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my name is chassidy. but please call me chassie. i'm really outgoing and i love to have a good time. i like to party and get down with my girlies and we always have fun, no matter what. we're all pretty different. i cheered in high school, and i played volleyball. now i'm in college, living it up! i love most kinds of music and i love my car. my stang is my baby. i am with the love of my life, bobby. he is 24 and i'm 18! my parents and lots of people don't like us being together, but i just say fuck the haterz! i love my best friend, brandi. she completes me and i would die without her, she's my roomie along with candis and caroline. i like chanel. i love horses and riding fourwheelers. i'm a sexual person. i don't care what people think about me, and that's perfectly fine. i like to help people. i'm a secretary now at a bank. i love my family and my favorite color is pink. i love my hometown of new york city more than anything. i'm from manhattan, but i'm currently in texas. i love my boyfriend, friends, my job, family, animals, alcohol, sex, music, and my life.

advice

okay so ive seriously been trying to upload a picture but its always too big. how did you upload yours?

i've tried to upload pictures from a file many times but it never seems to work. so i upload mine onto photobucket or tinypic and copy the url and upload it that way! hope i helped!

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can i hear your story? do you regret it? thoughts/feeling now? still in a relationship with that guy? or was it a one night stand? I'm just curiouss pleasee && thank you for readingg and respondingg =]

i lost mine when i was 14 at a friends party with. it was to my ex boyfriend, i've had around 5 boyfriends since him and had sex with each and every one of them. i'm currently single. but i don't regret things in life. things happen because they're supposed to happen. and i did love that guy and still do. i have had sex with him since we've broken up, and he's a really good friend of mine. i don't regret it at all.

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Hey this is really embarrasing..but i'm 13/m and my pens is a bit more than 5 inches long. Is that normal? And how can u make ur penis bigger?

PLEASE ANSWER! I WILL APPRICIATE VERY MUCH!!

you aren't finished growing yet. and it's perfectly fine anyway.

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in movies or pictures, ive seen peples bedroom walls covered in a collage of pictures and things from magazines. i love how that looks, and id love to do something like that. how can i attatch the pictures and things to my wall? tape wont hold for that long, so im dont know what to use. any ideas would help!


thanks!

sticky tack or thumb tacks.

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is it okay to wear contacts while tanning in the tanning bed?

i work at a tanning salon and wear them all the time and assure you that there's nothing wrong with that!

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I want to get my hair cut. I'm so unsure of what I want. I picked out my fave style for me.

Pic of me: http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y294/mvinlover/Extra/l_8073facd243328ec72e2cfdf30145dbc.jpg

Style I want: http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y294/mvinlover/Extra/theoneIwant.jpg

Would this look good on me??

i think that would be adorable! that hairstyle really matches the shape of your face and your cheek bones. i would definately go for it! super cute.

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theyre first song, the teeth one.
is that the actual name of it?
because i cant find lyrics for it.

yes, that's the name of it.


i dropped all of my lovers.
i stood up and screamed ' I'm in love! '

you gave it to me through the eyes, hatred.
centuries deep and true.
i was wrong, graceless, and sick.
all of the things that i had learned had been wasted.

there was no living creature as foul as i,
and all of my poems were false.
i could feel my soul, dropping down through the mattress.
i had to leap up before it hit the floor.
and I'm so alone.

illumination held out in front of my reaching arms.
the darker things get the better i see.
I'm so alone and so are you,
we all live and die that way.

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okay well one of my best friends has a gf that he likes a ton.they have been tgr since september,they are perfect together.but he knows i like him,and he asked me to hook up and do stuff with him.i really really really want to,ive liked him for so long!does this make me a slut?

if you really want to sure go ahead. i've hooked up with one of my best friends boyfriends a few times, then she found out about it and we're not best friends anymore. i don't think it makes you a slut, it just makes him a manwhore =]. but consider the consequences, the girl will probably dislike you very much and the guy is probably feeling pretty lucky that he has a girlfriend AND just hooked up with another girl.

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Ok my boyfriend and i are ready 2 have sex and neither of us are virgins but instead of plain sex he wants 2 have a threesome at first i was okay with it but then he went and asked my best friend if she wanted 2 be the third person and she said yes and i have always known that she had a crush on him but i never cared until now and i dont know if i should Go through with it now i have no problem with the threesome but having my bff in it i dont know and i dont know if this is her way of getting 2 have sex or give head 2 him but i just dont think i should Go through with it now can somebody pleez give me advice and thanks in advance(f/16)

don't do anything you would feel awkward doing. i wouldn't have a 3 some with my boyfriend AND best friend. i would personally feel more comfortable if the other girl was someone i really didn't know all too well. you don't want to ruin your relationship with both of them, because them having the potential to have sex when she has a crush on him may start a fling between the two. idk, just don't do anything you don't wanna do! good luck.

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Well, I am getting braces next week..Ugh, I am so not excited but oh well, I am going to have to suck it up and just get it over with..But my question is I want to get colored ones so if any of yall have ever had braces, can you tell me what color do you think is the best...I have heard yellow makes your teeth look stained and clear isn't good either. I am thinking about hott pink. But I don't know...I have brown hair and blue/green eyes if that makes a difference haha. So, any suggestions would be wonderful. Haha. Thanks in advance.

i wouldn't suggest getting white, yellow, or green. white stains, yellow makes your teeth look yellow, and the same with green. silver looks good on anybody, and i've never had trouble wearing hot pink. that's the color i usually got! braces suck, but if you want them off quickly i suggest you do everything they tell ya to do! good luck!

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hey i was wondering if guys prefered a girl who shaves down there when fingering instead of a girl who does not shave

most guys i've been with have liked it clean shaven. i prefer it too because it's a lot smoother when they do it!

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my boyfriend and i had anal sex and i kind of pooped a little....it was on the condom and he was like "you pooped". i was so embarrased but does that happen often.

no it's totally normal. you just didnt get it outta your system before ya did it.

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ok so heres the deal, i know its illegal to purchase alcohol under 21, does that go for drinking to? and if you got drunk or drank would you be able to be sent to jail for it if your under 21, cuz ive been wasted and im 13.. i know what could happen being underage, do lecture me, im just wondering, and i havent drank since that i can remember.

it's illegal to purchase, drink, or be in possession of alcohol if you're under 21. like, if a friend asked you to hold a beer for them and the cops came and they saw you holding that beer, you would be responsbile for it because you were in possession and you could possibly get an MIP (minor in possession) if caught drinking or holding anything. trust me, it isn't fun getting caught. it's not a big deal though if you're with your parents though, but it would definately be a big deal if it was just you & friends. so if you're going to drink make sure you're careful & aware.

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does anyone known the song that was at the VERY end of greys anatomy?? It went something like just breathh breath or something and i really liked it. i already tried google but none of them were it.

i'd appreciate it, thankyou!

2 a.m. (just breathe) - anna nalik. i love that song, and that was my favorite grey's episode ever!

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me and my best guy friend recently started a friends with benefits relationship. yesterday was our first time doing anything. i gave him a hand job. it was his first time getting a hand job and my first time giving one so he showed me how to do it. i made him hard and he cummed but he was panting and moaning a little in my ear and it sounded fake so im not sure if he faked it to make me feel good. is it normal for guys to pant when they're having an orgasm?

if he did cum and became aroused then he most likely had a real orgasm. i don't think there's any need to worry that he was faking it.

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So, my friend's boyfriend and she were making pubic hair shake and she drank it and now she's afraid she's going to get crabs b/c her bf has crabs. Can she still get crabs from drinking this after it's been in the blender

haha this question made my day. who the hell would drink a pubic hair shake? ew, wtf. i've never even heard of such a thing. but anyways, no she cannot get crabs because they will most likely die inside of her as they get transfered throughout her body.

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soo i really like to get sexualy active so i love to make out..but i just got braces.. does this change anything? and 2nd.. what is a dry hump and how do you do it. thank you soo much xxxooo

i had braces when i first made out with a guy, now they're off and no matter who i make out with it doesn't feel any different. so no need to worry about that! but dry humping is just sex with clothes on pretty much.

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Ok, i really need a new straightener. Can you guys help me, soon if possible. Here are some of my questions: what is a decent prise for a GOOD one that will actually straighten nicly and not take too long. also what is a good brand?? conair, revlon, chi..? whateva any suggestions would be welcome! Thanks soooo much

the best quality straightener would be a chi, but they are a bit pricey around 150. but if you're looking for something a little less expensive then i would suggest an andis straightener. i use on and it works realllly good. it was only around 30 dollars.

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Can someone tell me something about becoming a vegiterrian. Is it hard to start? Do you loose alot of weight? What are you supposed to eat? I'm just curious because I want to become one. Kthankks. :D

it depends on what type of vergeterian you would like to become. some don't eat animal meat and also nothing produced by animals (like eggs, milk, etc.). but some don't eat any meat but still do eat those things produced by animals. some don't eat any meat but fish, and others eat no meat at all. there really is a lot of types, so you need to figure out how serious you wanna take this. and you probably won't lose a lot of weight, because you really don't get any protein and your diet will change dramatically. if you're truley serious about it and have figured out the pros and cons, i suggest you take this slow and don't just jump into it, and stick to it. good luck.

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do i have a chance being a cheerleader if i cant do tumbles,pushups (i can do like 2), cartwheels or roundoffs, and i wanted to go for the 9th grade team? and i'm not light enough to be flipped in the air. should i still try out? but i dont want to waste my time or embarse myself... be brutely honest..thanxs

it depends on your school. but at my school (i'm a varsity cheerleader) we don't tumble so that's not really a priority. but you have to have a strong voice, and you do have to be fit. at my school we do an hour of cardio and weight training and different exercises which does include push ups, and we run two and a half miles everyday. and to be a base or a backspot you have to be strong and able to lift people in the air. i'm not saying you can't do it, or that you shouldn't try. but you have to be motiviated and realize that you must be in shape to do any sport of any kind. good luck hun!

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