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avoiding my ex
this is a little long. OK so yesterday my ex ended up being in like all of my classes, idk what happened. He dropped out so i thought that maybe he was gone, i was wayyyy relieved. but it turns out that he is NOT gone, he decided to come back. you don't understand, we dated for like a couple days, we weren't even a LITTLE bit serious. he makes me feel so uncomfortble bcause he's always telling people that we had sex and we DIDN'T. he always tries to talk to me in class/walk me to class and it makes me so uncomfortable, i'm actually physically disgusted by him + dont know why i ever liked him. Please help. should i change my classes? i dont even know if thats an optionm its so late in the year now. i need him to leave me alone but he wont take a hint, i have even told him straight up NEVER FUCKING TALK TO ME AGAIN. BUT HE STILL DOES. pleasepleaseplease help, idk what to do.
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First off, don't let him run you off from your classes. Why should you have to change your schedule because he don't get it? The answer is, you shouldn't have to. He should leave you alone, period. You have told him to do so, and you meant it. He needs to respect that or face the consequences of his actions.
This is how it is- if you tell him to leave you alone, to stop talking to you and trying to walk you to your class, etc. and he doesn't, then that is called HARASSMENT, my dear. Explain that to him, and if he continues, I would strongly advise you ask your parents what your next step should be. I promise, your parents want to protect you from this kind of guy- if he doesn't stop, tell them the whole story of what's happening and they will help you get it sorted out.
There is no reason on this green Earth that you should have to be made to feel uncomfortable or be harassed by ANYBODY, especially to the point where you are thinking about changing all of your classes, no matter if it is late or early in the school year. That is just wrong, period. Don't put up with that crap- you don't have to.
Like I said, (because I can't stress it enough) talk to your parents about what is going on. This is a serious problem, and something needs to be done to put a stop to it. He has no right to treat you that way or make you feel that way.
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You might want to confront him. Tell him that you dont want to get invoved in things not because you need time to get over what happened between you two. If he still doesnt listen, tell him that you didnt thik that there was a spark between you and that it would be better to go different ways.
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