I have this friend, lets call him Bob. Bob is funny, nice, and has a good personality. Also, Bob is my friend and a boy. Sometimes I get mixed signs from him and mixed thoughts from me. In class Bob will turn around since he sits in front of me and he will just stare at me, for a long time too. I'll sit there looking at a book or whatever the class is doing and act like I dont see him, but then I look up and he keeps staring. Then, I'll say "What?" and he always says "Nothing". I always wonder, "what does nothing mean, because it must be something if you were just staring at me. Or sometimes Bob will turn around and just smile at me and I'll smile back. I dont like Bob as more than a friend, but then again I think I might. I feel like I'm positive I dont, but its like some little part of me does. I dont know what to do and I really want to know if Bob likes me as more than a friend. And I'm Really not sure if I like bob as a close friend like a brother or as more.Sometimes I want to get that idea of my head and try and get rid of the feeling, is that possible? Honestly, not to be mean, but this guy isn't cute at all, but his personality is. I've never been attracted to someone based on the personality though and its weird. What should I do ?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? colombiana122993 answered Monday February 12 2007, 6:30 pm: Unique..i know its you.. and I know who your asking about so... this is my answer to your question...(Bob=interesting made-up name!)
I think you like him (maybe just a little), but you do, and you're just confused. I known you forever (a little over a year- lamos!) but i know how you are.. and i think you might have some feelings for him.. either that or I'm confused because you like him like a close friend...Do you feel as confused about your feelings towards him like you did about Mada?....because either you "like-like" Bob or you like him as a close friend/ brother. You should give it some time, to figure out how you really feel about him.
your best friend,Vivi [ colombiana122993's advice column | Ask colombiana122993 A Question ]
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