart! Jus think about it... Do you think this new nice boy will treat you friendlier and most civilized and mature? Do you love this boy? Is he the one you're after? Is he in your heart? If its a "yes" to all of those questions, I suggest go for it but if you don't think he's right for you then that's a good opinion of yourself. either way you turn, you'll be happy and I KNOW it! See, if you turn your back on him, you'd be waiting and you don't have to worry about those mean things. But if you go for it, you'd be very happy with the boy you adore and love. Whne he breaks it off or you break it off, if he's that friendly and trustworth yand all out great guy... he won't say mean things to you! So I think you should go for it from what you've described about him! Go for it and let your heart lead the way. Hope my advice helps. If you want, please save me as one of your favorite columnist! That would be awesome. Stay cool.
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I want to be a doctor too! I want to be a dentist and dentists are also called doctors. Okay, enough about me. Be the regular hospital doctor that treats kids and cut open people's bodies hahaha. Any doctor can do plastic surgery! Yeah, each doctor except dentists are allowed to do plastic surgery things. So be a hospital doctor. All you have to do is FOLLOW YOUR HEART!

ok this is terrible advice but it calms you down. follow your heart sweetie! think. what would make you happy? what would make you feel proud? what would make you feel like a winner even if you lost? and if you're down about something and you're blue... say aloud... monkey, monkey monkey 3 times REALLY REALLY fast and you'll smile or maybe even laugh, hahah. it works. so follow your heart and yeah. bleieve in yourself and all that shitty stuff hahaha. stay cool! if you have anymore questions my aim screen name is: tuttieflutey
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try sleeping LONGER. sleep for more than 10 hours per night and don't wake up at like 5 in the morning. shower daily like for 30 minutes or more and put nevia cream around your eyes and moiturizer (i dont know how to spell it! hahaha). but it works. so try that. hope my advice helps. stay cool.
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you can find awesome xanga layouts in createblog.com or blogring.net... BLOGRING HAS A WIDE SELECTION OF LAYOUTS, createblog has a wide selection of being freakin organized. hahaha both have cute girly layouts. my xanga is http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=afterglowx3... so if you have anymore questions or stuff about xanga, feel free to leave me a message on my xanga chatterbox. but createblog and blogring are awesome and very helpful. goodluck! hope my advice helps. stay cool sweetie.
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ok believe me... YOU DO NOT WANT THICK HAIR!!! THINK HAIR IS AWESOME!!! THIN HAIR IS IN!!! thick hair is totally out. if you have thick hair, its gonna be so hard to comb and shit. if you want... you can get hair extentions but THIN ones because in my opinion, thick hair SUCKS!!! stay with thin hair and curl it up a bit. put clips or headbands on it. pretty bow clips are awesome, turns on the boys! hahah -wink-wink-. i eat organic foods too. thin hair is good! take care of it and it'll grow longer and prettier and shinier. or i dunno if i spelled taht right. haha anyays if you have any otehr questions. feel free to aks babe. but seriously, thin hair is awesome!
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give him a peck on the lips like kiss him on the lips for a short time and keep doing that and he'll get a clue. and then sooner or soonerrrr hahah he'll open up his mouth and start making out with you. it works. well it worked for me so you should try it! wow you two seems so cute hahaha. anyways yeah just try it. follow your heart sweetie! goodluck. if you have anymore questions feel free to ask me! please and thankyou.
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