I never turn away a question no matter how long,short,or stupid you think it might be.If you need an opinon i will give you mine from my experiences, and will let you know what i know.
Website: Tatianna
E-mail: Sohottatianna
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Location: chicago
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Age: 17
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I've been dating my girlfriend for almost a year and I couldn't wish fore a more perfect girl. But recently she has admitted to staring at other guys, even while she was with me. This thought drives me insane I don't know what to think. Please any advice would be helpful (link)
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well iagree with both of thesse advice columist you shoild tell her its makes you umcomfortable but at the same time she not dating other boys she just looks i mean face it what if you looked at another girl because of some urge at the time you wouldnt want her to breack it off with you would you? and at the end of the day when she looks at other guys....the only one she has eyes for are you and if you would remember that then you and your relationship would be perfect like it always was.Or mabe even better!
Good Luck,
Tatianna:-))
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what are some signs that this girl, who i like and she likes me back, might give to let me know that she wants a kiss? im kinda worried about it cause i dont want to do it too soon or she might get creeped out by it or something, but she doesnt seem like the type of girl who would, but anyways what is some body language that she might do to let me know, like playing with her hair or something
thanks (link)
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well usually when a girl gets ready for a kiss,she wait till you say something nice like when you guys really connected.now if you say something very sweet dont just stand there and smile try to lean in for the kill .
hope it helps!
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locked out of e mail face book etc anything i need email for when i try to reset password they send email to locked account!!!my accoun has been hacked all security changed what can i do to resolve this (link)
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get a new email honey or call an computer tech to hacvk back in !
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Recently, my friend has been talking about how hot he thinks his teacher his. He keeps saying he fantasizes about her and he worships her. He said he likes walking past her room having excuses just to walk by her and at the end of the day waiting to see her leave, he said he wants to buy the yearbook and school newsaper just to oogle and at any pictures of her in them, saying "pictures of my hot teacher are like what pornography is to other people. Worst of all, he said he wishes she was a pedophile and if she wanted to rape him he'd be all for it, and he also said he hopes her boyfriend dies. This sounds kind of funny but also weird to me. I guess you could find a teacher hot, but still. Is this normal, or has he gone too far?
friend is 16 teacher is about 26 (link)
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ugh well i think this is going thurh a faze he think she sooooooooooo perfect but one day hell find something wrong with her or do some thing i do...tell hym things about her thats true like ''u kno how bigs her neck iz or some thing like that'' he'll start to see the things about her than he wont think shes sooooo perfect but make sure thta it dosent go to far that he gets mad.....do it suddel then,he will start to look at it then he'll just focus on that one inperfection...
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so yesturday my best friend started to ignore me. i had no clue why, so i asked around. today i found out that another friend told her i said something like she was giving out blow jobs or sumthing like that, but i didn't i was joking around with a friend and she got the joke. but then she told someone who didnt take it as a joke. i even told my bestie that and she thinks i'm lieing. also she and my boyfriend are good friends and im affraid that he'll break up with me over this whole mess. i need some advice please. what should i doo?!?
*female age 13* (link)
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Well let her know you was paying if she dont belive you then thats her lost but dnt let that get in the way of your boyfriend im 13 to and i go through these fights all the time what you do is first let them cool off first ,thentalk to her lock in a room with you and her and explain to her that it was a joke that some one took to far and it wont happen again just dont let it happen again! good luck
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i'm unsure of my feelings with my girl.. i dont know if i like like her.. i mean when she was out with my guy friend im not sure if i felt any jeolousy with her being with him and there are other little things like that that make me unsure of how i feel. what do i do to figure out how i feel.. have her test me? idk.. like it might just be that i been too busy caring what others think of the relationship to actually think about how i feel with her. i know i like her, just i do not know if it is in the same way she feels towards me. (link)
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Well if YOU know that YOU like her then YOU make the first move. Iknow girls love when boys come up to them and make the first move and if she dosent fell the same way....well at least you gave it ashot its like i always say... it better to try and fail then not to try and fail..if you never try you never know you get what im saying? well any ways good luck!!
TATIANNA
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17/f
I'm in a bitt of a tough situation...I met this guy and he's absolutely the greatest sweetest person I've ever met.. We started out just talking and soon it became more than just talking.. But my problem is he's leaving to college in two weeks =(..I mean the college is only a train stop away but he's dorming there ..I guess my question is ...what are the chances this relationship is going to work out? I mean isn't he going to be too busy to be in a relationship? And college means parties and new girls =/...I have talked about this to him and he tells me not to worry but its hard..I really like this guy and I'd hate if this didn't work out...help?! (link)
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I think you should still talk to him if he says theres nothing to worry about the thers nothing to worry about.you want this relationship right?well then you need to have trust if you dont have trust then what do you have?follow your heart and it will tell you where to go.
good luck
tatianna
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dear sir
daily i get headache and my head feels heavy
i think i get headache from cold,so how can get rid out cold from my body
pls replay
thank you
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well you might be animic you blood count is probly your blood count is low chaeck with yuor doctor and get some blood work done
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Hi can i send u a pic of a coach purse i am bidding on, im not a pro when it comes to coach purses, I do own 2 that are real, i know for sure, purchased at macy's, & checked zipper says ykk,on it & I seen a really cute carly on ebay, two people that seen i bid emailed me saying its fake, seller swears its real, i asked her to check on zipper if has the ykk, says cant find, bla bla bla,,, So i need your help!!!
can i somehow send you a pic of the purse so you can see & let me know?? would REALLY really Appreciate!! (link)
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YES ITS Sohottatianna@yahoo.com and you can tell if
the c are touching each other(fake)
if theyre are no numbers on the bag(fake)
but you can send it to me if your still not sure
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im 15 (girl) and my boyf is turning 19 in december...
i have no idea what to get him... any ideas?? (link)
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I JUST THINK YOU SHOULD DO SUMTHINROMANTIC LIKE COOK HIM DINNER OR SPIN THE DAY PAMPERING HIM CAUSE ITS you TAHT HE WANT
GOOD LUCK
TATIANNA
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I already asked this question publicly..but I was wondering if you could just help me out with understanding this?
Okay last year I was in 10th grade. This guy started talking to me randomly, he recently turned 18, and I just turned 15 (this was october 2008). Soo, one day..I was sitting out from gym because I just hate sportss, and he sat out too because he was unprepared. He started talking to me about school, gym, and how old we each are. After that, he talked to me often, and he also stared at me a lot. I even heard him tell his friend, who is a girl, that he thought I was pretty. So, I kind of thought he liked me. And, I liked him too of course. But, after several months of flirting off/on, he just stopped talking to me. Basically, school ended in June, and I haven't talked to him in like..maybe, 6 months? But, all the sudden, starting 2 days ago, I keep having dreams about him! They're weird too..the first one was in school, and he was sitting their with this girl I know (the girl who he told that he thinks im pretty) and he looked sad or something. The dream wasn't even long. That's what it consisted of. Then last night, the dream was that I was with my friends, and all the sudden he appeared and was with some girl (who ive never seen in my life) and they were holding hands and stuff. In both dreams I didn't talk to him or anything. It's weird! Why am I suddenly having dreams about him? I haven't talked to him in soo long, and I THOUGHT I was over him since he started to ignore me. Please help? Any advice? Thankyou. (link)
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well its very normal for a person to have dreams about someone but the often one is when they havent talked to that person in a while.It means that somewhere old memories came up in you brain when you are sleeping i have them to i had a dream about my gramdma passing and that happend YEARS AGO but mostley6 stuff you think about often only come up if you dont think about him in your mind when your up I suggest that you should either bring those feelings back to the surface because trust me you were never over him! or tell him the truth and know im always avalible!! good luck,
tatianna
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Do you usually use pads or tampons? Do you know any brands that work good? (link)
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well you should use pads if you still are a virgin.because it is very painfull.but if you are not thhen you should use tampons
tatianna
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this summer i went to china to visit my family members, and my dad and i came back home early while my mom and brother stayed there for an extra month because my dad had work and i am going to a summer program at a university.
i got back home 3 days ago and ever since then i have been depressed and i don't know why. i suddenly feel like there's no meaning in my life and i hate being alive. i miss being in china and my mom and brother but i leave early every summer and never have problems so i don't know why i feel this way this time.
i have a summer program at a university and after that i have dance camp which i really do not want to go to because i don't like the team members. i feel like i hate this summer because i have no time to relax and i hate the dance team.
even doing stuff i thought was fun before china like watching tv and getting out of the house now isnt enjoyable to me and i still feel depressed while doing it.
why am i feeling like this and how do i stop being depressed?? this has never happened to me before but my mom suffers from depression too so is it hereditary or something?? (link)
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probably its because youre doing stuf that isnt the things you wanna do and you probably just miss china and a little angry that you have to leave early for something that you dont like
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14/f
I've had this huge crush on my best friend (who is a guy) and i've always been to afraid to tell him or anyone. People were always teling us that we should go out cause we act like a couple and we look cute together but nothing ever happened. Last week he told me that he has had a huge crush on me since spring break and he asked me out. i didnt give him an answer but i realized that i didnt like him anymore..is that normal to not like someone after liking them for a year? i dont know what happened. please help me figure out what to do (link)
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it is perfectly normal,some people just loode intrest in people even if it was a year.But if you do still lyke him i think you should tell him because it obvious that he lykes you.But if you dont ,also tell him you cant just keep him guessing:oh what if he likes me"when you know you dont
I hope i help and now im always availible!
Good Luck
Tatianna:))
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13/f
my freind recently told me that he liked me i didnt make a big deal of it because i think im too young to date. now when i ask him who he likes he doesnt ever give me a staright answer but he makes it seem like its not me anymore. He told a lot of people that he likes this other girl in my school that i think is really bad for him. today i asked him if he really did like her and he said that he was just lying.. i really want him to still like me because i like him back to but i think i lost my chance, how can i get him to tell me who he really likes? i've already askeed him many times and he wont tell me so how do i get him to?? (link)
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wow i been through the same situation!and im 13 my friend told me he loves me but now he act likes hes kinda embarrased because of it but if i were you i would ask him and make sure id give you an snswersay"who do you like an dif he dosent give you a straight answer but i would pass him a note because it will be akward to ask him a person and if you could tll me hoe it goes!!
good luck
TATIANNA;))
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is it true that if you can tie a cherry stem in your mouth your a good kisser? or is that just a myth? can you still be a good kisser if you cant tie one? how can i be able to tie them? please help thankyou! (link)
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bassicly what theyre sayin is that game is about toung kissing you could still be a good kisse::;(())
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15/f
this is a VERY long story, but im gonna try to lay this out as short as possible and please, im desperate here, you have NO clue what i've been through these past few months, and i need all the help i can get..
last year i met a REALLY sensative guy. he was 16, about to be 17, and i was 14.. he was soooo shy, hes VERY insecure. when we first started dating, all he said to me was how i saved him and pulled him out of his misery because he has had no luck with relationships and was treated like shit by girls his whole life. hes not even that cute and popular, and i have a waaay higher social status in my grade/ school then he does in his grade.. but ive been known to have wierd taste and i can look beyond looks and things like that very easily. i think when we first started dating him i was just excited over the fact that he had a car and he was a junior and i was only a freshmen.. but i actually did end up falling in love with him. and he was COMPLETELY in love with me. we lost our virginities to eachother and ill tell you, im smart, and not at all a bit naiive.. i knew this kid loved me. & we did NOT have a sex based relationship whatsoever.. we became eachothers best friends. both of us lost all of our other friends because we were only with eachother 24-7. he called my mom 'mom' and i did the same with his mom.. we were incredibly close.. and sense he was older, i felt so comftorbal and secure with him, and i went to him with all my problems, and he would help me.. ive been suffering from depression for years and me and my mother never had a good relationship, and my father left me, and i was molested as a baby.. but when i was with him, he made me feel so comftorbal. we told eachother EVERYTHING. and i was postive he was there to stay. he promised me forever every single day. we dated for a year. i messed it up, biggest mistake of my entire life.. he started getting very annoying and up my ass. you know when youre in a bad mood and you just want to be left alone? well he would never leave me alone. he'd be like 'its okay babe i love you' bla bla. all mushy, when i just want to be mad!. i tried talking to him about this many times and all he could say was im sorry i just love you soooo much i cant help it.. all my friends called him whipped cream and everything.. it was BAD. but anyways, one night i was out with my friends the day before a cheer competition, and my ex was there.. and somewhere along the lines, we kissed.. my boyfriends friend was there and told him that if i didnt tell him, he was going to.. i knew he wasnt going to break up with me or anything.. so i told him.. but the thing is.. i think i was looking for a fight with him because our relationship was so boring. when i told him, it pissed me off how he was crying instead of being mad, yelling at me. so i started saying things to make him mad.. i said TERRIBLE things. like i was gonna keep cheating on him because he basically lets me, and how i know i take advantage of him because he trusts me so much but i shouldnt.. and he was like well maybe i have to break up with you then.. and he was like i really dont want to. and i was like fine just do it idont care! yelling at him and stuff.. and then he did. i was thinking we would get back together in a couple weeks.. so after we broke up, we still talked because we obv. still loved eachother and everything. we acted like we were going out, and we even 'hooked up' a few times.. but when he asked me back out, i kept saying no, i wasnt ready.. because the relationship was SOOO akward after we broke up.. he was acting so different. and i knew why. it was because i broke his heart. and i did, bad. so one day after we hooked up, my friend told me that her brother saw my 'boyfriend, x-boyfriend, whatever u wanna call him' at a store.. and he was saying how he was done with me and he was trying to get with this new girl 'leesh'.. i was FURIOUS. i called him up screaming at him asking for all my stuff back and it was over for good and everything. but really, i wanted an appology from him, not my stuff back. btw, i was very remorsful for cheating on him and saying what i said to him, i mustve appologized a million times.. but he didnt say anything, he justgave me all my stuff back and acted like it was nothing.. and then i kept trying to get him back, but he kept rejecting me. i was litterally down on my knees for this kid. until one day i found out he had a girlfriend. not just some girl.. the girl who dates ALL the boys that i date after me.. but thats a whole nother story.. anyways, i was devistated. i couldnt eat, i couldnt talk, i couldnt sleep, i couldnt go to school,, nothing. all i did was cry and cry and cry and cry. i tried talking to him seeing if we could be friends and stuff, but he hates me now. if i send him one text, he shuts his phone off. he goes all different ways in the halls so i dont have to see him in school, he wont even look my way. he saw me practically drown in my own tears and he didnt even care. i wrote him long long letters, i tried everything i could just to be able to talk to him when i need to, so i wouldnt be so hurt about the situation.. now, i have two weeks left of school and im failing 4 classes.. and im an honors student. i DONT fail. its not me. and im grounded because of it, so i cant even go out and try to forget it. its been sense thhe end of february... and still,all i can think about is killing myself.. people say they are heart broken.. but this gives heart broken a new definition. there is litterally a hole in my chest. and i keep getting maaaassive anxiety attacks in class, and i do go to counceling wich is sort of helpful but we mostly talk about my parents.. three days ago, she broke up with him. and he was very upset from what i heard.. he hasnt tried talking to me or anything but i dont know what to do, i want to talk to him but he'll just ignore me.. i love this kid and care about him with my life. today i thought i was going to DIE. it was the last day of school for the seniors. the last time ill EVER see him again. the last time ill ever get to look for him i the halls so i can walk by him.. that was the only time i ever got to see him, and today was my last day. and when i walked by him for the very last time of my life today, he didnt even look at me. it was so painful. he couldnt even have the heart to say bye to me considering im his first love and helll never see me again. i havent been able to stop crying sense i last saw him. i dont even know what to do with my life any more. someone PLEEEEEASE tell me what to do to get him back. ANNYTHING. I AM DESPERATE FOR HELP. we had such a good relationship till i cheated and we Never ever had one fight. but you dont even understand. this kid wouldnt even look at any other girls, deleted all the girls in his phone book, couldnt go an hour without texting me just saying he loved me, couldnt go a day withouth seeing me, brought me flowers randomly, did EVERYTHING for me. how can you love someone so much and go through everything we've been through together, and then just completely shut them out of your life? (link)
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well i can tell you ive been in you situation how someone is so in love with at the time... you think you're starting not to like him but when thrre gone it feels like you just made a huge mistake but this what i told mii ex i said "look, i like you alot but i can stand to be stalked and i didnt mean to kiss him(this part is for you)it was just the heat of the moment but you ned to give him sometime to think about and let it blow over and if you can if you need anymore help please send me a message and know im always here to help
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Right now I'm really scared... So I hooked up with my friend on Friday, April 10th... I went down on him, and he didn't finish before I stopped.. I probably got a little pre-cum in my mouth if anything.
The next day or so.. I had a cold sore. It's April 14th now.. and its starting to heal... well almost all the way gone, but I also have soars on the top of my lips that I just noticed today.
Just two tiny little bumps though, and I have REALLY clear skin.. I never break out, I don't think it could have been anything I've eaten, because anything I've eaten has been things I've always eaten.
Could it be herpes? I mean, he's only been with one partner.. I'm not sure how many people she's been with though...
This was the second time we hooked up. The first time was about a month and a half ago, and we did the same things, just foreplay.. I went down on him, but he didn't finish before I stopped... And nothing ever happened after then, no break outs or anything... I don't know if I got any pre-cum in my mouth, I'm assuming some... but I really don't know..
Could this me herpes? I'm really scared.
Or is this just a coincidence...?
Please help.
Also, where can I get this checked out.. at a regular doctor's office? (link)
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you can get checked out any doctrs office or clinic if i were you i would get checked out it sounds serious
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So, I have a best friend, and i love him to death he is amazing. He is the only one that truely understands me and i don't know what I'd do without him, but there is one problem. He has a girlfriend, a bad girlfriend. She had cheated on him so many times before, and it makes him so upset almost to the point where he has come to me in tears. He doesn't see that she isn't worth his time because of how bad she hurts him. He just over looks it because he loves her so much. I honestly can't stand it I have tried so many times to tell him that she isn't right for him, without being mean of course. I really don't know what to do, and i always usually do know what to do and thats why this is so hard for me, because I truely do love him and i can't see him get hurt like this. Please help me. (link)
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well tell him that you dont think that she is right for him and you just want the best life for him and if he dosent want to except tell him no one nows him better than you and if he still dosent listen experiance is the best teacher one day hell learn even thugh you dont want hm to get hurt but this is a journey he needs to take.
Happy Holiday
Tatianna
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when is For the Love of Ray J's finale on? Date and time and which network? Please let me know!! (link)
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next monday on vhi i think at 9:00
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