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Location: Texas
Age: 13
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Member Since: August 2, 2004
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I need help. Fast! I'm going to my cousins tomorrow until friday and I was just talking to her and she told me about when she was swimming in the lake these 2 guys came up to her and she knew them but..they kept touching her and one of them hit her and left bruises and..then one of them went behind her n took her hands and held them behind her back and the other one took down her bottoms...then she kicked them but she cries all the time! She's scared to tell anyone..and she told me to promise not to tell...and I'm scared and I don't know what to do!

PLEASE help! (link)
convince her to tell someone or tell her parents. that is serious! an adult needs to know


Ther's this guy I like at my school. We flirt back and forth all the time but its a joke we made a couple of months ago. Just about everyone at school knows I like him. In fact, I'm pretty sure he knoew it to. Some times I sit by him at lunch but he kinda ignores me. I wanna tell him I like him but he just to go out with all these slut girlfriends who would make out with him anywhere. and well if i do tell him and we start dating, I don't want to be compared to all those other ex-girlfriends. Should I tell him?? (link)
TELL HIM!


Ok, can anybody tell me some good exercises for toning and strengthening my inner thighs and my calf muscles? Also, do you know any good excersises to make your tummy smaller? Mine is not too big, but it's popping out and I wanna get rid of it before it's too late...but I don't wanna look like a man either. (link)
crunches... jogging, running, leg lifts, thidh lifts, butt lift, back kick, toe touch, elbow -to-knee sit up, butt balance, rool ups, shoulder stand, side twists, six pack twist
Good Luck! samantha


hey some of my friends are doing this thing when they all gang up on me and its really annoying and im not sure if they r my friends still and a lot of ppl say 2 just hang out w. the guys bc none of them r like the girls (talking about eachother) should i or just play it cool and stay w. my "friends"? (link)
do what feels right. i just to have that problem. my friends would ditch me and call me name behind my back. So I started making new friends around the school. My new friends made me feel better about myself.... And you can never have too many friends. It help me, maybe it'll help you also. ~Good Luck` *samantha*


I keep making myself throw up in the shower and my boyfriend just broke up with me but i dont think im fat or anything whats wrong with me? Am i bilemic? i dont think im fat... but i am kinda suicidal and i do cut myself sometimes.... is it just a way for pain or what... someone help me out!! (link)
SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP!!!!!!!


what are some good music wesights that u can put on journals or profiles? (link)
launch.com


i think that's it. ????


How can I make my calf muscles bigger? I hate running unless it's soccer and I'm not playing at the moment, and I'm past pueberty. Also, I have weak ankles (they get sprained a lot when I play soccer), anyone have advice for that? (link)
i know u hate running but try do that more often. u can even jog. Run or jog around you block/ neighborhood or house.


((I'm 15/f))I think i am ready for sex but im not all that sure cause sometimes i think about it and think that i might regret it in the future. I REALLY like this guy tho. Also, I'm kinda scared that it will hurt really bad and i'm scared that i might not know what to do. What do u think? (link)
if u think ur ready, then maybe you should hav sex with... this guy. but hav u talked 2 him bout it? what if he doesn't want 2? (he prolly will. im jus sayin.) Good Luck *Samantha*


okay the commercial where the guy gets his tougne stuck in the mixxer for dairyqueen, isnt it as stupid as this questian? lol *bored* someone talk!! (link)
yea... at first i didnt get it bc they didnt show the other half of the commercial but then later on that day they showed the whole thing and I was like ooooo


my macaw is really big and she's not the nicest bird in the world..she wont let any one but my sister touch her...she's gettin used to me but she still goes after my fingers once in a while,
just the other she bit me..its really bad but i dont want to tell my mom bc she'll tell me not ot touch the bird...but i cant not play wit her(i luv my bird)
ps dont laugh im serious...i'll rate u (link)
if she doesn't bit your fingers and lets you play with ?her? give her a reward.


I am only 13 and i just started having periods,and i hade my second one right on schedual. Is that normal?
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yes. sometimes it happens that way. sometimes it off a little bit. its different with everyone


I am going into 7th grade and I really want to wear eyeshowdow. Just eyeshwdow but I don't know if my Mom will let me. Should I wear it or not? (link)
ask your mother. she may say you can but if she doesn't wait a year or so and ask again


I'm 15 years old and I'm pregnant. I don't know what to do and who to turn to. I've only had sex once with my boyfriend and I took a couple pregnancy tests, which all came out positive. No one knows about it and I'm so scared. My parents will be so disappointed in me, it'll kill me and they'll probably make me get an abortion. I'm also scared my boyfriend is going to leave me because of it. What should I do? I really need help. (link)
i think you should have the baby. tell your parents. the longer you wait the madder they will be. (plus theyll notice when your even more pregnant.) i don't like abortion so I don't think you should have one. Plus you may regret it later in life.


ok..well i have some fat on my stomach..its bothering me becuz i cant get rid of it. It like sticks out and stuff..and ive been doing crunches and stuff to try to get it toned and stuff but its not working..any other ideas to get it toned?? (link)
try sumthing like dancing, jazzercise, pilates, yoga, jumprope... something along those lines


i really am unorganized!!! i dohn't kno wat to do... i have never told anyone this but my last boyfriend of 1yeat left me cuz i was sooo mmessy wat should i do! (link)
get organized- a clean room, organized desk, schedule written down... any little thing helps


wat candy is your fave:
A)Hersheys (with or without almonds)
B)Twix
C)M&Ms (any kind of M&Ms)
D)Other (if you pick this kind wat is your fave)


thanx!! luv ya!! (link)
hersheys with almonds


i just moved from new york to virginia. im going into 9th grade and into a new high school. ive been with my friends in new york ever since pre-k and now im scared to make new ones.. what should i do? (link)
just be yourself. some one will like you for who tou are


hi ok i really want a thong i am 14 and i am in 9th grade. i asked mi mom if i could get i last year and she said no i wuz too young well i am a shy person at times now i wunt to ask her but im scared !!! help (link)
just talk to her. explain why you want one. tell her youll buy it yourself. (just a thought)


Does anyone have any good ideas on what I should put on my babysitting flyers?? I want a lot of babysitting jobs for the rest of the summer and during the school year because I'm saving up for a labtop. Anyone have any good ideas of what I should write on the flyer?? help asap!! (link)
put ur name, age, phone number, and whether you have taken an American Red Cross course on child care. U may also think about a picture of yourself. it all depends on the person on what they put on their posters


does anyone know any good places to make a babysitting flyer that will catch people's attention????? please help asap!! if you help, i'll rate 5!!!!! (link)
you should go to a printing place like an A1 printing. (i dont know if you have that where you live but just look under printing in a phonebook.)




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