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Question Posted Saturday October 1 2005, 7:07 pm

Hi Coolwater

I really liked your answer. That is just what I did yesterday I ignored her. I didn't even say hi.

I can tell you that about 2 years ago when I used to be in a hockey pool with him, his wife, and several others, that I was telling a story about how my uncle hates his wife.
I remember saying to the group, "well uncle jim, if you hate your wife so much why don't you divorce her"? I looked right at my friend who is married and his face turned pale and he looked like he was a deer caught in the headllights.
I knew ever since then how he really felt about her.
I've never told him how I feel about his wife but I think he knows, I mean I never said anything to her when she was outside.
I know my friend really cares about me (it's mutual).
I think he does want to be with me but he's too scared to leave the hag.
I've told him a will always consider him a friend no matter what.
I'm not even dating anyone right now.
Do you think I should tell him how I feel?
Should I start out by saying I know you can't just leave your wife right now but in the future when you are ready to leave her will you promise to be with me?


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coolwater answered Friday October 7 2005, 6:38 am:
Yes. I really think you should tell him how you feel. Come on, it seems as if you two are hiding behind a big wall of denials. Okay right now, forget about that whore! Hahaha. Yeah, forget her and think about what you should say. This is my letter if I were to write to him:

Dear ---whoever---,
Love is one thing everyone goes through. I know you're married but I know you. I care for you and from the bottom of my heart, I think of you as more than a friend who says "Hi, wnat to catch a movie?". Everytime I take a breath when you're in the room, the room cools and I feel my heart beat. I want to tell you how I feel but can never get it out. I've been masquerading myself as a "friend" but deep down, I am completely in love with you. This isn't a crush. I love you. You may turn me down or ever attempt to comfort me with the word "No" but always bear in mind that I will love you now and forever. Accpe tit or not, that's my feeling. I hope you feel the same.
Love,

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