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this girl i like, i found out she had a boyfriend recently. should i just give up? should i wait maybe they will break up? or should i make a move, maybe she will go for me instead 8*). or should i just be friends and juss in the future maybe it happens it happens. thanks (link)
Don't give up!!! Be friends with her right now. Just don't be all like flirty around her and stuff like that. Stick around, and you never know what could happen. :)



if you like someone but have a bf/gf is it considered cheating? jw. (link)
No I don't think so. I have a boyfriend and like a couple other people. If you kiss them, then it's cheating.


I need you help guys and girls.
Ok,,, Well the problem is that I don't know what to do next. I can't seem to find the right type of guy. The ones who really like me are the ones im not really interested in. There's one boy who loves me alot. His name is JD. He's ok. He loves me ALOT. I DONT feel the same way about him though. Should I just keep searching for the hotties or settle down in the commitment relationship thing? Im so frustraited that I can find love. HELP! I RATE! ..
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Well, you didn't state your age, so if you're my age, 15, then you still have plenty of time. Find someone who you really like, who you want to be with. Don't settle just because you can't find anyone you want to be with. You will find someone, it may take some time, but it'll happen.


Is it weird that im in 7th grade and havnt had my first kiss yet?? i mean, so many people in my grade have been kissed. Am im like, a freak or something? (link)
You're not a freak, it's fine not having your first kiss for a while. I mean, I'm 15 and just had my first kiss, so it's not something to be worried about. It doesn't mean you'll get your 1st kiss when you're 15, but you'll get your first kiss.

Hope I helped!

~*Bre*~


mmk so me and this guy have been dating for about a month now and just recently he told me he loved me and i had just gotten over my ex (which he doesn't know) and i didn't say it back because in my opinion its a bit too soon to be loving someone else. but i feel bad b/c i didn't say it. what should i do? i really like this guy but i'm not sure that i love him. help! (link)
I think you are right, it is too soon to be saying i love you. Tell him how you feel, that you really care about him and really like him, but think its too soon to say that. He should respect what you think...if not, then...he might not be worth the trouble, no offense.

Hope I helped!


The group Nickelback just had a new album come out. One of the songs that was so flippin awsome is called Photograph. I love that song and the album just came out and umm I want to get it but the problemo is I DONT KNOW WHAT THE ALBUM IS CALLED! so yeah... Does aNYONE know??? i will rate you a 5 if give me the right answer!!!!
Luv ya advice columnist peepl! (link)
All The Right Reasons

That's an awesome song!


At Cheerleading practice we have to run like a mile and a half without stopping and if we stop every1 has to run another lap around the football field (4 laps=1mile) I get so exhausted and i cant run that much i get to the point where i cant feel my legs and i cant breathe..i dont know y though i am a skinny person and im short and very atheletic ..i just cant run for a long time!...i need help on ways to make me run better/ longer..thanks!...I rate!!!!!! (link)
Bend your arms and keep them moving as you are running. Take deep breathes in your nose then out your mouth. Strech before you start running. Don't run full out at the beginning, start jogging at a nice pace. Are you being timed? Do you have to be done at a certain time? If not then don't run full out the whole time; run at your own pace and not with your friends. Like if they are running faster than you can, don't run with them, or vice versa. Don't sprint the whole time.

Hoped this helped!


does anyone know any sad and depresing songs i can listen to. break up songs, madning songs, or sad songs. ill rate 5s. (link)
The Trouble with Love by Kelly Clarkson
Behind These Hazel Eyes by Kelly Clarkson
Untitled by Simple Plan
Boulevard of Broken Dreams by Green Day
This Love by Maroon5
I'm Not Okay by My Chemical Romance



I'm totally in love with my boyfriend.. How can I show him how much I love him? He went away for a week, and when he comes back I want to surprise him with something. (link)
Aww...lol...sry...well you could have a little welcome home party, write him a poem about ur feelings for him, get a picture of you two together(or if you don't have 1 of you two together then take 1 of you and 1 of him and put them together) and put it in a picture frame.

Hope I helped!


i write lyrics to songs and i write poetry and stuff a lot but i don't know where i can show it off without it getting stolen from me. do any of you know where i can display my poems/songs to where people won't take them and say they are thiers? (link)
You could post them on xanga.com. There's this website where you could post your stories and poems called fictionpress.com.


a song where theres a car crash and im pretty sure its into a cornfield, but anway the song is about this guy watching his gf die, i think it was rock? well it was sad and quite popular a year or three ago? lol (link)
There's this song that goes 'how could this happen to me, I've made my mistkaes got nowhere to run. The night goes on as I'm fading away. I'm sick of this life, I just want to scream...' It's a new song, this year, called 'Untitled' by Simple Plan. Not sure if this is the song you're talking about, but...yeah...Hope I helped! lol


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so i start school on tuesday and im gonna be a freshman. im a girl im 4'9 i have brown hair and green eyes. i dont know very many people i know like 6 poeple in the whole entire school. is there any way i can make friends fast? any tips or anything? i will rate high. (link)
You should join clubs and after-school activities. If you like sports, try-out for the team. Say hi to people, be nice, don't judge people right away.

Hope I helped!


does high school really suck? Should I be freaking out about it, or am I just overreacting? (link)
I think ur overreacting. I'm a sophomore and I love high school! My first day I was a little nervous, but once you get used to it it's great.

-There is more homework, but just pay attention in class, take notes, and do all the homework.
-Be nice to people, don't judge right away, and try to make more friends.
-Join clubs and after-school activities.
-Be calm and have fun.

Hope I helped!


what is this song it is a rock song and i noe girls sing ti and it goes, "why cant i breath when ever i think about you, y cant i speak whenever i talk about you..." can someone plz tell me hwo sings it and what it is called.. thanks (link)
I love this song! It's called "Why can't I?" by Liz Phair.


okay.. i met this guy a couple of weeks ago. his name is adam and hes my sisters friend.. well i really like him alot. but the thing is im 13 and hes 17.. is that wrong? but he has a girlfriend and last night he tried to kiss me! but i turned my head and i said dont you have a girlfriend and he said yes but he doesnt care.. but i wouldnt kiss him because he has a girlfriend and i think thats wrong to cheat. but he always hugs me and comes to my house and stuff and we hang out alot.. and he keeps asking me out too.. but i say no bc "he has a girlfriend" well my question is is that wrong to like a 17 year old and also i need advice on what to do about this situation.. thanks.. i rate 5's for good answers (link)
Its not wrong to like him. Keep telling him no, say 'I won't go out with you unless you break up with your girlfriend.' If he won't break-up with her then maybe he's not worth the trouble. I hope I helped some.


hey does anyone know what lmao stand for? (link)
Laughing my ass off


Ok I want to get my hair like kristen's on laguna beach..like how its styled..but what should I tell the person that does my hair?? Like not everyone watches laguna beach and im not gonna just be like yea i want it like kristen's..so what should i tell them?

thanks so much
steph (link)
You should get a good picture of her where you can see her hairstyle and bring it to the hairstylist to show. That might help.


Does anyone kno where i can like listen to music for free and has a bunch of songs. and i mean really super free.i rate high (link)
launch.yahoo.com


Ok i am not a skinny person i am really over weight and i wanna loose a lot of weight before christmas and stuff so i can feel better about myself and so people will stop making fun of me and stuff i would like to know what to buy how much to eat how much to exercise and what foods are good and not how long i have to exercise what to drink and everything. I pretty much only drink water so yeah.And i want to loose as many pounds as i can in a week/month/year. so plz give me soem advice. (link)
Cut out all pop and junk food. Exercise every day. Run stairs, go biking, go running or walking for about 1/2 hour every day. Drink lots of water. Eat healthy foods, like fruits, salads and stuff like that. When you eat, eat slowly. That way you will feel fuller sooner. Try not to snack a lot between meals.

Try this website too,

www.toneteen.com

Hope I helped.




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