i am a person that gives advice, so ask away! I believe that when you help, you save. its easy to do when you know what your ganna say, or ask. i am justtt doing what God has asked me to do, help someone, save someone; give more, ask for nothing on return.
ask me and i will deffinatly get back to you ASAP.
how did i know i wn=anted to do this my friends always ask me for advice then say i should get my own advice column, so i did, this is just one more step to helping and saveing.
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My friend thinks that she is addicted to smoking, but she has only been smoking for about a week. Could she really be addicted or is she being stupid!!? (link)
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well she's both! smoking is stupid whether your addicted or not! she should stop and if she doesnt want to, you need to talk to her if you still want her to be your friend. If she is your friend she will listen to you. if she doesnt, tell an adult, or dont hang out with her n e more, that would be the same exact move i would make.
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When people ask for advice it makes it alot easier for advicenators to answer when you give your **age**. (link)
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i totaly agree, its a tun easier!, because a 30 year old woman could be talking to us and we might think its 13 year old woman, and so we might give them the wrong advice.
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How do you know if you are gay? and just so ya know I'm a girl please tell me i need to know! (link)
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like taking second glimpses of a girl just having felleings for a girl.
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I am 19 and i have a boyfriend. Im thinking of going on the pill. BUT I want to find out the side effects. Does anyone know of any? Ive tried searching on the net but I didnt really get anywhere. (link)
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well there are really not a sideeffect but if you do ge5t pregnet on the pill than it can cause of twins, tripple ts, quadruplets.
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I am 35. I have three children? I am still with the last two children father? Will i be happy with him? Will we get married?
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hmm..............you may love him but its pretty much all in your control. just try.
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Can some one give me an average age of getting a boy friend? (link)
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Alright well. Its pretty much up to your parents.Like for me it was 4th grade but that was the first time i went ot the movies with a guy sooo.......ya
sorry this is my friend that wrote this not advice chick_65
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My friend got fingered by a guy, and she has had her period. I was wondering can you get pregnant from being fingered. Does that also mean ur a no a vergin anymor?? PLease write back thanx (link)
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no she will not get pregnent because it didnt go into her and that how you get pregenet. And she can say or not say that she is a virgin. Its pretty much up to her
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Hello,
well i am really good at singing and i really want to be a singer when i grow up. Could someone tell me how i would get a cd out or any websites that have like a singing contest???!?!!? I really really love singing and i think i could do it so please answer back. (link)
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Go on American Idol, by driving there
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im almost 12 and i am tall 4 my age but i weigh like 115. I no thats bad! (link)
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well if you are higher than 5' 3.5" thats normal dont worry about it. My sister has a weight issue that she needs to control. I am in 7th grade she is in 5th, and she weighs one pound less than i doi am 5' 3" and i weigh 101 lbs. she is 4'9" and weighs 100. I feel bad for her and want to help but i dont know why.
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Ive been married for 20 years, my husband is 42, but acts like a 12 year old. He is irresponsible, impulsive, selfish, and out of control financially. He has made one bad decision after another, running up bills he never intends to pay, he has a really small attention span, often forgetting conversations 10 minutes later. Cant remember where he parked his car, where he left his tools, often leaving them on a job.Often causes arguements by repeating things wrong between others.Often sits and zombies out when the television is on, even shouting his name cant get his attention. Seems so distracted often says or does something embarassing,like blurting out things that have nothing to do with the current topic we're discussing, because he's not paying attention. He is very distant with all his kids, never talking or communicating with any of them, he only says hello when he gets home and thats it.All five kids are late teens and early 20's now and have no relationship with him or have any interest to. Each one is angry over his lack of attention or commication with them. He has no interest in friends or family.We have no socialized with other couples or friends in 18 years. When we do have a family get together or party, he cracks the exact same jokes, after that he is not capable of starting any conversation, and leads the company in the kitchen for me to entertain while Im cooking. He is often completely silent in the presence of everyone, because he doesnt have anything at all to say.Its bizarre and very uncomfortable for everyone. He has conducted his life so wrecklessly he is in huge financial trouble with 5 credit cards, he charged up and never once made payment on any of them, bounced checks in two states, owes two banks money, cheated the IRS five times, tryed to run a business 6 times, failed each time, and owes tons of bills, and almost cause foreclosure on our home several times. We won the lotto years back,a nd he squandered all the money on frivolous things he wanted for himself, never sharing a dime with his family or anyone.He hides snacks and treats I buy so he doesnt have to share with his own kids. Hides money from his paycheck to spend on himself. Never included me on any of his banks accounts. He has abused his checking account so bad he is no longer allowed to open an account in any bank. We are now flat broke due to his immaturity and schemes. Now that he has hit rock bottom, and has ruined every relationship with everyone he knows, he is now claiming depression because his father was an alcoholic and abusive. Is this an excuse for an immature, spoiled selfish man who is ashamed? Or is this a valid reason for the chaos of this crazy roller coaster life he's put us through? His mother says he is exaggerating about the abuse, and he was only punished by the father when it was deserved.She also told me that he was the only child the father payed attention to because he was a star athlete growing up. She says it was the other kids who were ignored and abused. He has taken advantage of every kindness anyone has ever offered him, never giving nothing back in return. He has a brother who is slightly "off" acts very hyper and loud, and has strange habits, he has a nephew diagnosed with ADHD. Is this depression, or is there something else wrong with a grown man who acts so irrpesponsible. Its as though he never learns, no matter how many times he fails, he goes right back and repeats the exact same actions and refuses to beleive the consequences will be the same. He cant remember anything he reads, hears or see's on television. Its like he is incapable of absorbing any kind of knowledge. His words, his ideas, everything about him is outdated and from the 60's and 70's time era. It is very embarassing when he speaks in front of company or any other adult we are around. There is always an uncomfortable silence after one of his embarassing remarks or comments.He is also addictive with gambling, and porn on the internet and movies,and was smoking pot for years until I finally got him to stop. he seems spaced out and zombie like at any given time of the day. What could possibly be wrong with a 42 year old who thinks and acts like this ?? If his family is saying he is exaggerating about the abuse, and they do not have any problems even close to ones he has, is he lieing and useing his father as an excuse, or could he possibly really be depressed for the last 20 years as he claims? His father died of cancer when he was 19, so he has not been an influence in his everyday life for over 20 years. Thank you (link)
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(i am 13) I think that you should sit down with your husband and talk to him about the situation. If he continues to act like this after your talk, i hate to say this but maybe go into counseling, or get a divorce. I know that you love your husband and he loves you but if you are concerned than you both should take a day off and discuss the entire thing. I hope that things will get better between you and your husband. I hope and will pray for your husband. And you never know, this could be just a phase for him. (since he's 12) Im just kidding but, i really think you should talk to him about the whole thing.
my love and wishes-
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i have been sleeping with 5 guys for the last 3 months and they dont know about each other. Recently my best friend and i got into a fight and she told 3 of them about each other. Now i am 1 month pregnant and i dont know who the father is. The guys that know about each other now dont want anything to do with me and i am really hurt. I dont know why they wouldent want a beautifull sexy girl like me in their lives. Please help me in deciding what to do. (link)
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i think that you need to stop thinking that your soooooooo sexy, becasue thats the only thing they are. i think you need to change your image, does your mom know about this, how old are you, why do you do it¿
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what are some intelligent, in depth questions i could ask a world war 2 veteran for an interveiw (link)
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*How long were you there
*How many patients did you get daily
*How long do you work daily
im not really sure sorry ive never thought about doing that before.
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should i ask my mother if i can have sex or not?
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ask your mother how old she was the first time she had sex, then ask her if she regret it or not (depending on her age), then go from there. If you are older than her the first time she had sex then i guess you should ask her but if you were younger just forget about it, now im not saying go and do it behind her back, dont do it becaus eyou will get caught.
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The other day me and my friend got caugth smokeing and drinking how do i tell people cuz i'm under-aged so please help
-never get caught! (link)
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my goodness! this is the real life you will get caught atlest 5 times in your life so you ned to STOP! think about this, if you have younger siblings or people that look up to you picture them doing those things rite in front of you! Dont you think you would be setting a bad example for that person¿?¿?¿?¿?¿?¿?¿?¿?¿?¿?¿?¿?¿?
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I have liked this guy for a really long time and i really want to go out with him. He really likes me too. The problem is neither one of us is brave enough to ask the other one out. So do you think i should make the first move or wait for him. I hear him talking about me all the time. What should i do? (link)
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give him the "ohh ur so cute" looks and other hints to get him to ask you out if he cant get the hint, then go up to him and in a funny way say is it just you or cant boys take hints¿ then play a jedi master trick on him and say . . .
you want to ask me out so just do it and get it over with because we both know we like each other.
(in a good way say that)
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Does anybody know why I have an erection (but have been circumstised) and it`s very painful?? Anyone who has same problem - advice would be gratefully appreciated.
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{[(ohh my goodness, if it has anything to do with sex dont do sex! or)]} get some help from a doctor would be a very good aproach.
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Do you know of any exercises which can be done to tone your thighs which can easily be done a home? (link)
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i know that steching always works for me. and running if you run it will help build strength in that area, i need to work on the same thing, and get a tan.
lol
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is there any way to get rid of freckles? (link)
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i dont think so, umm do you think cover-up then blush over it. thats what i do but i dont have frekles. did you know that frekles are actually angel kisses, you dont want to cover those uo do you¿
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I've liked a certain guy for over a year, and finally let him know. I had my best friend tell him, but she told him in front of his friends. So, his friends started saying all this totally untrue stuff about me (like that I'm a slut & that I'm easy, even though I've never had sex w/ anyone!) My friend also told me that my crush likes someone else. I know I should get over him, but it's soooo hard. Any suggestions?? (link)
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well, what i do is walk up and down the halls in school and look at other guys to see wich ones i could also like. And there must be someone else that uve had ur eye on for a while. Or you could somehow get him to like you, but i dont recamend that, but its your choise.
GOOD LUCK!!
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ok. i was going out with this guy for 2 weeks, and i didnt no it but he broke up with me. he told my friend he wanted to break up. he said the reason was because he was happier bein single. then a few months later he told my friend that he broke up with me because his stepbrother thought i was ugly. so my x-boyfrind believed him. now i always catch him staring at me. and never wantin 2 b by me. Also wenever he see's me he try's to get all over gurls. I dont like him anymore. but i kinda do. why does he do that? (link)
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well he either likes you or he wants to make you jelous by hangin' around ohter girls. You should give him a taste of his own medicine. next time you see him give him a masterious look, so he isnt sure if ur sayin' ur a geek or ur kinda cute. If you still like him tell a friend to ask if he likes you, thats wat i did and me and my boyfriend are goin on 3 months!
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