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19 / f
So me and my bf are wanting to have sex. We've tried plenty of times using a condom but failed-both of us struggle to put it on.
So I suggested instead of using a condom to use other methods of birth control such as pills.
I live in the UK, and I wanted to know what options are available for me and how can I access pills? Or is the onky solution to visit a doctor? (link)
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the doctor is not the only way to get the pill, there are family planning clinics you can go to, if you go on google and type in family planning clinics in your area they should tell you what day and time they are open, no appointment is needed just walk in.....they will advise you on all kinds of birth control i personally reccomend the inplant (small stick in the arm)it works for 3years with out you having to remember to take it at the same time or risking unwanted pregnancy, plus it stops your period completely while you have it in so you can your boyfriend can have sex whenever you want just remember with any birth control it takes a week to become effective
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I truly loved a girl name preethi she lives in Coimbatore im Arun maheedhar in same area because of her situation and completion of her parents she left me we both doin masters in Coimbatore the day of her proposal is Nov 8 th around 7.30 in the evening then our life was awesome for few days like upto Dec 30 th the same year 2013 I was last seen her at Dec 30 th 2013 evening I dropped her in a market place and I left with tears and my tears still not stopped today april 6th 1.14 am I was feeling very sad abt the memories I tried to erase her memories but I can't I tried many things but only fail remains in love in carrer in life only her memories left with me now I want to die with that same memory but I don't want any resurrection after this life it's enough I'm now not fit for my life. Her birthday is April 9th so on that day I pray for her life for last time and I want to die with those memories please tell a way for a quick painless death (link)
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i have been there done that and death is not the answer, there is away around this, if you really want to be with her go find her and fight to be with her again. or get a notepad/journal - write down how you feel, carry it with you and every time you feel down about this write it down, it really does help as it gets it out of your system, rather then be sad about the memories use the happy ones to drive you forward to either find her again or to move on and find someone else u can be happy with.
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I'm from Berlin, Germany. I can read and write English almost as well as anyone else. Recently I have lost my dear identical twin brother, tragically. My father doesn't seem to care much, he didn't even blink when he died but I can't stop feeling this hole. I feel lost now, and confused. I can't cry for some reason. I'm depressed and alone. My mother is with my brother and my father is always at the bar. So what can I do to ease this pain inside of me? (link)
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by the sounds of it your father is using alcohol to cure/hide away from the this. when i was in this situation i wrote down how i felt and that helped to me to get by however i think u need to find away to this too, you said you can not cry however that will come when you are ready just remember they are always with you in your heart and mind, the pain will ease eventually when you are ready to cry.....if are able to talk to your dad see if it will help you both....hope this helps even if it is a little
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i had sex five weeks ago and gain tweenty pounds and am craving things like hotsauce on pancakes and alot of picles im late on my period and im regular tell mewhat u think (link)
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Hi, yes they are classic signs of being pregnant I started my morning sickness at 3weeks and the cravings shortly after but I also agree with the answer above it can also be caused by stress and worrying too much....as they can also stop ur period. If this was me I would do a pregnancy test to make sure and then go to the doctors and get checked out
Hope this helps
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Hi. My Fiance' and I are trying to figure out a close estimate with what we would make a year once we finish our college education.
I'm going to be a labor & delivery nurse
and he is going to be a high school math teacher/basketball coach.
What is an estimate with what we would make a year; together?
We live in Tennessee. Close to Nashville, if that helps.
We are both doing things we love; so we wanna see if we are going to be okay finically.
Thank you! (link)
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if there are any job website you can look at that looks at how you get into the job they should tell you the esitimated salary rate that you may get buy using this you could find out roughly what you will make and work out from there how much you can afford for everyday things like a somewhere to live, food, bills etc.
hope this helps you in anyway
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So I met this guy completely on accident and I didn't know at the time I would wind up falling in love with him and that he would feel the same way.
Before he was my boyfriend I came up with this outrageous stupid stupid lie that I was from France and I'm not. Not even close and I've never even been there and nobody in my family has nor speaks French.
Idiotic me kept going along with it and I even told him about a memory from france and that I could only pick my french accent back up while was reading a french script.
I also told him my dad is a cop back on the first day we started talking. He's not a cop. Never has been but he's on the sheriffs board and he's obsessed with cops and even went through these cop like training sessions with the sheriffs board and used to tell everybody I knew he was a cop. He even wore a cop shirt to my schools open house!
I feel so bad and I have no idea how to tell him I lied. I'm pretty sure he even told his family I'm from France and I'm meeting them day after tomorrow.
I thought about making up a bigger lie like "My mom told me today that I'm not from France." but that would make her sound crazy to be honest that's a pretty stupid lie to make up.
I don't even know whether to bother telling him I lied in case we don't work out. I'm pretty sure I can fish my way out of the cop thing by saying he's a park ranger (which he is) which is a type of cop but the France thing is my problem! I have no idea how to get out of that. No matter what I think of it sounds stupid unless one night I start fake bawling and tell him my mom told me I'm not from france but I already told him stories about memories from France and that my moms french and blablabla! Our family was from france but it was our ancestors from hundreds of years ago which I found out via my mom doing geneaology.
I don't know what to do! Please help me!
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to start with i understand how you feel it is very frustraighting. I would ease your way out of it by saying when you was a kid you was told bout your ancestors and from then you always though you was from france and no one has ever put you on the right path of telling you that your not from there. you can then imclude your other lie of you mum telling you that you found out your not from france by saying you told her the situation you got your self into and thats how you found out you not from france. with this though you do need to be very careful dont stumble over what your saying or it may make things worse for you.
i hope things work out for you both and hope this has helped you in some way x
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hi im sure u have had many questions like this but im going to ask anyways. i apologize for the spelling.and its kinda jumpy sorry.
my boyfriend who i have been with for 3years & 2months so far, (we've been together sense i was 15 and he was 16, we are now almost 19 and 20) anyways he keeps haveing dreams about me being pregnant and not just a few months pregnant i mean like 8 and 9months pregnant, to where im about to have the baby, he has them all the time ah and hes also having dreams about us already having children its always a girl with blue eyes,blond hair, lightly skined and etc.he has always had these dreams about me, and im not sure why. yes he wants a baby girl so i know that could be a reason why, i know its not because hes afraid to get me pregnant because we both want to have a baby yes we do plan on getting married next year so you guys know. i dont know i was just wondering if there could be an actuall reason why hes having these dreams or is it just because there random? please dont have rude comments im just curiouse. and thank your for your answers or even just reading it. i want honest opinions though. (link)
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everyone at some point has a dream that is often a premintion of the future but that can be chnaged by both of your actions if it is. it is also nothing to worry about as he if most likey picturing what he would like to happen with you both. if you have both been talking bout having kids this could also be on his mind hun so i wouldnt worry about it.
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hi .. so 2 weeks ago i went out with my bf and he fingered me. We didnt have sex but i touched my vagina to get it wet and put it on his penis .. so that i could give him a hand so he could cum. i did that twice with the same finer. Is it possible that i might be pregnant .. n is that y i havent gotten my periods? I usually get it on 17th but its 21st already ... m rll worried ... since i m just 17!
any advice would be useful!
Thx (link)
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unless he actually cummed over your or in ur sexual parts then no your not pregnant. As your worring way to much about it, this can cause your hormones to react in a similar way to being pregnant. If your still unsure about it all buy a pregnancy test or go to a family planning clinic and get one done along with some free advice.
hope this helps hun x
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is masterbration healty (link)
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yes as long as its not too often
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I am going to see my boyfriend next week after a month and I will have my period. I am on birth control and I am currently on my third week of the pack. Could I stop taking the pills now so I get my period this week and then start a new pack on Sunday? And if I do this, what are the health risks? (link)
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you are fine to do that i do that when i go on holiday so i dont have to worry about being on my period. hope this helps x
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I dont know what to do. Im only 14 and ive been in a relationship with this boy for a year, on and off now, and he's been talking about us having a child. Ive been really thinking about this and I really feel like Im ready for something like this. I know its not exactly a walk in the park bringing up a child and that it isnt something i can just forget about if i get fed up of the responsibilities. I do want to have a child with him now but honestly im not sure if I should. I saw what you said to some girls question and just thought youd be able to help. Please reply, Im not sure who else to ask.
Thanks:) x (link)
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I agree with others on this your are still a child your self, I thought I was ready every time i fell pregnant and i tell you now i wasnt, i was 13/14 when i first fell pregnant, it has messed my life up big time having kids young is not easy it means you have to give things up that you want to be able to provide for your child. I lost alot of friends when i fell pregnant, they stuck by me till i had the baby and until my son started walking they was there for me then the disappeared. i only had the onr true friend who stuck by me and is now my kids god mother. My family didnt like it one bit and it caused alot of problems at home too.
so what i am saying is think about what you will be loosing by having a kid at a young age. I would suggest you wait until you are in a stable relationship
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When yours popped did it burn when you peed because I was 7 an it my vagina an a bike an later that day I went the bathroom an it burned an there was blood so is my cherry popped or what very confused at the time (link)
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i was 14 when i lost my cherry and yes it did burn when i went to the loo and yes i did bleed, but unles you have physicaly had sex your cherry has not been popped.
you may have broke the layer of skin (also known as the virginity skin) causing this to happy but other then that unless you have had sex you have not popped your cherry.
If your still unsure hun go to the doctors and checked out x
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SO i have the new msn, it was updated a long time ago. Well i know on the old messenger you could block and delete people. But on this new msn, all you can do is delete people. Which i dont like because they still have your email where blocking prevents them from having any contact with you.
So i was just wondering if there was a way to block someone on the new MSN (latest one)??? If you have to do something more then wat you would have to do on the other one?
Thanks for your time in advance! Thanks! (link)
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hello there,
Right click the person u want to block and then click 'appear offline to his person' this contact is then blocked x
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Guys when I downloaded windows live messenger and tried to log on it all it said was "Service not enable for this hand-held" can somebody please help?
Help Very Appreciated XD (link)
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wen i had this problem i had to re configure the internet settings, if u can try this if that dont work try deleting it and reinstalling it hope it helps
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21 female
I've had sex once, and it was amazing. It wasn't with a boyfriend or anyone though. By anyways, after I had sex I freaked out making myself think I was pregnant for no reason. I'm on birth control, have been for years now and I always take it the same time. And I'd always always always use a condom BUT i just don't think I can calm down any time after having sex. I don't know why I'll always think something went wrong and I got pregnant.
Even if I'm with someone I like or even love, I still feel like I'd be like this. Does it mean I shouldn't be having sex then? Does anyone else feel this way? After I had sex for the first time I actually felt sick to my stomach because I was freaking myself out. (link)
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When i had sex the first time i felt the same way, its perfectly normal for you to react in that way. You said you are on birth control and that you use condoms all the time yuou have sex, if that is the case the is nothing to worry about. Every girls first instict after sex is that they are pregnant, unless you have had unprocted sex or something went wrong with the condom there nothing for you to worry about
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at my daughters school next year,(9th grade) in PE there will be a swim unit and boys and girls have it together? Why is this allowed? Wouldn't this make girls feel uncomfortable. Wouldn't boys use this opportunity to harass or humilate girls? Also, why are boys allowed to be shirtless in the presence of girls? Why is no sense of modesty maintained (link)
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this is allowed as the school are not allowed to be sexual split for classes, it is perfectly legal buy the Swimming Assiation. yes it may make them feel uncomfortable at first and if your daughter does not like the idea after the first session then im sure the school will be happy to accommodate the situatuion. If you are un-happy about the fact the boys are going shirtless in the pool then there are special swim tops that the boys can buy to use when they are swimming.
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i'm eighteen years old.was in a relationship for the past four years.everything was absolutely fine..till my bf decided it had to end(a week back).i kinda understand why he had to do so..and totally know he did the right thing..but i'm not able to let go..though breaking up was the most practical thing to do, i'm not able t accept it..and the thing that makes it even more complicated is that we had been doing more than just hanging out.so after all this..i feel like i've been used and cheated..i'm not able to tell my parents about it cuz i'm feeling guilty.. have already attempted suicide twice but it didn't really work..i have no idea what to do,, every little thing in my life reminds me of him..i wanna hate him but am really not able to...
and knowing that he's moved on is only hurting me more...i don't know what to do and i need all the help i can get...not to get back to him..but to let go of him..... (link)
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why dont you try turning the negativity of ther break up into positivity. what i mean by this is that rather then you feeling bad because he has moved on, be happy for him as you still love him. use the energy to drive you forward to move on, find a new hobby you like doing and take it up to take you mind of things. your life will feel glum for a while but it will turn around trust me hun. I would advise you dont tell your parents that have tried to kill yourself as this make them loose there trust for you, just let them know how the break up has got you down alot....they will understand im sure they will have been in your shoes when they was younger.
i really hope this helps you.
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19/m
I am trying to find some fun sex toys I can use by myself or with my boyfriend. I know a little bit about cock rings and butt plugs, but I dont know a lot about any of it. Does anybody have any suggestions on things I should look into? (link)
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if you can google Ann summers parties get someone to come and they can help you, it worked for my best mate. hope it helps
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Okay so there is this real close friend of mine.We are classmates. And we had this sleepover, a couple of us, guys and girls. I just broke up two months back with my bf who cheated..so i am still getting over it...And my friend broke up a few days ago. We ended up chatting throughout the night, and i dont know what happened but we ended up kissing each other too..it was not our intention of doing ANYTHING like that. we pretty much have feelings for our ex's and not each other. i dont know why and how it happened.
we have promised not to tell this to anyone. and that this incident will stay a secret between the two of us forever. but i feel weird about it, i feel disgusted for doing such a stupid thing now. do you think things will change because of this? i am scared he would tell someone which i really dont want.HELP. how should i handle this? (link)
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i really hope the advice im about to give helps you. From what i have read it sounds like yes there is something there but i also sense that at the miniute it is just a rebound reaction and could hurt you both, if you both feel happy once you have no longer got the strong feelings for your ex's then go for the relationship :) i hope it goes well for you.
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Hello. I'm 20 f and I've been single for about 3 years. I don't know why. I've been told that I'm very beautiful and I think I'm a fun person. I thought that because three days I've been feeling do lonely, I could ask a good friend of mine to find me a match. Not to force anything just one date or something. But I feel kind of embarrassed. I don't have many girlfriends and maybe its just awkward because my friend is a guy but a very nice person. I just want to broaden my horizons and expand my love life and this person can help me. I just don't know how to ask him. Thank u! (link)
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If you really want to ask him i would suggest you gradually bring it up in conversation but ask him to keep it to him self so that you u know he has to be suttle about how he askes his mates.
there are also plenty of free dating websites out there that are useful and thats how i have met my knew partener and we are so happy together. If you do not wish to do this then be your self and enjoy your life while your single and sure enough cupid will find you
I really hope this helps
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