My name is Laura, I am 16 years old. Although i may still be young, i have a lot of incite and don't be shy because It's very hard to make me uncomfortable. I find that painful experiences make you stronger, but It's still good to get reassurence of this. I sincerely hope that you enjoy my site and shower me with questions
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Age: 16
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I love a guy.
We used to be very close friends
now im pretty sure he hates me or is mad at me.
I miss him terribly
and he has a girlfriend.
We had a sexual past
I could give details but that would leave this question rather long
I cant get over him,no matter how hard i try.
Any suggestions on what I should do?
ps. I sent a message to him the other day, and he didnt reply immediatly, but like 40 minutes later he said "hey" to me.
So do you think he thought about what my letter said?
Ah i need help ..so much help! (link)
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listen, if you think hes avoiding you, just give him space, guys are asshole i know it. these kinds of things are SO painful, i know trust me, but youll grow and learn, it doesnt seem to matter now but youll look back and appreciate it later. just some things cant be healed and they have to be left where they are
good luck and stay strong
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ok im almost 17 and last night i had sex with no condom i live in Albany Oregon do any one have any tips on how long to wait to take a home test, any free clinics, and any other things.
please help me and my boyfriend need ur help.
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why dont you go the the clinique and get the morning after pill ??
oh and good news, i heard that soon theyre gona be out in drug stores, so then it wont be a pain in the ass, seriously though, dont wait until its too late
good luck
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I had sex with this boy
and oral and he fingered me, and the whole 9 yards.
But he used me for all of it,and I know it.
But the thing is, he had the chance to do it with either me OR my friend [becuase of the situation]
and he used to call me all the time
and talk to me online all the time
so it wasnt just a one night stand.
But he would continue to want to do it , and he even said to me " We are like sex partners" or something along those lines.
So whats the deal here?
Do you think he atleast thought I was pretty? Or what?
And yes i know it was a stupid mistake, theres nothing i can do about it now.
helP! (link)
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well he must have been attracted to you
but yeah guys really dont give a shit about us these days, just be careful in the futre and please dont be stupid !!!!dont be rude to him but just keep your distance, thats the best i can think of
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Ive been begging my mum for adges to let me toatly make over my room but now that it comes to actually designing it im stuck .I dont want it to be a toatly grown up room as im only 13 but i dont want it to be childish . A lot of my friends said a black and white theam but i dont want that . I thaught maby really light pink walls and then a dark
(but not like really dark)and funky bed and curtains. I really need help has anyone got any ideas?
xx
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less is more, my love
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Good arguments that atheists might use against religious people, usually Christians? I deal with a lot of rather annoying fundamentalists.
(And if you are going to answer this by telling me how I need to let "god's love into my heart", then please press the back button on your browser now. There's a pretty good chance you sicken me." (link)
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tell them that its none of theyre fucking buisness and that god hates them
well you COULD say that, but i suggest you simply say you may have your opinion and ill have mine. respect and exceptance is important in organized civilization, and if the religious people arent willing to except it, then they're just animals [ and people like us can silently laugh in their face ]
good luck with that, man
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how do i get my friends pics in a scrollbox to put on my myspace? like i want to take the pics from their myspace and put them in a scrollbox on mine. (link)
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I'm really scared for my friend, she's going out with a guy who is like WAY older than her! SERIOUSLY OLDER by like, EIGHT or NINE years! well at least that's what she told me she might not REALLY be going out with him, she does lie a lot to get attention, but please i need advice to give 2 her (link)
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It really depends how old she is and how much experience she has. Dating older guys has it's pro and cons. On the upside, he has a care ( woot woot !) and older guys are overall more mature. On the downside however, they expect more, sexually i mean. However that doesnt mean that all guys are like that. Just have your friend talk to him about that, if shes ready thats great. But if hes pressuring her and shes not ready, she shouldn't deal with it. Remember age is only and number, it really depends on each persons " maturity level"
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what is it? my friends talk about them and i'm totally lost (link)
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basically it's slang for when a guy's dick is short and fat
=]
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Me and my girlfriend want to have sex but she hasn't really had a penis inside of her. Other than it bleeding, is there any way people would notice that she did it? (link)
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haha unless shes sure and walks funny, nope ! have fun =D
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i was wearing clothes
when i lost my virginity
his penis went in my vagina though.[[[he moved my underwear out of the way]]]]
but only for 5 minutes
did i still loose my virginity?
stupid question
yes i know. (link)
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everyone has there own outlook on virginity, but i would say so, yes
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I'm kind of confused about the whole eyebrow plucking thing. I've been plucking my eyebros for several years, in an arch shape.
The advice I've read about this is that you always pluck the bottom of the eyebrow and never the top...but I have lots of random hairs at the top of my eyebrows and they always look messy because of this.
So is the advice about not plucking from the top correct and if so, why should you not pluck from the top? (link)
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see, for the most part bluck the bottom
you want the spot on the inner corners of your eyebrows to meet the beggining of your eyes and the outer corners of your brows to meet the outside of your eyes.pluck less on the inner corner and pluck farther up and you go out, and its fine to pluck stray hairs. another tip : brush your eyebrows in the opposite direction in which they grow. then take a tiny pair of scissors and cut evenly off the hair that stick out from the main body of your eyebrows
good luck !
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Hi, I'm only 17 years old, but throughout my life I've been fascinated with the Jewish culture and religion. My family doesn't really have a religion, although we always observe christian holidays such as Christmas and Easter, mostly because of tradition and the town we live in. My Uncle is Jewish, so my cousins are, but they don't really practice much of the faith except around their gradnparents. Is it weird that I want to convert to Judaism? Is it possible? If so,how would I go about doing that? Can you be Jewish without being of Jewish descent? (link)
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You can be whatevr you want, besides juddiasm is a very forgiving religion, you dont even have to believe in god to be jewish. It's about questioning God and his power. I suggest you read up on it, and if your really into it convert ! but do whatever you want dont let anyone tell you what you can and cant be
good luck !
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what are chi straighteners?
13/f (link)
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theyres usually 70 to 100 =]
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I'm so depressed, I only found out this morning that my dad wants us to move house, he says he doesn't know where...Just go. We only just got here really, haven't been here long , but it's a really great place and we all love it here. I don't know why he wants to go. I'm just about to start a new school, a new job and now we have to go?! All that aside, the best thing that's ever happened to me will be taken away from me. My boyfriend is the most perfect, beautiful person and I'm so scared I'll lose him, that's my biggest concern. I love him more than anything and I just don't think I can let him go. My dad is often all talk no action but I dunno this time. I can often talk him out of stuff....Please, I need help, what will I do? Now I havent even started school or my new job yet...and I just could bear to leave.
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there's not really much to be said, but really all you can do is talk to your dad about the situation in a logical and tactful way, a tip dont say things like ... "you always do this to me!" instead try, " i feel like whenever something good happens for me, i lose it. it's really important for me to stay here" using "you phrases" makes the other person feel attacked, so try using "i" phrases. much luck with this. and if things dont work out, then think of it this way; it's a learning experience and it WILL make you stronger, pain can be good.
i hope things work out for you and stay strong !
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is it true tht fertility runs in the family? for example..my mom popped out 3 kids unexpectedly (not planned lol)..does this mean i am naturally fertile too? (link)
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uhmmm. most people are born fertile whether their parents had kids or not?
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I live in baltimore and im mostly jealous of half of the girls at my school. Most of them dress better then me, look better then me, get my boys then I do, and all around have a better life then me. People always tease me about not looking right...or not dressing GOOD ENOUGH for their like. I tried killing myself...it didnt work, i just feel unloved and unwanted. Sometimes i wished i could just be them...and live the live they live there just perfect as hell! I started prosituting to feel wanted by boys...and for a while it was good and after some time after people starting finding out and calling me a hoe I guess i found out what's wrong with it. But, still now i love attention from anyone and i love making people laugh. and i HATE everything about myself...i feel ugly. I never feel pretty and people always tell me im ugly or what's wrong with me and i always think about it and then it sticks to me...and i hate myself more and more. People tell me dont care what people say but its hard, when your in my shoes. Everyone is just living this good life...and noone understands how i feel...and the boy that i like the most wont go with me but he would go with this other girl. (I guess she's better then me too.) Please someone help me! I dont want to feel this way anymore. (link)
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girl dont let them bitches get you down... ive been called a hoe too many times to count... i know how it feels. they dont know you... and theyre talking cuz they have nothing better to do... really, babe, these peoples' lives arent as great as u think, and i can guarantie it. you dont know what happens behind closed doors. and they dont now either, so they shouldnt talk. but you cant do anything about that except be yourself and youll find your place soon enough
about the prostitution... youre not a bad person... its simply what you needed to to, but hopefully you learned, and those guys dont give a rats ass about you... but im sure you have people that do. just stick by them and if you need anything IM me at Mzzweiner
much love
laura ♥
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recently I've noticed I have a small pimple-ish thing near/on my vagina. I'm positive it's not razorburn or anything of that sort. But none the less I'm still worried. im only 16 so i dont want to ask my parents about it. I've never been involved in any sexual activity so it couldnt be STDs. im worried still, any ideas/suggestions? (link)
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sometimes u get pimples 'down there'. thats prolly wut it is. nothing to worry about. but if you really are worried go to see a female clinuque. it confidential ( they cant tell ur rents) good luck ♥
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Do belly (navel) rings look bad on overweight people? I want to get a belly ring but I am overweight so I am not sure how good it will look. What do you think? Thanks (link)
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if youre just curvy with a little extra somethin somethin than its okay.... but if your gut hangs over your shirt or your stomach is flabby... no one wants to see it... im gona be dead honest with you!
a belly ring is for ppl with nice stomachs, and is ment it enhance it, honestly if i see a fat person with a belly ring, it looks trashy
just stick to sweet clothes that cover up a little more... a nose ring would look cute!!
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how do you know if ur bi my friend thinks she might be
14/f (shes already gone through puberty) (link)
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well im bi so i think i could help you out
it takes awhile to be sure
like if you see a girl and you think wow shes really cute! you could just be curious... but you know how with a guy you think about dating them and being with them and just kissing them and more than that ;)... well thats when you know.
you just feel the way you would with a guy... only without the dick
its gona be weird but youll get used to it
i suggest for now you keep your sexual orientation to yourself it can only cause problems at this age
but by all means do NOT lie and date whoever you want
just tell people "its none of your concern"
dont be ashamed of who you are besides theres nothing wrong with liking girls!
just follow your heart and youll know how you really feel about girls... you have a ton of time to figure everything out no worries!
good luck love
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