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college relationship...
17/f
I'm in a bitt of a tough situation...I met this guy and he's absolutely the greatest sweetest person I've ever met.. We started out just talking and soon it became more than just talking.. But my problem is he's leaving to college in two weeks =(..I mean the college is only a train stop away but he's dorming there ..I guess my question is ...what are the chances this relationship is going to work out? I mean isn't he going to be too busy to be in a relationship? And college means parties and new girls =/...I have talked about this to him and he tells me not to worry but its hard..I really like this guy and I'd hate if this didn't work out...help?!
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I think you should still talk to him if he says theres nothing to worry about the thers nothing to worry about.you want this relationship right?well then you need to have trust if you dont have trust then what do you have?follow your heart and it will tell you where to go.
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tatianna
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The odds are against you, but that doesn't mean it can't work. My boyfriend went to college for 2 years while I was in high school, and we are still together. I am in college now, and I don't see us breaking up over it. Neither of us stay on campus though. However I have a friend who's boyfriend went to college last year, and he's staying in a dorm. They are still together, but their relationship is much more strained then it used to be.
You will have to be open-minded and willing to accept the fact that you probably won't see him nearly as much as you used to. Studying is most likely going to take up a huuuge portion of his time. Plus parties, extra curriculars, etc. and the time you spend together is going to be limited. You also have to have a lot of trust in each other. If you don't, the relationship doesn't stand a chance.
Good luck!
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