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baby mama drama
I am prganent by my ex boyfriend,and he does not want the baby and does not want to be with me...what should i do??
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Unfortunately this happens a lot. Its the very reason girls need to think very seriously before they rush into having sex with a guy. They can leave, you can't.
If you are wanting to keep the baby, you will have to make it on your own. It can be done. The baby needs to be your focus right now, not some guy who didn't care enough to stand by you.
I wish I knew your age as it would have been helpful. If you don't want the responsibility or don't want to struggle to make it on your own, there is adoption options. Going it alone will not be easy, it will be very hard, but it is by no means impossible.
My advice is to concentrate on you and your baby. See you doctor regularly and take care of yourself. Hard as it may be, you don't need a selfish guy in your life right now.
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sadly he dose have the choice on whether or not he wants to be in the babys life or even your boyfriend but he dose not have the choice to not pay you child support get him for all hes worth hunny...and they say there never really daddy til they hold there baby so he could always change his mind at the last second...there are other things you need to consider here to do YOU want the baby....abortion are legal in almost all the states....and adoption is another good option to look at....i think one thing you need to start focusing on though is you and that baby because whether or not hes in your life if you keep it it will be for the rest of your life there is an itty bitty creature about to come out of you and you have to think about whats best for it....maybe hel change his mind boys are like that
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Talk to him and tell him he had a part in this too and he means something to this baby too and that hes responsible too and if he still doesnt want anything to do with you or the baby then you really have no option then to raise this baby on your own or give it up for adoption. I also suggest you guys go to counselling if possible but i highly suggest talking to him first and making him understand. Good luck :D
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