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my name is elizabeth. i love to have fun. i've experienced a lot for my age. i love too easily. i have goals for myself. i'm an open book so ask anything you'd like.
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ok..i have 2 months or so..for my "sweet 16" i really dont see a purpose of it having a fancy party. all i want really is having like 25 friends or so over. something small. do you have any ideas?

or some sweet 16 quotes or whatever not having a buncha fancy stuff in it, just simple birthday quotes?

thanks in advance

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you could have your friends come to your house, set up some games, get pizza and do cake and everything, and then have a few sleep over and get movies, and stay up all night.
or you could rent out the pool of a hotel and do that, and rent a room and have a few friends stay there.


Okay I'm 14 years old and this summer has been like the crazziest summer. Okay these are the things I did just in 2 weeks

1.Gave a blow job in a public restroom
2.Had sex in a public restroom
3.Flashed a lot a guys at a public pool
4.Sent nude Photo's to atleast 7 different guys
5.Had a 3some (2 other guys)
6.madeout with a way older guy
7.Did a lot of ohter "things" in public places (link)
you need to slow down.
if people aren't already calling you a slut, they will be soon. and i'm not trying to be disrespectful at all, but you need to look out for yourself. not just your reputation, but you could really end up hurting yourself; aka STDs, and then you'll be literally screwed. for the rest of your life. i'm not saying don't have a good time, but find one guy, and stick with him. if you keeps things like this up, guys will fool you into thinking they really like you, only they just want in your pants.
be careful and have more respect for yourself.


in school people are always talking shit about me, and i just go home crying or take it out on my parents. how do i not let what their saying get to me? (link)
ignore them.
they're probably saying shit because they're jealous.
honestly, the more you react and take it out on everyone else, the more satisfaction the people who are saying shit get, because they know it's getting to you.
just be strong and don't listen to it.
good luck.


heyy. so like .. i was hanging out with my guy friend, who i guess you could say is like a wanna be player. and we were sitting in his car & he kissed me. we talked after that and he told me he wanted to hook up & he seemed to be pretty into me.. and i realized that i wanted to also.. so about a week later, we hung out again and we hooked up. i wasn't sure about it before but now i feel like i like him. i wouldn't want to go out with him though because hes a player/ he can be pushy. we talked the day after we hooked up & things seemed to be chill between us but its been a few days and we havent talked. i texted him and he didnt respond .. i'm just in a state of confusion and i dont think i should like him but right now, i can't really help it. what should i do ? (link)
i just got out of this situation.
honestly, he was just trying to get in your pants. if you know he's a played and whatnot, you deserve better. if it's been that long since you've talked, i don't think he was that into you ):
find someone better!
good luck.


ok the song tim mcgraw the one by taylor swift what tim mcgraw song is she talking about?
much thx. :] (link)
she's just talking about his songs in general.
like.. that's what they listened to when they were together.
it's not just one imparticular.
hope i helped (:


About 5 days ago I was will some friends and a guy that I had never met started texting one of my friends. He had seen me on Myspace on my friends page(They knew eachother from sports)And he started asking them if i had a boyfriend and me and my bf at the time had been fighting a lot (but the fighting you do when you care about someone a lot) and rarely got to see eachother anymore because he had been gone a lot. So they told him its complicated. I saw him later that night at a hockey game and then afterwards we went to a friends to watch a movie we ended up a holding hands but no big deal right?
The next day me and my bf got into another huge fight and me and the new guy had been texting all day. So me and my bf decided we should break up that night because of our frequent fighting. Me and the new guy texted the rest of the weekend, and on sunday night we hung out and we ended up almost making out, and we have plans to hang out tomorrow. Hes like the sweetest guy ever and I feel like we can talk about anything. My ex has been calling me a lot just to talk but we had agreed to be friends, so I understood why. Tonight hover he called me at about midnight to tell me that he missed me, i really didn't know what to say back but oh...
He told me hes still hooked on me and hes never been like that with another girl. Hes trying to change for me I can tell by his voice and what hes saying but who knows how long that will last. So now I'm tied between two...
An old caring love but with fights?
or a new love with what looks like a bright future?
Female, age 15 (link)
if you're really in love with you're ex boyfriend, things with the new guy can't work.
but if your relationship with your ex was too damaged from all the fighting, trying to fix things with him could end up hurting you if he doesn't mean what he's saying.
you just have to figure out if you really love him and want it to work.
personally, i would see what happens with the new guy.
you aren't going to know what "love" is if you're just with one person.


my best friend is coming over this weekend and i kinda hate her..... she uses me 2 everything
all i want to do is go to the party... not a birthday party.... but i would have to invite her to and i did that 1s and she flirted with me boyfriend.
WaT dO i dO? (link)
be straight up with her.
tell you want to go to the party by yourself.
if you don't people are going to think you're using her and being the bitch.


this week im telling my boyfriend that im leaving in June to move from PA to Kansas. he already knows there is a high chance but now im officially telling him. its gonna be really hard and i want to write a poem (i love to write) but idk what to write about. how i love him, how i wont forget him, or how im so, so, so sorry. can anyone please help me and maybe give me some tips on telling him. thanks so much :) (link)
try to make it about all of that. how youlove him and hate to leave him, but can't pass up the opprotuinity that's been presented to you. how he made a big impact on you and he's someone you'll never forget.
make sure he knows you love him,


they dont have to be about two girls but that would be amazing--

liking your bestfriend

or

being gay or bi in general



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taylor swift's cd is all about liking someone you're really close with and they don't know.
it's kind of country- sounding but it's really good.
i listen to alternative, but i love her stuff.


i want to make a nice mix cd for my boyfriend with romantic songs. i know the songs will be better if i think of them myself, however, this will be the fourth cd i have made for him and i'm running out of songs. i would like to have this done by valentine's day. does anyone know any good love songs? i would prefer alternative and rock songs, but any would be greatly appreciated. thank you in advance. (link)
oxygen- new found glory
you had me at hello- a day to remember
i miss you- blink 182
brighter- paramore
thunder- boys like girls
parkinglot romance- a day away
dark blue- jack's mannequin
i'll catch you- the get up kids
your guardian angel- the red jumpsuit apparatus
bike scene- taking back sunday
until the day i die- story of the year
addicted- simple plan
of all the gin joints in the world- fall out boy
first time- life house
she is- the fray

ha, there's a few.
i think it'd make a killer mix.


Okay so I want to get a tattoo. My dad thinks its okay but my mom doesn't want me to get one.
Anyway I have the design but I don't know where I want it.

[IMG]http://i12.tinypic.com/85kcopd.jpg[/IMG]

That's the image code thing. I was thinking I should get it like around my neck or something. I am madly in love with the design and I won't regret it. I don't want it visible to my mom because she doesn't like tattoos at all. (link)
it's acute design, but getting it around your neck probably would not be a good idea. you have to think about what would happen in the summer while you're wearing a bathing suit, or if you wear low-neck clothes. get it in a less obvious place.


16 years old/female
I've been asked by a lot of guys when I'm going to have sex and whether or not I can have it now. Like..soon. I always say no, and that I'm willing to wait a long time until somebody actually WORTH my time and who's there for me...will share that moment with me, you know? I want it to not be rushed. And I certainly don't want any diseases or unexpected pregnancies (this is keeping me away from having sex now) and I feel like when I tell them I don't want to have sex until marriage, I'm embarrassing myself. But, actually..I do believe I'm a step higher than they are. Should I feel embarrassed? I mean..It's so wrong to have sex in high school, in my opinion..=/ help? (link)
you should not feel embarrased at all. if a guy is rushing you, then he's not worth your time. you really should be proud of yourself for standing up for your beliefs and holding true to what YOU want.


I'm sixteen and since I was ten (young I know) I dated this guy. I was with him for a little of six years on and off. More on than off though. We dated for about a year straight the first time he asked me out. We were really young, but it was cute, ya know? So anyways as we got older we would take "breaks" and see other people. But then when I was 14-15 we went out for a year. I really grew to love him. And that's the truth. I am in love with him still even though we aren't together and he has a girlfriend. I wanna puke everytime I see them. And I cry almost everytime I see them together. I'm trying to get away from it, but it's so hard. I love him. I'm not one to throw out the "l" word either so you can trust me when I tell you I love him. I can't do anything without thinking of him. In a way I want him back so bad, but in a way I want to forget him. What should I do? (link)
you're not going to feel any better until you tell him.
i just went through the same thing you did, and it sucks. you have to tell him. i don't care if he has a girlfriend. when you tell him, tell him you don't have the intention of ruining his relationship, but you had to tell him how you felt. you'll feel better, and if what you had was real, you'll have him. not right away, you have to be patient, but just tell him.


I am an intelligent junior in high school and as of now i have yet to have a real boyfriend. i look at other girls walkin around w/ their guys and i get so left out. i dont know what i m not doing. i mean, when i like a guy, its pretty frickin obvious but i can never get them to notice me like i want. and if they do its one of those "courtesy talks", like they'd rather be doing something else.
i will probably graduate 1st in my class, as much as i m working now...
but my lovelife has yet to begin and i feel like i m working so hard, but still not feeling as satisfied/happy with my life as i want (link)
this sounds just like i was in junior high. you have to learn to relax and not care as much about school work. i'm not saying don't do your homework or study, but just be a kid for a while and don't worry so much about school. the way i see things is i would rather have awesome memories and decent grades, than amazing grades but have no fun. once you loosen up a litte, boys will be coming up to talk to you. i promise.
just have fun!


do any of you girls out there know a good eyeliner that lasts for a while and doesnt really smear, i need one that can last all day at school without me reapplying it over and over again, thanks in advance :] (link)
i use avon glimmersticks. they're not too expensive and come in a lot of colors [black, blue, green, brown, purple, etc.] i never have to reapply it during school and it doesn't smudge.
hope this helped.


Does the amount of times the guy ejulactulates determine the ammount of kids? like if he only does once you will have one kid..if he does twice you will have twins/2 kids etc..
thanks =D (link)
not at all.
it's based on genetics.


15/f
man i really want a lower back tatoo but ppl say you cant get one till youre like 17, but man i see chics with tats' all the time and they aint 17 they're like 15 or 16! is there any places where they'll give you a tat' BEFORE you are 17?
oh yeah how much do the lower back tats cost? if you dont know just give me an estamet.....tnks (link)
you can generally get them at 16 with parental consent. have them go with you, bring a birth certificate and photo ID and they should let you. as for cost, it usually depends on how big it is and what colors you want.


Hey!
Okay so my boyfriend just left... he got home and texted me and said he had blood like around his nail (with the 2 fingers he fingered me with) well my period is usually at the end of the month and when he told me that, I looked in my undies and I had blood! I was just wondering, how would you know if you popped your cherry? and If i did pop it, will it bleed for long?

thanks! xox (link)
if he did, your stomach might hurt. if he popped your cherry, it shouldn't be bleeding that heavily. the bleeding usually only lasts for a couple hours or so.


My boyfriend and i have kissed before, but we are both pretty inexperienced. what are some good ways of kissing....in other words, what are good movements to do with your tounge and what should i be doing?
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if you're both really inexperienced, it really won't matter. making out is kind of something that just comes to you. when you're kissing him you'll know exactly what to do, how to do it, etc. it's fun, but nothing to fret about.
have fun :]


ive been dating this girl for a year and 4 months, and i love her alot, but i dont know what to get her for her birthday. jewelry maybe, chocolates? i was thinking of flowers, but my friends told me it was too cheesy. thanks (link)
well, flowers are cute, but if you're good in the kitchen, make her her favorite food for dinner, rent her favorite movie, and just cuddle up with her. it'll mean a lot more than anything materialistic. if you're not exactly a good cook, then order pizza or something like that. it'll still be good. get her a card and write whatever you feel about her inside, don't hold back.
:] good luck
andddd happy birthday!




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