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Husband cheating on Friend
My friend's husband has been cheating on her for about a year. He is telling her that he loves her and will not leave her. He is telling his girlfriend that he is only staying at the house with his wife until he can move some of his stuff out and that he sleeps on the couch. He tells his girlfriend that his wife knows its over and he is leaving her. Wife is ok with that! He is actually working both sides of the fence for his benefit. Girlfriend has money, wife does not. Has told all his friends that his wife knows he is leaving her and he has nothing to hide. He does not want to give up the house to his wife, wants her out. Girlfriend is completely unaware of what is still going on between the husband and the wife, they are still sleeping together and he acts like she is the love of his life when together. Should I tell my friend what her husband is doing? When he is seen in public with his girlfriend she acts like they are a couple and there are no problems. He is lying to both. Help please!
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You should tell your friend that her husband is cheating. Even if she is not working, if she files for divorce he will have to pay alimony payments to her because he cheated on her and more than likly she will get to keep the house because she is not working and used to a cretain lifestlye.The worst case about the house they are ordered to sell it and split the profit. If there are kids then she will more than likely get custody of them and get child support too. If her lawyer is good enough she can also make her cheating husband pay for her lawyer since the divorce is his fault. She will need to prove to the court that he was cheating. This why he is telling his girlfriend that he does not want to leave he knows his wife can take him to the cleaners. More than likely when your friend takes that asshole of a husband to court and he is paying out half to his ex-wife his girl friend will be paying for everything. She will sooner or later get sick of it and leave him for someone else. So because your friend has no money it will work in her favor. She can also have the court grant an order where he has to leave the house and is unable to kick her out because she has no income coming in and he does. Just make sure to tell her before she confronts him she needs to get proof with pictures, voicemail messages, etc. Good luck.
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Im going to tell you this nor to be mean men do stupid things. but if the wife cant do her job hell seek it some were else but trust me he will not stay with the bimbo she just a fling. some times do this they feel if their a loser or he not getting what he wants in sex or something else this why people need to be opened. a man with a family not goingm to leave if their kids but see women can cheat to.but some times people don't stay together it best to move find some else say good by to that life start new that all she can do if it not going to work if they don't like the same interest like some people like bdsm or are vanilla tow people will fight and bicker see to side need to get the what they want if they don't see it they will leave. it not being mean its the fact of life yes trust is the main key ma bee you just need to tell her leave him go back to school get your nails down and start dating it all comes with cofedents their more fish in the sea hope this helps.
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