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Natalie- Going Crazy
Mariah Carey- We Belong Together
if I think of more I'll add on, my brain isn't cooperating with me right now, sorry! Hope I helped some!

♥Amber

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Hey Everyone!! Well ever since I can remember I've always biten my nails, its a really bad habit. Usually I bite them when I'm nervous about something or when im pondering a serious question. I really need to stop because my hands look like they don't have nails left on them anymore. My ? is How do I stop biting my nails and what can I do to prevent starting up again?? Thanks for your help in advance!

I used to bite my nails, and then around December 04` I got my nails done, thinking it would prevent me from biting my nails, and it did. Try getting fake nails put on professionally and then leave them on for a few months and when they start to fall off, paint them, that way you won't want to ruin them. It broke my habbit, but then one day I went bowling and it broke one nail and so I picked at the others. Now I'm in the process of looking for a place to get my nails redone. I hope I helped. :D

♥Amber

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im a 14/f and i was wondering exactly how do you make out? like what do you do with your hands and stuff like that? i now this might sound stupid but im kind of nerveous screwin up and doing something wrong lol...

confused child

Confused Child,

I've noticed quite a few people are nervous about this type of thing. The answer is always the same, there's no wrong way to make out/kiss. It really depends on the guy& how he makes out. Some guys use alot of tongue and others use alot less tongue, but you pretty much just move your tongue around in their mouth while kissing them, sounds gross I know, but it's not. Now as of your hands, you can put your arms around his neck like you're hugging him, or you can put your hands on his neck, his arms or wherever they are at the time, it doesn't really matter. Hope I helped! :D

♥Amber

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ok im about 5 foot and im 103 pounds...is that ok? im NOT skinny but im not sure wat you would call over weight. does anyone know if this is too fat?

I'm 5'0 and I'm 101-103 and I'm skinny..most people actually call me underweight since I'm 15, I think you're fine. :D

♥Amber

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my boyfriend's friend keeps hitting on me even tho he know im in a relationship with his close friend. the other day we were at this party and he pulled me up to this room and he raped me. he grabbed me and touched my body. im really scared and he hurt me. i feel strange. i couldnt do anything hes a football player and he held me down and i couldnt stop him. he shove something in my mouth so i couldnt scream. wut do i do?? i cant tell my boyfriend or he will kick the living shit out of him.the guy said if i tell anyone he will do it again. i know i can get some reasonable advice here.

HELP

alright well first of all what you need to do, is to tell your parents or someone of a higher authority about that. you need to go& get checked out to make sure you're alright. and second of all, he has no right to do that, you need to tell your boyfriend, whether he's gunna kick the living shit out of that guy or not, he needs to know! as for how he said if you told anyone, he'd do it again..if you tell an adult, they will do something about it, and he wouldn't get the chance to do it again. I'm sorry all that happened to you, I hope I helped!

♥Amber

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last night i had sex for the third time. he didnt use a condom and im not sure if he came in me. i was due for my period anyways and now i have it. my friend said that i could be pregnant. and im really scared. i cant talk to my mom about that kinda of stuff either. how can i tell or what should i do? please help me.

It's not possible to have your period and be pregnant, but it is possible to be pregnant and have vaginal bleeding that may seem to be a period, but it's not very common. Hope I helped! :D

♥Amber

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wut does it mean to "eat a girl out" ?

"eating out a girl" is just another way to say performing oral sex on a girl.

♥Amber

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is it just me, or have some of the questions lately been seeming fake, made-up, and unrealistic? i have no desire to answer some lately because they seem like they`re put up on advicenators to get laughs.

wow someone who finally shares the same thoughts as me! ha, it's been awhile since I've answered questions until today..it seems like they are just annoying, made up& rediculus...blah. thank you! :D

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this guy found me on myspace and said i was really cute. hes really cute too and he said he just moved to my city. and he told me where he lived by and its really close to me. well he was like can i do a mapquest? cause im not sure how close u live. i wasnt thinking and i gave him my address and stuff for mapquest. now hes always like we should hangout and stuff. and hes like just turned 18. and he always talks about how much he drinks..and smokes...and i dont know im worried. what if he like comes to my house or something?.....

if he comes to your house, and you don't want him there..I highly suggest calling the police! there are so many things he could do to you and it'd be best if you didn't give him the chance to try anything. from now on, be careful of who you talk to and who you tell your personal info to! hope I helped! :D

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okay so me n my girlfriend have been going out for a while and shes moving faster than i want to weve done everything but sex...i dont want to be one of the young tenn fathers even if we use a condom it could still break... if you could answer this i would really appriciate it

if you're uncomfortable with what your girlfriend is trying to get you to do, then definately let her know! nobody has the right to pressure you into things like that. that is completely understandable that you don't want to end up being a teen father! tell her that you're worried about the things that could happen as a result of having sex& that it puts stress on you. as long as you explain to her that you're not ready to move so fast then she should respect that, I hope everything works out okay for you! :D

♥Amber

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hey, i had sex for the first time last night with my boyfriend of 6 months, we are with eachother alot so theres no problem that we did if overall. but we had unprotected sex, i know thats bed but, he pulled out a few minutes early..could i still get pregnate? thanks ♥.. oh yeah and i didnt ask for people to bitch at me about this

you will not get pregnant unless his semen got inside of you, but there is always precum..there's not as big of a chance of getting pregnant but there's still that small chance. make sure next time you use a condom, and maybe learn more about sex before engaging in it:D take care!

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OK i was at the pool one day with these girls that are my friends. Well when I was sitting down one of then sat on my lap and I got a boner and i dont know if my friend liked that that happened.
What should I do?

uhm I'd say go and ask her if it was weird for her or not..I mean you couldn't control it, you shouldn't worry about since it's not something you did on purpose so she shouldn't have taken it offensively or anything of the sort.

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HEY! IM a guy and me and my friend have made some new music we like to call it gothic pop. Well we have made 2 songs that are some what cool and all my friends like it should we make more songs then sell it and try and make money!
We also keep fighting what we should call are band so you can tell me what name you like better.
"disciples of lord gosu" or "ELLIPSIS"
P.S. im not a gothic person the music is just to make fun of gothic people!

you like makin fun of "goths"? hmm whatever. yeah, if you are any good then keep makin more music, what is it with people today and putting everyone in categories? eye yiyi. anywho I don't know, I guess ELLIPSIS would be my choice..but that's just me

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ok my friend wants to know and i just have no idea how to answer...is it normal for a girl to get really turned on by doing legslifts? it hurts but feels good. is that an orgasm?

uhm different people get turned on by many different things, but if she gets turned on by doing leglifts, then tell her to keep them goin! it'll kill 2 birds with one stone, working out and being turned on..as for the other part, I highly doubt she's getting orgasms from leglifts though, it would prolly take more than that. but really, whatever floats her boat..I guess it's pretty normal

~>Amber

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my two best friends are moving and i call them my sisters because i have known them for along time any ideas of how i could get over the pain i am going to feel once they move but my one friend is moving close and my other friend doesn't know where she is moving any ideas highly appreciated
thanks. and my two friends donot live close by to me.

I know how you feel..if the one is moving close then won't you still be able to see them? and about the other one, if she doesn't know where she's moving, just hope that it's not too far away. just make sure you all keep in touch after they move, that will help the pain. eveyr now& then try going to visit them if they move far away. sorry about them moving, I feel your pain!

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i feel like everyone around me has a boyfriend. i feel so alone and i really want to have the feeling of a boyfriend again. i feel as if everyone around me is moving so fast...one of my friends just did third base wih a guy. i am 14 and still haven't gotten my first kiss. i wish i could just find a guy.. what is taking sooo long!

I was/am in the same situation. I noticed almost all my friends had boyfriends, and I didn't, but I do now..but I've been noticing that my friends are going further and further with their boyfriends than I am with mine. That is perfectly fine that you haven't had your first kiss, it just means that it will be more special to you because you have been waiting for it to happen. A few of my friends are freshmen/ sophmores in highschool and still haven't even had a boyfriend, or their first kiss. Trust me, you're NOT alone. I know you prolly have been hearing "the right guy will come, just stop looking for him" and you're most likely sick of hearing it, but it really is true. I sat there looking for a boyfriend, and that made the time go by slower, and so finally I gave up looking, and he came to me. The perfect guy will come around, holding your first kiss, and you will remember it for the rest of your life. I hope I helped you out some! :D

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ok so i have this problem.. i like this guy. i used to REALLY REALLY like him, but then i just thought he was kindda cute. Well, after i had settled to "he's just cute" i started liking this other guy, and he liked me too. We talked all the time, and i told him about the other guy that i liked. I told him "Yeah, I used to like him, but there wasnt a chance for us to get together so i kindda got over him." So he thought that,ya know, i didnt like the first guy. Well, wrong. sumthin happened the other day, i dunno what it just kindda clicked.. the first guy..omg i just...WHOooo I am totally diggin him!! anyways.. my problem is that i dont know if i should tell the other guy that i like the first guy.. i mean, we flirt and are friends, but im feelin like i dont like him THAT way anymore :/ he thought that i was over the first guy, and now i know that im am definately NOT over him, i am very much fallen for him!! i feel like i shouldnt tell guy2 that i like guy1 again b/c i told him i was over him.. ya know? i dont want him to be mad or something like that.. i dont know what to do im so confused..PLEASE HELP ME!!

~*torn n confused*~

I'm kinda in the same situation right now, and I told my guy2 that I didn't like guy1 except for whenever I see him..which is still the case, but I still think you should tell guy2 what you're feeling, because it sort of seems like you're just wanting him for the attention now that you don't like him anymore. You really can't help who you fall for and who you don't, so as hard as it will be, I think you SHOULD tell guy2 exactly what you told me..I really hope I helped in some way or another, that's a tough one :/ Goodluck hun! You can IM me if you need more help..or ya know, JUST TO TALK. :]

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y'all arent suin' me, are ya??

:] Haha, don't over-use that now..man I'm nothin but tired b/c of that..I'm glad I'm okay now! :]

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aha aha aha..... you finish the rest....

Woo!!

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amber...i have to ask you something extremely important.....

will you.....be my.....husband!??!?!?

you SHOULD know who i am...

husband? wow that was kinda mean don'tcha think? haha..but yes..I WILL be your husband:] Gladly Dianna..I love you!

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