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My name’s SAV. Okay so there are these two girls S and H. At school have our own little group of friends, there are 6 girls, we all get along except me, and S and H. S and H are best friends, and they don’t like me and it’s obvious. They talk about me right in front of me. We had some drama at the beginning of the year, so I was like okay I guess we can try to get along now. Well there was thing we all tried out for and they somehow made it and I didn’t so I was sad and started to cry b/c I wanted it badly. And Friday 3/14 is when we found out if we made it or not. Well that same day one of the friends in our group named A, called me to comfort me and stuff. I didn’t pick up immediately b/c I was sad, so I called back later like around 7(she called me at 4). S and H happen to be at her house when I called. And so I started to cry on the phone and A had to leave the room b/c I was crying when she was talking to me. Well when she left H and S in her room, and they started laughing and saying stuff like oh my god why is she crying and stuff. On Sunday S text me to ask me if I made it or not. (I could’nt tell if she wanted to rub it in my face or if she really did’nt know). Well Monday came along and I sat at lunch with my other friend b/c I knew they would brag about it, and I did’nt want to deal with it. My friend V sat with them and was talking to them, then this guy came over and was like where’s SAV? And S said I don’t know with a sort of attitude, then the guy goes “why do you sit with her if you don’t like her”? Then S and H immediately looked at each other like oohh crap and looked at my friend V to see if she heard. So obviously they still hate me, but I was’nt able to tell b/c it was like we actually got along. So I don’t really know why they hate me? Maybe it’s cause they’re bored and need something to do…I don’t know…But yea so they stilll talk about me and I can’t stand it. I really want to say something about it but not directly. I was thinking about saying something like, “ I hate it when people act like your friend and yet they talk about you” or “I know people hate me, but I still try to get along with them, and it’s annoying how they don’t even try.” I don’t know something like that.
But the thing is, if I say something I don’t know if it’ll start drama, and I really want to say something b/c it’s bothering me, they’ve been doing this for the whole entire year.
And if I’m going to say something what should I say??
And I don’t want to say it to them, I just kinda want to hint it to them really big.
**srry about the grammer i was in a hurry
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if it were me i would say something sarcastic and rude to make them shut up. or flat out just tell them if your going to be jerks, do it behind my back. no matter what it will start drama but dont go along with it. if you make them think your vulnerable or gullable they will do it to you and disrespect you if you make them think your hard and wont take that crap, they will have a bit more respect for you. you just cant give in. and personally i think saying something to them even if it starts drama is way better than letting them keep doing that to you.
hope i helped!
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15/f
so i have this guy friend who was saying stuff about my best friend. he really has no reason to hate my friend because honestly she didn't do anything to him, he just started saying stuff to her. i got into a fight with my guy friend last week and now we're not really on speaking terms and it was all started with him saying stuff about my best friend again.
i really don't understand his reasoning for being like that to her, he's really stubborn.
i mean i want to be friends with him again but i don't know what i should say to him. he knows now that he probably should keep his oppinions about my other friend to himself. i hate fighting with people, what should i say to him? (link)
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maybe he likes your friend. if thats what he talks about all the time. (just a thought) if thats not the case and hes just being a butthead, then dont talk to him for a while. guys usually get over things fast. and if he brings it up again, tell him hes not cool. idk guys are strange
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so i always used to have a strong personality, and i was really strong willed, but this past year i've lost myself. people walk all over me, my friends my family - even my boyfriend who is usually a pushover is always walking all over me. i tried finally talking to him and he acted like he was listening, then two minutes later he acted like nothing ever happened and went back to normal. i don't want to fight so i didn't say anything but it really bothers me that he didn't take me being upset seriously.
i feel like everybody is always laughing at me, and they walk all over me. i don't like to fight but nobody listens when i say something. im tired of being a joke what can i do without causing drama? (link)
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dont ever let anyone get to you who doesnt matter in your life. dont let people walk over you. give them what they deserve. fight back. no really. just dont be afraid to say anything even if it causes drama. if they walk all over you than they deserve the drama.
hope i helped and good luck
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im moving after school is out this yr and i will be in 10th grade next year. i want to try public school there but have the option of private school. public just seems easier and idk i just want to and i only started private school in the middle of my school year now (9th grade). i dont really think public school is that bad but will it be really hard to make friends? that is my biggest concern. A bunch of the kids will be new too tho because they are tons of new housing developments and the kids keep getting redistricted. so i wont be that cliquey.
i just really want to kno if making new friends will be really tough and tips on making new friends. good friends. friends that will last and arent all two-faced and cliquey and stuff. thank you soo much and i will rate for your help! :) (link)
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my best friend moved to my school in 4th grade and she moved again in 5th. The way she seemed to make friends was by just being friendly and not letting the whole "new kid" rumors get to you. and for the two-faced cliquey girls, well there will always be some of them. you dont know who they are so become friends with girls that are nice enough to help you or something. not the girls that are just well known. hope i helped
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ok so im trying to figure out if im in love or in lust.
my bf and i only see each other on the weekends. so during the week we talk a lot and stuff like that and then when we see each other on the weekends we talk and watch tv and stuff but most of the time we makeout. a lot. haha and whenever we are together like at youth group or w/e we are always so attracted to each other and sometimes sneak off to kiss. is this just lust? we care deeply about each other but whenever we are together we always find a way to makeout. and whenever i am with him i want to hold his hand or have him put his arm around me etc.
he and i have been best friends for like 2 yrs and for like 4 months before dating he and i really liked each other but we couldnt date (stupid rule thing) and actually have liked each other off and on since the beginning of school last year. we are extremely close friends and he knows me better than anyone but whenever we are together we just want to makeout. we have always had this attraction to each other and we have this bond. i always know where he is and he always knows what im doing. we are just that close. but now im worried that we are too focused on making out. i know i could just stop kissing him so much but i LOVE to kiss and its so much fun. and it is an important part of a relationship isnt it? im just confused and idk.
i went away for the week and saw my old friends and barely thought about him compared to normally. i was so busy and having tons of fun with my old friends that he didnt even seem to matter all that much. Monday was our 3 month anniversary. and his phone isnt working so i couldnt talk to him either. so idk maybe thats why i didnt think about him? im not sure and i had always thought i was in love but now i just feel like we are best friends who are lustful and want to makeout with each other. but thats what a boyfriend is right? a best friend that you want to be intamte with? please just tell me what you think cause im confused!! haha thanks and i will rate all your advice/opinions/ideas :] (link)
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noone can decide if your in love or not. thats you. but to me it sounds like you two want to be more than friends. well it seems like you are already. talk to him and find out how he feels. and whenever im with my old friends i dont usually miss my boyfriend a lot either. i miss him but at the same time im having to much fun to think about it. just think about how you truely fell =]
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14 / f
I go to an alternative school, and we have very small classes of 5-10 people. There's a certain boy in my class who I really do like him a lot. He's nice, and he's showed and expressed interest in me -- but the problem is he can only seem to say it when he's high. He'll flirt with me in class, and call me later in the night and I can tell that he's completely gone, and he says things he usually wouldn't. He seems to want to get high at every turn. I've never done drugs or had any interest in them, so I have no idea where he's coming from.
I'm put off by the fact that he's a pot head, but at the same time I can't just stop liking him all together. He asks me to come hang out with him all the time, but I don't want to be around him when he's like that, so I always say no.
What possibly annoys me the most is that I know he has interest in another girl beside me. I know that he says pretty much the same things to her that he does to me, and I don't really understand it. I don't really understand him. I really don't know what to do about him.
Should I forget about him?
Am I right to be bothered by the fact that he's a pot head?
And why does he only really tell me he likes me when he's high?
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If you like someone than you like someone. you dont have to change that because of some stupid things. but then again you cant change a person if they dont want to change. maybe talk to him or ask him why he does those stupid stuff. ask him about the other girl and tell him you dont think its fair to you that he says things he doesnt mean. hope i helped
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ok so im tired of being someone im not. im not a prepy joke. but id rather be myself. the EMO joke. who has prepy friends. and i just figured out im tireing to be something im not. but i dont know how to cross all the way. because my friends wont like it. and im scared of what my mom and my family will think. and what her friends will think.... and i just want my brother to leave me alone about it all... (link)
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i think you should be you. but you know what i guess thats pretty easy for me to say. so if i were you i would probably show a little bit of my real self at a time. dont dump it on at once. just release different things. who knows maybe your friends will become emo too. hope i helped
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alright so i sorta kinda maybe like this boy and idk if i want to cause i always end up for going byos i dont know to well..and get my self hurt..
but the bright part is he might also like me too..and i just wanna hang out with him more..
but there is anthor prob..so there is this guy "bob" ( thats what we will call him ) and we've been having this thing for a while now..about 2 months or so but we go to differnt school and he lives abnout 15 mins away..and whenever we try hanging out he cancles at the last min or just can't ..and i tried telling him about this and he goes well its not like your not busy..but thats not true cuase im ALWAYS inviting him to places and making sure hes on the kids i have come..but oh guess what..HE CAN'T!!!!!and so he got alll mad cause i was at the movies with guys and hes lik oh blah blah..and i was like i dindt do anything ..
and so we talked after about 2 weeks. and were talking and we got on the subject of our like "status" and i was lik well..idk if like you..( i don't know cause its just so damn hard..and thats when i started sorta likeing the other guy i talked about above..
i just don't know what to do..HELP ANYONE?!?!!!? (link)
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i have an extremely identical problem. basically the same one. and i think i am going to go with the one that goes to my school who i dont know very well. but im still going to remain friends with the other one...do whatever you think is best for you. think it out for a bit
sorry i didnt help much....GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!
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so basically, about the middle of my first semester junior year, i started liking this guy in my history class. i decided to tell one of my really good friends...and then a few days later, she decides to go out with him. it's a lot more complicated than that, but they kept going out until about 3 weeks ago when she was complaining to me about him. the next day, HE broke up with HER...haha. anyways, that entire week, he'd been flirting with me like crazzzzy. he always flirts...always. i mean, he flirts with other girls, too, but my friend always catches him staring at me in class and he's always saying dirty jokes around me...it's obvious flirting. but when i had told my friend i liked him, she ended up telling him and he obviously didn't feel the same way. now, i'm so confused, it's driving me crazy. i wanna go up to him and say something, but that's so awkward. what should i do? or how can i like...tell if he's just being flirty or whatever? (link)
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it doesnt sound that your friend is as good as a fried as you thought. I would also just let it go. him and your friend. if he texts or calls you or tries to be near you or anything then he probably likes you or i could be worng but if he just does that then maybe hes just flirting..its really hard to tell with guys..they like to mess with are heads. i wish you good luck!
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I told my best friend that I am bi sexual and has feelings for her she said she doesn’t feel the same way. I try my best to get over her but its different cult. When class started in my j.r. college I thought to myself this is a good time to get my head straight and be busy to not think of her. But she asks me what time I have my one hour English class and I said at 3 to 430. She has a car and I don’t so she was being kind of enough to take me. (she has class at 530) But I saw her at school waiting for me when I get off the city bus. We talk and hang out and have fun before I go in to class. (I arrive an hour early for class because of the bus schedule.) I see her every Monday and Wednesday, I ask her why she is here early and she said “so I can spend time with you.” when I go in to class I can’t focus I think of her and wonder what to talk about after my class. I try to pay attention but she’s distracting me. So what should I do? I want to get over her and see her as a friend because I don’t want to still like someone who doesn’t feel the same way.
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i know how hard it is..i cant stop thinking about my friend thats a guy. but i guess we all just have to get over it. if they dont like us back theres nothing we can do! i hope you find someone who makes you just as happy =]. and good luck!
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Who I sorta like but I wanna become her friend first how should i talk to her cause she hangs out with people I don't but I kind of like her (link)
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i think you should just go up to her and start talking to her. or have a friend introduce you sometime. but dont be afraid you might not have another chance! hope i helped good luck!
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How do I tell my boyfriend I want time with him thats not forced time?
Its hard to explain.But im going to try.
We are always hanging out. But a lot of the time its like forced. Like hes going to help me study or me help him. Or the biggest reason his mom watches my brothers. Or I have to watch my brothers and I need help.And its not always forced though and sometimes when its not forced all he does is play video games and i watch then we have sex. I want to watch a movie or play the game with him-nothing forced. But im not sure how to tell him that.
So how do i tell him that?
And thanx in advance!
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dont tell him just do it. when hes playing his game just pick up a controler (or what ever game console you use) and start playing or just tell him you want to watch a movie with him. dont make it harder than it has to be! good luck!! hope i helped!
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sorry, but this is unbelievably long.
okay so theres this boy, and i've liked him for a while now. i'm a sophmore this year, but last year, freshman year, is when i met him. i met him like early in the school year, and we started talking a lot online. at school, we would just say hi and hug, but online, for a couple of days we would talk for an hour or two every day. then, one night, he asked me to sneak out with him, and i did. he picked me up at around 2 in the morning and we just went to this park. we sat in the car because it was cold, and there was seriously like dead silence for 5 or 10 minutes. we just kept asking each other what the other person wanted to do, but neither of us had an answer. after all, it was 2 in the morning. then he was teasing me, and he was holding me, and then he kissed me. thats all we did for the rest of the night, was make out. and he knew that he was my first kiss. then we kinda stopped talking for a couple of months. then we had winter break, and he went on vacation with his family for a week longer than we had winter vacation. when he came back, he imed me saying he missed me and stuff like that, and a couple weeks later, we ended up sneaking out again, and this time we did more than make out. in fact, we went all the way.. this talking, and going out, not talking for a while, talking again, going out again, etc, has been going on ever since. its weird because its not like doing something sexual isn't the only thing we can or know how to do, but its the thing that we do anyways. we never have anything to talk about because we rarely see each other besides these monthly "make out sessions" i guess you could say. its always awkward when we're together, especially when we're alone. we never really talk. maybe just like a "how've you been?" or "what have you been up to?" and stuff like that. and then we kinda just sit quietly. i was pretty much okay with just a physical relationship all this time for the most part. i did like him in the beginning, but after the first time we kissed, i asked him what it was all about and he said it was just spur of the moment, so i pretty much told myself to stop liking him after that, and i thought i did. and i guess i kinda of am okay with just the physical stuff, but sometimes, i get mad about it. and now, a friend of a friend also likes him. he told her he doesnt like her, but she keeps talking to him, so he just keeps talking back. he still shows me more attention and will ditch her for me. i guess i just don't know how to react to all this? and i know she's getting frustrated because my friend has been telling her whenever he chills with me, and most of the time its that he leaves her to see me, because she wants that girl to stop liking him. another thing that bothers me is the way he acts. when we're together, he's the sweetest thing ever when we're alone. in front of others, he's still sweet, but like at school, sometimes we walk past each other and he doesn't even say hi. it's mostly just if i don't show him attention, he doesn't show me attention, but there are a few times when he comes up to me from behind and taps me on the shoulder just to give me a hug and say hi. a little while ago, i tried to see how long i could ignore him, which is kinda hard because we walk right by each other during some passing periods and then we have the same lunch and eat near each other. finally, after ignoring him for about a week, he showed me some attention. the way he is just confuses me. and i always hear that he's hooking up with all these girls, but i only hear about that happening when he's drunk, so i don't know what to think.. and there are times when i've called him out of the blue at like 1 in the morning and he leaves his friends just to pick me up. or when he's with his friends, but he calls me because he wants to see me. i guess what i wanna know is what your opinion is on all of this? and i'm SO SORRY for it being so long, i didn't mean for it to be this long, but there's a lot of things that have happened with him, so yeahh. sorry again. and thankss if you happen to read this. (link)
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i think you need to find out whats really going on with him. is he hooking up with other girls when hes drunk or not?? ask him. if you really like him then talk to him about a relationship. or maybe you guys are just friends idk. ask him. i know i didnt give you much of advice but i hoped of what i did give you helped! btw you might want to figure this out before something goes to far (not just sexually) and you really dont like him a lot. good luck with everything!!!!!!!!
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ugh. i absolutly hate the fat on my thighs.
im not completly fat. but not stick skinny. i donnt like when my legs touch. which means i needs to loose some right?well i wanna know how you get that fat off your thighs? any food that would help? any exercise? (link)
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i would definitley say run alot. do squats, leg lifts and kicks. hope i helped and GOOD LUCK!
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Well it going to be my 14th birthda soon and i was just going to invite a bunch of friends to the movies and then to coldrock.Well its my friends birthday is the day before and i wan't going to invite her to the movies but what if she invites me to her and i don't invite her to mine..And she can pretty bitchy and get all my friends agaginst me.What should i do should i invite her or not? (link)
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dont invite her its not worth it.
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my best friend doesnt like who im friends with and everytiime i mention them, she goes nuts
but theyre my friends and i want to tell her about them and all the funny stuff that happens but she gets all jelous and whatnot (link)
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straight out tell her. and talk to her
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What are the common words you know (for spellers who have experience) that usually appears in a SCHOOL Spelling Bee? Yay! I got 1st place in the CLASSROOM Spelling Bee and I want to be ready for the next round (the school round)!
I want to study hard; it's in 2 weeks! I'm looking forward to winning this one because it is my very first time to be in a Spelling Bee [:
1 So my question is, what can I study? Language of origins.. what else?
2 What are some useful ways to study and WIN This challenge?
3 And yeah, what are some of the WORDS that often appear in the SCh00L Spelling Bee (that you remember or know) (Not the district, State, Regionals, or Nationals YET! :) )
4 Are they THAT hard?
5 How do you spell it if you have NEVER heard it before ?
6 But are there gonna be words there from the ones from the Nationals?
Oh god, I'm so excited for this. This is my first experience. You might think I'm annoying, but I haven't had this competitive feeling for a very long time and I'm a very C0MPETiTiVE person.
So please please please help and encourage me to do good. [:
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im not sure, i won my spelling bee there were some pretty difficult. in your spare time just read the dictionary as much as you can
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ok so im helping my sisters brother with alot of things i even told him if he liked my sister that he should ask her out and he did and now he wants to be a skater boy or whatever and he isnt he trys to be cool but he just isnt and he counts on me to answer his quistions im really proud of him for taking my advice all the time and making the right choces but i want advice to give him on being cool and acheving the skater boy postion thanks in advance (link)
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tell him to just be himself. that being cool doesnt matter. but who knows maybe he wants to change his style just for him and not for anyone else. just tell him what you think would help.
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i got my period for the first time on thanksgiving and i used pads the rest of the week. they're pretty annoying, like having to worry about it and stuff. so i tried putting in a tampon just to see how it works and whatever. thing is i couldn't even get it in. i know how, i've read books and whatever lol but it just wouldn't go in. i'm like the last one of my friends to even get my period so i feel like an idiot because i'm basically the only one who doesn't use tampons. i have no idea what i'm doing wrong and i definetalyyy am not asking my mom or wtv for help. akward much?
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this happened when i got my period for the first time too. you just got your period give yourself some time to get used to it and in a few months or so try it again and it should work....idk its really weird but just trust me. it works. hope i helped!
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If i work out every day or at least 3-4 times a week and eat healthy whats a rough estimate of how much weight i could loce in a year or two? i know everyones different when it comes to this but a rough estimate would be great (link)
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i'd say 90-100 pounds if you REALLY stick to it.
i know someone who lost 40 pounds in 2 months.
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