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Bilemic? or just sad?


Question Posted Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:03 pm

I keep making myself throw up in the shower and my boyfriend just broke up with me but i dont think im fat or anything whats wrong with me? Am i bilemic? i dont think im fat... but i am kinda suicidal and i do cut myself sometimes.... is it just a way for pain or what... someone help me out!!

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keliegh_borchers answered Friday March 5 2010, 11:07 am:
you may be bilemic. Go to the doctor tel him your having "bad thoughts" becuase when a guy breaks up with you it hurts i know. i have gone through it, But dont cut yourself its not doing anything except for leaving scars of your past. Let it go. I'm sorry but your cant kill yourself over one guy. i bet there is another guy out there and if you hurt yourself and kill yourself! you will not get the chance to have him. so please go to the doctor. Its for your own good.

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goodcharlottegurl answered Friday August 13 2004, 2:25 pm:
Yes thats bulimia, trust me i know. i did the exact thing you did, i didnt think i was THAT fat but it was sort of like a stress reliver. please stop doing this, cause it only more problems down the road. If you wanna talk please IM

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PleaseHelpMe answered Thursday August 5 2004, 6:41 pm:
Hey I think your throwing up just might be another way to harm yourself, like cutting. I dont think you are bilemic but you might be trying to get pain out of throwing up. If it continues, and you are starting to have feelings that you are fat you probably are bilemic and need to see somone about that. Good luck. -Love Jenny :)

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nameless0500 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 9:34 pm:
get some therapy and quit puking everywhere

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bLiNk_GiRl69 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 3:04 pm:
* ~ i had a bf who just broke up with me sure i cried but i moved on and it seems like u cant espially since u cut urshelf and make urshelf throw up see professial help before its too late!!!!!!!! ~ *
* ~ Ashley ~ *

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ballerina04 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:49 pm:
that is bulimia. even if you don't think you are fat, you are making yourself throw up and you are hurting yourself. first off, you need to stop. get professional help. they will help you get to the root of the problem. best wishes. please send me an IM, an email, or a message to my inbox if you need to. i'm here to help.

xox Kristen

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Hello180 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:39 pm:
if you make yourself throw up then you are. You should stop, the acids in your stomach can eat through your espophogas over time and cause serious health problems.

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cheerchic2009 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:32 pm:
SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP!!!!!!!

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dontgetnobetter9 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:18 pm:
WOW! Just stop what ur doing. try to stop cutting urself and throwing up. u can kill urself. if u cant help urself tell ur parents or an adult that u can trust. or go to a doctor or somthing for counsolin to help ur problems!

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NicoleMarie answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:15 pm:
I have an older sister who used to cut herself. Its something you dont really think about at first. She would not only cut herself but she would rip up all of her photos and letters. She regrets this because now she doesnt have those memories. My point is, if you are suicidal, please please please talk to someone. If you ending up going all the way, and you are gone, memories of you will fade. Its the easy way out and it will hurt your family and those who love you. You are worth so much more! A boyfriend should never be the reason for your pain. I know it can be tough but it is not worth it. Think about all of the things you want to do with your life, and how people will benifit from that. You have importance. And your strength will prove what others already know about you. That you are an awesome person,daughter, friend, cousin, student.....I used to have suicidal thoughts. And then i thought to myself that one day, i wanted to have kids, and i wanted to travel the world, and i wanted to swim with a dolphin, and i wanted to watch my brothers and sisters and neices and nephews grow up. I want to live a great and exciting life. And now i have a beutiful 6 year old daughter and another on the way. They are my reason for living. Plus there is so much more to do!!! Don't waste life. Live it to the fullest. Love yourself. Forget the pain and enjoy the hapiness !!

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icey0990 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:12 pm:
This is a problem and the first step to solving it , is to admit this is a problem. Nobody should hurt themselves to releive pain. Instead talk to someone close to you about your feelings. Dont trap them inside. If you can stop on your own, thats great..but if not..dont be ashamed to get helpp..there are plenty others out there who have your problem ..dont be afraid to get help if you need it..you`ll be so much better off. Best of luck..please write back if you want to talk more.

-Melissa :)

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duckhuntrox answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:11 pm:
you have to ask yourself why you are doing it. well maybe you are feeling rejected by something that's important to you, like your family or friends. if you are making yourself throwup overit, maybe you should talk to your guidance counselor at your school. and whatever you do, yo ushould stop making yourself throw up. it's not healthy!

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twizzler2 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:10 pm:
ok 1st of all this is not an answer to pain. Killing urself and cutting and making ur self throw up. Its all disgusting just to tell u. No one really wants to go out with someone who throws up...i mean its gross...u put food in a blender ...lyk some bread, milk, peanut butter, jelly, chips, blend that up and thats wat u got..ur tasty lovely beautiful throw up. Wat my point is ..is dont u think its gross?? There has to be a reason y u are doing this. Think about this..u only have one life to live-so live it now. and if u think there is no point in life..u need to make a point-my point in life is to save as many animals and make a difference in animals lives. Ok so maybe ur dream is to cure a disease or star in a movie or whatever. If u dont have a dream or goal...make one and start thinking about it that way...if u die from throwing up or cutting or committing suicide..then u will NEVER get to acheive ur dream!! i know this is long and lyk a lecture..but i really wanna help ya..if u need more plz leave wun in the inbox...hope i helped @ least a lil bit
Twizzler

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KoTaKiTtAy44 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:08 pm:
maybe that is your way of dealing with things that go wrong in ur life..but let me tell you..that is NO WAY to deal with the pain...try talking to people..ur counslor (if u go to school) ur parents..ur friends..siblings..anybody! and dont think about the negatives in ur life..think about the positives that make you happy and the great person you are! *hope i helped* <3/Dakota ~If YoU nEeD nE tHiNg ElSe JuSt DrOp OnE iN mY iNbOx

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