Okay, so theres this guy, and he is one of my friends. I wouldn't consider him one of my best friends, but he definitely considers me one of his. I only talk to him when he talks to me (which is a lot..) and sometimes i ignore his calls and avoid him. he used to like me, but he told me a couple weeks ago that he doesn't anymore. I don't mean to sound concieted... but i think he lied. It really stressed me out that he liked me, so i think he just told me he didn't anymore so we could go back to being non-awkward friends. but last night i talked to him on the phone, and right before we hung up, he said he loved me like a sister... but his tone was very... weird. it sounded like he meant it, but he sorta added the "like a sister" part when i didn't answer... so my question is, does he still like me?? Or worse, love me??! if so, WHAT DO I DO!!?!!? there is absolutely NO chance of me liking him. trust me.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? icey0990 answered Friday March 9 2007, 11:29 pm: I definately think this guy could be all yours in the snap of a finger if you wanted him too..he still likes you..but at least he isnt intense and coming on strong to you..like one of my good guy friends would constantly try to get with one of my friends..he would be like "come on give me a chance.." bla bla..it made things really uncomfortable for her. So in your case yeah you can tell he likes you but i tihnk he realizes its just gona stay friends. Just do your thing..dont say you love him if you dont..dont lead him on..and everything will be finee. hoppe i helpedd!
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BINDY answered Friday March 9 2007, 10:48 pm: Just ask your self, when you liked this guy how much did you like him, was it a crush or almost like falling in love. If you say there is no chance after he made the first move to say i love you. Even if he did add in the part like a sister, a chnace would not be such a harsh thing to give him. In the end you might just start to fall for him again. [ BINDY's advice column | Ask BINDY A Question ]
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