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I'm sixteen now and I've never had any desire for a boyfriend. I've never had one, either. It's not like guys don't flirt or ask me out, I'm just never interested. So it's not a self-esteem issue or anything. About two years ago I met this guy at a show and I was just, like, instantly infatuated with him. He told a few of my friends that he thought I was pretty, and I was happy, and I smiled at him a lot and he smiled a lot at me and then one day I just didn't see him at shows anymore or at school and it just stopped. I know he's still around, my friends know him. My point is that I can't stop thinking about this kid. I feel like I compare every other boy to him and I barely know him. What can I do to stop thinking about him?
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ik exactly how you feel cuz wen i ment this boy in the 7th grade, i liked him ever since (its been like 4ever..)well.. i.ll stop blabbing on about me..lol..you should just get to know him a little better by asking your friends -because they know him- to ask him if he wants to hang out with you guys sometime. if you get to hang out with him.. than you.ll get to know him and become his friend. and you can hang out... just the 2 of you. and if you still like him.. and he likes you.. he can be your first bf.. but just because you feel like you love him or your infatuated doesnt mean you have to rush things.. just keep that in mind..thats all i can help you with..hope you get the change to be his friend..good luck!
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You hardly know him right? You should find him and talk to him and see how good of a guy he is. To stop thinking about him would be really hard especially since you had no desire for a guy before. So trying to forget about would be one of the hardest things on the list.
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i think you're living my life. there are a few things you can do here, but the one that i'd strongly advise you to do: go after him. because you're never going to know how it would have turned out if you try to forget. and if it doesn't work out, then you'll learn to deal with it in time and hopefully find another guy. but if you can't get him off your mind, there's a reason for that.
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