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This is Melly.Im 16y.o love 2 chill with my hu66y, i love him 2 death...o3-25-o5 iiz 4eva!
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I might be suicidal. i dont know but i do think about killling myself a lot
so i guess i am... so someone help... and actually help! (link)
whoa! Dont cut ur life short. lIfe its precious.but u just need to live the life. Whatever it botherin u.please dont let it go to ur heart! Im sure that u would want a life with kids in the future.living a wonderful life..but i know that there this one person.that will always b there for u even tho u might not think its possible but it is.Everything is possible when u talk to God. I think that whatever ur problems is u need to tell God all your problems. im sure he will be there for u all the time whenever u need him. be strong..and alwayz rely on God. I hope this works..If u need anymore info..inbox me..
~Melly~


how do you make out? what do i do with my tongue? please explain in detail....i do not understand...this sounds to diffulcult (link)
well.u just need to follow. whatever he do.dont worry it looks hard, but its not!


I recently got my tongue pierced. I love it, but the thing is, my church and friends don't approve of it. How do I deal with those opposed to the piercing? (link)
well, i think that u should of thought of it twice, before u got it.but if its bad to wear that tounge pierced, then the best thang to do it do take it off.Even tho u really love it.but its the best thang to do.


My first day of high school is coming up .. what should i wear ??? i wanna look cute n trendy ! for ppl who have already survived there freshman year ... give me a hint on what to wear first day of school =D (link)
well u should wear sumthang really cute.that make u feel comforable.don look dorky.look really cute.


well there is this boy n i rele like him n his mom always invites me over if im homealone n she is all nicce to me but when iget to there house i never no what to say to him i lose my breath rele easy if im talkin to him n i have to take rell rele deep breaths n well he is kinda a butt hole to me n i think i have a crush on him but he always picks on me like if he dosnt agree w. some thing i say he is like shut up ur stupid is that a sign he likes me or is he jsut being stupid??

i rate rele good!! (link)
wellz it depends how he say it..if he says it laughin in a cute flirty voice.then he likes u.or if he says it mean.then he dont.


i don't have a father figure in my life. my dad is a jerk..he tried like almost killing me before..and i don't see my step-dad as a father! do i need a father figure in my life? please help! i rate high!

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wow thats suxs. It wud b nice to try to chill with your step-dad.cuz in life sometimes.u would want a father to be there.but if u feel that u dont need a father figure right now.in the future u would want 1.


(f, 15) hey i'm really confused right now...my best guy friend in the entire world just asked me to be his girlfriend a couple of days ago. now he has an awesome personality, but i don't think i could get over the lack of physical attraction, so i know it seems really shallow but i said no. supposedly he got over it really quickly and likes my friend sarah now..i know that sounds good that he didn't get hurt, but now i'm really jealous..i don't know if i'm just jealous of her because all the guys like her, or if i really do like him, or i am just being selfish and want everyone to like me..it's driving me crazy..i'm really not a bad person, i just don't know how i really feel..it doesn't matter that much i guess since he doesn't even like me anymore, i just want to figure out my feelings and i don't know how to. please help! (link)
.The only way to find out is to follow ur heart. watever u feel inside.u gotta let it all out,inorder to feel better.good luck


ok my friend resently made out for the first time and like told meh the things i needed to do it and made me really confident to make out for the first time and now my best friend (hes a guy and im a gurl) mite come ova and hes the type who would make out wit me if i wanted to. Im going into the 8th grade and i really wanna go in being able to say i finally did it. I know thats no reason but thats y im asking u wat i sould do. I mean i had a crush on him for ova a year until now im not sure if i like him like that. So what should i do. I really wanna just get it ova with cuz so many people make a big deal about whether you have or not
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ok, first u should never try to be someone your are not.and if u dont feel comfortble then dont try to do anything.dont go over the limit.dont think about what your friends did. just b urself.dont follow be a leader.i hope this help u out.Good luck!


okay i'm caught up with a whole bunch of guys! i have guys who like me..and i kinda like them! but then there is also this one other guy who i met the other night that i realli like! but i don't know who to choose out of them! what should i go by to help me make my decision? they are all nice..with good personlities and they are all drop dead sexi too! lol what should i do!?

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hey! u need to follow your heart.its not all about the looks.u got to also jugde on the way they act.and treats u.go 4 the one that really makes u feel different when u are around him.(different in a loveable way) Good Luck!


i met this guy at adventureland (he was REALLY hott!!) in des moines and i got his # but i dont want to call it cuz im afraid that its the wrong number! but then again the area code and the first 3 numbers were from the area that we were located in...what should i do? call him or not?
-confuzzled! (link)
yeah girl go for it!!


I have a question that i hope someone can help me with. Is it right to change for a guy? I use to have this one boyfriend that was a punk and I was jusst a normal 13 year old girl. all of his friends were punks to and at that time I was overwhieght and diddn't care about what I looked. Well then all of a sudden my boyfriend just dummped me w/no explanation. And a little while later I started getting into the punk music and cloths and i lost 20 pounds. Now I'm obsessed w/punk music and cloths but i don't know if it's b/c i want him to see what he missed out on or if it's really what i want. About 6 months have passed since my break up w/him. Since our breakup was just b4 the summer no body not even my friends have seen me, so I can't wait till school starts so i can see everyone's reaction esspecially his. But do n-e-of you think this is righ? Pleae someone help me.

Always
Nat (link)
no way..u should never change for no one.he should of except u like the way he saw u.If u think about it, he didnt really like u, cause u wasnt in his style or anything, but im just saying, that u should NEVER change 4 no1one especially a boy. Dont be like no one else be yourself.


well my problem is i have this guy friend and i dated him b4 but it didnt work out..well recently i found out from him he still has feelings for me but i dont have feelings like that for him..we're like best friends..well the other day he told me bcuz of his feelings for me we couldnt be friends anymore..but i know if i dated him again id be miserable..plz tell me what to do..i dont want to lose a friend.thankz.
xoxo
in need of advice (link)
alrite, well u need to tell him the truth,and be be shy or anything, he need to know that u only want to be his friend only and nothing more.good luck!


everytime I get a bf my friends think he's too ugly and that I need better, but it hurts him whenever i tell him what my friends think about him and makes me feel bad. I know how he feels because they dont know what hes like. I told them to stop but they keep at it. and my bf dosnt feel like doing any thing when im around bc of what my friends say. how do I get them to stop???? for me and him (link)
alrite, gurl maybe your friends just jealous, and they envy u..but dont let your friends or whatever they think get in the way of u and ur man..if u really likes him, u need 2 stay with him, dont let no1 tell u..thats he ugly
if they were ur tru friends they would accept any1 u date..so dont get mad, mayb ur friends arent really ur friends, think bout it Good Luck


i like this boy a lot i mean iv liked him for like 2 years how do i make him fall in love with me.? ps he kinda likes me but i want him to like me more
ps.... what questions are good to ask a 14 year old boy? (link)
u need to wait, u cant rush into things, u cant controll his feelin, cause if u do, he might feel rush, and what he do and tell u could be lies, so let him realize, dont RUSH remember dat.


how do you make a website like what website do you go to to make a website?


-Webless (link)
go 2
www.hometown.aol.com
Its free nd simple good luck!


heyy! i really need to know how to make out with someone bc i am goin to hook up with a kid at my camp and i really dont know how please dont say idk or ul get it i really need help!!!! thanx (F 15) (link)
just go with the flow let him do the move first, then u follow


okay..theres this boy..we've gone out before..and he dumped me becuz i guess he didnt like me anymore..but once i got another boyfriend you could tell he got jealous and was mad about it becuz i guess he still liked me..and i still liked him too but i just didnt tell him..and i dumped my boyfriend becuz i really liked him and once i told him that i liked him..he had already gotten over me..and now i tell people that im over him and i dont like him anymore..but none of thats true..i still like him alot and he means the world to me..but he says the meanest things sometimes..and at nights i sometimes cry myself to sleep..help me..should i try and get over him?..or should i tell him how i feel? (link)
aww..gurl u need to tell him..but if he ingore what u told him, then 4get about him, if he do sometime about it then,its was meant to be.


Okay its now summer and like 2 weeks after summer started, my friend that i used to like was in a car accident, and was hospitalized for about a week and it made me realize that i still had feelings for him. So he asked me to go out with him so i did and we have been going out for about a month, but summer is my time to be like free and meet new guys at the beach n everything you know? I mean i like him, but i don't think i really want anything serious right now. Should i tell him i want a break? Should i break up with him? Or just stay with him?? (link)
okay well if u knew that u wasnt ready for that realationship, u should of never said yes to him, b4 u do anything u need to think twice b4 u do it, so u got to think really hard..if u really like him stay with him,
ps:u need 2 watch out for them boys at the beach they can be jerks..so its good 2 think it over, mayb he can be the one..Good lUck


How cAn I ge my boyfriend totalk to me???
all he dose is egnore me and Its like everytime I go to talk about him around his friends he gets red in the face andsays he dosn't know me.
What should I do?????? (link)
ooo no gurl, thats is not a boyfriend..his a jerk..how he going to say that..u sould not be holdin back,u need 2 dump him quick..fast!!


Hey!I am 14 almost 15(august 17)and me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2months.And he says i am perfect and like the "one".And says that we will be together forever.And i feel the exact same way too.And he asked me to marry him and i said yes!But we are not going to get married till we are out of school!But did i do the right thing about saying yes???ill rate you if u answer!~Kristen~ (link)
well, its not good to play around like that, but if he is a naive person, u did the wrong thing, but if he knew u was playin then there nothin to worry about..but u need to watch out for the things that u say next time.




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