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I am 15 years old. I love the outdoors and i am very athletic. I love being with friends and i could say that i am some what boy crazedddd.

I was adopted when i was 9. My parents we druggies. If you need any help with anything I am here for every one!!!





E-mail: bella50023@aim.com
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Location: Redding, CT
Age: 15
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how do i turn on my guy without having sex?
m 17yrs old,female,from malaysia (link)
Well first start out with a kiss. Ask him what he though, then go back and go farther, start to make out with him if you a ok with that. Depending on what reasons you want to turn him on, it works sometimes you need more. Watcha movie that has kissing in it or making out. sometimes by seeing it guys get turned on.

hope i helped

Belinda


15, boy

I think out of all of my friends, I'm probably the only one that hasn't had a girlfriend. Is that weird? I'm a really independent person and I'm not really into any girls. It's almost like there isn't anyone worth going out with at school. I'm also pretty picky so it feels like I have no chance.

When people would ask me why I didn't have a girlfriend, my usual response was that I was so busy and didn't have time for that stuff, or that no one would really like me that much. I mean, I really don't know if any girl would want to go out with me. I'm really tall for my age, I'm in marching band, I'm one of 3 guys on my swim team, and I run track. I get really good grades as well, so basically I'm the typical nerd, or thats what people say. haha.

Most of my friends have had girlfriends before, and they usually end in as a train wreck. They always tell me that I'm not missing out on anything, but sometimes I'd like to know what it's like. Is it really as great as some people say, or is it just a waste of time?

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Well you can't just expect for a girl to just go out with you bacuse of your grades or something. You need to ask one of you guy friends to introduce you to some of their girlfriends, then you need to talk to them and get to know them. At least you will start at the beginning, as friends and build up. If you start to feel some thing more then friendship with one ask her out. If you are thinking about one girl all the time thats a sign that you feelings for her are growing. Take a chance.



Does anyone know the html code to put the picture as the background on your page that won't repeat in tiles but will stretch (like the opion for your desktop)? (link)
Here go here they will have everything and anything that you want to know...
that is on the lesson you need to get images on...


http://www.mcli.dist.maricopa.edu/tut/tut7.html


I'm looking for piano sheet music for the song "Vienna" by Billy Joel. Musicnotes.com doesn't have it and pianofiles.com isn't working on my computer so is there any other website that has it? Preferably a website where I could just find the digital sheet music, not like a book or anything. Okay Thanks. (link)
Maybe you can try jwpepper.com they have alot of stuff there they should have what you are looking for, althought you have to send out for it, so i dont know if you want to do that.

Belinda


I'm not sure if this belongs here, but I want to give my friend a lap dance. What should I do, he's going to give me one, so what can I do to him? Please help (link)
Well a lap dance is not all that hard. But it is dificult to explain. You could watch some music videos to give you an idea or go to youtube and find videos. You could just try out what you have as an thought ti what they are you might just surpise youself.

Hope I helped
--Belinda--


Ok so my little sister was watching this Pokemon musiv video and it was playing a song that I really like, but I can't figure out what it is. I've been trying to search for it forever.

So here is the link, and if any of you know the song title and who sings it, please tell me, that'd be great! thanks so much! =]

also, sorry its pokemon, it was my little sister's doing and I couldn't find anything else.. here is the link:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=tjr1RV3ctRc (link)
Here i think i might have it go here and check out the lyrics.....


AMAZING
Words and music by Chris Janz, (© 2004 Chris Janz) SOCAN All rights reserved Used by permission

The morning cold and raining
Dark before the dawn could come
How long in twilight waiting
Longing for the rising sun
Oh, Oh
You came like crashing thunder
Breaking through these walls of stone
You came with wide eyed wonder
Into all this great unknown
Hush now don’t you be afraid
I promise you I’ll always stay
I’ll never be that far away
I’m right here with you

You’re so amazing
You shine like the stars
You’re so amazing
The beauty you are
You came blazing
Right into my heart
You’re so amazing
You are, You are

You came from Heaven shining
Breath of God still fresh on you
The beating heart inside me
Crumbled at this one so new
Oh, Oh
No matter where, how far you wander
For a thousand years or longer
I will always be there for you
Right here with you
I hope your tears are few and fast
I hope your dreams come true at last
I hope you find love that goes on and on and on and on and on
I hope you wish on every star
I hope you never fall too far
I hope this world can see how wonderful you are

By Janelle


I'm thinking about getting my haircut tomarrow. I really want to get side bangs..the kind that are kind of short..and straight across on one side. If anyone knows what im talking about and has a good pic of it for me that would be greattt. =] Thanks. (link)
I know what you mean. It is called a side sweep. you cam go here and there are some good pictures......
http://www.bosshairstyles.com/bangs-fringe-01.htm


Okay, so theres this guy, and he is one of my friends. I wouldn't consider him one of my best friends, but he definitely considers me one of his. I only talk to him when he talks to me (which is a lot..) and sometimes i ignore his calls and avoid him. he used to like me, but he told me a couple weeks ago that he doesn't anymore. I don't mean to sound concieted... but i think he lied. It really stressed me out that he liked me, so i think he just told me he didn't anymore so we could go back to being non-awkward friends. but last night i talked to him on the phone, and right before we hung up, he said he loved me like a sister... but his tone was very... weird. it sounded like he meant it, but he sorta added the "like a sister" part when i didn't answer... so my question is, does he still like me?? Or worse, love me??! if so, WHAT DO I DO!!?!!? there is absolutely NO chance of me liking him. trust me. (link)
Just ask your self, when you liked this guy how much did you like him, was it a crush or almost like falling in love. If you say there is no chance after he made the first move to say i love you. Even if he did add in the part like a sister, a chnace would not be such a harsh thing to give him. In the end you might just start to fall for him again.


I am on a diet. (link)
Having cravings for sugary things is natural, you just have to know how to fight it. When you get the erge to go for it eat a salad or an apple. Both have natural sugars in them and will replace the need to add more to you system.


this is a little long. OK so yesterday my ex ended up being in like all of my classes, idk what happened. He dropped out so i thought that maybe he was gone, i was wayyyy relieved. but it turns out that he is NOT gone, he decided to come back. you don't understand, we dated for like a couple days, we weren't even a LITTLE bit serious. he makes me feel so uncomfortble bcause he's always telling people that we had sex and we DIDN'T. he always tries to talk to me in class/walk me to class and it makes me so uncomfortable, i'm actually physically disgusted by him + dont know why i ever liked him. Please help. should i change my classes? i dont even know if thats an optionm its so late in the year now. i need him to leave me alone but he wont take a hint, i have even told him straight up NEVER FUCKING TALK TO ME AGAIN. BUT HE STILL DOES. pleasepleaseplease help, idk what to do. (link)
You might want to confront him. Tell him that you dont want to get invoved in things not because you need time to get over what happened between you two. If he still doesnt listen, tell him that you didnt thik that there was a spark between you and that it would be better to go different ways.




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