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I'm Christina 25 years old I give very good advice when it becomes to being questions about being married,babys,pregnancy,abuse,career,adhd,depression,life,ectIve been through a lot in my life 14 years of counseling and sex therapy my life wasn't always perfect i was adopted by my grandmother as a child didn't find out til i was older my mother was living with us and she got away with things when i had my daughter at 20 I had no choice but give her to a family my mother was abusive to me yelling at me i was taking care of my grandmother but i was living at home i was engaged to be married but every thing didn't turn out right the man i loved lied to me so I had to change and not be life my family be mature move on and get away some family can be controlling that it can ruin your life that the best thing you can do get out get counseling I I graduated high school in 2003 and then i went to art school at art instruction school and dress making design i became a plus size model help from a friend I might have not had help in some ways of life but friends were the best in my life i looked at their life and that what i wanted my grandmother was just getting old when i reach a certain age my mother did drugs that one resin I left my sister were the same I wanted to to be their they wanted me to be like them well i did not want to be white trash so i toke some lady classes to be classy,graceful,independent this made me more of a women of my image and people like you when you have good manners good taste and can carry a conversation and can get along if you want to change you can god is one of the people that help me through every thing I might have had to give up on things but some times you have to make them better you might end up with nothing but along the way you get the things you need but things do not come free in life and you just cant sit their let in come to you. you have to get out and do it your self or you will not live the dream. god gave us all a talent live it do it become it never give up . my mother killed her self and overdosed on pill i was their and my grandmothers deathbed at least I seen her before it was time for her to go she was a good women she gave me good advice she and her husband owned a bar my grandmother was married twice but her first husband died then she was widowed and was poor then a man came in her life she lost her son at his age 13 my grandfather past away also but my grandmother was hard working women she would get work done if you didn't she could do any thing Im like her she didn't go to art school her dad wanted her to. but she got married instead well i did the art thing for her i got it from her her teaching me and showing me as a child as i will always love her never give up the people that showed you life and love its the main key to life I grew up having adhd still l have it to this day dosn't mean your dume it mean you got talent and you always have ideas running throw your head walt disney,the guy who mad charlie brown all had adhd woppie goldberg,mary kate and ashley,ect no ones is alone in some we we are the same but we all different image is nothing never compare you self to ant one be your self be healthy exercise eat healthy and you'll be happy thank you for reading this have a good day. my webpages myspace/ANNAIKA my email chrissibug@yahool.com
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My friend's husband has been cheating on her for about a year. He is telling her that he loves her and will not leave her. He is telling his girlfriend that he is only staying at the house with his wife until he can move some of his stuff out and that he sleeps on the couch. He tells his girlfriend that his wife knows its over and he is leaving her. Wife is ok with that! He is actually working both sides of the fence for his benefit. Girlfriend has money, wife does not. Has told all his friends that his wife knows he is leaving her and he has nothing to hide. He does not want to give up the house to his wife, wants her out. Girlfriend is completely unaware of what is still going on between the husband and the wife, they are still sleeping together and he acts like she is the love of his life when together. Should I tell my friend what her husband is doing? When he is seen in public with his girlfriend she acts like they are a couple and there are no problems. He is lying to both. Help please!
Im going to tell you this nor to be mean men do stupid things. but if the wife cant do her job hell seek it some were else but trust me he will not stay with the bimbo she just a fling. some times do this they feel if their a loser or he not getting what he wants in sex or something else this why people need to be opened. a man with a family not goingm to leave if their kids but see women can cheat to.but some times people don't stay together it best to move find some else say good by to that life start new that all she can do if it not going to work if they don't like the same interest like some people like bdsm or are vanilla tow people will fight and bicker see to side need to get the what they want if they don't see it they will leave. it not being mean its the fact of life yes trust is the main key ma bee you just need to tell her leave him go back to school get your nails down and start dating it all comes with cofedents their more fish in the sea hope this helps.
I am having issues with my roommate, and we have only been living together for a week. We met in class, and she asked if I needed a roommate. She seemed like a very nice person- very helpful, studious, friendly...but now that we live together, I am seeing a very different side of her, and I cannot stand it.
For one thing, she is incredibly critical of many things, no matter how miniscule the issue. She is incredibly cheap as well- EVERYTIME, literally EVERYTIME we've gone out to eat, she obsesses over the bill, how much tip we should pay, if we overpayed, etc., etc., she is SUCH a perfectionist in so many aspects, and will count down to the last cent. It's ridiculous. AND, to top things off, it seems she has ulterior motives, and it really gets to me. We have a few classes together, and out of the BLUE, NOWHWERE, she asked if i was going to switch sections for one class, OBVIOUSLY because she didn't want to spend all day in class with me, then come home and see me again...well, guess what, I don't want to see her all day either.
SHe will smile, and give you puppy dog eyes, and to the outsider, she's absolutely wonderful, but once you see her true colors, it's a different story. Say she wants something- she WILL find a way to get it, with a smile and kind eyes, of course, very sneaky little snake, she is. I am stressed out enough as it is, and to have to deal with her shit is too much to handle. In short, she is stingy as hell, a total perfectionist, has a crapload of ulterior motives, all behind her "niceness." WHAT DO I DO??
if you not a lease you can here to leave or try t osettle things i had a roomate she had no income so i jsut moved out. like she 300 you pay 300 even what ever the rent is.hey you tel lher to leave hun.
I dont know where to start, so ill just start.
I am 18 weeks pregnant, 19 years old and have been with my now 20 year old boyfriend since we were 17. Found out about the pregnancy in October, we were living in an apartment with my bestfriend and her boyfriend. I started to get very bad morning sickness, constant vomit and fevers because of the dehydration so I decided it would be best to stop working for a few months. My boyfriend got layed off at the same time. Seeing the position we were in my wonderful mother took both of us in because he had noowhere to go. This was Dec. 1st. The agreement was 250 a month when we got jobs and to be clean and respectful. My boyfriend started his new job with in a couple of weeks. He is terrible with money, he blows through his 680 dollar checks in a matter of 5 days or less. Granted he buys me food or what ever i ask for, but then he holds it against me. (BUT during our apartment stay he lived off of me for two months, rent food fun everything i paid for) Also in the time he doesnt have money or we didnt have jobs he was usually talking me into getting a direct deposit advance (a loan from my bank that will with drawl 35 days later) Also, he smokes weed, and Im completley okay with it. we are laid back people and i believe that weed is completley fine, much more relaxed than drinking. but the problem is, all of his money goes to weed, and all of my advances went to weed. now the 35 days are catching up, i do have a job now but havent gotten paid yet. and my bf got his mom to loan him 80 dollars. 50 of which went to weed, idk where the other 30 went, but now im out of gas and cant get to work tonight (we share a car). This is a constant story, and he hasnt been attempting to save at all and he hasnt given my mother any money and im always picking up after him and his friends are always over when i get home from work. hes a sweet guy but i dk what im doing wrong, i cant get him to see the way he is is not okay. Next month i told him he is giving my mom money and me 600 every month until we move out so we arent out on our ass with a baby when we do (september)and im not taking "well can i jst pay this" for an answer bc thats what ive been hearing and he still has a 300 rent to own bill and a 300 E.R. bill and a 200 communit college bill(he never attended. he hasnt called to discuss finacial assistance or tell them he doesnt have the money either. theres more . Im going crazy bc he doesnt listen to me and always tells me my negative energy is bringing him down and always brushes me off. i have noone to talk to about me or how i feel and its starting to make me depressed. my friends just arent much for advice or conversation i dont feel comfortable whining to them bc they come to me for advice, bc i am always gonna tell them whats best for them, but in return i get the answers that will make me happy. i need more. i need advice. I also finally decided "okay, im gonna do this im gonna go to school" but then discussed with my mom the dilemma of him wanting to go to school and work and how i do not believe in daycare, we decided maybe i should wait and if we save the money I have planned, (like 6000 by sept) than i can stay home with baby, he can go to school and work full time and in 4 years hell have a career, baby will be in preschool, and i can start my school. (a vet tech program that takes 2 years) my mom and i decided that i would try school in august, but thinking all realisticly i dont want my child in daycare, i worked at one and it was not pretty. and i dont mind the stay at home mom idea. I just dont want him to think it gives him the right to control me bc i am not making any money. gosh everything is just frustrating, between him not having any money, me putting off at school, figuring out how i am going to raise a child when he sometimes treats me like i am just here for what ever purpose he thinks i am, and then the idea that we CAN do this. I have not given that up. i just am so lost with noone to talk to and i just dont know what to do and it breaks my heart because i love him, thats how i got myself here. Since we were 17 ive been the money maker, paying for everything, i took him in my home, i moved out with him under the stupid notion it would help him, and part of me wonders if he got me pregnant on purpose because i was so set on becoming my own person with my own place and my own life when we moved out. I have been in a serious relationship since i was 14, and he knows i was going to break up with him, it was obvious. Now here we are and i sit here and cry everymorning and i dont even know what i want anyone to tell me bc i dont know which is a problem and which is normal. or if im being overly dramatic. i just doint know. i just cant take it anymore and wish my baby was here so i had someone to love that has to love me and wont make me feel bad for feeling the way i do
they have pregant women for model on model mayham im a pluzsize model i just like to help people http://www.modelmayhem.com/1508899 it might help you in some way.
15/f im pregnant. About 2 weeks now. Im very scared to tell my parent's although, i know they will understand.
I dont belive in adoption, nor abortion. I think both suck. i intend on keeping my child. I was more along the lines of asking, how bad is childbirth? I want to do a seasection. Do they numb you? or..? Im scared of the pain. And also, where can i find cheap baby clothes? Thanks in advance
hun the best thing you can do is tell then now becasue later you will regret it thier ways to help think about it. yes we go throw thing in are lifes we have to stop and think what the right thing i was 20 i wasnt ready had open adoption. were you get to see the child still. you have to think what best for you and the baby hun. no afence yes it a part a life. here are some tips what do you wanna do with your life you have to get a job a car, and your going to need a husband it never to late to start your life but look how your lifes going to be not going to be able to go out on saturday night why you have to watch the baby. some teen ager have to have thier mom watch the baby, your best bet is trying a alterive school if you keep the baby some people are judgemental not to be mean i seen it.you gotta turn your life around it your body but you nmeed to know, i help the state i show you what i mean.
Dear Ms. George:
Thank you for contacting me regarding the Real Education About Life Act (REAL Act). I appreciate hearing from you on this subject.
Abstinence-only education programs teach that abstaining from sexual activity outside of marriage is the expected standard of conduct. This program emerged in response to concerns about teenage pregnancy and non-marital births. Advocates of abstinence-only education contend that children should be taught that abstaining from sexual activity is the only way to prevent pregnancies and to avoid sexually transmitted diseases.
Many others, however, believe a more comprehensive approach to sexual education, one that gives the information young people need to set relationship limits and resist peer pressure, as well as information on the use of contraceptives, is the best way to provide them with the skills needed to make realistic, practical decisions about engaging or not engaging in sexual activities, which will reduce teenage pregnancies. I share many of these beliefs.
The REAL Act (S.611) was introduced on March 17, 2009, by Senator Frank Lautenberg (D-NJ). The bill would authorize funding to be used by states for comprehensive age-appropriate sex education programs. These programs would be based on only medically accurate information and would encourage communication within the family regarding issues of sexuality. While the REAL Act would still stress the value of abstinence as the only sure way to avoid pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases, it also would provide information about the health benefits and side effects of all contraceptives and barrier methods.
Thank you again for contacting me.
Sincerely,
Carl Levin
see what i mean having baby you might thing im going to get married or have a good life util it happen you will relise it.you really need to look in to birth control after the baby born wait till you older hun in 25 now i changed my life im a model now yes it hurts me about my daughter some times you have to let go move on trust me do the right thing dont rouion your life you need to be stable to have a baby it takes to people with out a dad proplems i hope this helps honey i dont wanna see you get yelled at or have a bad life trust i this whyim on here to act questions here my model mayham so you cna believe change you life stay in school g oto college volinteer thier things online about family you live with util the babys born for adoption http://www.modelmayhem.com/1508899. good look hun email me at chrisisbug@yahoo.com if you need help.
Anybody know anyone in Ohio Valley, places for people want to ads being hand model and do hand modeling? Thanks
its my dream to be a hand model
go to model mayham make acount not hard you nee help ask me im a fetish model you need to look for some photogher in your area get acount thier i can help i use to be amute first been model for 4 years
http://www.modelmayhem.com/1508899 heres mine add me when you make one trust me just use a camra im a plus size model i liek to hel people in every way
Hi i am going to my very first modeling workshop on tuesday. My agent told me that I should bring heals and a notebook but I want to know if there is anything else i should bring with me or do. Is there anything I should know? Should I prepare some how? Please answer with w/e you knwo about modeling and workshops???
well i do i was a amatur when i fist started i give you my model mayham mayham http://www.modelmayhem.com/1508899 been a model for a long time and hin you dont pay them they pay you. bring a fre heels bring a siut case well for one before you model taking care of your self aply loction on 3 times a day have your hair cute trim or what ever try to work out thier al lsapes and sizes im a plus size but your probly a skinny one ihave worked with a lot of photoghafers i friends with many you need to learn how to pose thier things on uptube that show you how to pose and thier thing on the internet to do make up for models i do my own hair make up i never ask wel li learned the hard way you some girls do thier own if they no what thier doing. its good to bring your own things some time to make your own port some crops always work like some golves a pare of gloves sun glasses ect use your mind and your body i really didnt have to modeling school i had a photoghafer that was a friend but if you need any help make a pro on model mayham and ad me. photoghfers love new faces and wil lput you on thier site and ports see this how it works and them when you got osme glamour pics then you cna be noticed for things be what you want chose what you want. you like naughty wear artsy clothes fashion . im a fetish artsy model. hope this helps have fun and good luck every ones nice on model mayham any one will help and so will i people say hi good luck.
how much blood will be in your panties if/when your hymen breaking
alot do get big pads
Well I made this new guy friend named...Andrew.
We texted each other like everyday over Christmas break and he told me he liked me.
Suddenly he seems to like hate me though...he's always calling me a bitch and when I text him he asks if he knows me...wtf is his problem? Like out of no where he like, hates me..?
Am i too clingy or something? I'm pretty sure I'm not...I seriously haven't done anything to make him mad.
Btw this isn't the first time a guy has done this to me.
....wtf...
thanks.
if he cnat rember wh oyou are mabee he was with his friend or he was with a girl or just stay a way from the jerk
i can't remember if i put a tampon in. i looked in amirror and i couldn't find anything up there...i dont really want to go sticking my finger up there but i did bleed a little on my underwear and my period is light...do you think i'm good? or did the string just disappear? lol thanks
it moght have came out when you went to the bathroom but you might want to check cause if it left in thier pms sydrom that not good women can get it for wearinng to long
So I had a miscairage 3months ago and I want to get pregnant!!! Im 15 and need tips on how to conceive. Thnx (:
hun your 15 i know in the old day it was ok mabee god gave your a chance being pregant at a young age can lead to many things i wont mock you but il tel you its not fun you have to get a job you need your own place you need a husband to and a care.i was 20 year old when gave my daughter to a family i wasnt ready after that i went to college now im a model on model mayham Mayhem #1508899
Model but see hun school is main thing right now and having fun being a girl and firgure out life dont you want to have the life you want having that baby you wil have to stay home why your friends get to have fun miss going to the pool or having extra money when the money will have to be for the baby. if you want to have sex please try getting on birth control. having a baby messes up your body stretch marks and every thing it tock me 2 years to get my boby back hAD TO GO THE GYM AND A MEBERshipa NOW SEE WOULDNT YOU RATHER WATE
TAKE IT SLOW HUN YOUR STIL YOUNG you got a long time wate until your in your 20 or thirty dont you want to have freedom. to do things trust me some peopl cant handle kids. now im wating til lim in my thirtys to have babys or ill just adopt im happy dont you want to be happy. having a baby dosnt make the daddy stay around ether ill tel lyou that when you get older take you r time go on date find the real one youll understand as you get older.
Ok so me and My friend are planning to run away!
anyone got any tips on places to go && ways to make money etc. ? I just need running away tips! Thnx!
I live in oregon
ok if your age 16 that might not be good cause by law iofi you were 18 that would be difeernt not les you were stable had your own house i say wate tel your a legal age
Okay Im a 19 year old female. I just moved in with my boyfriend (who still lives with his parents) in july and im pregnant. We live in a small town there is nothing to do and I dont know anybody here but his family. I dont work because there isnt any jobs around here and my boyfriend doesn't want me to because Im pregnant. He does work and his brothers go to school and everybody takes off everyday and im here at home by myself everyday with no car and nothing to do. I've been getting really depressed lately i cry for no reason and I think Im homesick. I miss my family but I don't want to hurt his feelings please help is it something i'll get over or am i depressed I don't want to be and i've heard it's not good for the baby..any advice will help thank you.
wel it up to what you want to do it your body mabee you need to be with your family or mabee you dont want to be with him any more or mabee your not ready to have the baby in this life time thier could be a lot of things going threw your mind. but for some advise il give you but it not mean advise thier adoptions you cna try or jsut go to college they pay for moms to be for that you no look it up on line try goin to chruch or somthing or just go back to your family you need to get out to you know.
Hi im not really new to this put i need some help. My period usually comes the 21st-25th of the month. Mine didnt come last month. I had sex right around that time a few times. Its now january 11th and i didnt get it last month. My nipples have been hurting alot and i get bad stomach cramps and everytime i eat or even smell fish or shrimp or etcc.i get sick and thats never happened before. In your opinion do you think i could be pregnant.
Also does anyone know of any other support you get from the government or state in Florida being under 18 and pregnant?
Dont write rude comments about being too young. Just help me out if you can. Thank you so very much
well you said your period dosnt come around till the 21 after 11 dayy you would be fertile or unless you period change some time that happens but i say just go the doctor its private it good just go and find out you can get ssi if your pregant but mabe trying adoption hun i did this i was 20 years old tho i had open adoption just lok on line they can help you so people wont find out you live with a famiyl until you have a baby i not moking you in any way just helping i understand thier comes a time in life we all need help its up to you what you want to do keep it give to a family. abortion is wrong but some people do that if their body cant take itor the baby has problems. i just want to say for your age school you need to keep on doing and having a baby you have to quit every thing i know you dont waNT TO WAIST YOUR life way at your age its hard to find a job i hope you seek what is write hun
I'm a 16 year old girl, I'm not fat except on my stomach I have a pouch and a little more on my sides. I'm a dancer and I dance everyday, but on top of that I've been running a mile or 2 miles (depends on the day) a day for exactly 3 weeks so far, because I really want to lose my stomach fat. My friend is having a themed costume party on the weekend of january 29th, and we are supposed to paint our stomachs. so i've been running for 3 weeks on top of dancing everyday, and i haven't see many results. i do seem a LITTLE thinner but not much, and my pouch is still there. I eat as healhty as I can, but sometimes I can't control myself, especially at night, but I'd say i eat pretty healthy. what else can i do to make this go away by that time? i feel like i'm doing everything i can. like i'm killing myself with this, i even have shin splints now from running so much while also dancing,but i'm not giving up because i'm determined to lose mmy pouch. what else can i do to make this move along faster?
try getting a corset a shirt that helps keep the belly down this help for some people it help them feel cofedent in them self
16/f
i took "next choice" which is basically the same thing as plan b 34 hours after protected sex, but just in case of leakage came out. is it normal right after taking the pill you need to pee right afterwards? would it effect the pill? i don't pee constantly, i just had to pee right after drinking so much water. and the condom had spermicides, is it less likely that i could've gotten pregnant?
after you have sex yes your supost to pee if your on the pill your fine go to planned parent hood they get you on birth control with out a parent protect your self your to young to be worring a bout sex worry a bout having fun going to school worry a bout sex like after 18 trust the rate get hire every girl you age is having a baby thier stuck living with thier parent cause the giys not stable im just looking out for you not making fun of you i use to be 16 to.
I have a friend, 18 years old, who is in her second year of college. She was born in the USA, but her parents are from the middle east. Her parents are very overbearing. She is not allowed to go out alone or talk to boys at all and must always have her paren't premission to go out with friends, talk on the phone, or do pretty much anything. She must come home right after school and is not allowed to have a social life.
As a girl, her paren't feel that she must be protected and are constantly nagging her and guilt tripping her. She gets no privacy as they are constantly in her room and looking over her shoulder and critisizing her while she is doing homework. This is affecting her grades dramaticaly and drains her of joy and energy.
Because of the culture, her father would consider it offensive for her to even suggest that he is doing something wrong and her mom is constantly worrying about my friend's safety. My friend's mom also tells me that she misses her daughter when she is away and does not want her leaving for long periods at a time (like a couple of hours).
What advice can I give my friend and how can I help her break free from her controlling parents while still maintaining a relationship with them?
not to be mean by law she was born in the us she 18 she can come and go as she pleases she can move out.she a grown women she need to tell her parents she need to be treated like adult ya i can say ya it thier house but come on this the us things are diffent if you dont learn to get out you stay with mommy daddy for ever. i say get her a counsler and then they can talk this out cause she need to have a lige to i moved out when was 18 couldnt take the crap my self i could understand if she 16 but shr not she can get pack her things get a job her parents can vistit your a good friend help her tel lwhat she need to do help her have the cop help escort to move if you have to do what ever it takes to getr her out they might be worried about boys but she older hello.
or with Elite and Wilhelmina modeling agencies?
Iam 5'11
how much should i weigh?
whats the pay like
and what are the jobs like?
im a pluzsizemodel do be a fordmodel thier going to tell wht todo tellyou lose this or whatever thier other way you haveto tel lwhatstate you live in. thier photgafers that helpgils get in so they dotn haveto pay at first i learnd it that way no ones perfect trust me they make yu suck it in but you do ned to tome yourboy they air rush everything onltel you mdel cothesand stuff then you haveto worry more ok take low youneed to take really good care of your self more. email me chrissibug@yahoo.com
Hi. 14/f long im sorry, please read though ;(
Ok, I made a lot of mistakes. I lost a respect from a best friend,(cierra) i told something she told me in confidence to my other best friend(shaila). I shouldn't have and i regret it so much, we are trying to start over again, it's so hard though because both cierra and shaila hate each other. They are fighting, and shaila she is my best friend now because she helped me threw a lot. Threw the fighting with cierra and with a guy who really hurt me(i will get to him soon) I really regret telling Shaila but i could trust shaila, but cierra can't. She never gave shaila a chance though, she's really a good person. I hate her criticizing her, she's also mad that she's my best friend now, but i can't help that. She treated me horrible, i didn't treat her right either though. Now, on to the boy. You see he was the guy i really thought "loved" me. He made me feel good, he told me i was pretty, hot sexy and all of that. He said i love and i want to hold you and stuff.We met last summer and i liked him and he liked me to, i found out that he liked this other girl to. I didn't like the idea of that. He used me, because the other girl lives all the way in Florida. We talked like dirty to each other and all that, he actually got me to do that.I decided to forget about him than he came back, i was stupid enough to take him as my boyfriend. I really thought we would last. Than the thing that i regret the MOST is, i sent him a pic of me nude. Not fully only one breast.He convinced me, by sending me a picture of his.. you know. So, i thought we were the real deal? That we were really together and he really cared about me, but the next day he broke up with me, telling me that i was CHEATING on him?!!! So, we were over. I moved on off of him, i have someone else, but i feel so horrible and i really need some help. I feel sick all the time, i vomit every morning on my way to school because im so stressed because of all of this. I don't eat as much as i use to. I'm so depressed. Please someone help me, how do i forget what i did move on? I know what i did was wrong, i asked god to forgive me of my sins, but i still feel like a horrible person. Shaila tells me that i'm not, im the best thing that ever happend to her, im the only friend who gives her repsect, and she doesnt want to lose me. Please don't criticize me more please, just help alright?
Thanks for listening sorry it's so long.
boys will come and go but friends will will always be thier. yes friends get mad at each other. take a break let them call you. people get mad over stuped resions if theycant escept who you are who your friends with them they shouldnt be in your life yuor you no one can control you.if they got a problem they can talk but no one wants drama in thier life. fighting dosnt solve anything.some times yes we have to go to are friend because we dont no whats wrong could be stress some one died in thier family. all you have to say is. im here for you for good and bad and the ugly times but why you got to chose what I do tell her you dont do it to her controling me just makes use fight.what happen to the shoping the girls night out just tell her you miss her we need to talk but if she still a snob then go your way and shel lgo hers thier more friends out thier just like boys lol hope this help bye now.
When i was young i rememember being sexually child abused a multiple of times it was by friends of the family, it must have started from when i was 5 to i was about 8 i mind being held down by this one man.then his foster brother used to do it too, the man that held me down on table to rape me still talks to my parents and his foster brother was murdered 10years ago and i cryed with glee more than greif at his funeral im now 23 and its been in my head for years ive never spoken to now, im so sure my sister was abused too tho im afraid to mention it too her even tho we are close because if it didnt happen to her then i no she will go straight to him and bring everyting up again, i dont want to cause conflict in my family as there has been enough tho i wish to a speak about it to clear my head, i find it hard to get close too people because of this and have never lasted long in a relationship, although i now have a gorg little girl of 10 motnhs and i am very protective over her i dont let her out of my site, i dont wish to be a mother than can't let her child have freedom, tho in this life u can never trust people around a child.
counsling can clear yourmind because what you say stay with them, yes you cant keep it in your mind forever you want to get out but you dont want to.abuse can afect your life if you dont talk about it you have to clear your mind and move on. my father abuse me a a child I had to go throw counsling. some time it good to talk to a stanger but some ones that has been throw same thing but a counsler a mentor can help you need to do this because every time you see somthing thatreminds you it starts the crying you odnt want to be around people or you dont trust men. you need to be free try some new goals to help you hope this helps good look.
I have 3 best friends that I spend all of my time with. However, I'm the only one that has a job, and they don't respect that. They're always asking me to pay for them, to drive b/c "I have gas money", they always ask me to call in sick to work to hang out with them instead, and they get mad if I don't want to stay out late b/c I have work early in the morning.
I'm not trying to be a party pooper, I just don't want to screw up my job. What should I do? They don't seem to get it when I talk to them about it.
what it souns like thier useing you your the one going to work so mabee you can save your money this means you have a life.yes its ok to go out some times. but if people cant respect you that you have to go to work what kind of friend are they any ways. mabe thier upset they dont get to see you but don't let them control you.you got a job yuor being mature thats what life is go to work so you can have things learning life as you go along. saving money for college a new coat or what ever you work hard for your money. tel lthem to go get a job your not thier atm. what wil lyou have left if you give to them. the more you give the more they know they can get out of you.you need to put yuor foot down.but really it looks like your growing up and thier failing to resect you cause if a women was staying home and the man went to work it woudl be the same way the women cant get mad if he workin gotta pay bills some how. tell your friend your bizzy you got bills to pay yes like i said if your realy to go out you got free time that ok but if i were you find some new friends that can deal with you not ones that or e going to use its up to you but if you keep letting it go thier going to keep doing it to you hope the best for you.