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SO im getting to the age where everyone i know has made out with someone. Well i havent. When i finally do kiss someone are they going to notice that im a first timer? Or that i suck!? Any tips to prevent from being a horrible kisser are greatly appreciated! Guys yes i want your advice too!

You cant really be a bad kisser just dont slobber or not to much tounge

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well im going out with this guy and i really do like him. Well my friends want us to kiss like really bad...dont ask me why but their just weird like that. Well anyways...we've been going out not that long though....only 2 weeks and 2 days to be exact. But we've been friends for a long time. Well i was just wandering if its too early and how to kno if it is and if he wants to yet. Cuz i kno i do..but i dont kno how to see if he does any help?
sincelry,
confused

well if hes a normal teenage boy then iam sure he wants to kiss youtoo. He prob doesnt no how you feel about it and doesnt want to make you feel uncomfortable. When you guys are together talk about it ask how he feels.

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My 16th birthday is coming up in about 6 months. I know that seems like a long time, but my mom wants me to go ahead and have it planned this summer so i can book whatever I decide to do. But that's my problem. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO! I can either have more people and do something less extravigant, but still kinda big. or something big with a few friends. I'm a girl, my birthday is in December, but i'm alergic to cold, so I cant actually be outside. I'm a 'princess'. lol. I want to do something fun. Not like go to a movie, and go to dinner. Something maybe that will bring out my inner child. haha. please help!
i'll rate high :D

thanks!!

I think that if you rented a hotel ballroom or you no like a big room that could be fun. You could get a DJ so everyone can dance. You can have a place where you can take crazy pictures with your friends. You can have a dvd of funny pics with yor friends and play it. Just stuff like that. And have like little kids food to eat dinosar chicken nuggets, smily face fries, ice cream bar.

WEll hope you at least some of it.

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what is the most fastest and healthy way to enlarge my penis?

Yeah unless you want plastic surgery theres nothing else

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does anyone know how to curl the ends of my hair?.... Plus i really want to make my hair wavy but i have no idea how!! (without usin hair curlers or wateva) please help me because im really bored with my style! its always down strate thanx ill rate 5 for any good answers

Well i would suggest to not only use gel but also mouse. Wet your hair and turn your head up side down and scrunch it a of it so when it drys you will have waves. DO NOT dry with a hair dryer (it will make it frizzy)Let it air dry

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well my boyfriend is having a birthday party in a while and there will be a ton of people there. But its at his house so his mom and dad will be there. I want to look good but i also dont want to look all slutty so any ideas of what to wear?
thanks,
Katie
[by the way im 13/f]

well if its outside wear something dont to warm. maybe capris, a sundress, or a niceskirt. I think the flipflop thing is a good idea dont over do the make up

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Okay, to make a long story short, me and my friend got into a fight with our other friend because we confronted her about blowing us off and shit because she got a new boyfriend. The whole thing was blown way out of proportion. Anyway, she forgave my friend, but not me, because I was meaner (apparently). The girl told me, "Your basically dead to me." She also told me she could never forgive me and that she didn't care what I said or did. This girl was one of my best friends. It's really hard to loose a friend, and never even get a second chance. How do I get over it? (It's definately going to be hard because we have the same group of friends.)

I have also tried having a civil conversation with her as well. She gives me a one word answer, and acts as I'm not worth her words. I'm tired of feeling like shit over this..PLEASE HELP. (also this happened in april)

Ok so your friend has anger issues no big deal write her a letter remind her of what you guys mean to each other and if that doesnt work than give her time. And if all else fails you no that you did everything you could and shes the one that is issing out

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my stomach is toned above my belly button. below..not so much. i have that little mini pouch thing under my belly button that everyone seems to have & never goes away but that doesnt really bother me. it's my sides. like when i wear jeans it bulges a littlee bit on the sides, and it looks retarted when i wear a bathing suit beccause the top part of my abs are good but the rest isn't.i do the flat ab workout thing every night from the latest seventeen, but its not really doing much. i eat pretty good, but i basically have no will power lol so its hard to beat cravings. so i was wondering what ways i could make the ugllly bulge goo awayyy ? hopefully by like, the end of june.

Depending on how old you are it can still be baby fat and it wont go away for a while. try lookoing on the internet for work outs that focus on your lower abs

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ok I like this guy at school lets call him mark I really like him alot hes more of one of the preps and im not exactly a prep but im not a total geek im just not a crowd person i have friends and everything im normal but he kinda gives signels to me in this one class i have like talking to me alot and also like makes me laugh and smiles at me are they signals or his he nbeing friendly i flirt but i dont know if he is but the last day of school is aproching but i dont know if I have a chance!!! help

Just be bold ask him hat he thinks of you or just ask him to hang out.
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i put lemon juice in my hiar, and it says to lay out in the sun or blow dry it to make it "lighten" but would it give me the same effect if i straightened with with a wet-dry stragithener?

Yeah i have done it before and it worked for me so hope it works for you

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um i got two questions...

the first one is im really into those bathing suits that tie on the side and that dont make your sides bolge out... and they also tie on the top of the bathing suit. ya you probably know what im talking about. um i was wondering where i can get one like that. it has to be cute and not over 50$. i dont shop at walmart for things like that or other stores that are cheap. i looked at hollister but i didnt see none. i prefer it to be pink, gold, white, or red. anyone know where i can get one?

my other question is i was looking for a black or grey northface jacket. i went to sports authority but they ran out. any other suggestions on where i can get one. no speacil price :]

thanx in advance. :]

xO - k k

AMerican eagle and aero has really cute suits for under 50$ i'm sure you will find one

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what should i do if my girlfriend being stalked like online and i have the stuff he has sent her

Tell an adult .......someone you trust its not something to just keep to your self it can be very dangerous

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This guy and I we have always had a connection through the way we smile and the look in our eyes, we knew we had a connection but we never told each other whats more, we didnt talk alot.
At the prom I asked him whether he ever had a cush on me, he said he did for a year or so but then 'he got the feeling we were just friends' I thought that meant he stopped having a crush on me. My friend on the other hand said 'whattt no!! that means he wasnt getting the right signals from you'..so im perplexed to what he meant by that...i never asked him whether he still had a crush on me, but through the prom he kept holding onto me asking me to dance and impulsiveley kissing me on the cheek...do u think theres something there?? what do u think he meant? anyways take care xxx

Reading your story it sounds like he still has a thing for you the things he was doing is prob becuz he wants to see how you will react.

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My BF still speaks to his ex-gf. She lives in a different state but they chat on MSN. They were together over a year. I guess I'm a pretty jealous person, but I actually don't believe in being friends with your exes. I'm not friends with any of mine (I don't hate them though) It's causing me a lot of worry and upset because they've broken up and got back together several times and I'm afraid its going to happen again. would it be unreasonable for me to ask him to stop speaking to her? when i asked him how he felt about her, he said they won't get back together because she no longers likes guys... but I dunno. Doesn't sound very convicing to me. What should I do?

thanks

Well for one thing if shes a lesbian now i dont think she has an interest in him like that. I think that you should trust him on this and maybe tell him that it bothers you that him and her talk so much..................

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Should i be worried if the boy i like called another girl that likes him .. But my friend says that they only talked on the phone for 2 minutes. should i worry about it? or wonder whats goin on with them?

xox - brandy marie

the is prob nothing going on if they talked for 2 mins. but if you want to be sure just causally ask him whats up with her and you'll get the truth

Josie

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where can i get a really cute layout. thats really simple. like a "skinny layout".

www.whateverlife.com has really nice layouts so check them out


Josie

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Im 16 years old , grade 11, ive known a gurl named teshia for 3 months , met her thru a mutual friend, she was goin out witta guy cory for 9 months, and i thot she was very pretty, and seemed nice, we started saying hi once in a while, then we started calling eachother, soon enuf we were best friends and talkd for hours atta time evry nite and went out to a bunch of places, i made her the happiest shes bin in her life 4 times in those 3 months, but for the last month i really started to fall for her, i loved her, her and cory didnt havva good relationship,he ignored her lots, called her once a week, did sumthing with her twice a month,they fought alot bout me because shed say oh aj does this for me why cant you , i hated cory because he made her miserable, but she couldnt leave him, she luved him, she wantd to be with me tho,then she broke up with him for the reason being i thot was her wanting to be with me , so about a week later i asked her out all romanticly , and she said im not ready , why are you doing this to me, then thers me thinking she'd be all happy, then that was 6 days ago nd since then ive bin tha most hurt ive bin in my life, she still wants to be good friends ,but ive bin tellin her for tha last month i dont no how long i can stay friends because it hurts seeing u with cory, now i cant cuz it hurts not being with u, so i get advice saying just drop her, forget bout it she had her chance, from my sister, friends, ect.. and i tried and shes all i ever think about, its too hard and hurts too much, i asked her again why we cant be together, are you over cory? she says yes but i cant see myself being with you sexually, i was in awe because we almost did sexual stuff a few times, she wanted to but i didnt because she was with cory, and i think thats wrong, it just hurts so much, what should i do?

If you truly do love her you shouldnt drop her. If you love her thatmuch you will give her time to heal from cory and even though it hurts you should still be frineds with her becuase she needs you now.

Hope i helped some

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i get acne on my forehead but there are also these LITTLE bumps that look like acne but they arent.. idont know what they are and they arent red and plus they dont hurt.. anyone know what im tlking about? what is this and how can i get rid of them? ill rate 5's

Yeah those are called white heads. If you use a good scrub or something like proactive it should clear up

Hope it works

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I'm about to start soccer and you need to do alot of intense running. Well I'm a horrible runner, because I have a sort of breathing problem that the doctor knows about and everything. however, this does not excuse me from the training (running). I also get really nervous when I run with other people, and so now im extremely anxious about starting soccer. What should I do to calm me down? 15/f

I no exactly what you are going through i have athletic inspierd asthma but i have been playing soccer since i was 4. I you have a pump when you keep like you CANT breathe take a puff maybe 2 if you need it. If you dont have one tell your doc to get you one.

Run like everyone else on the team it doesnt mean you have to run as fast do it at your own pace and never talk while you run you lose your breathe faster breathe from our nose and keep your mouth shut.


Hope you do good

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tomorrow i am gunna babysit my two little cousins. i always babysit, no problem but usually 1 and older... the younngest was just born in jan-february and im not really nervous but i just want to know what im basically gunna have to do. will i have to hold her the whole time or.. i dont know im usually nervous when it comes to really young babies.

To tell you the truth you wont have to do much little babys sleep alot you might have to feed it and change it but you wont have to really watch it the whole time



Hope it helps *

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