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ok this may sound like an odd off the wall question but do you know what the spelling would be for a name that sounds like a-tea its a guys name if that makes a diffrence if you have no clue thats ok..
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i have no idea wat that name is...i juss checked my inbox and i saw the message, but i cant figure out what name that is... sorry that i cant help you...


is there anything i can find around my house to maybe get rid of my zits and make them stay gone!!
they keep coming back and more of them then i had before. I wash my face all the time to try and stop this insane stuff!
please if you have any idea how to stop them or get rid of the majority of them tell me!!
is there anything around my house?? (link)
ok.. i NEVER get zits or anything but ive heard from ppl that pro-active works really well. I also know for sure that Clean & Clear Daily Pore Cleanser works really well too. and thats about all i know that you can use for zits... hope it helps!


Hey, this is kind of a menial question, so yeah. But uh tonight I got invited to two birthday parties that start around the same time. One, is my best friend "Margaret's" birthday. We're going to Maccaroni Grill and that's it. The other is my friend from tennis, "Lucy". Lucy is pretty popular on the team and I really was happy she invited me and I want to get to know her well and stuff. But, Margaret is my best friend. At first I was like, Ok i'm defidently going to Margaret's. But.. idk. Lucy's party is we're going shopping and then spending the night at a hotel. Both are sweet 16 birthdays. My parents suggested going out to eat with Margaret and then going to spend the night with Lucy. But since me and LUcy aren't like besssttt friends, i dont' want to seem like a lot of trouble since I'm not even one of her good friends. Does that make sense? well, please reply asap! thankks! (link)
I agree with your parents and go to your best friend's birthday, and then go to spend the night with Lucy... you might really just want to go Lucy's party but you cant stand your friend up like that. Just explain to Lucy that you want to go to your other friend's birthday also, and that you'll catch up with them later on. so, this way both your best friend and friend will be happy you went to their parties. That's i can say really.. but i hope it helps!..


okay this boy trevor , who i thought was my friend used to tell me how pretty i was and stuff and how i was fun to talk to and idk but we were just friends. like nothing more that that .. and well we were talking sunday night about this kid matthew and i was like yeah matthews hot but he wouldnt remember me anyways cause i met him for like five seconds and hes like yeah matthew said that you didnt look bad in your pics but your ugly in person? ... but i dont think matthew even remembers me or knows my name but whatever .. i told him to ask him where he saw me on monday and he said he would .. but he hasnt talked to me since and i kept asking him if he was mad at me but he wouldnt say anything or he'd delete my comment ... so today i texted him on my friends phone and was like are you mad at melissa and hes like no i just dont have my phone whenever she texts me and stuff ... well a little bit ago his friend from my school IMs me and goes do you like trevor and i was like as a friend why and hes like cause he told me to tell you that the next time i see you at school i have to say he thinks your ugly and he never wants you to text him again ... and i just don't know what to do anymore .. i feel like im the ugliest person alive and no one likes me ... i just idk what to do , someone helpp me please [:
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hey.. so um i really think that trevor likes you and thinks your pretty. he is only jelous because you thought the other guy (matt) was hott!...and he might have lied about matt saying you were ugly. matt prob. told him you were pretty and he got really jelous!.. he might want you for himself because he might really like you and he's shy to talk to you.. and he told his friend to tell you that you were ugly just so he could prob. get over you...he might be upset that you dont like him because he might have pretty strong feelings for you... and really doesnt want you to go out with any1. he might ignore you to try and get over you also.. so dont listen to wat he said about you being ugly because he just said that out of anger and jelousy.try to talk to him in person and ask him if he is mad at you...he might be scared and nervous to talk to you because of all those things he said to you and didnt really mean it. so give him a chance to show you that he didnt mean all those things he said about you and let him show you he can still be your friend. thats all i can say to help you ...srry if i made this soooo long but i really hope this helps you..


Qu'es aco

Does anyone know what that means?????? (link)
do you mean " Que asco"....?.. cuz thats kinda like saying "Nasty.".. yep thats spanish alright.. thats wat it means.


13/F
ok.so i love my mom to death and i want to get her something special for v-day. i only have $10.Any ideas that are great but around that price range. and please dont tell me to go get a job because i cant get one that quick. (link)
you can get her a card and make her something yourself.. moms usually love that. or you can also get her a card with some flowers..thats all i can think of 4 now..srry


What do i do about my bf???!!! (link)
how do you know he's going to brek up with you?...well just let him do what he has to do. dont beg him.. he's not worth it if he cheated on you. you might as well get forget about him because to me it sounds lik he's not worth it!..well dont feel upset or angry because theres more guys in the world. he's not the only one. and he doesnt exactly seem like the best guy in the world 4 cheating on you. good luck with your break-up, but remember the right guy will always be there waiting 4 you.. so you.ll eventually meet the person your ment to be with...


I'm sixteen now and I've never had any desire for a boyfriend. I've never had one, either. It's not like guys don't flirt or ask me out, I'm just never interested. So it's not a self-esteem issue or anything. About two years ago I met this guy at a show and I was just, like, instantly infatuated with him. He told a few of my friends that he thought I was pretty, and I was happy, and I smiled at him a lot and he smiled a lot at me and then one day I just didn't see him at shows anymore or at school and it just stopped. I know he's still around, my friends know him. My point is that I can't stop thinking about this kid. I feel like I compare every other boy to him and I barely know him. What can I do to stop thinking about him? (link)
ik exactly how you feel cuz wen i ment this boy in the 7th grade, i liked him ever since (its been like 4ever..)well.. i.ll stop blabbing on about me..lol..you should just get to know him a little better by asking your friends -because they know him- to ask him if he wants to hang out with you guys sometime. if you get to hang out with him.. than you.ll get to know him and become his friend. and you can hang out... just the 2 of you. and if you still like him.. and he likes you.. he can be your first bf.. but just because you feel like you love him or your infatuated doesnt mean you have to rush things.. just keep that in mind..thats all i can help you with..hope you get the change to be his friend..good luck!


I really like this guy named Chris, and I think he might like me too but I'm not sure. He's kind of shy but whenever I talk to him in person he laughs a lot at all of my jokes. But, I don't have any classes with him so I can hardly ever talk to him unless we're both at school early or something. Our school has laptops and we have emails for our school so we email each other all night basically. I tried to ask him who he likes but all he said was "I don't Know who I like". Earlier I had asked Ben, one of his friends to find out who he likes, but they told him I wanted to know. Tonight Chris said "I really don't know who I like but you can keep asking Ben ;-)". A long time ago he liked me a lot but I told him I just wanted to be friends. I really want to be with him, it would be so fun to have a boyfriend for Valentine's Day, but I don't know if I should just tell him I like him, or if that would be too bold. I think he probably knows I like him anyway, but how do I find out if he likes me? Help! (link)
Do you just want to have a bf 4 V-Day?..or do u like him?.. if you do and he already liked you b4 than theres a chance he likes you also (again). and if you're talking all the time then there's a better chance 4 you two. if he gets shy then it means he could like you and be really embarrassed about it, when he's around you. You should tell him how you feel, or just tell him indirectly if you perfer.. you can tell him "I LIKE YOU." or you can make it not so obvious.. well obvious enough 4 him to figure it out, but in an indirect way that wont make him so embarrassed to ask you out or something. but the thing is, if you want him to be your bf 4 V-Day than it might be easier if you say that you like him and if he wants to go out with you. Thats all i can help you with... sorry if its not much.. or just made this answer really long..lol..good luck!


Ok, I know what a pushup bra is so please do not tell me what a pushup bra is. (For ex: "it pushes your boobs so they dont sag" or wahtever)

I never wore one before, so I was just wondering exactly HOW it works?? (NOT what it is! lol) (link)
it has like a cushiony thing at the bottom of the bra. so it holds your boobs up and makes them look bigger. thats all you can say to describe how it works. IT HAS A CUSHION!...lol.. thats the best i can explain it. juss one thing..y do want to know how it works..?..lol..


Hey. I'm 15 years old. I have never had a boyfriend, but guys have been interested in me...eh immaturity in guys sucks..but thats besides the point..totally diff. story ha. Basically, i'm scared to grow up & Be Alone. Not find somone out there for me. And turn into some cat lady. I know i'm young but i cannot picture myself being with anyone. Have you ever felt this one at one point or another? Help =[ (link)
Ik exactly how you feel... i never actually had a bf either.. and guys have also been interested in me... but i never went out with any of them. and NO your prob. not going to turn into a cat lady cuz you have a lot of time left to find someone special. the right time will come, so you dont have to worry...lol..ik this all sounds so cheezy.. i.m embarrassed just writing this, but ik that i.ll happen, it always does.. so i wish you the best of luck.. and thats all i can say to help you.


me and my bf broke up like a week ago. i broke up with him actually because things were getting really serous and i never liked him in the first place. i liked that he liked me and he liked that i liked him. well wehenever we could hang out i wouldent be so into him but afterwards when i was thinking about it i did like him so basically i liked the idea of him. 2 days after we broke up he asked out my bestest friend. she asked me if it was okay. me and her are 100% truthful with eachother and i really was okay with it so i said it was fine. he was what youd call a "good boyfriend" who never forgot to call me back and whatever. now whenever i see them dancing at partys or whatever it kinda hurts because i knew 2 weeks ago that was me. i dont want him and i dont mind him not liking me, i just dont want him to like anyone else. how do i get over this? most of the time im good just being with my friends but somtimes it really gets me. its kind of bringing down my self confidence and i hate it because i used to think i was the hottest thing ever. if your gonna be mean about any of this please dont answer. thank you (link)
Look from what I hear, you kind of wish that he still liked you, but just to have him there.. not for you to go out with him. you just like the thought of a guy falling all over you and no one else... I don't blame you, all girls would love to have a guy falling all over them, even if they don't like them. you seem to be a little bit jelous about the fact that your x-bf asked your bestestfriend out. all you have left to do is wish your best friend and her bf the best, because even if it didnt work out between you and your ex it might work out with him and your best friend. its ok if you feel jelous cuz its normal... so dont let it get to you because you'll eventually find someone YOU LIKE and he'll like you also. Sorry I made this so long, but i hope it helps!


Does anyone know of any singer/actors/ other performers that are from a spanish speaking country. they also need to help benefit a certain community (donate money etc...)

spanish project =[

thank you so much!! (link)
Hey.. to answer your question yea there's Shakira. and she's from Colombia. There's Jennifer Lopez.. who's Puerto Rican.. but the thing is idk if J.Lo helps benifit a certain community.. but i think Shakira does.
Sorry that's all I can think of for now.


ok this is for guys...
ok i like this guy...what are signs that a guy is interested?

i'd rather guys answer like what they normally do or tell tale signs...but girls can answer too

thanks!

if it helps im 14/f (link)
I'm a girl, but I'll answer your question anyways. If he gets nervous around you then that is a sign that he likes you. Also, if he tries to start a converation with you all the time. I got this off a magazine(proved by scientists), it said if his body is always facing you,even when he isn't talking to you(his head could be turned the other way) then he is interested. Also, if his feet are facing you as he is speaking to you. If a guy is interested, he won't be able to help it, his body will face you all the time..or his feet will face you when he is talking to you. These signs are proven to actually show that a guy is interested in you. It's kind of like when a girl is attracted to a guy, when he's near, she'll continuesly flip her hair. I hope this helps you... Good luck!


I have this friend, lets call him Bob. Bob is funny, nice, and has a good personality. Also, Bob is my friend and a boy. Sometimes I get mixed signs from him and mixed thoughts from me. In class Bob will turn around since he sits in front of me and he will just stare at me, for a long time too. I'll sit there looking at a book or whatever the class is doing and act like I dont see him, but then I look up and he keeps staring. Then, I'll say "What?" and he always says "Nothing". I always wonder, "what does nothing mean, because it must be something if you were just staring at me. Or sometimes Bob will turn around and just smile at me and I'll smile back. I dont like Bob as more than a friend, but then again I think I might. I feel like I'm positive I dont, but its like some little part of me does. I dont know what to do and I really want to know if Bob likes me as more than a friend. And I'm Really not sure if I like bob as a close friend like a brother or as more.Sometimes I want to get that idea of my head and try and get rid of the feeling, is that possible? Honestly, not to be mean, but this guy isn't cute at all, but his personality is. I've never been attracted to someone based on the personality though and its weird. What should I do ? (link)
Unique..i know its you.. and I know who your asking about so... this is my answer to your question...(Bob=interesting made-up name!)
I think you like him (maybe just a little), but you do, and you're just confused. I known you forever (a little over a year- lamos!) but i know how you are.. and i think you might have some feelings for him.. either that or I'm confused because you like him like a close friend...Do you feel as confused about your feelings towards him like you did about Mada?....because either you "like-like" Bob or you like him as a close friend/ brother. You should give it some time, to figure out how you really feel about him.
your best friend,Vivi


I have a best friend he's totally cool he's nearly sixteen..We trust each other a lot i can open up to him about anything...Espeicially things at home and stuff
Me and him have such a laugh its untrue..haha :D...I had troubles-he listens and thats what i need a good listner
I say a problem and he says the answer and its exactly how i feel we've known each other for more than a year!!:)). And then our friendship has grown and grown we are soo close..:)

I dont know how i feel..
Help me ! (link)
Do you think you like him more than a friend? well if you do you can just wait a while longer to see if he feels the same way.. if he does, he might come out in the open and tell you himself how he feels. But on the other hand, he might be confused about how you feel about him. He might not say anything because of this. If you don't want to wait because you think he won't be comfortable asking you out, you can tell him how you feel before he does. And if he likes you too than he will tell you his feelings for you. Just so you know, you have to keep this in mind, if you two became too close of friends, it might be strange for him to go out with you, so if he wants to stay friends, just accept it, and eventually he might see how glamorous you can be and might fall for you. That's all I can really say to help you.. sorry if this isn't much help to you, but I hope it does help.


This is going to be long or no one is going to understand my situation.

Basically I'm 16 & Female: I had this perfect boyfriend (or so it seemed) we dated constant, no breakups, for 17 months. He, too, was 16. We planned so much, we were even getting engaged, it was perfect. Near January of this year, things started getting a little rocky between him & I. See we go to different schools so we never really got to see eachother that often. We planned to meet eachother at the bowling alley, and that night we got in a fight. The fight wasn't really over anything big, he just got mad at me over something & hurt my arm. But I told him that he had anger problems & needed to resolve them. So basically, for the next 3 days he ignored me. He ignored my calls, my texts, my messages, my emails, & he never called me back, returned anything. Then I had gotten on the computer that day & he broke up with me. I was not only mad that it was through the computer, but I was furious because of everything he threw away. A week down the road, he comes back to me & asks for this thing he called "break-up sex" I knew it would have been a mistake for me to have done it, but I wanted him back & I wanted that feeling back. So I agreed to it. Later on, he tells me that he's "talking" to someone & doesn't want to ruin things with her, so he doesn't want to have this "sex." I was hurt. Basically because I still wanted him back. Friday night, I went to the basketball game at his school to meet up with a couple of my friends, and he was there. He wasn't with anyone like he told me he would have been. So he texts me & asks me to meet him outside. We ended up having sex in the backseat of his car. I don't really regret it, but last night he told me that he never would ever get back together with me & that friday night was an accident. What is your all's opinion on this situation? (link)
I.m sorry. I thought this was my friend... I thought she said this was her question.. or that she just wanted me to read it...sorry.


Could some one who knows hispanic names real well (not just someone whos taken spanish or is hispanic)and posibbly from over there say i do and i will e-mail my question to your column.
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Unique.. i.m not sure wtf ur talking about..lmao..
call me later..peace out.. ur BFF!
-Vivi


Okay. so i like this boy. he has big ears but he nice and cute.:].i dont know if i should tell him i like him or not. cause if i tell then im scared he will make fun of me. can u guys give me advice. (link)
You should give it more time. If you know him a while longer you might be able to figure out whether he likes you or not. If he does make fun of you... just know this HE'S NOT WORTH IT!...and that wouldn't make him nice anymore, now would it?
You should wait until you know him well enough to know he won't laugh when you tell him how you feel. And I know how you feel because I can relate. I like this guy..and I know him well enough to know he won't laugh at my face when I ask him out( if I ever do). But I just haven't asked him out because I'm not sure whether he likes me or not..and I'm not really a brave person. So I'm always scared to do things like that, but the best advice I can give you it to be brave.


Lately I've been so depressed. I'm 15 yrs old and started highschool. My life is a wreck. I feel like I'm always stressed and don't feel like I wanna live anymore. Eventhough I wouldn't commit suicide. I find myself writting depressing poems and just crying sometimes for no reason. My life isn't the happies life a girl would wish for. My parents are always fighting. They're always in bad moods and take it on me and my 18 year old sister. I hate it!. Also I feel like I have no real friends. Like they really donet care about me. Also my boyfriend that I really cared about broke up with me for no reason and now he wnats another chance. Sometimes I feel like he cares other times I don't. And I don't know what to do. I feel so stressed and like no one really cares about me. My parents work all the time and never have time for me and when we do talk we always end up fighting so I can't talk to them. I have no one to talk to. I hate my life. Please help. (link)
You should try to find a good friend to talk to because you need someone to tell all your problems in detail to. As for your boyfriend, you can give him another chance if you like. He might really be sorry for what he did. Your parents need to chill, but just TRY YOUR BEST to talk to them and not get into arguements with them. They have problems, just like everyone else, but they don't have to take it out on you or your sister. Just try to get closer to them and tell them how you feel about everything that's going on.. They might try not take out their anger on you or your sister if they realize how much they are making you 2 suffer. Just so you know, my life isn't all "happies" either, but I make the best of it and you should too.




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