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Does he like me or is he just wanting me for pleasure?
Ok so i've been talking to this boy for the last couple of weeks. He is in my study hall and we always talk in class and over myspace a lot. He tells me he likes me but he doesn't want a girlfriend right now. He always talks to me about doing stuff and yesterday after school we went to his house and we ended up making out and I made a very STUPID mistake and I gave him head. At school yesterday he didn't really talk to me as much as usual and one of his friends pulled me aside and said "I asked John if he was thinking about possibly dating you and he told me we will see what happens. I was just giving you a heads up." So I don't know what to do. I talked to my friend Eric about it and he said that John just wants some action and is thinking to himself "yeaa i'd do her but i'm not thinking about dating her." I don't want a boy that just uses me for his own personal pleasure and then leaves me with a broken heart. So when he tells me he doesn't want a girlfriend, is that just an excuse? I don't no what to think. What do I do?!?
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It sounds like he just wants action right now and no gf. I think you could get hurt in this situation so back out..tell him how you feel..let him know you respect that he doesnt want anything serious..but for you thats not going to work..so part ways..and who knows he might realize he reeally wants to be with you and he might come back to you. If he doesnt come back to you he isnt worth it. You dontt want a guy who just wants action..save that for a guy who reeally likes you and who you like a whole lot too. You desserve so mucchh more sweetie trust meee! :)
-melissa
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