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16/f
I'm worried about my first time hurting, If I'm wet I can easily fit three fingers inside my vagina, will being able to do this mean it'll hurt less?
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I agree with the other person. Plus, being wet is going to make it go a lot easier anyway, so you will be fine!
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Hello everybody! Does anyone have any ideas of places you can hang out for free? It would be nice if they were fun places. :) What about ideas for free things to do when we go out?
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you could have a picnic in the park!
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Hey everyone!
I am going for an interview at hollister and co. and I need to know what kind of questions they are going to ask so I can kinda prepare some good answers to impress them. This is my first job and I am really nervous.
Has anyone worked there? Is there anything I need to know about the interview besides what they will ask me?
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I have never interviewed there before, but usually bigger clothing companies like that ask about the same questions.
Of course you're going to get stuff like "why should we hire you?" "what do you think you can bring to our company?" "what are your strengths and weaknesses?" and so on..
one of the big ones for clothing stores is "what does fashion mean to you?"
just make sure you don't get too cliche with your answers and let them see your personality, and you'll do fine!
good luck!
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My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 and half months now, shes 16 and Im 18.. For almost the first 4 months, we would see each other everyday and hangout all the time. But in the last three weeks, she has been hanging out with her friends way more which means I have been pushed aside. I asked her about it and she said it's because she thinks that her friends wont be around for ever and she wants to have fun with them while she can. Why do you think this is happening all of a sudden? Does it mean something? How should I confront her about it? Any advice I can get would be greatly appreciated, thanks in advance. (link)
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I agree with the person before me.
Plus, usually it's all good when you spend all your time together for the first several months, but then it starts becoming a burden on both people, and you don't want that! so let her have fun with her friends, and you go spend time with yours!
It will make for a much simpler and healthier relationship..I
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I'm 13 and I would like to be a professinal dancer. I've only had 2 years of dance experiance. I love dance so much. I'm very flexible. Do you think I could even consider going pro? I know most girls start when there very young. Do you think I could do it? (link)
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sure you can!
practice,practice,practice!
and you're going to need to find somewhere to start out so you can get noticed by the big guys!
good luck!
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so i have a 2.8 gpa
yes i know it is quite terrible but it is that low because i recieved two C's in Latin, and one C in Math.
and i got a 990 out of 2400 on my SATs which is really bad i know,
I want to go to IDC-Hertzaliya and they take 3.4-3.2 GPA but they said thats not 100%.
They said you can write a seperate essay explaining any outside influences that impacted ur bad grades.
my paretns are going through an awful divorce (still are) so i can write about that, and explain how Just latin wasn't my thing, and math is a struggle for me.
i am a really good writer so i think i can produce a really outstanding unique essay-
do you think if i have a good essay it can outweigh my grades and SAT scores?
do i need to re-take the SATS i really don't want to.
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it's possible, but it would help you so much more if you took the SATs over and wrote the essay.I know it's a pain, but not only could you get higher scores, but they will also see how determined you are to go to their college.
best of luck!
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I'm 16 years old and I'm just not happy.
I've never had a boyfriend and every guy that I've "talked" to ends up screwing me over,or hurting me badly. Lately,my family has no money ..to the point where we can barely have toilet paper or food or anything and we only have one car,which is falling apart and is old and doesn't even have legal tags so that affects my happiness. Along with the fact that my grades were usually very high and now they are slipping. All of my friends that I'm surrounded by have gorgeous houses,nice cars,boyfriends,perfect grades,perfect skin,all of that stuff and it just seems as though I have nothing.I had aspirations to go to a good college because my grades would allow me too but now we may not have enough money. I have some really good friends ,which help me out but im just so jealous of all of them.I just wish I had one good thing.
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you do have something good..people that care about you!
and I promise you that if you set your mind to something, you can achieve it.
Work on getting your grades back up and get a full college scholarship! you can do it!
you could find somewhere close to your house to get a job at, and make a little money to buy things for yourself and make yourself feel better.
Everybody has their times where they feel just like you do right now, but just remember, it can only get better!
Good luck with everything..I hope I helped in some way.
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I'm 14 and my penis is 5.5 inches is that small? (link)
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your body still has a lot of growing to do, so don't get bummed out just yet!
but actually the average size for men is 6 inches
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we've been on and off for a while now. almost a year. and 7 times out of 10, we're on. right now, we're on, but just not official. i guess neither of us just wanna be under the pressure of having a social nametag saying "girlfriend/boyfriend" over our heads. well, he doesnt. i wouldnt care. anyways.
lately it seems like i'm the backup plan. neither of us can drive yet, and we're both 17. hes getting his license in about a month. and so all we really do is i go over to his house and we hang out in his room or hangout outside. the sex is nonexistent, since we're never alone, but we do what we can. so i can see how having his guyfriends come pick him up and going to providence would appeal more to him, especially if hes bored. but its getting to where i only see him twice a week, or less. we used to see eachother at least 3 or 4 times a week. but now i'm going to public school and hes homeschooled and so i cant see him during the weekdays, and hes always out with his friends on the weekends. i want him to get it through his head that he would have all week to hang out with his other friends, and that id like to see him on the weekends,...but i dont want to seem possessive, since we're not official. like, as far as everyone else knows, even our closest friends, we're still single.
how do i talk to him? what do i say? WHEN would i say it, since i dont know when the next time is i'm going to see him? (link)
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Just tell him how you feel, but try not to get on his case about, just say it in the "I miss you and would really like to spend more time together" kind of way.
If he feels the same about you, it shouldn't be a problem. If he's still kind of pushing you to the side after he gets his license, though, I would rethink whether he's the right guy or not..
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Not to be gross or anything, but I only poop every couple days and my friend said that was unhealthy. she really freaked out when I told her that when I am trips and stuff I will hold it for 5-7 days.
She says that is why I always feel wore out all the time.
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you are technically supposed to poop once a day, but I wouldn't get too freaked out if you just go two or 3 days..but once it gets into a week at a time, you might wanna see a doctor, just to make sure.
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im 16/f and my boyfriend is 18/m. We have been dating for a little over one and a half years and honestly our relationship is really special. I know im in love with him, this isnt some little high school thing and we both could seriously see ourselves getting married in the future, but we havent seriously talked about it, just a few thoughts we had. So, about a month before the one year anniversary, he asked my mom what my ring size was. She didnt tell me, but when i saw her take my ring out of my room, bc she didnt know the size, i asked her and then she told me chris askd for it. so i thought he was going to give me a promise ring, you know? so hes had my ring since then, and i forgot about it for a little while until i was looking through the pictures and saw me wearing the ring. I really dont want to bring it up, but i was just asking on what you think of the matter. Why would he ask for my ring size if hes not planning on giving me a ring? and if he did get me the ring, why hasnt he given it to me? do you think hes having second thoughts or something? I know hes not using me, im planning on waiting until marriage for sex, nad we talked about it and hes fine with that. He is definitely not cheating on me, and we see each other almost every night and i see him in school every day. I just dont know what to think about this. I couldnt get it out of my head for like 2 months and now its in my head again. please, tell me what you think, girls and guys opinions. thankyouu :) (link)
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If I had my guess, I'd say that he is getting you a ring but he wants it to be a total surprise, so who knows, he could give it to you for christmas, or he might be planning on proposing when you turn 18.
either way, I don't think he forgot or changed his mind, he's just thinking in advance:]
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15/f
okay, i keep this short and sweet. He wanted to talk, whilst talking i got mad and walked away, thereby 'ending the relationship'. That night he emailed me apologizing. i said i couldn't decide. i waited too long to say anything and he took it as an apology unnaccepted. His friends say he likes someone else now, but he says he still loves me. Is it too late for me to tell him i want him back? Should i wait for him to start talking to me first, or should i shoot him off an email right this second?
XXXOOO
Lonley_girl
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If you want to be with him, then what are you waiting for?? He obviously wants to be with you and still cares about you, so go for it! He's probably too scared to say anything to you because you might reject him. So you need to tell him how you feel before it's too late! Good luck!!
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hello i'm 17 year old woman and i'm pregnant and don't know if i should get an abortion or not both me and my boyfriend havent told our parents and i'm scared of there reaction because my parents are very religous Catholics and would kill me if they found out if i did anything like this i'm leaning more towards getting an aborting because i can't take care of a baby and i have a career to look forward to this is my senior year in high school and me and my boyfriend have a very good chance of getting noticed for sports and a baby would heavily destroy that so what should i do? (link)
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It all depends on your beliefs and morals. You have to do what's right for you, and even though I am highly against getting an abortion, when it comes down to it, you're going to do what you're going to do. Just remember that an abortion is going to run you a few hundred dollars, and it could possibly haunt you for years to come.
No matter how hard it is, you can make it if you have the baby. Have you looked into adoption at all? Just look at all your options before you make a rash decision. I know it's scary, but you can and will get through this! :]
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i hav a 16 yrold daughter who has been living with me for 2 mth,and she tells me last nite she is 5 months preg.she is a below average student,with out a plan for the future.she wants to keep the baby and i am against it,i have told her my reason.i also told her she cant live with me with a baby.was i to hard on her? (link)
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I completely understand your concern, but yes, you were too hard on her.
You've got to remember that she is just as scared, if not more, than you are! It's scary being 16 and completely unprepared. You need to remember too that abortion isn't an option at this point, anyway.
You should try to just sit down and talk to her about how hard it's going to be and let her talk to you about how she's feeling.
Don't push anything on her, and be supportive. Whether she chooses to keep it or give it up for adoption, she needs guidance, love, and support.
Best of luck to you and your daughter!
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So, last night I was at a party without my boyfriend. My boyfriend was home sick, actually, and he said I should totally go to the party anyway without him. Well, I ended up giving this really hott guy a blowjob. My friend was totally telling me that my boyfriend was going to dump me because I was giving another guy head. Is giving someone else a blow job cheating? I haven't told my boyfriend because now I'm afraid he's going to get mad and break up with me. I don't want him to dump me. So, what is the definition of cheating in a relationship? Did I cheat? Should I tell him? (link)
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yes, you cheated. and yes, you need to tell him.
Just put yourself in his shoes..how would you feel about it if he ate some girl out at a party and never told you..or if you found out from some other person at the party?
The most mature and honorable thing you can do is tell him straight up and deal with whatever consequences that brings.
Good Luck!
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I guess this is mostly for girls, any idea where I can buy those long stretchy tanktops all the girls wear? They're like layered underneath sweatshirts and hoodies. I have ones but they have lace on the bottom, i want like plain edged ones. Thanks guys!
Also, I'm probably an XL or XXL in them, any idea where to find them? I know some stores have online sites where they sell plus sizes, but idk what stores. (link)
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Target has them, and they are cheap and the perfect length!
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So usually when i cum i never actually "shoot", it just kinda rolls out. Do girls find it less attractive if you dont "shoot"? (link)
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cum is cum.. it doesn't make you any less of a man if it rolls out or shoots out or explodes out! lol
seriously though, don't worry about it.
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ok i always talk about how i want kids right now.. and im 17 female and my bf is going to be 18. he told me at least wait til im 18 so our parents cant tell us anything cause they already tell us stuff and were both still virgins! so they just act stupid! well anyways i have a baby brother that is going to be 4 in december..everytime he is around when my boyfriend is wich is like every single time! my boyfriend gives him like 98% of his time and attention wile i only get like 2%. it super sucks and ive already tried talking to him abotu it. and he says well hes a kid he needs attention too!
well when my baby brother is with me and were by ourselves hes all nice and loving and cute! then once he gets with me and my boyfriend of almost 11 months then hes all mean to me and stays in his arms the entire time! and he bees mean to me so i be mean back then my bf starts telling me crap. well he never fails to mention.. "and u want kids? you cant even handle your own baby brother" and i say well its cause hes my brother! its suposed to be like that. any other kid i can. he doesnt believe me. but when i try to be nice and sweet to my baby brother to show him my baby brother keeps acting up with me. so its super hard. what can i do to prove to him i can handle kids. i want them id be a good mom, and i want to live my life with him and our future kids?! someone please help me. (link)
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I have been where you are about really wanting a baby, even though your young, and I cannot stress enough how important it is to wait. If it happens on accident, then that's one thing and you can get through it and be a good parent. But don't purposely bring a child into a world where you don't even have an education to get a good job for them, it's not fair to them, or you.Go live your life and have fun and be a teenager and figure out who you want to be, then have a family and I promise you it will be worth the wait.
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What is the REAL percentage of a condom breaking? You hear different things from everybody. The internet has all different numbers so who do I believe?
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I could be wrong, but I believe it's like a 1 in 10 chance..
Either way, though, it's definitely not safe enough!
your best bet is to get on some kind of birth control, whether it's pills, or shot, or patch, or whatever.
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In September my boyfrend and I had unprotected sex (i know that wasnt smart) anyways since then i hav had my period three times september, october,november. But for the past two mornings i have woken up feeling very nauseous could this be from my period or am i pregnant? (link)
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You can still be pregnant even if you've had a couple of periods. So the best thing to do is take a pregnancy test!
Good luck!
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