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im 13 female i love hanging with friends and getting into trouble and arguing about anything and i have alot of boy problems and i love them so dont help me kidding

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oaky i have a RLY bad sweating problem! At school i sweat like heck and i cant help it! by the end of the day i have HUGE oit stains! Ive tried many different deoderants....first i started out with avon and then i tried secret (( the strong and invisable kind)) and now im using avon sport...none of them will work!!! please help me! what is a very strong deoderant???

you can try mens deoderant but that might be a lilttle extreme well anyway i read in a magazine tha if you shave your underarms then right after you get out the shower from shaving put on deoderant and this helps to hold moisture so that if you sweat during the night you wont have B.O and ummm put deoderant on the next moring to also try spray deoderant thats wat i use it works well
hope i helped love boyproblems

goodluck

how do you tell a guy friend that you like him without freaking him out?

dont just come out and randomly say it i would just give lilttle hint every now and then and after hes kind of gotten used to it i would tell him ok i think i might like you by then you should both be used to it and he might say umm i think i like you to
hope i helped love boy problems

OK well im a 13/f and when I was little and still now if like i do somthing "bad"..or i get my dad mad...he'll like hit me...and like i dont know if thats really considered abuse..well see this all came up because my friend jessica was tellin us how she stayed out late and her dad got really mad and she called her mom and was like i think dads gunna hit me cuz hes really mad but if he lays a hand on me ill call the cops...so that just got me thinkin to myself...is what my dad does considered abuse or just a way of him "punishing" me.
plz answer
thanks

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ummm hard to call however if he does it for no reason at all then yes but some parents consider that like a spanken or sumthing like that but if he repedietly does it and it leaves marks or hurts badly like for more than a day and he did it for no reason at all i would say yes it is hope i helped love boyproblems

im a 16/f and i went on a tubing trip with my team this past weekend and i hung out with this really nice guy. we were together the whole time. we were constantly all over eachother and he held my hand and talked with me the whole time. well people who saw this misinterperted the situation and now everyone thinks i like him. well no ones paying any attention to what he does cause he has a gf...which i didnt know when we were together. he is a really sweet guy and he was so easy to talk to. the thing is that im starting to like him. i see him everyday at practice and he always grabs my waist and gives me small hugs. my best friend keeps telling me that there is no way that he doesnt have feelings for me since he held my hand the whole time and he kept asking me to get on his tube with him. is there anything i can do in this situation to get people off my back and is there any way that he likes me? (even if he has a g/f)

well i dont think people will leave you alone about it however i think he likes you i mean why waist time hugging and holding hands if you dont like the person that your holding and hugign good luck hope i helped boyproblems

me and my boyfriend want to kiss...he has already kissed someone and he knows how to kiss..but its my first kiss and i dont know how to kiss at all...will i know when he goes to kiss me? is there any ways to practice kissing?

ok lip kiss is easy aim right cant go wrong there fench kiss there is no real way to french anyone however you can do it wrong i dont how but iv heard that you can so for that noone knows what to do exacly so youl fit right in even people who have even dont know how so just do what you feel good luck love boyproblems

okay i have few questions....
how old to you have to be to legally have sex?

even if you have a condom on can the guy ejaculate while still inside the girl and not get pregnant? also even if you withdrawl before ejaculation... can you still get pregnant even if you have a condom on?

i rate please answer

legally if the person is 18 you have to be 18 other than that its statutory rape even if its consider consintual
condoms can have whole there is no garuntee of no s.t.d.s or pregnacy except for absinces
you can also become pregnat at any point that sperm is anywhere near your body even if swallowed good luck love boyproblems

Hey all.
I have a spanish teacher, and he is saying, doing and drawing things that offend me.

We learned the body parts in spanish, and sometimes he makes us stretch. Well one time he said "no for estomoigo" (i am horrible at spelling, and that means stumach) and he would like rotate his hips. like in a circle.

then recently we learned things to do, like dance,(bailar) and sing (cantar)
and he would to the actions and then we would have to say what it is outloud, and in spanish. He would go, "me favorito" (my favorite) and start to "dance" and he would like do like humping type things it was so wierd. and like push his but out like fast but slow at the same time(if that makes sence)

And then, this is what totally offends me. he will draw people, and they will be having a conversation in spanish. He will usually draw a rap singer, (a male) and then a "curvy" female.
Usually Jenifer Lopez or Beyonce. He draws them with extreme curves.
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that middle pard would be like the hips. and its gross. he will write, like "bootielicious" as the guys responce,or something like that, and he says it sometimes.

My friend said today that she liked to run (correr) in spanish! and he drew a picture of her, and he made her have really short shorts, and said that she had really short shorts! I understand it because of running and all, but thats gross!!

Also, today we had a fire drill, and the alarm things were going off, and he kept saying "attencion a me, attencion a me,
attencion a me,attencion a me,attencion a me,attencion a me" (that means, give me your attention) and he would not let us leave! he always wants us watching him, creepy. and then he always blows a whistle! its soo annoying and he did that today!
I dont think that has much to do with sexual harassment, but it is dangerous!

If you need to know more, ask!

He is a really good teacher, but he is young, and a lot of the other girls find him attractive, but i dont, because I find him offencive sometimes. I know he is a good teacher, and i want him to continue teaching, but I dont want him to do this stuff. is there anyway I can say something (not to him) to an adminestrator or someone, but not in a mean way, just to talk to him about what he does that Myself and some other girls find offencive?

Do you think that this is sexual harassment? am I totally over-reacting??

Please help!

I'll rate and leave feedback!

Thanks! any help is really appreciated!

-Kas-

well legaly sexual harrasment is anything that makes you uncomfortable so techniqly yes it can be but with teachers you have to be careful b/c thats theyr jobs and theyr life and it would go on like some kind of record so be careful but also if its a real threat like touching and stuff then take care of it the way you feel comfotrable with it goodluck love botproblems

what are some funny/cheesey pick up lines?

these are lines that my cheesey guy friends say to me
can i barrow a quater i promised my mother i would call hr when i fell in love

can you touch me that way i can say iv been touched by an angle there are so many more
go to google or a search engine and type in cheesy pickup lines thats where they go these good luck love boy problems

Ok.. im sorry if this gets long and confusing, but i really need help & ive got a lot on my mind.. so this will get long!!

So theres this boy, and i like him so much! the thing is.. we went out before.. and he was so great! then we broke up about 2 months later because his feelings werent as strong for me as he thought. but i still like him. we talked about going out but he didnt think it was a very good idea, but he did like me. ( we go to different schools, by the way. ) we see each other every monday, wednesday, and friday. and i think thats good enough? ever since we broke up we've been best friends.. and that makes me like him even more. about 4 months after we broke up, he asked me out again. he said for sure his feelings were strong. so i said yes, because i was madly in love with him!! he had a dance at his school, he asked me to go but i couldnt because of cheerleading practice. so i came home and checked my messages on my cell fone and one of my good friends that goes to his school called me. i called her back right away. she told me so much stuff! like the boy danced with another girl.. that didnt really bother me. but then she said they made out and he went to her house afterwards. i was crying so much!! i called his cell fone and the GIRL answered. [ to make it all worse, it was the girl i hate because she did the same exact thing with my old boyfriend. ] so me and the boy talked and he denied everything. i could not believe him. this was about 2 weeks ago. but i still love him so much!! see, thats the thing. after all he did and after all the pain i went through.. i keep on loving him. i keep on begging for him! it sucks =( i cry so much about it but theres nothing i can do.

so my question is :
what should i do!? follow my heart and still crush on him.. or give up on him?!

I LOVE HIM SOOOOO MUCH

well as you can see by my name i deal with alot of boy problems so if it where me i would go with my heart maybe he was just messing around b/c he was like waiting or something but if your heart tells you that you like him then go for it crush away but if he slips again i would pass on that lol hope i helped love boyproblems

ok my friend gave me your name she said you gave good advice in person so when she found out about this she gave me your name well here it goes how do i kno if im ready to have sex

well i cant tell you if ur ready or not but i can say i made that chose and im happy with it meaning i thought if i was ready to handle that responsibility and if i could handle the rumors and everything else that came with that you shud do the same good luck in choseing be safe wink wink love boyproblems and thank ur friend

why arent my questions going through?
its been like 3 hours
im really mad
please speed it up yall or im not going to get a paid account or pay anymore money towards yall and il give bad publicity
:( HURRY IT UP!

i know i asked my question like 30 minutes ago

how do u change your laugh and i want to know the best ways to get rid of acne and o yeah any ideas on how to get whiter teeth seee this sounds like a person has some really bad facial issues but its not im giving my friend a makeover but i need fast and long lasting results plz and thank you i rate high

dont change your laugh i have the worlds most annoying laugh and for some reason people like me for it but moving on for your teeth baking soda and achol it taste horrible but it does clean them and the acne cleanser for it hope i helped good luck love BOYPROBLEMS

ok so i talked so much about this boy before that i met in registration. Well i found out he chats 2 all the girls and so i was not the only one. maybe hes like one of them people who make people feel welcome in a new school. Well anyways.... basically all the girls guessed i like him because when he talks 2 me i go bright red so yeh one of them said they are going 2 ask him if he has a gf? im not sure what i should do ive like tried being nice 2 him but i don't think he is interested.help plz

well when you talk to him be a liltle flirty and if he flirts back but that might mean hes just flirty so keep pushing the flirtyness and then kinda hang out with him and see if he says anything and if nothing else if he is single then make the first move hope i helped goodluck

i started my period around the first of august. like the 2nd..about.. for the first time. its september now & i havent started yet this month. will the date i start this month be the date for every month ? ?? help me out w/ this time date stuff

no not if you just started it will most likely be like you cant see when its going to come until like your third or fourth one maybe more hope i helped

will someone please help me
im quite fat and i go red all the time i mean i get worn out really easly like i will walk down the street and i will go proper red nearly purple and i dont no why i no its probs because of my weight and i really want to be thin but i cant cause i get really anoyed and imbarased wen i do sum exercise and im bright red i would love to be thin and i would be able to do it if i just didnt go so red and get so worn out its horible i dont really like going shoping or when my mates go out of school for lunch i hate it cause im really red and everyone laughs at me / is something wrong woth me and can this be stoped i will rate high

well you should probaly walk this way your body becomes used to that amount of exercise this way you wont become red after just doing little things if it continues i would ask your doctor about it hope i helped

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